Hi everybody, this is my first time opening a new thread, recently there have been a lots of true love story share by some bros here, indeed most of them are very touching and mostly sad ending. For my case, the ending is still a very big mystery.
It makes me feel that I should share my recent encounter here, today 1st May 2005 make it a special day for me to share this story cos I got to know her during my recent trip to Beijing on 1st Apr 2005. And last night 30th Apr 2005 something bad happen…..
She may not be the most beautiful girl I have known, but she will forever be living in my heart.
Give me some time to recap all the event and write it out,,,,, to all those bro if u are looking for sexy juicy story,,, u will be disappointed,,,, my case is totally non sex related.
Bro Lament & plman have seen her pix, swee bo ???
Stay Tune……… Be back soon………….
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sexlover
Give me some time to recap all the event and write it out,,,,, to all those bro if u are looking for sexy juicy story,,, u will be disappointed,,,, my case is totally non sex related.
Hi sexlover,
our presence in this forum clearly indicate our passion for the so-called intimate moments. however, your story will also be just in time to trigger off this inherent emotional side of ours. well, at least i will.
and definitely, i will be one of those waiting eagerly for your narrating.
Part 1
Hi all, thank for the wait, I can see that there are more than 400 views on these thread. It show that true story do arouse interest from fellow bros. Thank for the support. Hope it will not bored to all bros as this story is non sex related and quite lenghty………
Specially dedicated to Xiao Xue (Small Snow) ……….
On 31/3/05 (Thur), I went over to Beijing with a group of colleague (sort of company trip but leisure trip). The weather is still quite cold there cos winter just over, temperature @+/- 10degree (Not sure). We stay at one of the 5stars hotel along WangFuJing (For those who are not aware, WangFuJing is something like Orchard Rd). That night we head for one of the popular disco there called ‘Banana’, quite a happening place there, u will see lot of chio bu there at the first level (quality wise I can say better than Singapore standard). But majority are local girl, I think are not WL. Once u at the second level, u will suddenly feel that u are a ‘Yan Dao Kia’ cos lots of chio bu will approach and pose the question ‘Sir, want to play together’ (Of course they speak in Chinese). The charge is @$200-$300 RMB, just for company, dance and rub rub. Not sure about it cos I didn’t take any, and I am sure arrangement can be make for ‘Take Home’. Nothing happening for me that night, we headed back to hotel at @12am plus.
At hotel lobby @1230am, we saw a group of quite chio local SYT coming up from the basement escalator. We then go down the basement to explore, we realize there is a KTV there and the standard is quite high class, the lady there all wears cheongsam, but some of them already change to home clothes. Upon checking with the mamasan, we are inform that they closed at 1am, but if customer is there, they will stay open till they leave. The damage there is @$2000/ with one bottle plus girls charge $300RMB each whole night sit with u (Not butterly).
On 1/4/2005,
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, we (Five of us) headed for the KTV below our hotel. At the entrance, we are greet by a group of well groom Cheongsam Girl, I would say majority are quite good looking. The mamasan then lead us to the room, once inside the room, one of those cheongsam girl also come in, and do all those waitress job. Among us, we start to discuss and wonder like,,,, “Wah lan, waitress also so swee, the girl sure no horse run”, and “If those cheongsam girl are the waitress, then where is all the GRO”? Really all of us blur blur like ‘swah ku’.
Then the mamasan brought in one of group of @7girls for us to pick. Immediately one of my friend (AY) pick one of the girl (Call her “Xin”) from that group, quite cute and SYT. At that moment, ***tink tink*** my ‘lead actress’ also in that group, she is not the prettiest in that group, but her plain Jane look just attract my attention. But I didn’t pick her at that time, as only one of my friend got his girl, the rest of us ask the mamasan for more girl, she then call in another group of about 6 of them. Upon seeing the second group, I don’t feel anything special, I immediately told mamasan, I want my “lead actress”. Eventually 3 of my friends also pick their girls, but the last friend “JL” ask the mamasan whether he can have the waitress to sit with him, after much talking, he manage to have her sitting with him. We then realize that the KTV do not actually employed any waitress; they use the GRO on rotation basis to do waitress duty. And this girl happen to be the mamasan’s younger sister.
