Long Distance Tirak Relationship - Myth or Reality


    Chapter #131

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    Originally Posted by

    ryanlim

    anybody was invited to Free’s wedding which was suppose to take place before/during/after Songkran 2006?????????

    Wah after so long I no logged in, so my private investigator still concerened about me huh? Tsk tsk, although u seemed like a nice guy a on-the-surface, inside u are really a big scheming kaypo indeed. Go and spend time with your thai wife better lah, oh I forgot she joins u in kaypoing too, unless u are the one who took her comments out of context. If so, shame on u.

    555, singrakthai, I am not pissed with u - just dun agree with somethings u said. I have made mistakes its true, but rewards do come to those who are courageous and stay the course too. Finally still can end up with someone who is too good to be true, leh. 555 prettier & more loving/romantic too. If anything, I have been rejecting her love for a long long time, Silly me, cos she had been there waiting all these while.

    Yes indeed I was busy re-locating - actually I have already relocated. And my lovely is joining me real soon. As soon as official documents-in-process are completed, hopefully in a month or less. Just need to clear the paperwork with the counterpart embassy in BKK. Anyway the thai embassy here told me should be no problem. But it will be a challenge for her really, cos there is such a small thai community here (< 300 in such a large city) and its hard to locate them.

    Hey for the small minded - the world is our oyster and LOS is not the only place in the world to live with one’s tirak, u know? And live pretty well too. Sometimes opportunities come when one least expects it. For those who

    555, where I am and with all the chio bus around, other ppl tell me its crazy to “import” my thai tirak. And the ladies here are just as gentle, romantic and yes, shy! And u are the type who is “touchy and kissy” they may be better, 555. Like I was telling my friends, take away their language and look at their behaviour - one would think they are thai ladies. In fact I feel right at home, 555 being reminded of the thai ladies I know- on a daily basis. But heck, my beloved is still the one I want. Glad she proved herself by deciding (w/o any pressure from me) to leave all behind in LOS to come to a strange land just to be with me on a long term basis, despite the natural fears that should I dump her while she is here as she will be in deep trouble, being all alone in a foreign land. If that is not love and trust, I dunno what that is. And this latest is but a continuation of a series of actions by her to proof her love is sincere. And her parents kept their word to me that she can come visit me, but now its even better. Its for long term

    maybe she scared of the ladies here, so better not let me be alone.

    I probably need to send her to Angrit school here. She should have a goood time, with probably group of classmates who can’t speak Angrit and also can;t speak Thai, 555. As the thai guy at the emsbassy said, she will be forced to learn fast - best way to learn.

    My LDTR journey is ending liao. Can’t wait to hold her in my arms again - everyday & night this time.

    P.S, I have Job lobang in LOS for a C++/Java programmer. Will pay better than a thai but dun expect SG or expat pay. Preferably some industry experience, and this post will report to an Ameican guy - my nong chai who married my nong sao. Interested? Please pm me.

    Meanwhile have fun. Life is short lah. And for those to whom I owe favors to, I will do my part, Never forgotten what u had done for me.

    Post #551
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    Chapter #132

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by

    siamcutey

    Yo free,

    U have to accept that once u are prepared to post ur story out here, u have to accept the good and the bad and the skeptical.

    If u only want to accept the good, then i think better keep the story to yourself.

    Because if what we say is not waht you like to hear, there is nothing we can really do. Because if we say something that u like to hear, others might not be happy.

    SO end of the day, I prefer to say something that I able to hear and accept and let others deem for themselves what they like to hear or what they dun like to hear.

    SC

    Accepting the good, bad and the skeptical is no issue. But when people go out to make up stories based on what they think or fabricated instead of basing it on facts, that is a different ballgame altogether. There always this thingy called “self-censorship” if one is responsible. I never had problems with your posts. We can and have agreed to disagree many times. I respect your views and when viewed from the perspectives u came from, I can even agree with u on many counts.

    My journey is not always successful. I had pitfalls, U-turns and even restarts. THe LDTR journey has brought me to the highest mountains and the lowest valleys. Unlike some, my experience are MY OWN that I experienced, not what I hear from others.I am glad it is ending with a happy note. At least in the foreseeable future.

    Take care, walk and live with open hearts and mind. Be aware of the pits and avoid them if possible, and learn from them if we must. End of the day, one never knows when that ONE will arrive, dropped from the sky like an Angel from Above. My life is now better cos of her. Sure there will be challenges ahead, but at least we will face them together, side by side.

    Have a good time, really going to be too busy to log in much. Busy with tirak lah.Won’t be in for a long while now.

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    Chapter #133

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    Originally Posted by

    The_Unrepentant

    meaning no story to hear?

    maybe, just maybe. But that’s a new chapter in a new journey,. and in a new country too. See how lor- got time or not. Also its now a normal r/s - not really appropriate here mah.

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