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Originally Posted by
curiouslala
Wah lau..
U not only know her father but also her mother?
And even up her mother before?
Oh my..
Such a small world n unexpected story..
Alamak sis…don’t rub it in any more can?? The heartache and guilt is already killing me…
(Oh…belum reply…deal with other things dulu siap?)
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(Cont)
Chong and I already fried and grilled and burnt everything we had…so we started on our after-meal beers and were drinking quite a bit…and since it was between babies for Ching…she joined us to drink quite a bit too…Chong and I were running around with the kids and just goofing around having a great time…the ladies sat together and had their usual conference…no doubt complaining to each other about everything the guys did wrong…
It was getting late and the kids became tired…Chong and their maid took the kids upstairs to put them to bed…I went to get a box to pack up the BBQ stuff…my girlfriend needed the loo so she went upstairs with Chong…
When i returned with two boxes, Ching was still sitting on the bench sipping her beer….she looked so absorbed and serene, I left her alone and went to the BBQ pit to pack up…A while after I started cleaning and packing up…Ching came and stood in front of the BBQ pit opposite me…
Her eyes were red…and she seemed very deep in thought and breathing hard…
I didn’t think much of it…she can’t be upset with me right? Whatever Chong did…I can try to help smooth things over but it’s not really my business…whatever it was, she will calm down and forgive him soon enough…So I continued packing and just casually said to her…‘You ok, Ching??’
Then out of the blue….
‘You bastard…’…she hissed…barely loud enough for me to hear her…
Har what???? I put down the stuff and paid her more attention…
‘You fucking lying bastard…’…this time, she almost screamed it…
‘What Ching?’ I asked her…’What did I do??’
She shook her head and turned away…tears dripping off her face…
‘Ching…’…I said from behind her…’maybe you should stop drinking…’
She turned back around in a snap…’Don’t you dare tell me what I should do…’
‘Ok…ok…’…I backed off…scanning for where I left all the knives…in case she start reaching for them…
‘What has upset you, Ching? What’s the problem?’ I asked…as calmly as I could…my heart was beating at the speed of sound now…
‘YOU!!!…you are the fucking problem…I believed you all this time…’…she said…’but you are such a lying bastard…’…she was quite a bit louder than I’d like…I can sense other people near the BBQ area staring at us…
She is drunk…I thought to myself….better find a way to calm her down before this becomes a scene…
Unfortunately for me…this was around the time Chong and my girlfriend came back to the BBQ area…if only Ching and I could have finished this conversation before they came back…but how was I to know at that time???
Ching was facing away at this time so they just came and join me…Chong started to pick things up and I motioned to him to stop…
‘I think Ching is drunk bro…maybe we better get her upstairs…’…I said quietly to Chong…
Chong frowned and looked concerned and started to go towards Ching…
(to be continued…)
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
speechless man lol…
you up her mother first..then up their daughter..hahahaha imagine when all things came to the light…
ching : " you bastard..you up me before already still wan up my daughter…
chong : " what? since when you up my wife…still now up my daughter..wan up me not…"
siao liao lol but you cannot deny leh the world really very small…scarily is you see something in the daughter which sub consciously remind you of ching…ho sey liao….
Na bei bro….for a speechless person, you have a lot of things to say hor?
(don’t mind hor…‘bitter middle make joy’….haiz…)
No lah, you are right bro…when I met her, I had this…‘she is made for me’…feeling until I die die must approach type…
I thought it was because of the lady from the day before who ‘pumped’ sperm up to my brain…which is the only reason I put that woman in my original tale…now I realise she wasn’t needed to guest star in my tale at all…hmmm…
But, I never saw the resemblance at all…not a hint of her parents…if I really must say she reminds me of anyone at all (now that I’m thinking about it…not then when I was with her…)…I’d say her auntie…Chong’s sister…but even then…not really also…just a bit bit only….
Haiz…see how fucked up the situation really is yet??
It gets worse…
stay tune…
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Originally Posted by
curiouslala
I’m just making conclusion leh..
Some more its just not me (pls check other comments)..
Honestly, the best way to heal is to rub it with salt..
Very painful but healed faster..
Just please be careful with your next move..
Or maybe you should find a fortune teller to get amulet?
Lol
Hahaha sis… No worries…understand where you’re coming from…
Unfortunately, this drama episode is too real to me…
Yeah right…you say one har…you better not get a paper cut or something…I’ll show up at your door with sea salt…and vinegar…and personally do the rubbing…then see how you heal…
Hahaha…no need see fortune teller lah…my star sign is ostrich…no eye see is my way to move on in life…
Cheers…
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
bro ka kin update lol so i can rub more salt in wound to make you heal faster !!!! wahahahahaha
NNB…dog mouth cannot grow out elephant tusk….
Yeah bro…you and Lala both like salt rub right? No problems…when I revenge with salt rub, then don’t blame me hor…
Yeah lah…ok lah…coming right up lah…
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Ching turned around and said…’Your girlfriend told me you guys are thinking of getting married…’…I wasn’t sure if she even noticed there were two more people standing beside me…she wasn’t really even looking at me…I think…
I looked at my girlfriend and she was beaming with a big smile on her face…
Chong, I think, was about to congratulate us…
‘Wait…’…I said…’we are just talking about a possibility…nothing is firm yet…’
‘Oh fuck you and your possibilities…’…Ching yelled…
This scared Chong too and my girlfriend suddenly realised this wasn’t fun and games…she backed away quietly into the dark…
‘All those time…’…Ching continued…’I waited for you…and believed you…then when you didn’t go to England, I thought ok, plans can change…no big deal….and now…after all the time you told me you do not believe in getting married…you are marrying her?? What is wrong with me?? Why won’t you marry me??’
