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what will you think?
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will you go?
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if his latest contact is to breakup with you…would you be happy for the latest contact or wish he never contacted you again?
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unanimous…17 out of 17 will not go…
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unanimous…17 out of 17 said they rather not get contacted again…
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Originally Posted by
TempLust
Coming from a 13 points. This sounds like a bloody good plan. Find out & give her what she needs for her to move on.
As for Wizrd’s closure, gonna kanna fuck for saying this. I don’t really give a shit. He started it in the first place. You play the game, you gotta know the rules. He broke the rules and got his heart into it then he just gotta pay the price.
Hahaha bro…
Thanks…and no…you may kenna fuck for the previous comment…what you said about me is true and I accept that…no worries…
But bro…13 points is a 13 points for a reason…cannot just accept what he says one…must think through…check his latest medication intake…talk to his doctors…then decide if can accept of not…
As much as I love my bro…his god father is that fucking Cao Cao…he also sama like his god father…One post tell me cannot…what if she jumps…my fault…don’t contact…Then the next post say must contact her, otherwise she depression…then my fault again…Na bei…with him, must wait for the wind to settle down, then check where he stands…
In this situation bro…I can either leave things be since I already MIA…or contact her…in which case a face to face would work better than SMS or email…anyways, I’m not sure that giving her a way to contact me (phone number or email..) is a good idea…
But…
If I don’t like where we are headed after initiating contact…say she keeps asking me to reconsider or to meet her again etc (since I cannot tell her the real reason…)…then, I need to change number/email to cut her off…which means going MIA on her a second time…with the second one strongly indicating that it’s because of her…
So overall…not a good plan…
Thanks bro..hope you have some thoughts about what I just said…
And…please be kind to Cao Cao junior…he is trying very hard to be normal…if only he will take off that elephant trunk off his head…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
WEAK
you still cannot make up your mind…i’m catering to what you need at the moment leh KNN
i never say dun meet i just said that its wise not to meet when there is no comfort zone
i think you need your medication for anxiety and depression liao lol
beside you realize that you do owe her an explanation whether you like it or not…
im just saying you text her first and see what she has to say la…if she not interested in you liao or that she dose not seem interested..you have your silent closure liao le ma..but if she becomes hysterical…you know what you have to do liao le lo…seriously…she in perth and you in melbourne..its not wise for you to BRING her over just as so you can break up with her lo…coz i duno..maybe she dun have close friends/close relatives/FB…
its best that you text her see what she has to say or react then you decide your course of action KNN…your minds more messed up then mine bitch lol
Hahaha…ok…kor kor is back…what’s up?
Errr…you join up all the C4 for what? And why you put that match on them? Hmmmm???…
Eh..I took one of your pills…that purple one…I think it will calm me down a bit…but something not right leh…feeling guai guai one…
Ok bro…cannot contact her through SMS…then she will have my other number…if she ignores me, that is the best case scenario…but if she talks lovey dovey…then how? Reply her lovey dovey also or reply cold cold? Either ways are wrong right?
Plus as stated above…if I cut off contact with her again (for whatever reason…)…that will be doing the bad deed to her twice..I don’t want to do that…
Face to face is a possibility…but then cannot give her comfort zone…that would mean to meet her in Perth…then high chance C&C (or other siblings) may show up too…seriously not good…
In either case, she might jump…so…
At the moment..I’m already MIA to her…and yes, she may wonder and hate me…but modern women should be able to handle this kind of ‘rejection’ easier…many women always complain that after their dates, men say will call but don’t call…to her, I am just one more arsehole who is like that…so I believe she will move on better than if I contact her again…
I hear what you are saying…but weighing the two possibilities…I think not contacting her is the better way…even though I dislike both methods…I have to choose the one causing less damage..
What say you now?
Cheers bro…
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I’m somehow caught in a same dilemma as you. Worst still, I’m already hitched with no option of un-hitching. So I do have an opinion from what I think is a right action. Biased ? Maybe.
You are sensible and logical. Will know what’s best. Information is power. The more you can know, the better you can plan for you next course of action. Email is impersonal. Just buy a store value card from another country and use it from where you are. Thinks What’s App or Viber can work using an ID and password. Maybe there is a Networking App that you might wanna explore.
Just help her to walk out of the darkness that you’ve created. I’m trying to do the same but it’s fucking difficult. I have feelings too.
BRO there is always this thing call skype lol
use skype is international number..you can even configure your number to 123456 lol i know it coz my friend used it to prank call me ma kek ko kena f by me lol duno what hell number is that…
scarly answer liao the line opp is from hell how lol i already sinned alot liao…whore calling….flirting ard..sleeping ard…drinking..smoking….the four vices i all tio alrd…eat..drink..whore..gamble…
anyway…you do owe her an explanation whether you like it or not lo…imagine u in her shoes la…you may have may not KC her till she love you deep deep..but if is the latter…ho sey liao lo…either way..you have to let her know ma..
a love lorn woman is a crazy woman lo…if she really misses you like a siao hor…who knows…maybe jump/kill liao? or sink into depression wondering what went wrong..its very toturing de
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Originally Posted by
TempLust
I’m somehow caught in a same dilemma as you. Worst still, I’m already hitched with no option of un-hitching. So I do have an opinion from what I think is a right action. Biased ? Maybe.
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Sorry to hear that bro…how did you resolve your issue? Or have you already resolved it?