To be continued……. Still writing now……Hope can finish it soon.
Part 2
Introduction over, Real story begin now………….
My girl introduce herself as ‘Xiao Xue’ (Which means Small Snow), and remember the 1st girl ‘Xin’ pick by my friend ‘AY’, they are actually real cousin, that day we are all having clean fun like chatting, laughing and singing. (FYI this KTV is quite high class, not like those in Spore whereby stripping is very common). Nite passed, I then heard from my friend ‘AG’, that he have make arrangement with his girl to meet up the next day to go disco, I ask whether I could join them and he say ok. I then ask Xiao Xue whether she is interested, but she say she had already taken two days leave to go back to her hometown “Shan Dong” as she had already promise her mother and also she is still having mostly winter clothing in Beijing, so need to go back to change it. I was quite sad then, but she says she will give me the answer tomorrow, we then exchange HP nos. The rest of my friend also manage to arrange with their girl except ‘JL” who happen to sit with mamasan’s sister. If not the next day, all want to take leave, mamasan sure not happy.
2nd Apr 05, Sat, we have almost whole day of sight seeing arranged by the company. About 5:30pm, back at the hotel, called Xiao Xue, she said that she just board the bus to go back ShanDong, in fact she have been waiting for my call and since I didn’t call earlier, she thought the arrangement is cancel. (Accordingly to her, the journey back to ShanDong by bus will take @5-6hrs, and she is supposed to take 12noon or 2pm ferry, at least when she reach home, it will still be quite early @6-7pm.) As she had just board the bus, I ask her whether is it possible for her to alight. She never promise immediately but asked me to call back @5mins cos she need to check with her cousin ‘Xin’. Thereafter, I call her again and she say OK, we will meet. I told her to meet at the KFC opp our hotel, and she agrees. (Actually at that moment I also scare scare kena ‘Aeroplane’)
At 9pm, it was cold night, we are all waiting at the said KFC, @915pm, Xiao Xue & Xin arrived, subsequently another girl arrived, the only girl (AG’s girl) who is still MIA is the one who is the organizer for the night, AG then call her and was inform she is on the way, the rest of us can proceed to the disco first, it is called “Gao Su”, (English called ‘Highway”, I think it is somewhere along ‘JianGuoMen’). All of us then proceed to ‘Highway’ leaving behind ‘AG’ & ‘JL’ (JL is the one who sit with mummy’s sister) to wait for AG’s girl.
At ‘Highway’, same like ‘Banana’ very packed and lots of chio bu but we managed to get seat cos we order bottle and they lead us to a quite private sofa area. For those bro who know me, I don’t really into dancing or drinking, I am only into play ‘Pool’, as such Xiao Xue and I spend most of the time at the sofa, hugging & chatting (No hanky panky) just like lover. After @20mins, AG & his girl, JL also arrived, that girl smile to me and ask “What charm I use to make Xiao Xue stay back without going back to her hometown”?, I take a look at Xiao Xue, and we together look back at her, smile and indicate ‘Don’t Know’. The rest of my friend was enjoying themselves with their girl like dancing, rubbing, kissing and etc…….. In fact, Xiao Xue and me really click very well, and we are talking about everything under the sun. At one time, I realize that her palm is really wet (I mean palm, not other place), I ask her what happen, she say it quite hot there, I then suggest we go out of the disco, she say ok. After telling my friend, we then walk out of the disco, it was real cold night out there, less than 10 degree. We just stroll around the area under moon, chatting never seem to be able to end, like long lost lover just reunited. After about 20min, I can tell u, I ‘bey tahan’ cos the weather is really freezing cold. We then proceed back to the disco and continue with our hugging and chatting.
Inside the disco, although it was very packed and noisy, we are like living in our own world. At one time, we are both hugging with her head on my shoulder and was not talking, suddenly I feel a ‘jerk’ from her, I ask her what happen, she just give me a sweet smile which I will never forget. I realize she have actually fell asleep while lying on my shoulder (I would say if the girl is not comfortable with u, chances are slim that they will fell sleep on your shoulder), I then gave her a light ‘peck’ on her forehead, she turn to me and said in Mandarin with a very sweet tone, “ Try not to do that, when emotion get involved, it’s going to be difficult for us”. I just smile at her and we then carry on with our activity.
