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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Personally, I feel that it is not safe to meet up face-to-face.
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Originally Posted by
hknight2013
After reading through your story and the comments by the others, I have formed my humble opinion.
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Originally Posted by
tripleaxe
Wizrd, word of advice,
however noble your intention is
, since you MIA sometime, just forget the whole thing.
Alrighty bros…
Thanks so much for your input…I agree with all of you…
My original plan was to just go MIA…
Many pm suggested that I give the girl some closure but most sis say to leave her alone…and that gels with what you guys are saying..
I can see where some bros are coming from about doing the right thing by not letting her just hang…I understand that too…
As stated, there is still a few weeks before my trip so I haven’t made any plans for her yet…already written the snail mail…and strangely, after writing, it actually gave me my closure already…I do not think I will even send it..
I am leaning towards leaving things as is….to reopen the wound will do neither of us any good…but I am still feeling guilty for leaving her in the dark…
However, in the next couple of weeks, my resolve will surely strengthen and I’ll be content to leave things well enough alone.
Thanks for the wake up call guys…
Cheers…
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Originally Posted by
SammyNewbie
As the Merovigan would say if it happens ‘You see? He’s just a man’
Oh well I guess I will have to wait until you publish your book.
I’m bumming a lot cause I’m looking for a job, and I still haven’t done my math homework due soon. Hence my ability to roam the forums all day.
Thanks bro…
Hahaha…thanks…and that you mentioned my book gave me an idea…I better go hook a new woman to add to my story…which will also help me to stop thinking about this issue too much…
Thanks for the inspiration…
You looking a job too? why not join force with bro Ta…ok…forget it…he a bit 13 points and not very stable these days…not a good idea…(if you see anyone carrying his toaster around, Siam ASAP….)
…let his brain unnumb first then we talk about it again…
Cheers bro…
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NNB lol
actually think about it lo…u just left like that no closure de…if you in the girl shoe you will sure think..NNBCCB…fuck me liao promise me to meet my parents..then leave me hanging…i deserve this meh…
well…i duno about you la…but if the girl wans explanation….you sure must give de….then do your closure lo….
one man meat is another man poison de ma…your poison maybe my meat leh..hahahahaha anyway i’ll pretend that im you lo to meet the parents swee bo…lol
KNN im not taiwanese lo singaporean cannot sing chinese…must sing what…oh…
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do
To look you in the eye
And tell you I don’t love you
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to lie
To show no emotion when you start to cry
I can’t let you see what you mean to me
When my hands are tied and my heart’s not free
We’re not meant to be
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever had to do
To turn around and walk away
Pretending I don’t love you
KNN how to carry toaster ard >.< wan carry also portable bunsen burner…and a metal plate ma to BBQ hahahaha CB!
ok la leave her alone or not actually is her decision de..why not msg her ask her how is she..then if she like never ask much then move on lo silent closure..if she becomes hysterical…hohohoho….i can pass some med to her lol sedate her….
no la actually this type of things varies from girls to girls…if she is truly concern about you and you suddenly mia…she will worry much no? when you like a person or rather even love a person that much and suddenly that person mia..you will also feel worried..anxiety and stuff de ma..later she fell into depression how..
actually just send her a text saying that you will be back in aussie then from then see what she says..if she not concern liao then good for you lo..but if she is..i think you do owe her an explanation de
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
NNB lol
actually think about it lo…u just left like that no closure de…if you in the girl shoe you will sure think..NNBCCB…fuck me liao promise me to meet my parents..then leave me hanging…i deserve this meh…
well…i duno about you la…but if the girl wans explanation….you sure must give de….then do your closure lo….
one man meat is another man poison de ma…your poison maybe my meat leh..hahahahaha anyway i’ll pretend that im you lo to meet the parents swee bo…lol
KNN im not taiwanese lo singaporean cannot sing chinese…must sing what…oh…
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do
To look you in the eye
And tell you I don’t love you
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to lie
To show no emotion when you start to cry
I can’t let you see what you mean to me
When my hands are tied and my heart’s not free
We’re not meant to be
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever had to do
To turn around and walk away
Pretending I don’t love you
KNN how to carry toaster ard >.< wan carry also portable bunsen burner…and a metal plate ma to BBQ hahahaha CB!
ok la leave her alone or not actually is her decision de..why not msg her ask her how is she..then if she like never ask much then move on lo silent closure..if she becomes hysterical…hohohoho….i can pass some med to her lol sedate her….
no la actually this type of things varies from girls to girls…if she is truly concern about you and you suddenly mia…she will worry much no? when you like a person or rather even love a person that much and suddenly that person mia..you will also feel worried..anxiety and stuff de ma..later she fell into depression how..
actually just send her a text saying that you will be back in aussie then from then see what she says..if she not concern liao then good for you lo..but if she is..i think you do owe her an explanation de
lol we got a kind badass over here! :x
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Originally Posted by
Wizrd
Alrighty bros…
Thanks for the wake up call guys…
Cheers…
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Glad to hear that.
