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Originally Posted by
ben2011
Try ur best….For you this song….Refresh ur memory with ur wife wedding…she is using ur surname now, dont forget…
Brother… This song… The mv and lyrics really remind me of the marriage vow…. Thanks for yr reminder that i still have a wife to take care of…
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Originally Posted by
Tai_zi21
My Favourite cantonese song for u as well
Brother another well written song. Well done. Swee i like it…
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Originally Posted by
ben2011
For you, men also can cry de….support u
Brother… Solid song… It touch my heart… Indeed men can cry too….
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Originally Posted by
ben2011
I’m listening now…. Sighs, knn… Made me remind of my past… What a life!
Sigh… This is life ba… The woman who we love the most enter at a wrong period of time….then the one we marry…. Is not the one we loved the most….. We thought she is the one….but somehow… She is not the piece which fit ba….
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Originally Posted by
itsme
Bro Zerofighter, got captivated by your autobiography, and spend whole last afternoon n nite to finish up to date. Power siah, double emo and frighteningly real. To complex to even share advise. All I can say is you are one man of character always Swee Swee stand by you decision n word. That’s strongly anchoring in your faith. Suggest you try turning to the HS and He will show you a way when humanly were exhausted.
Take a shot at Romans 8:28 ….
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (NIV)
May the power be with you bro!
Swee bro.. finally have a brother in Christ here…
One of my fav verses.
Another verse which keep on going… James 1:2-4
2Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of all kinds, 3because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking in anything. (NIV)
Hope that this verse will be an encouragement to u too…
God bless…
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Originally Posted by
Lennyberg
I would go over and calm her down first then talk…
on the other hand, is she those who only threatens or will she actually do it?!
SHIT man! I hate this kinda shit
she is usually a rational person… i am rushing over now…
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Originally Posted by
itsme
I truly hope things work out fine, her aim is not to hurt Bro and let him be burden whole life. He is the only on in this world that cares and love her deeply, she didn’t want to loose that. As she has inspired and changed you, Bro it is now that you may want to begin to inspire and change her. I know you can Bro !
Thanks bro for your words… Yup i will try to inspire her…
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Originally Posted by
itsme
I truly hope things work out fine, her aim is not to hurt Bro and let him be burden whole life. He is the only on in this world that cares and love her deeply, she didn’t want to loose that. As she has inspired and changed you, Bro it is now that you may want to begin to inspire and change her. I know you can Bro !
Bro… one of the fav verses which really inspire me….
13 Brothers, i do not consider myself yet to taken hold of it. But one thing i do: Forgetting what is behind and straining towards what is ahead. 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3:13-14
Bro… let focus on the race and finish the race which the Lord have set apart for us….
Bros these few days have nt been easy for me as i have to do my best to remain rational even though there r too many emotional issues which i need to manage… Anyway back to the story.
18/12/13 Goes to work with a heavy head as i was rushing through my work again the previous nite… Again the day was packed with meetings and discussions and i am really shag by the end of the day…. Meanwhile i have been receiving whapps from Yvonne and i was slow in replying her due to time constrain… ( As a matter of fact.. i have been avoiding to reply her ba… esp after the nite of drinking… i really cant trust my emotions any longer)….
As such i decided to off my mobile during one of the meeting with the client so that i can fully focus on my work not knowing that this move of mine is going to cause me some trouble later…..
On the mobile after the meeting…. ( Mobile beep with a whapps msg)
Yvonne: I can really sense yr coldness to me… if u still choose to avoid me.. i will jump down…
My mind went totally blank when i received this msg from her… i am still in the middle of the work as i still have a meeting later to attend… Gosh how am i going to rush off now to her when i still have work to do?… And shd i rush to her now?.. wont it be better for us to keep a distance from each other now?… All these questions rushed through my mind…. seeking for an answer desperately…
It does take long for me to reply her…
Me: Wru now?..
Yvonne: At home.. on leave these few days…
Me: is there anyone at home…
Yvonne: Nope… kids with my mum place….
Me: Wait for me..
I then went to my boss and told him that i need to apply time off urgently to attend to some family matters… He agreed with a buay song expression on his face but i do nt care anymore… i just want to reach her asap…. off my pc… rushed to the carpark and i sped off to Yvonne place… ( Usually i am a careful driver but it seem that i am losing my cool as i need to reach her asap)
Along the way… my mobile keeping ringing with her whapps… i only have time to read them whenever i need to stop at a traffic light… She was getting very emo and my emotions was being affected by her too… Nope i need to calm down first before i can help her… i have to remind myself to be calm and composed.. though at that pt of time… i am really nt that strong in my emotions ba……
Finally i reach her place and i banged on the door waiting for her to ans the door… those few moments of waiting is a long process as i am worried abt her safety…. Finally she opened the door…. took a quick glance at her… no cuts… no injuries… thank Goodness but her face is so pale….
Me: R u k?…
Yvonne: u really come at last.. i thought u dun care anymore.. ( She turned to hug me but i rejected her hug)….
Me: u need to rest as u r very pale…
Yvonne: Dun want i want to tok to u…
Me: Guai u need to rest now…
I then help her to the bed and i saw a bottle of sleeping pills on the bed…
Me: y r there sleeping pills on the bed… ( my voice is trembling with fear when i ask her this question…
Yvonne: Y leh?….
Me: it is nt a time to joke….
Yvonne: If u still dun come.. i will just take the whole bottle of sleeping pills…
Me: Y r u so silly?… ( i feel really helpless as my emotions is slowing rising again…
Yvonne: Dear.. dun leave me k…
Me: i am nt yr dear… u have to be strong.. u still have kids to look after… u r a mother of 2 already… Dong Ma ( do u know)?…
Yvonne: y must u hurt me again with yr words?…. ( She wanted to hold my hand but i managed to avoid it…)
Me: i can only be here for u as a friend.. nothing more than that… do u understand…
Yvonne: I dun want to understand (and soon she is crying again)
For me i cant do anything much except to stand there… looking at her tears flowing down… Again i feel so helpless as i dun dare to hug her… hold her hands or comfort her in any ways…
Me: i have to go now…
Yvonne: Dun… please… just pei me a while longer can….
Me: k but u have to calm down first….
There is long pause after this statement…
Me: i will help u to arrange for church counseling.. u cant manage this alone…
Yvonne: Nope as i dun want to bring up my marriage issue to the pastor…
Me: nope u need help.. go back to our fundamentals of our faith… The lord will not leave u alone de.. will pull u out of this mess de…
Yvonne: C how first…
Me: Really have to go off now… remember u r a mum of 2 kids… pls think of them before u want to hurt yrself again…..
Yvonne: Pls pei me a while more can… ( Her emotions is rising again… by now i have regained my calmness… i have to leave now… if nt things will sure get very messy de…)
Me: Nope i really have to go now…
I then leave her and rushed down the stairs.. dun even dare to wait for the lift to come.. just want to exit the place asap before i give in to my emotions again………………………..
Feeling completely drained and exhausted… i start to cry inside the car…. The sorrows and the pain in her eyes is too much for me to bear le…….
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Originally Posted by
W1ck3dSecret
Well-said… itsme ��
Jy Bro zerofighter!
Sis.. Great to c u here..