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This is a true story and not made up…I wish it was made up but unfortunately for me…it is not…please read and let me know what you think….
Last month, I was in Perth for 2 weeks…and as usual, I try my luck to hook a girl to keep me warm at night for at least those two weeks…
On the third day, tried the usual mall areas and at a book store, hooked one ang mo uni graduate student and spent a few hours together with her…she was pleasant and cute and always smiling…I love that…
Later that evening, kissed and rabba her at a darkish restaurant after dinner and she acted like she enjoyed it…
However…once I suggest to her to come back to my hotel…she suddenly say she love to but her husband is waiting for her at home…
NA BEI!!!!
Lan lan…go back by myself…fucking woman gave me her number and ask me to call her when I am next in town some more…KNN…I cannot wait till your husband is out of town lah…I am just passing through…luckily not very horny so still can control…
The next day after work…I went to a supermarket to buy some food stuff…saw this really cute Asian SYT…maybe around 22-25…well dressed and very sweet…my heart melted and I felt the need to hook her…
Walked near her and she received a phone call…she spoke Cantonese into the phone…wow…cool…I can handle that..
I pushed my trolley and stalked her a bit walking around Coles…then when she was choosing fruits…I made my move…
I started asking her about fruits and how to know which ones are ripe…and what fruits are in season…etc etc…
At first…she was friendly but kept a cool distance…I kept asking and making jokes…took me at least 10 minutes and many jokes before I made her laugh…after that…she opened up a bit more and we chatted about other stuff to buy…
Once I started to add Cantonese into our conversation…she warmed up even more…I became like her BFF…
We went to have Vietnamese food…then had coffee…then ice cream…
Long story short…we made a date for the next evening…
As before…coffee and cake…jalan jalan…steak dinner…jalan jalan…ice cream…coffee…back to my hotel….and next thing we knew…she was rushing around my hotel room in the morning to get ready for work…
Over the next 10 days or so…she came over to stay with me for 6 nights…we hit it off and playing house with her was really fun…our age difference was never mentioned and all was good…
She is Asian and we share the same values…we like the same food…same sense of humour…similar taste in movies…the sex was fantastic…yet…she has the western mentality so we can discuss anything openly…it felt right…I’m starting to think…this one is a keeper…
3 nights before I had to leave…we cuddled in front of the T.V…and she started talking about her family…I never thought to ask before, so this time I had to pay her some attention…how they migrated to Perth when she was 5 years old…what brother is doing…what sister is studying…yada yada yada…
She said she would really like me to meet her family…it’s ok, she said…not like a boyfriend meeting parents type…just as a casual friend…no need to stress etc…
So I said sure…love to…
Since I was planned to leave in 3 days…she quickly called her mum to arrange that we meet for dinner at her house the night before I left…all sweet and great…who are you bringing back…oh just a friend…you’ll like him, he is funny and smart…make sure Dad is there…blah blah blah…
Everything good and arranged so I thought to reward myself with a bit of good sex in the living room…we blew each other’s bodies and minds…then we had a shower together…life is good…
Luckily…or unfortunately…while we were lying in bed getting ready to sleep…she took out her phone and started flipping through photos…hey, this is my brother…this is my sister and her boyfriend…my dog…my office…my best friend…the usual woman crap…I was losing interest but she was so happy showing me so I indulged her…which was lucky for me…
Then she showed me photos of her mum and dad…and my heart stopped beating…
KNNBCCB….
I said I needed the toilet and rushed there to lock myself in…holy fuck!!!!
Her father is my ITD platoon mate…and I remember carrying his oldest daughter (the woman I have been banging…) when she was 2 years old…I still remember my platoon mate joking with me then that girl girl loves this uncle because she would stop crying whenever I carried her…FUCK ME!!!
What is a man to do in this situation???
He and I lost contact 20 years ago…I didn’t even know he migrated…
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There is a small part 2 to follow which complicates the whole story even further…but tell me bros….what would you have done about this??
Cheers for reading…
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If u love the gal and wanna marry her, just come clean. Nothing wrong. My gfs are all between 25 - 30 yrs younger than me. Keeps me young.
