- he testing you to see if got chance to have some “hanky panky” with you despite your ongoing marriage. after a few contacts, dun think it’s worth his time as possibility of that is quite slim
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ben2011
Hope you can get thru this in a peaceful way….
Brother steady this song.. swee i love it… Good job bro!
To my brothers who r with me throughout this time…
Bro simifly… the first brother i know in this forum… A brother who know my thoughts well too… ( Close to me due to our background)
Bro Ben: Someone who is a sensitive brother… a brother who know my thoughts well.
Bro Taizi: A brother who is a very sensitive and supportive to this thread.. his contribution of songs same as bro Ben have been very constant… ( songs that heal my heart)
Bro Stup: This brother is man of gd advise and his posts will arrive at the moment when u need it…
Bro LTPLD: One of my brothers who still remember classic pager codes.. well done… a brother who give gd advise too…
Bro nottyboy: A brother who keep supporting this thread and also a sensitive brother…
Bro itsme: A Brother in Christ in this Forum.. Yr verses is one of great encouragement! Thank you!
Bros… Kam Sia… really appreciate all these times with u all.. Lai Ta! ( I am sorry that i am unable to list out all the names of the brothers who supported this thread) A toast to our friendship and brotherhood! I
Nt forgetting the support and advise given by some sisters here… Thank you. Appreciate it..
Wishing u guys a Merry Christmas! May the Lord bless u all in all aspects of yr life! Amen!
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Originally Posted by
Tai_zi21
Old school emo song for u
Merry xmas to everyone in the forum too!
brother swee this song.. one of my fav songs too… Gd job!
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Originally Posted by
ben2011
Merry Christmas for all the bros here and wish bro Zerofighter can have a happy christmas!
This song for all the brother here for friendship
Bro… Swee this song..
For our friendship!
Bros here is another of my fav songs…
張學友 - 這麼近那麼遠 - YouTube
Bros… have we ever wondered how little we know abt our spouses at times…Likewise they may nt understand us that well too…
Bros… just a quick update… Her hubby have agreed to church counseling and the both of them was going through marriage counseling together… Hopefully their marriage can be salvaged as her hubby will come to a point of conviction of his wrong doings… ( Let pray that he will change for the better and will work hard to restore this marriage…) As her friend… i really wished that she will be xinfu in the hands of the man she have chosen….
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miss52766
Does it mean you will not contact her much anymore? Then how is she gonna find a soulmate to confide in? Contact, but what if her husband is unhappy?
My ex will not msg me cox he afraid my hub will be ard. i know he is a kou huahua xin huahua guy(but single), but I still find it hard to avoid contacting him at all. Even thou he reply slow or not at all.. is it not worth it? Cox maybe like most bros here, he thinks he shd draw the line?
If their marriage can be salvaged…. Her hubby shd be her soulmate. For now… I will cut down all contacts with her…. She need to find the rite focus and anchor…
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Angeldevilinone
To bro zero fighter, I am a Christian too but no longer goes to church. The term is called “backslided”. If I remember correctly, only Catholics are not supposed to divorce. Christian not so strict rite? Shared a bit of personal experience. Fell in luv with one gal previously & luv her a lot. Wanted to marry her type. We had sex & I thought we were going towards the marriage route. No leh, she continued to keep her options open. Guess she is the player in this case (i’am the stupid guy being played). We broke up but guess what! The next gal I met was super guai & faithful
we got married. My point is if bobianz, let it be game over & who knows Yvonne may haf better luck the next time round & haf a happy family.
Yup bro u r rite… i was a backslided christian too during my army days… Christians r allowed to divorce based on the reason of adultery… cos sex can only be within in the context of marriage… but they have to go through some counseling first… If the pastor find the spouse is still unwilling to settle down and be faithful to the marriage… then bobian divorce will be advised… but in this case… since her hubby is still willing to go through the marriage counseling with her… perhaps this marriage can still be salvaged… After all they have to spare a thought for their kids…..
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Angeldevilinone
To sis miss52766,
to me there are 2 possibilities. 1) he got feelings & conscience, caught in a dilemma. scare to get closer to u & all the old feelings come back & scare to put u in a position if your hubby finds out
Being an angel or devil is just a thin line. Remember that satan was not called satan originally. archangel Lucifer originally…….
True…. Satan is also known as the father of deceptions…..
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Angeldevilinone
Hope that things work out for her & her hubby but zero fighter bro, dun put your hopes too high first. Old habits die hard hor…….. Let’s just pray that the saying “Once a player, always a player” dun apply here. From the look at it, unless the hubby totally changes 180 degree, it is gonna be damn hard.
I also want to share song :
Xin Dong by Lin Xiaopei (if someone shared already, paiseh ah)
Only God can change him…. Through the deep conviction of the lord will make him realise that his foolish ways will only lead to the utter destruction of his family….
Bro… A nice song…. Swee lah… Thanks for sharing….