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Originally Posted by
plman2002
那你就要找孙悟空帮你的忙！齐天大圣，神通广大。
至于它是谁，你就要去找咯。
I nominate ‘ba yee Lament’ to be
牛魔王
，he is
铁扇公主
’s husband,,,,,,,
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Originally Posted by
katak1
bro, if u r single and able, then go work in china and be with her. take it as an experience if it fails but if u dun do it now, u will sit alone at nite wondering “what if” many many years ago.
i did not do enuf to chase the girl of my dreams and until today, i still ask myself “what if”. not that i will want her now cos im married with kids (happily but we always long for the other side cos it is greener mah) but some things cannot be answered later. only u can decide the answer.
go visit her. find work in china to show ur sincerity. at worst, things dun work out, u can come back to sg. single and free, why not??? i have an ex colleague… he quit his job with a “to die for” company in uk juz to follow his gf to sg. gf is local sg gal, he is ang moh. 1+ years later, when they broke up, he packed his bag and went back to uk. when i asked him is it worth it, he juz smiled and said, “never try never know. i dont want to go to my grave with unanswered questions.”. yup that made me cry as flashes of my own failure came back…
Seriously speaking, I am still not so adventurous like your ‘Ang Mo’ friend,,, it could be due to our asian upbringing.
It is too risky for me to make that move right now,,,, but i will definately explore that option if need arises then.
Thank bro
7pts for u,,,,, u will get your rep power of 6pt kekeke
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Originally Posted by
katak1
bro, if u r single and able, then go work in china and be with her. take it as an experience if it fails but if u dun do it now, u will sit alone at nite wondering “what if” many many years ago.
I agree, if not you may live the rest of your life regretting this moment for not making the move.
In life, it’s about LOVE and sacrifices! At least you’ve tried…
Wish you all the best
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Originally Posted by
sexlover
Here is some updated of the event unfold.
Recently have been in touch with Xiao Xin quite often, she have been updating me of Xiao Xue…… Xiao Xue have choose to listen to her mother’s advise
,,, as such nothing will happen between us. She says unless I am staying in China, or else thing is going to be difficult. There is no question why she choose to listen to her mother, after all I have known only for a short period.
staying at china oso hard by that situation..the mother may oso not allow her to see u lor..muz rein help from the sis to pacify her mum..buy into her gd books
all the best bro
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Originally Posted by
snooker
I agree, if not you may live the rest of your life regretting this moment for not making the move.
In life, it’s about LOVE and sacrifices! At least you’ve tried…
Wish you all the best
Risk & sacrifices is fine with me, there is always a Chinese saying “ba zi mei yi pie”,,, if I take risk now, it’s bound for doomday of me. I will become a dead Valentino. At least if I am at ‘one and half s+++e toward ba zi’,,,,, it will sound more sensible for me to make the move.
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Originally Posted by
blade
staying at china oso hard by that situation..the mother may oso not allow her to see u lor..muz rein help from the sis to pacify her mum..buy into her gd books
all the best bro
That I what feel too,,,, if even Xiao Xue don’t want to meet me then,,,, I will really “bang wall die”
……..
Hey brother
If more sillypore gers can meet more like u this type of guys, I think the sillpore goverment will not fred over we no people wan to marry.
If fact all guys think sillypore gers wan $, power or etc. BUt to some (like me), its the thoughs that count. If i ever come across a guy like sexlover, i will just dump everything, $ or power just to be with that guy. Even just eat bread.
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Originally Posted by
canny
Hey brother
If more sillypore gers can meet more like u this type of guys, I think the sillpore goverment will not fred over we no people wan to marry.
If fact all guys think sillypore gers wan $, power or etc. BUt to some (like me), its the thoughs that count. If i ever come across a guy like sexlover, i will just dump everything, $ or power just to be with that guy. Even just eat bread.
dump everything and just eat bread?its easy to say yet hard to do…..
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Originally Posted by
canny
Hey brother
If more sillypore gers can meet more like u this type of guys, I think the sillpore goverment will not fred over we no people wan to marry.
If fact all guys think sillypore gers wan $, power or etc. BUt to some (like me), its the thoughs that count. If i ever come across a guy like sexlover, i will just dump everything, $ or power just to be with that guy. Even just eat bread.
Thank canny,,, thru your post I assume that u are female, u seem to be the 1st female post in my thread, hope to hear more female’s view, anyway thank for the compliment.
Hopefully u are not having the impression it is just another sg guy going after another foreign girl.
I would say it is in general Sg girl go for $, power,,,,,etc,,,,,, not all ,,, u may be the exceptional one. Wish u all the best in your search for the right one.
Human by nature don’t really like routine, between sg male and sg girl, I would say it could be due to our common upbringing & cultural,,, that make relationship between us lose the novelty appeal. However when foreigner is involve,,,, everything seem very refreshing. That could be why it becoming very common this day,,,, in fact it is also very common for differ race mixed within the local.
Dump everything to be with guy like me??? Don’t sound realistic too,,,,, wait u everyday want to eat “RotiBoy” @1.20each,, or Big Mac,,,,, guy like me also will die ,,,, kekeke
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Originally Posted by
sexlover
That I what feel too,,,, if even Xiao Xue don’t want to meet me then,,,, I will really “bang wall die”
if she really don wanna see you..then is you yuan wu fen liaoz..either juz forget abt it(v hard la) or as u say bang wall die(this one not hard onli the wall v hard)
but still have to try la..since the sister oso seems so supportive..maybe she see tat her xiao xue oso likes u…
but still the old phase..always be careful lor.. u nv know wat they are thinking
Here is some add on which I have done,,,, I already remit some money to Xiao Xin,,,, I ask her to help to order 19 pink roses to be deliver to Xiao Xue every 1st of month till their birthday,,,,,, will wait till then to see what is my next step.
In China, they like 19, 29 or 99 roses,,, they have special meaning which Xiao Xin did explain, but I forgot. Each rose cost
[email protected]
$10 .
At least I have done something to make thing happen, I believe this sound more sensible for the time being then to move over and work now…..
1st Apr—– Get to Know each other
1st May—- Wrote this thread
1st Jun—– Sent 19 pink roses
1st Jul—— Sent 19 pink roses
1st Aug—– Sent 19 pink roses
1st Sep—– Sent 19 pink roses
1st Oct—– Sent 19 pink roses
17th Oct——– Still a big mystery,,,,,,,, will wait and see.
Hope to see some positive reaction after the 1st instalment is deliver..