I hope you are single, though.
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A$$man
Bro, you are fucked…
Yes bro…literally and figuratively….
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Originally Posted by
likashing
If u love the gal and wanna marry her, just come clean. Nothing wrong. My gfs are all between 25 - 30 yrs younger than me. Keeps me young.
I hope you are single, though.
WAIT…what?!?!?!?!?!
Who said anything about marriage??
No Bro…not going down that way…
3 other girlfriends all 19-23 years younger than me…this one takes the cake but it’s not her age that is the problem…
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dreamlight
just go and say hi. not marriage what
Can’t…how??
‘Hey buddy…long time no see…How’s life and by the way, I’m banging your daughter…’
I’m also worried about her reaction to the whole thing…not just my platoon mate…
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why not tell her the truth? lol scarly she got an uncle complex leh? lol but anyway truth lo come to this stage liao might as well prepare all of you guys for the worst lo…maybe she may have a good idea on how to proceed leh?
Ts
depends on your friend and his daughter personality. if they are open and dont mind the age gap, nothing wrong mah.
but it be funny if and when u guys get married as the groom is the same age as the bride’s father.
but anyway, if its not serious, just say u meet next time ba as I think you are not mentally prepared.
cheers!
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wilson80
Wait for part 2….. interesting story
On the way bro…still thinking how to phrase the story…
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Originally Posted by
Tazzymercs
why not tell her the truth? lol scarly she got an uncle complex leh? lol but anyway truth lo come to this stage liao might as well prepare all of you guys for the worst lo…maybe she may have a good idea on how to proceed leh?
Not so easy bro…
She might feel the need to tell her parents…then I’m not sure what will happen…
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oshkosh
Ts
depends on your friend and his daughter personality. if they are open and dont mind the age gap, nothing wrong mah.
but it be funny if and when u guys get married as the groom is the same age as the bride’s father.
but anyway, if its not serious, just say u meet next time ba as I think you are not mentally prepared.
cheers!
Thanks for the upzz bro…
But why is everyone using the M word?. I’ve only been with her less than 10 days…
We are not even at the stage of gf/bf yet…but yeah…I guess it would be funny right?..
Yes…you are correct bro…I did bail on the meeting…only thing I can think of at the time…
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Thanks to all the bros and campers setting up fire place and all…make sure BYO plenty of drinks and snacks ok? I suspect this saga may become quite drawn out…any bros want to set up food stands are welcome to help themselves..
Before I get into part 2 which will complicate the hell out of the situation…let me quickly go through what I did and what happened after I found out…
So…there I was in the toilet…sitting in the bathtub and had a smoke…my head started to throb from the memories…and I also knew I couldn’t hide in there until morning…
I made my way back to the bedroom…she was already half asleep…
She asked me quietly if I was ok…I bullshitted her that something is wrong with my stomach…but will be ok…just go to sleep, I told her…
She reached her arms out for a hug…I got into bed and gave her a hug and we kissed for a minute or two…then she rolled over…and was soon asleep…
The next day…I made all the arrangement to leave one day earlier…She couldn’t come see me that night…so I didn’t say anything to her about the new plan…we talked on the phone for a bit then she went to bed…I went to the 24 hour Vietnamese cafe for coffee…
It was quite cold…I think 13-15 degrees outside and I was only in shorts and tee shirt…but the cold felt good…kinda numbed the pain I felt inside…
I actually already finished my work there the day before and thought staying 2 extra days would give me time to check out the city…she was not in my original plan and now I had to skip town one day early because of her…
The next morning…the day of the dinner…and also the day I changed my ticket for to leave…I called her around mid morning to tell her that something came up and I had to leave early…sorry but no choice…etc blah blah….
She sounded surprised and worried…is everything ok? What’s wrong…
No don’t worry…it’s work…they need me back in the office…so sorry…
What time is your flight?
Oh, it’s 1545…
What time you going to the airport?