My bad also for not considering your own closure, which i am happy you have found it by writing the snail mail.
Its good being the better man.
All the best.
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
actually just send her a text saying that you will be back in aussie then from then see what she says..if she not concern liao then good for you lo..but if she is..i think you do owe her an explanation de
Coming from a 13 points. This sounds like a bloody good plan. Find out & give her what she needs for her to move on.
As for Wizrd’s closure, gonna kanna fuck for saying this. I don’t really give a shit. He started it in the first place. You play the game, you gotta know the rules. He broke the rules and got his heart into it then he just gotta pay the price.
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
NNB lol
actually think about it lo…u just left like that no closure de…if you in the girl shoe you will sure think..NNBCCB…fuck me liao promise me to meet my parents..then leave me hanging…i deserve this meh…
well…i duno about you la…but if the girl wans explanation….you sure must give de….then do your closure lo….
one man meat is another man poison de ma…your poison maybe my meat leh..hahahahaha anyway i’ll pretend that im you lo to meet the parents swee bo…lol
KNN im not taiwanese lo singaporean cannot sing chinese…must sing what…oh…
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do
To look you in the eye
And tell you I don’t love you
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to lie
To show no emotion when you start to cry
I can’t let you see what you mean to me
When my hands are tied and my heart’s not free
We’re not meant to be
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever had to do
To turn around and walk away
Pretending I don’t love you
KNN how to carry toaster ard >.< wan carry also portable bunsen burner…and a metal plate ma to BBQ hahahaha CB!
ok la leave her alone or not actually is her decision de..why not msg her ask her how is she..then if she like never ask much then move on lo silent closure..if she becomes hysterical…hohohoho….i can pass some med to her lol sedate her….
no la actually this type of things varies from girls to girls…if she is truly concern about you and you suddenly mia…she will worry much no? when you like a person or rather even love a person that much and suddenly that person mia..you will also feel worried..anxiety and stuff de ma..later she fell into depression how..
actually just send her a text saying that you will be back in aussie then from then see what she says..if she not concern liao then good for you lo..but if she is..i think you do owe her an explanation de
Alamak…KNS…song singing again…
Ok bro…you go take your medication…double dose…diam diam sit in the corner first…Kor kor deal with you later…
KNN…confusing me…one post say cannot meet, one post say must meet…ehh…I cannot operate based on which and how much medication you take ok?
If I see you with that Bunsen burner, I’ll light it up and shove it up your pet pet…NNKC…then you sure can get a job displaying fire breathing…gu niang…
Ok bro? Don’t ka jiao us adults talking for a minute…sit in the corner and play with your razor blades and C4 explosives quietly, ok?
Haiz…
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Originally Posted by
lim07
lol we got a kind badass over here! :x
Thanks bro…
Sorry about that…he is my good bro but…haiz…since he got raped by his kindergarten teachers, then by his primary school teachers and classmates, then by his high school teachers and school mates…now not very stable…whole day singing ‘fat bottom girls’…
Not his fault because he kenna split personality liao…keep switching between a kind of bad and a kind of ass…so easily mistaken for kind badass…
But what to do bro? Who ask me to be his bro, right? So keep him around the camp site to take care of spiders lor…
Don’t mind hor…paiseh paiseh…
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Originally Posted by
tripleaxe
Glad to hear that.
My bad also for not considering your own closure, which i am happy you have found it by writing the snail mail.
Its good being the better man.
All the best.
Thanks bro…
My closure wasn’t important…just worried about her…
Cheers…
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WEAK
you still cannot make up your mind…i’m catering to what you need at the moment leh KNN
i never say dun meet i just said that its wise not to meet when there is no comfort zone
i think you need your medication for anxiety and depression liao lol
beside you realize that you do owe her an explanation whether you like it or not…
im just saying you text her first and see what she has to say la…if she not interested in you liao or that she dose not seem interested..you have your silent closure liao le ma..but if she becomes hysterical…you know what you have to do liao le lo…seriously…she in perth and you in melbourne..its not wise for you to BRING her over just as so you can break up with her lo…coz i duno..maybe she dun have close friends/close relatives/FB…
its best that you text her see what she has to say or react then you decide your course of action KNN…your minds more messed up then mine bitch lol