Reply on my case below…stay tuned…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
BRO there is always this thing call skype lol
use skype is international number..you can even configure your number to 123456 lol i know it coz my friend used it to prank call me ma kek ko kena f by me lol duno what hell number is that…
scarly answer liao the line opp is from hell how lol i already sinned alot liao…whore calling….flirting ard..sleeping ard…drinking..smoking….the four vices i all tio alrd…eat..drink..whore..gamble…
Hahahaha…bro…you really something wrong leh….123456 calling you also anyhow answer…haiz…must be too free…hoping it’s a woman calling to find FB is it?
Errr…I think you have 6 sins already leh….eat…drink…whore…gamble….smoke…sia o ding dong….
And maybe if your condition continues…addicted to drugs also….
7 heavenly sins…you swee swee tio all….hahahaha…congrats…
Ok…dismantle the C4 castle you built ok? And put away the blow up dolls…I know it’s confusing…but blow up dolls do not need C4 to blow up one…the two things are not linked…ok??…go eat dinner then take medicine and send more resumes…(I think a mental hospital somewhere needs patients to experiment on…try that one…good chance…)
Reply to my case below…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
TempLust
Just help her to walk out of the darkness that you’ve created. I’m trying to do the same but it’s fucking difficult. I have feelings too.
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
anyway…you do owe her an explanation whether you like it or not lo…imagine u in her shoes la…you may have may not KC her till she love you deep deep..but if is the latter…ho sey liao lo…either way..you have to let her know ma..
a love lorn woman is a crazy woman lo…if she really misses you like a siao hor…who knows…maybe jump/kill liao? or sink into depression wondering what went wrong..its very toturing de
Ok bros…
I hear what you guys are saying…but…
I have just gotten replies from my survey…I sent a scenario to all my women and some closer female friends…told them a mate of mine is in this dilemma…here’s the scene set up…
If YOU met a nice guy and had a two week fling with him…you thought the two of you are great together and do think that this one has a chance to turn long term…
He had to travel for work and you two kept in touch for another week or so…then suddenly, no more news from him…no text, no calls…you tried calling him but his number is dead…texts are not returned and there is basically no other way you can contact him…
Now…another 2 weeks has gone by…You have no idea if he is dead or alive…
Suddenly…he texts you…ask if you want to meet in another city…he has something to tell you…he will buy the ticket for you to travel…you ask him what it is…he says he wants to tell you face to face…
Here are the answers…
12 out of 17 thinks he is a con man trying to lure them to the new city for someone bad…
5 out of 17 just thought he is basically an arsehole.
Follow on…
8 out of 17 said they would have good / fond / sweet memories of the fling if he didn’t contact them again…like a holiday romance…
4 out of 17 said they would be worried sick about him and maybe assume he died, or got hospitalised, or abducted…but…since no way to contact him…they would have forgotten about him in a short time (never specify how short..,)
The rest didn’t give follow on…
So…in the female wisdom…it’s unanimous that they wanted to be left alone after and preferred not to be contacted again…
Bros…I understand…and part of me feel the same as you guys…but we maybe not giving enough credit to how strong/tough women are actually…
And based on this information…I guess you guys know my action plan…
Thanks bros…really appreciate your thoughts and support…give me more and we can always discuss it…
But I think the ship on contacting her sailed a few days after I went MIA…
Cheers bros…
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Take it with pinch of salt unless your respondents are westerners/westernized/ABCs.. Their mentality will b diff from SG gals…not sure how diff it will b to hook up a 25yo gal in SG for 2weeks of sex..but will assume its damn tuff!
Sorry Bro, I am new here and I don’t know your reputation and history, I just want to express my honest opinion. Sorry if I offend anyone here.
I really don’t understand if you are genuinely in a dilemma or you are enjoying this and wants to keep you readers enthralled with your MIA or not MIA, snail mail or not snail mail, contact or not contact drama. And I guess, like what another brother said, majority of the readers here are more interested in seeing you meeting up with her and waiting for more juicy posts from you, rather than giving their honest opinion and help you get over this.
From my humble understanding after reading your posts, I conclude that you are not a young punk, you have had quite a few no strings attached sexual relationships before, so what is the big deal here? You are obviously old and mature enough to handle this situation, which you are already half way through it and should be continuing what you do and finish it.
What is the purpose of the survey? Does it matter the survey is done with Caucasians or Asians? If you just want confirmation of what you have already done, which is MIA, is the most suitable thing to do, you already have it from the first few pages of this thread.
The poor girl wants to move on, you should too, since you never wanted this to be a long term thingy. So stop being so grandma grandma mother mother, drag mud bring water and just move on.
I am sure it will be more interesting and will garner more readers if you start posting your other adventures with more juicy details.
Cheers.
yes yes say him lol he thrive on being cheap..in cantonese its call jin kak hahahahahaha
he is so wishy washy like a girl lol WEAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
anyway bro since you come to conclusion already then stick to your ideals la hahahaha dun need to think liao le la..move on to next story please….
but then again to rub the last fine sea salt into you…well..i hope during your " holiday" in melbourne..you dun chance upon c&c&c&c lol the c family…later you really tio..HO SEY LIAO HUAT AH lol
chong : " hey wizrd looooong time no see..ho seh bo.."
you : " eh…er…ho seh..working"
just nice ching come…oh bastard……you come here for? have you seen our daughter..she this old liao blah blah blah….
chong : " chang! where you? come come see your long lost bastard uncle wizrd….last time he carry you wan..he carry you ..you no cry…."
chang think eh sek sek leh the name…pop by HO SEY…..
hahahahaha i sure laugh at you de…welcome to my medication family bro