At @2am plus, three of us (AY, P and me) decided to leave the place, only AG & JL who came in late decided to carry on their fun there. We ask our girl whether they want to go for supper and they say ok, they suggest go ‘Gui Jie’ (English means Ghost Street). Arrived there, all of us are strolling along ‘Gui Jie’ each holding on to their own girl living in our own world, suddenly Xiao Xue lift up the hand which we are holding together and said “Hao jiu mei you zhe zhong gan jue le” (English means Long time never have this kind of feeling already) referring to holding hand. At that moment, I was like lost of word, and the environment is so romantic and in that freezing night, so we carry on walking till we come to one of the restaurant. Inside there, we had our supper and all having fun, giving each other riddle, playing clean guessing game. We are there for @1hrs plus, then came the time for us to part, as ‘Xin’ & ‘Xiao Xue’ are cousin, they are staying together, AY & me sent them home together, actually it just less than 5mins away from our hotel. That is the last time I have seen her in person.
On 3rd Apr 2005 Sunday, @4:30pm, I call Xiao Xue, she said she is on the way back to hometown and her Beijing phone line will be out of reach very soon, she wanted to give me her ShanDong Hp nos, as I was outside, no pen to write down, I say I will call back about 20min time when I am back in hotel. When I am reach hotel, and call her, phone nos already out of reach. (No more in contact while in China). Anyway, I will be going back Singapore the next day which is Monday 4/4/2005.
End of Part 2,,,,,,,,, part 3 coming up soon,,,part 3 contain event happen while back in Singapore, some description of her and our communication thru phone (Complimentary from Starhub Free IDD 018 call to China) kekekeke
Stay Tune ,,,,, will finish it soon, cos today is Special Day
Part 3 ………….. Back In Singapore,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Just some brief description of Xiao Xue:—-
She is 20yrs old girl from ShanDong, doing her Bridal makeup artist course in Beijing, thru conversation, I came to know that she came from a quite an above average family in China standard. And come to the part whereby u may be wondering why is she working in KTV?
Initially I do not buy into her story like most bros would, cos majority PRC KTV girl will make up 1001 stories to bluff their ways thru. It is after knowing a person and thru communication u will know that they are telling the true.
Actually she and ‘Xin’ came to work at that KTV thru recommendation by classmates who are working there, and their impression is that only work as waitress and not GRO. Her intention is just to make some pocket money so that she do not have to relies too much on her parent.
Actually this few week, I have been waiting for news from her such as (Common tricks by PRC); “My mother is sick lah”,,,,,,, “My father need to go operation” ,,,,,”My grandmother die lah” or she like something very much but no money to buy,,,,,,,,,,, which is all asking u to give them money. But none of it happened.
In fact she help me to register and pay for me some subscription in QQ (For those who are unaware, QQ is actually something like ICQ but it is from China website), to register u need China Hp for verifying something, I don’t really know how to use it well, but I will know it if she is online. The subscription charge is deducted thru her mobile line.
Ok, now back to the finale of the whole story,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
While back in Singapore, I was unable to contact her for about 2-3days. Was feeling a bit sad, cos we really click like long lost lover. Eventually when she back in Beijing, we are chatting and exchange sms again on the phone every day and every night after her work @1am, she would tell me most of the thing which happen that day like lover do.
Then there was one whole day she avoided my call and sms totally, until middle of the night, one girl pick up my call, her name is ‘Tian Tian’ (Sweet Sweet), she said Xiao Xue is sleeping, she intentionally avoid my call cos she is confuse of our this long distant relationship. ‘Tian Tian’ say very nicely to me, “ 你知道你的出现带给她生活很大的变化吗”? (English means Do u know u came into her life and make some impact in her life?),,,,,,,, “每天在班上当她收到你发信息来时，她都会露出幸福女人的笑容” (English means Everyday when we in class, when u sms her, she will give a very happy feminine smile). I was indeed very touch to hear that, but she say don’t worry, tomorrow she will be ok as they have already talk to her and she is sleeping now.
