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go MIA. Which may cause even more repercussion if you HAPPEN to bump into them again in Perth or SIN
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come clean. Tell her the truth and drop the whole relatiOnship and hopefully it ends on a good note. At least even if you bump into her and your camp mate next time, the awkwardness is there but at least only slightly…
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henabi
Oh man… Wiz… That’s what I call a “SMALL WORLD”….
I totally understand your feelings right now. Fucking your camp mates daughter…
But I guess theres only two things to do:
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Originally Posted by
iFuck
Indeed is a small world . Who would expect this far away from home ?
One thing for sure , you are in deep shit.
Is “between a rock and a hard place”.
Telling her the truth…she will be deeply hurt. Might take very long to recover.
Just disappear…I guess not much difference.
Keen to know the outcome. Any spectacular escape ?
Another case study.
Thanks bros..
You idea is good…MIA seems the only sensible option left…
Since I have not bumped into them in 20 odds years…chance of that happening is very slim…
Cheers bros….
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Originally Posted by
piasen
Given this situation, come out clean Bro!! there is an honor to maintain with your camp buddy!! everything else is fair and you have not done anything wrong. you have been a gentleman and stay that way. but do mention to her that you freaked out .. and Here is the Truth.
you may not be in bf/gf domain.. but it has not been transactional fxxx either; there is a silent code of being fair and honest here. She is doing that and you need to do your best from that front.
that would be my two cents!!
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Originally Posted by
pakalolo
Bro, the thing you can do is to come clean with her, after all she was expecting to have a relationship and not just ONS.
She will be hurt for sure but girls get over fail relationship better than guy.
And she will not tell her daddy about you,no girls will tell their daddy she got screwed by his mate.
At most she will tell her daddy that she met someone that used to carried her many years ago.
Thanks bros…but cannot…
There are more at stake here…I do like her a lot but this involves too many people…the web of lies is so difficult to untangle that I am not sure I even dare to try…
When I tell you the part two…you may understand why I rather hurt her than hurt her father…
Cheeers bros…
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acidicavex
Ppl always like to say “Singapore is very small mai guai. LAN sure can meet one” but for your case TS he can now tell everyone “the world is very small blab blab blab” no such experience and confirm I don’t want to be in such a scene. I would really try to avoid see her or keep in touch even u have feeling for her. U wouldn’t want her father aka your platoon mate to track u down. And the 1st thing that happen after u open the door is a fist punching your face.
Thanks bro…agree with you…
Time to cut the ties I think…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
AlexV
Wow.
What happened is every fathers worst nightmare. So don’t meet him, and don’t tell him, UNLESS you are serious about a long term relationship with the girl.
if not, and you know it cannot work (i.e you aren’t going to relocate to Perth) then you have to MIA.
Or make up some story so her heart won’t be so broken - like spending time with her made you realise that the age difference is too great.
Yes bro…
Maybe cannot even jaga how heart broken she might be anymore…I think MIA is the best option and hope she will be fine after a while…
Cheers…
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Originally Posted by
woodywoody
worst case, just pretend that you are the elder or younger bro of yourself if you actualy have to meet the father….after 20 yrs, i think chances are quite high that tis will work if you can act well. if not, if you have to meet the father, just tell the truth that you got to know the daughter by coincidence and when she showed you the father’s pic, you recognised him and therefore decided to hatch a plan to surprise him with the help of her daughter’s arrangement. The daughter will be shocked, which u can explain as part of the total surprise….and i doubt she will be dumb enough to clarify there and then that you fucked her etc….
Thanks bro…
But cannot…I doubt I can pretend that well…plus, over the course of a meal or two plus plus….I need to act almost retarded in order for him not to figure it out…
I recognise him on the photo immediately…don’t think he will not do the same if he sees me…
Cheers anyway bro…
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Originally Posted by
henabi
Bro Wiz… What about that Indonesian Female doctor you knew in Jakarta?!?!
