I am not here to brag about my story…just thinking out loud. This is no more a public forum?
Everyman has his right and no one can comment of what is right or wrong.
We are all adults and if we still need to get advise on love relationship then i think we are not ready.
We have our own principals to adhere to and this is what you live for!
You make your own decision and whether it is good or bad, you cannot undone! Take it like a man, live with it and go forward.
Live with your on own life and not worry on what other thinks or comments.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
williamangkh
I am not here to brag about my story…just thinking out loud. This is no more a public forum?
Everyman has his right and no one can comment of what is right or wrong.
We are all adults and if we still need to get advise on love relationship then i think we are not ready.
We have our own principals to adhere to and this is what you live for!
You make your own decision and whether it is good or bad, you cannot undone! Take it like a man, live with it and go forward.
Live with your on own life and not worry on what other thinks or comments.
Cheers!
Hey, u got me wrong. I think it is good to share your story, and it would be great if you would. Cos the process of learning must never stop. One never knows what the future holds and the more varied views we have AND understand, the more prepared we are to face what is to come. Woe to him who thinks nothing can go wrong, but hopeless too is the guy who does not hope that tomorrow will be a brighter day.
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free
Hey, u got me wrong. I think it is good to share your story, and it would be great if you would. Cos the process of learning must never stop. One never knows what the future holds and the more varied views we have AND understand, the more prepared we are to face what is to come. Woe to him who thinks nothing can go wrong, but hopeless too is the guy who does not hope that tomorrow will be a brighter day.
LDTR- Myth or Reality???
free, good topic. From an objective POV, for some ppl, it will be a myth cos after considering all the pros and cons, they feel that the cons outweight the pros and will not pursue it.
Even for those that strongly believe in it, like yourself, the results might be more of a nightmare than the dream that they had envisaged.
Anyway, how to determine whether the LDTR will work out? Upon marriage? IMHO, that is only the intermediate destination and not the end. The journey has just reached a milestone but nevertheless just a historic milestone.There will be further challenges in marriage, as I am sure you are fully aware, after having gone through a failed marriage before.
I want to wish you all the best in your relentless pursuit for happiness in your LDTR.
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chanthira
Wah
we have the bros with strong links with powerful thai figure.
Any bro has any problem with TG should be able get the help from you
But as the spirite of a cheongster, only base on past experienced and look for new development
The consequence of bad side of story has make mia luang and mia noi became
good friends and also going to get a younger ,beautiful and hardworking 2nd
mia noi.
Ruk jin jin
Jai Kwang Kwang
Khon dii Dtong chok dii
If a TG is able to “conned” a guy, whether Singaporean, Malaysian, Farang or Thai to “support” her, than I will say the TG is smart and deserves whatever she can get.
Even as a TG cons a guy, I’m sure the guy has other benefits during the period he was conned, like getting to screw the TG, etc, etc.
In such relationship, be it Long Distance or living together everyday, there will be some TGs who are out to con guys, and there will also be guys who are out to con the girls too.
If a guy is con by such a TG, and gets contacts like police general, secretary general of thai rak thai to get involved, I wonder how it will look upon the guy being conned?
I’m trying to imagine what the guy will be telling the influential person or what he would want the influential person to do. “Sir, this TG actually has a husband, but she bluff me and make me fall in love with her. So I ended up spending a lot of money on her. Now I discover the truth.”?
“Sir, can you make them pay me back whatever I spend on her? If not, maybe have her or her husband killed”?
If such is guy is my friend and ask me for such help, I don’t think I will want my contacts to get involved or even myself. I think I will rather just tell my friend to take it as a lesson learnt and don’t be a sore loser.
My 2 cents worth.
thaivisitor
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williamangkh
Very interesting thread indeed.
Make me think back of my past in 2001 & 2002…..
But i finally come to term and go back to my wife in Singapore.
My personal view :"
“forbidden fruit is always exciting and fun but reality is practical”
““Have fun outside but never bring it home”
My two cents worth!!!
Cheers!
Good to hear that.
I would advise those who are married, not to get involved in any other kind of relationship, whether it’s TG or any other girl.
Cheong all you want, just remember, Fuck and forget.
thaivisitor
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machoman
LDTR- Myth or Reality???
free, good topic. From an objective POV, for some ppl, it will be a myth cos after considering all the pros and cons, they feel that the cons outweight the pros and will not pursue it.
Even for those that strongly believe in it, like yourself, the results might be more of a nightmare than the dream that they had envisaged.