Alrighty Houston…we have a problem…
‘Wait Ching…’…I said…even though I didn’t know what to say…’That was a long time ago…we…’
Chong stepped in…’What do you mean all the time you waited for him??’
I motioned for him to stay quiet but he ignored me…
Ching laughed…actually, looked a lot more like crying to me…’I was with him, didn’t you know?…he would fuck me every week…but wouldn’t call me his girlfriend…’
Chong stared at me…
‘That’s right…’.Ching continued…’because he wanted to go to England…and we won’t be together for long…yeah…but he didn’t go to England, did he??’
Chong shook his head slowly…still staring at me…
‘Ching…please…’..I said…but she cut me off…
‘Not only didn’t go to England…’..Ching yelled…’he is now willing to make someone his girlfriend…and even happy to marry her…the lying bastard…’
I wished for a hole to open up so that I can hide from this nightmare…but at the same time…perversely…I kinda felt it was deserved….even though I never lied to her…it was really my plan at that time….
‘You and he were together?’ Chong asked…very slowly…so slowly it was a bit creepy.
‘Yes of course..’..Ching laughed with tears flowing…’for almost a year…’
‘Why didn’t you tell me??’…he turned and asked me…
‘Errr bro…I never thought it was important…’…I said weakly…
‘Not important?’… Chong raised his voice…’you fucking my wife is not important!!!’
‘No bro…that was way before you got together with her…come on…’…I defended myself…
‘Then…’…Chong did the slow questioning again….veins popping out all over his forehead…’why didn’t you tell me?? Did you guys do anything after we got married??’
‘No bro…I swear…we stopped our relationship even before you met her…’
‘What??’ He yelled…
‘I mean…’…I was kinda stuttering…’before you and she got together…before you and she became an item…’
‘Then…why…not…tell…me??’ Chong asked again…this time more softly and very slowly…
Fuck…where are the bloody knives???? I can see his empty hands…but for how long more will they be empty???
At this stage…I think Ching ‘woke’ up and came to her senses…and perhaps realised the gravity of what she had done….
‘Chong…dear…’…she said to him in a gentle voice…’let’s forget this fucking liar and go home…’…she also started to walk towards him…
Chong did not move and just kept staring at me…his fists pumping open and close beside his hips…
Ching went over and held him…and slowly nudged him towards the lobby…she was not very steady on her feet, but he was like a stone statue…unmoving….
She said something into his ear…he shook his head…and she kept whispering to him…after a long while…way too long to me…he started to back away…one step…then another step…after 4 or 5 steps…he turned around…they walked away kinda holding and supporting each other…
‘We are not done with this yet’…he yelled out to me as they started to walk into the lobby…
I was in a state of shock…like a bus just hit me from the side without any warning…what the hell just happened??
Anyway…that was the end of that night…
I tried to call him the next few days and weeks…he never answered nor returned my calls…even though she never formally blamed me, his sister refused to help too…then a month or so later, I got a hand written note, I think it’s from Ching because it was on them lilac-coloured paper that she likes…it was placed folded inside my mailbox…it contained only one word…
Sorry.
We never regained contact since that night…it was an all round world class fuck up…I lost two of my best friends in the world and gained a damned wife….errrrmm…(happy to report…) ex-wife….
(the end)
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Originally Posted by
targuse
sad sad for u
Yes…very…very sad…
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Originally Posted by
targuse
i have up your point
Thanks for the upzz…
Cheers…
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Originally Posted by
curiouslala
Well, if i have mouth ulcer, i rub salt on it..
It’s healed in a few days.. :P
Aiya…in the mouth, sooner or later will heal one…no need salt at all…
But next time when you have cut or tear in more tender and sensitive areas…I’ll be ready with the salt rub…
Hahaha…others are helping me work on my problem…you are still focused on salt rub…cha bo really prioritise things differently…but no choice in life…still gotta love women…
Cheers sis…
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Originally Posted by
henabi
My gOsh… That night was way way WAY too epic… I don’t think I will be able to handle it as well… Let alone trying to contact them for weeks n months…
So…. Theorically, since that written note you received from her, it has been like 20 over years until today?!?!
Thanks bro…
At that time…I saw it as the only window of opportunity to clear things up with him/them…and as history has bore out…once I missed it, there is no turning back…ever…
Yes bro…more than 20 years…no contact whatsoever…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
mrsaint100
interesting read for a while . However i guess u have protrayed to be a self centered person who has the ability to suay any women to be by your side, so i guess the years of damage did a karma return with such a dramatic ending. So did u managed to re establish the friendship ?
Thanks for reading and commenting bro…
I think as human, we are all self centred…the difference is just in degrees…
This is not really Karma bro…it’s just my guilt killing me…but…the karma I’m seriously worried about is when I up…not someone else’s daughter…now that would be real karma…
Nope…in all these years…never had the pleasure of re-establishing anything with them…
Cheers bro..
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