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kinjio
Thanks bro 4 your concern.. Haizzz.. but it was a dark period o my life.. made me grow up.. I dun wanna t o k abot it (like the Rod Steward song…)…
Appreciated.
jokes aside, bro kinjio, i had the same experience with my ex-gf. she got charmed by a car-driving spoilt brat in nus while i was still in the army. our mutual friends from jc all try to ‘settle things’ between us amicably but i was already heart-broken and f**king tu-lan with her.
fast-forward to the present, i’m happily settled down while i know she had recently separated from her husband and is now seeing another man (sl*t-mentality lah). i suppose we have the last laugh and i trust you are well yourself
Brother Kinjio! U like that cannot lah! We waited one whole weekend liao leh!!!
I just like your story, so familiar and so real. Vivid descriptions and just like watching Zhen Qing, the Hong Kong serial… Top stuff. Up you!
Xp
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Originally Posted by
kinjio
Thanks bro 4 your concern.. Haizzz.. but it was a dark period o my life.. made me grow up.. I dun wanna t o k abot it (like the Rod Steward song…)…
Appreciated.
Okay no prob bro! I understand! Been through it before man…My ex didn’t even give me a reason, but later i found out she had a change of hearts. Bloody ass man…sigh…
Let’s drink to these unhappy experiences and bury them man…
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jungle boy
jokes aside, bro kinjio, i had the same experience with my ex-gf. she got charmed by a car-driving spoilt brat in nus while i was still in the army.
haha..mi only experienced the same thing leh…lost my 1st gf to a commandor officer..like bro kinjo…asked for night off, waited downstair her flat for whole night only to see her come back in that guy car.
But not long after that, she wanted to come back to me as that guy went further study in UK, sponsored by Army. Mi still love her alot but coz of face, didn accept her.
Last known she was working in Singtel as a dunnowat manager. As for me, happily married and doing my own biz
Recently, really everybody start contributing, I think I should oso start.
Gotta think back.
As to bro kinjio… I’m eagerly waiting for Ur post.
Right now, I’m hanging there n waitin…
we need more writers here in the forum leh… or else whole day only see old men and old birds TCSS…
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jungle boy
jmentality lah). i suppose we have the last laugh and i trust you are well yourself
tong ping xiang lian ah.. well tis was nothing compared 2 wat i got later in my life. (guessed my philandering ways the result of such traumatic experiences, not dat I’m justifying my actions heee…)
but it made me sit up n really think hard bot relationships…
There r those passionate relationships, like fireworks dat burnt brightly but oni shortlived, n ther r those dat simmer n grew wif time..
No matter how many flings I hav nowadays (while I try not 2 hav la…heee), I’ve always made known dat I hav some1 who luvs me a lot waiting 4 me at hm..
As for the story goes, it happened long time ago, jus a living memory, may b nostalgic feeling but no longer affected by it anymor.
BTW, the last I heard, my ex din end up wif the a**hole cos he was really big time a**hole.. (May b he surfing here as well? I dunno.. hope he reading tis as well n guessing whether I’m +++ing bot him? haha…) Anyway, turns out she was being passed around to his filthy rich frens. She has since migrated n married some much older ang moh.. (Info last updated 4,5 years ago oso)
Story 2moro con’t hor.. pai seh.. Old man write story damn lo so… hahaha..
Thanks bros 4 all ur comments n pts..
Monday blues.. Go back early sayang my CO… hahaha….
Cheers!
As for me, happily married and doing my own biz [/QUOTE]
KNN happily married still screw here screw there.
Ok I am going back now bye..bye..
Ok bros, as it goes… tis really makes me feel young again.. long time dun hav tis kinda feeling liao.
As we stroll down the street, taking in the sights of the night dwellers, we were doing some catching up.. We chatted n soon found ourselve at Marina South.. Wow! how time flies when u r too engrossed.. (we walked from Orchard!) The walk really sober me up. A bit tired, I asked dat we sit down n rest a while. Dat time no ‘durian’ or esplanade so not much site 2 look at. Can see there were some teenagers sitting around in groups as well. We walked further south n went in2 the park. Found a place 2 sit down n chit chat. Around us, we could see couples around oso, hugging n chatting the nite away.
Under the moonlit sky, she looked at me wif her smallish eyes, so adorable.. She has really outgrew her teens liao. Though jus a few mths din see her, she has transformed in2 a well-groomed lady. There this aura bot her dat I find myself hard 2 resist. She looks more like an office girl than an undergrad. I find myself staring at her face n examining every minute detail of her features. Ah, her eyebrows, nicely trimmed, no longer thick and sprouting in all directions. Her eyes, enhanced wif make up, looked bigger than its original size. Her eyelashes were alaways long n wif a dash of mascara, looked really seductive. Why seductive leh? U may ask. Cos it’s as if those lashes have their own life n is talking 2 me with every blink. Ah…. her complexion, much better (facial?). Her physique has always been her best feature, i’ve always think so. Being a sporty ger who’s active in outdoor activities, her body is well-toned n there is this ‘bounciness’ bot the way she carry herself. So full of life. As opposed to those very lady-like’ gers whom guys feel so obligated to protect (jus like my ex, her fren lo). Her arms n shoulders have nice definition, toned from physical activities. THose feature been always hidden away in her sloopy dressing, 2nite, she revealed her desire 2 make herself desirable 2 men. Her top were, by those days’ n her standards ‘revealing’ hor n the jeans-boots combination, wa seh, gaf her a ‘rebel’ look. Coupled wif the short funky hairdo. Well, can pass her off as some rock chick jus coming out of a rock concert..
Finally, I couldn’t hold back anymore. I have to………………………………..
asked her if she has gone for a makeover? (Hahaha.. what were u thinking?)Yes, she went wif her frens so they can graduate wif style. ‘I like it’ I said matter-of-fact, not patronising her or sianning her or anything, jus sincere comment cos I really liked the ’look’.
Up till then, I’ve always had gfs who have long hair, big eyes, soft-spoken (not dat she is loud, still dislike ’loud’ gers), a ‘small-woman’ demeanor, very lady-like type of gers whose beauty is ’el-natural’ (Guessed influenced by those 70’s Taiwanese sob love stories so popular then)
J’s makeover success changed that narrow-minded perception of mine. May b cos of my traumatic experience? May b I’ve outgrown my boyish fantasy? I unexpectibly find myself attracted to the transformed J.(I din realise then). Like a butterfly, she has outgrown her cocoon n transformed frm a caterpillar in2 the beautiful matured form.
(By any standards, she is considered not bad, had i been more mature like in my late 20s or now, I’ll find her attractive. Jus dat at dat time, being still kinda boyish, I have different sets of standards, jus din see myself having a gf like her. Treat her like fren oni.)