Anyway, how to determine whether the LDTR will work out? Upon marriage? IMHO, that is only the intermediate destination and not the end. The journey has just reached a milestone but nevertheless just a historic milestone.There will be further challenges in marriage, as I am sure you are fully aware, after having gone through a failed marriage before.
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In LDTR, there is no “true trust” so to speak. The trust involved are mostly based on “perceived trust” or “blind trust”. The TG trust you based on your words, and more likely, the guy will hide some facts from the TG.
Already in “closed” relationship whereby you are with your TG everyday, there are already truth hidden from your tirak, so it’s even easier to hide the truth in a LDTR.
Why the need to hide? The fact is very simple. Everyone wants to project a good image to his tirak. Stories told will be done in such a way as to protray himself as the “right” guy for her. The things he do, the faithfulness he keeps, etc, etc all will be told in such a way to let the girl perceived that whatever he is doing, right or wrong, is meant for the girl.
Of course it vice-versa and the girl also plays the same game.
My 2 cents worth
thaivisitor
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thaivisitor
If a TG is able to “conned” a guy, whether Singaporean, Malaysian, Farang or Thai to “support” her, than I will say the TG is smart and deserves whatever she can get.
Even as a TG cons a guy, I’m sure the guy has other benefits during the period he was conned, like getting to screw the TG, etc, etc.
In such relationship, be it Long Distance or living together everyday, there will be some TGs who are out to con guys, and there will also be guys who are out to con the girls too.
If a guy is con by such a TG, and gets contacts like police general, secretary general of thai rak thai to get involved, I wonder how it will look upon the guy being conned?
I’m trying to imagine what the guy will be telling the influential person or what he would want the influential person to do. “Sir, this TG actually has a husband, but she bluff me and make me fall in love with her. So I ended up spending a lot of money on her. Now I discover the truth.”?
“Sir, can you make them pay me back whatever I spend on her? If not, maybe have her or her husband killed”?
If such is guy is my friend and ask me for such help, I don’t think I will want my contacts to get involved or even myself. I think I will rather just tell my friend to take it as a lesson learnt and don’t be a sore loser.
My 2 cents worth.
thaivisitor
Thank you
Jai Kwang Kwang
Jai yen yen
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chanthira
Thank you
Jai Kwang Kwang
Jai yen yen
You want to thank me and Jai yen yen?
Next time you meet me just buy me ice coffee
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Originally Posted by
thaivisitor
If a TG is able to “conned” a guy, whether Singaporean, Malaysian, Farang or Thai to “support” her, than I will say the TG is smart and deserves whatever she can get.
Even as a TG cons a guy, I’m sure the guy has other benefits during the period he was conned, like getting to screw the TG, etc, etc.
In such relationship, be it Long Distance or living together everyday, there will be some TGs who are out to con guys, and there will also be guys who are out to con the girls too.
If a guy is con by such a TG, and gets contacts like police general, secretary general of thai rak thai to get involved, I wonder how it will look upon the guy being conned?
I’m trying to imagine what the guy will be telling the influential person or what he would want the influential person to do. “Sir, this TG actually has a husband, but she bluff me and make me fall in love with her. So I ended up spending a lot of money on her. Now I discover the truth.”?
TV, I think most likely bro Chantira is not going to pursue the loss of his financial costs but I think his main worry is the thai guy threatening him. Anyway this type of situation is lan-lan one, I also kanna before what to do, if you are the willing party, cannot blame anybody.
As for Bro Chantira, sorry for the late reply as these few days very busy with work and gf also, anyway ThaiPolice is joking, I’m not connected to the police or government, it just happen that I’m now going out with a girl now which happen that her dad is from TRT. But if you really need any help for the threatening case, I can check with ThaiPolice to see how we can help u. So meanwhile Choke Dee Na Krub……………..
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Bangkok Master
TV, I think most likely bro Chantira is not going to pursue the loss of his financial costs but I think his main worry is the thai guy threatening him. Anyway this type of situation is lan-lan one, I also kanna before what to do, if you are the willing party, cannot blame anybody.
As for Bro Chantira, sorry for the late reply as these few days very busy with work and gf also, anyway ThaiPolice is joking, I’m not connected to the police or government, it just happen that I’m now going out with a girl now which happen that her dad is from TRT. But if you really need any help for the threatening case, I can check with ThaiPolice to see how we can help u. So meanwhile Choke Dee Na Krub……………..
Noted.
Anyway, I’ll probably be in BKK next week. See you then.