It happened quite a number of years back.. Some of you might recognise me from my nick, but it doesn’t matter.
I’m a lady (that caught your attention huh?) and I have a story to tell. The male lead might be even reading this but I guess it didn’t matter (let me know if you happen to see this thread!) as well.
We were colleagues, and over the course of a few years, many things (both sexual and nonsexual) happened, and if time could turn back, I might already be his wife now.
Yes, another sad story, but nevertheless… my true story.
I’ll continue if there are people who are interested to read a story from a lady’s perspective.
‘Next life I’ll be your wife if we ever meet! Promise! Hehe!
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That was the msg I sent him a few days back.
And as I closed my eyes… I was promptly brought back to the first day I got to know him…
I have always been a cheerful person, and his shyness caught my attention. I spoke to him over the phone before we met up, and that was due to some work issues. He was from another department, and I was new to the company. We are supposed to work hand-in-hand but I was not introduced to him until much later.
A little about us, I was 25 and he was 26. I already had a boyfriend back then, so my colleagues were not so interested to introduce me to him though they are dying to introduce ladies to him (he’s too nice not to have a girlfriend, which I agree), and so our first meet up was… half a year later I think?
During our first meetup - a casual lunch, he was always looking everywhere else but me (and I was really annoyed), and so I remember telling him, ‘can you look at me when talking to me or not?’ but I was laughing in my heart. Cute……
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Steventan
Missbd- hey I’m setting up tent here. Nice intro
(Nodding in agreement) Pls continue……
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missybd
‘Next life I’ll be your wife if we ever meet! Promise! Hehe!
'
That was the msg I sent him a few days back.
And as I closed my eyes… I was promptly brought back to the first day I got to know him…
I have always been a cheerful person, and his shyness caught my attention. I spoke to him over the phone before we met up, and that was due to some work issues. He was from another department, and I was new to the company. We are supposed to work hand-in-hand but I was not introduced to him until much later.
A little about us, I was 25 and he was 27. I already had a boyfriend back then, so my colleagues were not so interested to introduce me to him though they are dying to introduce ladies to him (he’s too nice not to have a girlfriend, which I agree), and so our first meet up was… half a year later I think?
During our first meetup - a casual lunch, he was always looking everywhere else but me (and I was really annoyed), and so I remember telling him, ‘can you look at me when talking to me or not?’ but I was laughing in my heart. Cute……
Good morning TS. So many bro early morning waiting for you also.
Nice! It’s good to know that shy guy can be well loved by woman too!!
But I guess something dramatic must have happened. He was single when you first knew him. He got married over the years and you both are still connected in a romantic way. Well, good to know that both of you are still together. By the way, are you married too?
Your sms “‘Next life I’ll be your wife if we ever meet! Promise! Hehe!” reminds me of what my lover told me when we had our break up sex. She told me exactly the same thing! We ended our relationship of 1.5 years as she needed to spend more time with her children as they are attending primary school. By the way, she is a mother of 3 and I am married w/o kids.
Anyway, looking forward to your story. Up your points too =)
Thanks for the support guys, this story or rather encounter is true.. I am not writing for attention nor to know people frm this place. I guess its time to pen down my story after reading alot of other great works and to be honest, the whole incident has been hidden within me for the longest time, and I felt that its time to let it all out. I don’t write well, and it will not be sexual all the time, but the feelings will be intense. Cheers.
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but I was laughing in my heart. Cute……
Personally, I don’t think we appeal to each other after the first meetup (which is normal). So time went by (boring details) but I got his msn because we were both quite into gaming. I wanted to ask him more about Diablo 3 (which was not released yet. Anyway sidetracking, the game sucks….) and so we began to chat on msn. I remember findig him irritating because he always pop out from nowhere and disturbed me, but soon I began to realise I enjoyed his presence…
How it progressed to phone was interesting. Other than work, we will chat on msn at night but not every night. I don’t think he knew I had a boyfriend then and I was not really into him so there is no need for him to know about me (otherwise he might think that I’m flaunting? Because he is single). And so time flies… Suddenly we are in a situation where he’ll msg me every morning (he called me his meimei - younger sister) back then. Oh, this is a good way to deny yourself and the other party any possibility of being together by ‘recruiting’ her as your ‘sibiling’. He’ll sms me ‘asking’ me work stuff but actually we are just chatting. I am naturally friendly to everyone (in the past) so I didn’t feel anything was amiss. We are both workaholics, so its natural for us to talk to each other over the phone (even off office hours) about work. But that move just made us closer… And I slowly felt that I actually enjoy talking to him on the phone.