That one no more Liao ah?!?!
Woody woody did point out a good point. You n your camp mate haven’t contact and met for a good 20years. Seriously who will really remember you… Unless he has super photographic memory… Or you mentioned something which happened between both of you and it triggered his memory…
One thing for sure is probably “act blur live longer”…
Another thing to “dig” is her relationship with her dad. How close are both of them? Do they share alot of things with each other etc.
It may help you a bit to wiggle your way through if things get messy
Hahahaha..bro…
She is still well and kicking…hahaha…well at kicking me most of the time and I love it…
Yes bro…as explained above…cannot work…he will remember….let me explain a little more in part 2…
Very true…act blur live longer…but MIA can live forever…
Cheers bro…
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Alrighty folks…the latest update…
Late last night…I sent her a text to say that my Australian number’s credit may be running out soon…
Then this morning…another friend called me from Australia and that number’s credit really ran out…so for now…unless I contact her using my other numbers…she has basically lost contact with me…
So in effect…to her…I am now MIA…
I feel bad about this and do not know what else I can do right now…
The best thing is for me to play disappearance for the time being…let me sort it out in my own mind first.
Maybe if I find a solution…I will contact her when I am in Australia in a month’s time…the next time…I’m going to be in Melbourne for 3 weeks….perhaps she can come visit…at least her family will not be involved then…
Maybe she won’t even want to meet me then…which will bloody serve me right…
My thought process is a bit messed up now so am not thinking clearly…giving myself the time to work this through…and with inputs from all the bros and sis in here…hopefully I will live to hook another day…
Alrighty…let me work on part 2 right now…should be ready in a couple of hours….
Cheers everyone…
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Originally Posted by
sane
Bro, i understand that u don’t want to commit but hor, u can really play without getting real feelings involved?
Hi Sane…always good to hear the sane voice…
There was no commitment with her…and yes, while I have broken quite a few of my own rules with her…I would not have chosen to do this to anyone…
This is really the 1 out of a billion type exception…if her parents are not who they are…then I would have kept her as a friend /lover for a lonnnggg time…
Had I known who her parents are before I started talking to her…we would not have been sexual…and I would love to meet my platoon mate again for a few drinks…and maybe be live-long friends again with him…
If no real feelings involved…then I wouldn’t be at all streessed about the situation…right??
For now…too much to forgive and forget….
and this is not the way to re-introduce myself back into his life…
Thanks for reading and commenting…always a pleasure to hear from you…cheers…
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Originally Posted by
henabi
Sigh… I guess this is one of those “The Hunter got hunted… Accidentally” type.
Probably that’s the only thing you can do right now.. Let Time wash away some of the feelings, and maybe just maybe… in a few months time she finds another guy and you can re intro yourself in the correct way.
Hahahaha bro….no…
This is one of those hunter walked into own trap type of accident…
Yes…I agree…no choice is the best phrase I can think of…time will heal all wounds…including mine and hers…I hope…
But dang bro…if only I don’t like her sooooo much…why must she be sooooo cute??(and sweet and pretty and warm and lovable and sexy and…)
Cheers…
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Originally Posted by
sane
Nvr hear from you for a loooooong time and just get to learn that u were busy settling ur personal issues and grats for ur new found freedom
Sometimes the
most impossible are always possible
, it’s really so unbelievable but it really happen!! Just keep things as it is will always be the best.
Continue writing, I luv reading your stories, always witty and full of humour
Oh….hahahaha…no Sane…
I was kept away because of a lack of internet and I lost my password after that…
My personal issues have long been settled…well…this is the type of self-inflicted personal issues I have nowadays…
Anywyas…glad you like reading my writing…and boy are you in for a treat…
I am finding it difficult to write part 2 in a short and succinct version…so may have to deliver it in a few parts….I hope you and the other readers don’t mind…
Cheers and please keep reading and commenting…
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