I’ll be there around 1400…
ok, she said…I’ll see you there…
My heart nearly exploded…You coming alone? I asked her…
Of course..she said…who else am I bringing??
Oh…nothing…forget I asked…as I sighed a big relief…
I packed and had lunch with an old friend living in Perth..then he sent me to the airport…
She came at 1415…and ran into my arms…we hugged…she kissed me and there were tears in her eyes…
We sat down for coffee…I told her I will visit her as soon as I can make plans for it…she said she will miss me…all the ’life leave death depart’ type of drama lines…
She told me her plans…she had taken leave the next day (my original day of departure)…after dinner, she was going to come over and stay with me…then the next morning, we can have a leisurely breakfast outside…take a stroll along Swan river in the morning…have a picnic lunch in Kings park…then she was going to send me to the airport…our day, she said…
My heart broke…what a girl…
I told her to remember the plan…we will do all of that when I come visit her next…she laughed and nodded…
Too soon…my flight was boarding and I had to go…she held on to my hands but she smiled for me…said she wanted me to remember her smiling and not crying…
But…time wouldn’t stop for us…so I had to go…
When I was inside…my phone beeped…she sent me a text with her photo…and asked me to think of her…I replied…of course…
That was 12 days ago…we have been texting each other everyday since…and she has been asking me to send her my photo…I keep acting blur because I know who will get to see my photo and I don’t want that to happen yet…
I can’t act blur forever…so I thought maybe some bros here will have a good idea on what I should do next…
Oh..yeah…the part 2…let me post that tomorrow evening…please let me know what any of you can come up with from what you know so far…
Thanks for reading…
Cheers.
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Tazzymercs
BRO….lol i really wanted to say AI SEH man..but on the other hand i really hate you sia hahaha
ok la..one thing…i tot your motto was not to let the girl send you away or pick you up from the airport..you breaking your rules liao..
another thing..i think you KC the girl ah till i got a nagging little feeling that you are toying the line in between playing with feelings and otherwise lo
beside..i too, following a gut feeling..maybe she will surprise you by coming to SG then really ho seh liao…
girls ah they say one thing, like just casual friends only..but they think other wise lo…abit like you Indo surgeon gf..
but anyway…its either you stick to your motto, cut her loose or really have to consider lo you playboy hahaha…
anyway you teh gong lo..if you use fake names in courting her…please dun send photos la if not father see liao sure tio liao lo..unless you plan to you know fuck that lo lol anyway not in contact with papa bear also ma
if you use real name..send only…then let papa bear be surprise..who knows what maybe in store for you…
but you know yourself la if you really wan the girl for sex or for love lo…if for sex dun care liao lo..if for love..bro..i urge you to reconsider lo..although you may have juicy details..well..still got your indo cuisine to consider ba..i dun think got this thing call best of both worlds de..sometimes have to make minor concessions de..if make minor adjustments..can it still be consider best of both worlds? if not according to your original plans? no free lunch in this world bro hope you understand where i come from lol
i dun condone eating out lol just i dun really enjoy playing with food hahaha coz who knows what will come to bite me back
Hahahaha…bro….
Don’t hate me lah bro…we all tan jiak based on our own talents and circumstances…Chinese saying: ‘person in river lake, body not up to self’…is very true..
For someone like me…I never eat in…so if eating out is the only option…no point always eating the same dish, right??
Yes…I agree with you that I broke my own rule…but please understand…at that time, my ‘square inch big mess’ already…at least I covered my tracks…I hope…
My cover story is that I am originally from Malaysia and am P.R. and living in the U.S…so unless picha lobang…unlikely she will find me…also one of the reasons I cannot meet the parents…because they know me…sure way to give up the plot…most bros reading won’t know my operating style so I didn’t add that to my story here…
I understand that women can say one thing and mean another thing…but my conscience is clear as long as I remain upgront and do not make promises that I never intended to keep…we cannot help it when others make all kinds of assumptions…nor should we be held accountable for that….but we can be upright and at least be honest with what we want from others…that way…the ball is not in my court should they feel hurt…
I think you are right…cutting her loose may be the only option…
Cheers bro…
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