The next day, everything is back to normal and we were like before. Then about one week later she stops working at that KTV and also her course ended. Every thing was going fine until her latest trip back to ShanDong. This time round, I already got her ShanDong Hp nos, back at her home we chat like before. But now a bit difficult cos she have been guard by one “Big Defender” that is her mother, there was one night we are chatting for almost closed to an hour without we realizing it, suddenly she saw that defender staring at her. She told me we have to put down the phone already.
After that incident, her action toward me seem to have change a little cold and start to avoid my call. After days of asking, she then told me that night she had a scolding from her mother and her parent have already told her that they will never approved her relationship with me. As China girl is basically still very strong in family values, she say she have to obey her parent instructions.
She have been trying to avoid my call all this while until yesterday 30th Apr 2005 afternoon @2pm, she answer it, she was crying and she tell me don’t call her again and she say ‘Dang wo bu xi huan ni hao le’ (English means Take it as I don’t like u) then she put down the phone. Subsequently, she never pick the call anymore. Last nite @8pm, I sms her, suddenly I got a sms reply which read ‘回电话’ (Return call). But I have a feeling that it is not her cos that is not her style of returning sms. True enough when I called back, it is the Defender, she say don’t called Xiao Xue anymore, actually she don’t like me, but she don’t know how to reject me, she don’t want to hurt me. She said Xiao Xue now is badly drunk (half dead), during whole afternoon nobody at home, she have been drinking. She plead me don’t call again. Then we put down the phone.
I then call my friend ‘AY’ who are still in touch with ‘Xin’ (Xiao Xue’s cousin) for her Hp nos. I call her but the phone is off. I forward a sms to her asking her to get back to me when she received it.
Today morning, 1st May 2005 @9am, I got an sms from ‘Xin” and I call her, after relaying the incident to her, she say it is impossible for Xiao Xue to say that to me, cos among their friend together, they all know that Xiao Xue like me very much. She really gave me a very ‘hiong kar’ advice, she say don’t care about her mother, if we really like each other just go ahead and keep it touch, eventually the parent will accept it. Which I would agree it is true, but the problems lies in Xiao Xue’s thinking , not me.
I ask her to keep me updated of Xiao Xue, she say ok. …………….Still waiting for news
End of Story,,,,,,, may or may not have add-on, but I will take it as it come.
Thank all bros for reading this true encounter of mine, FYI I am single, not attached.
Hope to hear some comment and advise of what should I do now. Thank You
i am saying this out of experience that you should go ahead with what your heart tells you but you will have to be careful with where you tread in order not to offend the mother. i too once had a gf from shanghai and both of our parents didnt approve of us. we were together for 4yrs and were v happy together but we broke in the end becos we found out that we were not suited for each other. we met in a pub in singapore where she was working part time but now she is finishing her studies. i strongly urge you to do what you think is right as you wont know what you have missed out till you try…
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sexlover
…Thank all bros for reading this true encounter of mine, FYI I am single, not attached.
Hope to hear some comment and advise of what should I do now. Thank You
If I m u, I’ll pay her a visit. Use my sincerity to convince her defender tat the r/s btw both of u r clean, no hanky panky.
Though hv to be prepare for the worst of being reject by her parents.
Fight for your own future. Love have no boundaries, if you think she is the one you should go for it
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sexlover
Part 3 ………….. Back In Singapore,,,,,,,,,,,,,Just some brief description of Xiao Xue:—-Hope to hear some comment and advise of what should I do now. Thank You
Very romantic story indeed…Feels like watching a reality TV show cos you are narrating the story as it happens to you. Sounds like Xue is a nice girl too. I hope its not some sort of elaborate scam by her friends and she. Anyway, do try your best man! Sounds like you got something going! Wish you all the best man, and do keep us posted okay!
is this your first or first few times travelling to China? Well, juz be real objective abt this girl or for that matter any prc girls. yes there are some supposedly real true “love” - but in most cases, the guy always “perceived” that the prc girl is “not like that etc”. This is very important for those beginners who are in china as i have seen even some of my experienced friends went down bec of prc girls - mainly due to the fact that s’pore girls or rather girls back home - do not pamper or seems to be pampering you.
Just be careful and give it more time as it is obviously too soon now to draw any conclusion - in fact even time may not be able to tell you if its right or wrong. Its whether one can still hold and have a better “instinct”. The wrong bet will be a very costly one and not just in monetary terms.