Back to my relationship. I was in a stable relationship with my boyfriend. But he wasn’t treating me well. I had family financial problems but he was not there for me, he blamed my family for having these problems so I turned to that guy, for comfort. He was in a similar situation like me before and thus able to understand the pain I was going through.
By now, we are chatting almost every day via sms and through work email (we had chitchat sessions with other colleagues, which was fun), and one night… Suddenly he called me and said, ‘i like you.’…..
and one night… Suddenly he called me and said, ‘i like you.’…..
He already knew I had a boyfriend, but he decided to confess to me. ‘Are you crazy?’ was in my mind. I asked him why, he said that my boyfriend is not treating me well and i deserved so much more. He would want to take care of me and he thinks we are compatible.
By the way, all these are sincere words from a man no matter how ‘bastard’ it sounded
So he said the magic sentence, ‘Will you leave him and be my girlfriend?’ He struggled quite a bit before confessing because he knew that is wrong morally, and there will be eyes watching me. But he wanted to brave through all with me.
have you ever had a past like this… Someone whom you love all your life but eventually both of you are not together.. And will never be together anymore?
I was touched (which gal wouldn’t)? But I need time. That was the biggest mistake of asking for more time because things did not stop. In fact we grew closer as we see each other everyday.. And subsequently, the topic of sex came up inevitably….
And subsequently, the topic of sex came up inevitably….
As I need more time, I told him not to contact me for at least one day and let me think about it. Before 24 hours is up, he messaged me on msn and said he’s sorry, that he could not resist talking to me. Big mistake, we got closer again after that night.
One night over the phone, we were chatting on the topic of masturbating and… We had phone sex. It was all in a blur, but I remember climaxing twice as I was too excited. We were not experienced but it felt really good… I remember moaning softly in fear of being found out by my family members… His panting was seductive and his whispers were out of the world.
I had missed that….
Since that night, we are not just normal friends anymore. Although we acted normally at work, he would look at me and smile, and we will know what the other party was thinking. This, to a lady is totally mindblowing.
On the other hand, I had broken up with my boyfriend due to his temper. He has been reprimanding me for my family doings (which is not my fault) and I couldn’t really take it, so I called it off.
I couldn’t really take it, so I called it off.
Back in office, I guessed things just went haywire. I realised, I was attracted to him both physically and emotionally… I was starting to fall in love.
During meetings, he would brush his feet ever so lightly up my legs under the table. That would send shivers, definitely. Even though we don’t really have lunch together, he would buy me breakfast. Its the wooing period, so I think all these are normal.
He would travel all the way from the other side of the island just to see me in the evening, and to chat with me. To be honest, I was vexed. I was not prepared to be with him.
I guessed I was young then, I enjoyed the attention.
One late night, while we were chatting at my void deck, I was feeling tired.. And he offered a massage… I am a lady with sensitive back, so I made it a point not to let anyone touch my back. However, I was too tired that night… And slowly, he ran his fingers up and down my back, and that did it. He began to whisper softly into my ears.. It felt comfy.. and very sensual… I was already very wet then…
It felt comfy.. and very sensual… I was already very wet then…
But I composed myself and told him I wanted to go home. Disappointed, he sent me to the lift and took the lift with me. Once the lift door closes, he grabbed me by my neck and french kissed me.. He’s a good kisser. And in a split second his hand roamed to my butt and gave me a gentle squeeze.. I let out a soft moan and I think he was pleased with what he heard.
As the lift door opened, I pushed him away and snapped at him. ‘What the hell are you doing?’ He apologized and I calmed down after awhile. Still chatting a little at the lift door, he suddenly moved closer and hugged me. The kissing started again.. And this time, I was lost in his arms. The kiss felt really sweet, but I pushed him away again when… he attempted to slide his fingers into my shorts.
‘No.’ I was firm, and I remember he was stunned. ‘Sorry…’ was all he could mumble. ‘I’m sorry, I’m not prepared.’ And with that, I chased him off. My heart was pounding madly… Will we be together? How will things be from this point onwards?
After he reached home, he called to apologize, but I wasn’t that bothered. In fact, I was more concerned with my decision. Should I be with him? Or should I just leave and stay away for awhile?
However, it is not as easy because we are colleagues. I see him almost everyday, and he is a nice person (even till now, he is still a very close friend). but I digressed. The fact is, I was afraid to be with him. I was afraid that others would deem him as the third party. I wanted to keep the relationship (if we are really together) hush but it would be too unfair to him.
What should I do?