from what began as a story has now evolved to a sharing session…
bro Wizrd, since u have gathered all the info & made ur decision, then u just have to bit the bullet & carry out what u deemed as the direction u decide to go..
as for Chang, think writing the letter sounds a better option than totally MIA & leave her hanging there.. shows the responsibility for u as a person & the respect u have for her as well..
most imptly, i know it sounds cliche…
不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有
from all this melodrama & u having to go thru ur past, means u have also put in feelings into this r/s, even how much the player u may be.. so no need to feel too guilty abt it.. maybe it’s just not meant to be at this moment in time..
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Originally Posted by
Spud_Boy
from what began as a story has now evolved to a sharing session…
bro Wizrd, since u have gathered all the info & made ur decision, then u just have to bit the bullet & carry out what u deemed as the direction u decide to go..
as for Chang, think writing the letter sounds a better option than totally MIA & leave her hanging there.. shows the responsibility for u as a person & the respect u have for her as well..
most imptly, i know it sounds cliche…
不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有
from all this melodrama & u having to go thru ur past, means u have also put in feelings into this r/s, even how much the player u may be.. so no need to feel too guilty abt it.. maybe it’s just not meant to be at this moment in time..
Thanks bro…
I have started writing the snail mail already…and for sure…I’m going to use the cliche line you put here…it describes almost perfectly how I feel actually…
She is a very special woman…but for now, I’m not sure if my feelings for her is more as a man or it’s more paternal…anyhow…she should move on too…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
ludwig19
Now that we are done with sharing opinions, can we now get on with the rest of the story? Or has it ended already haha
Hahaha bro…
If you want more then obviously I’ll have to write more….but this story is done bro…earlier next time ok?
Cheers…
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Originally Posted by
alan10
TS, I just came across your story….certainly has its heart-wrenching moments.
My advice if I may offer it - MIA from the daughter, for her own sake. I’m sure time will heal her heart, and she will move on…..
As for re-establishing contact with the C&C, I think this is not the time yet; my gut feel is probably when u all are in the sixties, with one foot in the grave…people would probably be more forgiving then.
Thanks bro…and for the upzz too…
Yup…exactly my thoughts too..
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
heh
finish liao
who to troll
sian
sian
sad
ok hart liao
rak te do leh mai dai
Ah ha…you finally come back here…na bei…die go where?
Hmmmm bro…forgot your medication again right?
Ok ok…no worries…bro..go sit down in the corner first ok? Kor Kor need to go call the hospital for you ok? Hey, stop playing with scissors…and put down the toaster…KNN…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
lol medication or not your post is my medication leh KNN lol
now no more liao sian liao le loh…
btw your snail mail how? share the contents abit here abit there leh..then we can throughly discuss on how to rub salt, vinegar pus dettol and some alchol swab on the wounds that you are licking leh hahahaha
you best liao le lo..ching chong chang…make me have to re read very tiring de leh in between reading and sending resume to non responsive employers hahahaha
toaster is for mid night snacking while camping for your stories leh lol i camp at my bed room de lol
Hahaha…Aiya bro…you no hope liao lah…hide in your bedroom how to impress employers? Haiz…(make sure you disclose your mental illness past hor…hiding it will come back to bite your arse on your first day at work one…)
Yeah, ok…you can read my other threads for now…until I have new adventure, nothing much to write about lah…settle one case at a time ok? (Please double check ok…don’t accidentally put Ching Chong or Chang in your résumé hor…)
Ehh…you damn kaypoh leh…my snail mail nothing much…usual dear Jane letter type…how nice she is…how much I like her…why we cannot be together…maybe if fate is willing, we’ll meet again…blah blah blah…if I may say so myself…quite touching…I’m still not happy with my reason but think it’s realistic enough…so I think can work…overall quite from the heart…
Hey…alamak…toaster is for bread hor…don’t put Maggie mee inside…can start fire one like that…na bei…
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Originally Posted by
SEAJ
And my equal amount of respect to you…and thanks for taking the trouble to explain. Hope it also helps to soothe your own troubled thoughts on the whole matter.
I am but a faceless observer commenting and suggesting things on a matter which I really do NOT have a full grasp on; only you know all the twists and turns and ultimately, it must be your own decision.
In any case, my best wishes to you, whatever course of action you now take.
And my thanks to you for sharing your saga(s) with us here; excellent story telling and writing skills.
Kudos!
SEAJ
Thanks bro…
Really heart felt thanks…
Cheers…
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Originally Posted by
SammyNewbie
I actually want to hear you tell your tale in more detail about how you slowly seduced his daughter and yeah the steamy steamy sex involved, along with the semi romance plot going on before it leads to the shock.
Actually if your story is written properly and in more detail and turned into a novel. It can make ALOT of money… I think alot of people will like it.
Hahaha bro…thanks for that…
I am in the middle of writing a book…but not as steamy as you suggest…now I am thinking of what you said and may add some (or a lot of) sex in…
But….
From what I know…books do not make as much money as people think…can only be a hobby I think….unless you know publishers who knows otherwise..
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
TempLust
Kept my opinion to myself right till the end. Not commanding lah but just don’t like jumping to conclusions.
At all those different crossroads with Chong and Ching. You pick and chosed what you had to. I don’t see anything wrong with it.
Between devil and the deep blue sea. You had to make a choice that in your opinon was the lesser evil. Nothing wrong, I would had chosen the same path given that I have the hindsight that I have now. You had dealt with it the best way that you can. I would had done exactly the same. Hahhahhahhaaa.
As for the girl….you have your own answer below. Can’t you read the fucking contradiction ? Hahahhaaaa.
You want to write to her when you yourself cldn’t stand the “sorry” letter from Ching ? Aren’t you doing the same to her daughter ? Funny lah you.
Break ups are about closure. Do it properly and each can move on. You done it badly with Ching so don’t do the same to her daughter. Both times you are non-committal and that’s what fucks them up.
Go Melbourne. Meet up with her. Tell her why you cannot see her any more. That’s the plot. As for the story line and BS that you can give her to help her get a closure.
Thanks bro…
As much as I hate to admit it…you are dead right…it has been my feeling too but it just seem easier to avoid a confrontation…
But when you are right bro, you are right…
Ok, I haven’t sent the snail mail yet…and my trip to Melbourne is merely 3 weeks away…I think I will call her…buy her a ticket to come over for a weekend…and have a face to face breakup with her…
Of course, she must never know the real reason…but I shall provide her with a no-room-to-manoeuvre excuse…and she can hit me if it makes her feel better…
With luck…she can get it out of her system and have closure…and I can have closure too…
That should do the trick…
Cheers bro…
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Originally Posted by
Rickey
Oh, wow !..my good fren, bro Wizrd, is gonna write a book which every1 shd enjoy reading.. Look forward to reading it !…
Haha bro…thanks…
Will update you when I finish writing…I’m on chapter 8 now and I think it’s about one third way through…
Thanks for the support bro…
Cheers…
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