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Originally Posted by
bkkguy
From your long winded replied, i see that you’re repeating the same mistake again.*sigh*
start your same old story again. Why like that one???
so long winded. wondering whether thai gers love this kinda of man or not.
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Originally Posted by
bkkguy
Hmm….Are you ‘getting personal’ with me too? I hope not.
I’m just politely asking you to WRITE less and DO more.
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You want to have a successful life in LOS, you got to LISTEN.
Spend more time in doing than in writing. This will surely do you good.
In thailand, we don’t go around boasting/writing our past love story anyhow in the open forum like you. But we do share/help fellow bros on information’s like thai visa, thai PR, ROM in thailand/s’pore, buying LOS property etc… etc…… What have you done/ contributed to help those bros who are seeking information’s here? Try posting more helpful informations about thailand for a change, instead of the USUAL stuffs. I believed many will appreciate your effort for that.
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Frd, u said much more than just the words “Write less & do more”. U made several erronous assumptions about situations u dun even know about, did u realise that? Why? Cos u based them on your own paradigms?
You had obviously mixed up some things. You are at a different phase in your life right now. Don’t expect those on the LDTR journey to do what you are doing now, cos you are married with your Thai lady and lived with economic success in LOS. What is happening to you now is really not as relevant as what u did or NOT do,
while u were getting to where u are today
. That would be part of the objectives of this thread.
All those visas & regularatory stuff are certainly important. But discussing them are not not the amongst the objectives of this thread. Besides there are plenty of places in the Net, even in SBF itself where such info are found.
is one. If u want a thread that contains everything, perhaps you can start one. What would your thread title be? That would be interesting! I did not meant for this thread to be everything to all people. I only want to discuss if a LDTR can be for real (whether it succeeds in the end or not is not even the objective of the thread) or if it is all a figment of one’s own imagination.
It is not for you to decide whether this thread has its place here. That is for the owners of SBF to decide. I started it cos I felt SBF has grown beyond just FL/WL and cheonging. There are enough threads on those, and I have no wish to add another. Perhaps u can go do that?
It is amazing that a few ppl can complain about long winded and boring and still stayed on. For these guys, just bypass this thread cos it is obviously irrelevant to you all!
As for my kids, what do u know about what I had done or not done for them? Again, u made certain assumptions. As u said, yr time is better spend with ur own kids, do act upon it.
If u dun want a public reply, then u dun post publicly, simple. U gave me no choice. BTW, u did not reply to the questions I asked of u. Those answers would have been relevant to this thread, for they could have helped the true pilgrims in this journey.
I rest my case or should i say i’ve given up on you.
Let make our reply: Short and Sharp.
Whoever reply more than 5 lines is a fool.
I bet your itchy hands cannot stop typing…..
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Originally Posted by
bkkguy
I rest my case or should i say i’ve given up on you.
Let make our reply: Short and Sharp.
Whoever reply more than 5 lines is a fool
I bet your itchy hands cannot stop typing…..
haha ………..
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Originally Posted by
bkkguy
I rest my case…
Whoever reply more than 5 lines is a fool.
See your own reply
here
. That makes u a fool, just like you say I am, châi măi?
Anyway up u 5 pts for being so good at “siam” answering my questions, and changing the subject when u like. Takes great discipline to do that, I suppose. But then maybe, u also dun have the answers yourself; perhaps your courtship days were entirely different. Easier or harder, only u know best, since u told nobody here.
U think I was getting personal? No, just responding to what I feel were unjustified comments based on either yr ignorance of my true situation which u knew nothing about) or stereotyping.
Glad u rest yr case, I want to rest mine too. Agreeing to disagree is always a nice thing to do, since we are from 2 diverse worlds.
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Originally Posted by
bkkguy
I rest my case or should i say i’ve given up on you.
I encourage you to use the “Ignore” function, which is very useful even in Sam’s delphi forum. Then we will never have to read what we do not wish to read. To use the “ignore” utility, just click on “User CP” and on the left hand column there is a “buddy/ignore list” link. Click it which will bring up a new window, and fill in the nick that you wish to ignore in the “ignore list” and click on the button “update ignore list”. Then you will not have to read any of the posting from that person. Hope this will help. Have 2 on my ignore list and I never want to know what they write.
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Originally Posted by
free
See your own reply
here
. That makes u a fool, just like you say I am, châi măi?
Anyway up u 5 pts for being so good at “siam” answering my questions, and changing the subject when u like. Takes great discipline to do that, I suppose. But then maybe, u also dun have the answers yourself; perhaps your courtship days were entirely different. Easier or harder, only u know best, since u told nobody here.
U think I was getting personal? No, just responding to what I feel were unjustified comments based on either yr ignorance of my true situation which u knew nothing about) or stereotyping.
Glad u rest yr case, I want to rest mine too. Agreeing to disagree is always a nice thing to do, since we are from 2 diverse worlds.
Aiyo ! You want me to confront your question 1 to 1. Iszit it make me
the ‘same type’ of person like you.
‘WRITE’ less and ‘DO’ more in
Life. Proof all ‘critics’ wrong by your actions and not words. Till you actually
been there then you come here to boast about your ‘GREAT’ tirak stories.
That’s how ‘WE’ survive in Thailand. (all in 5 lines) See it can be done one.
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Originally Posted by
xocturnal
I encourage you to use the “Ignore” function, which is very useful even in Sam’s delphi forum. Then we will never have to read what we do not wish to read. To use the “ignore” utility, just click on “User CP” and on the left hand column there is a “buddy/ignore list” link. Click it which will bring up a new window, and fill in the nick that you wish to ignore in the “ignore list” and click on the button “update ignore list”. Then you will not have to read any of the posting from that person. Hope this will help. Have 2 on my ignore list and I never want to know what they write.
Thanks for your tips, bro!
I think I will just do that.
Can’t stress myself out for reading all these nuisance stuffs.
Every one of us have better thing to do in life than this.
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Originally Posted by
bkkguy
We do share/help fellow bros on information like
Thai visa
, Thai PR, ROM in Thailand/S’pore,
buying LOS property
etc…
Try posting more helpful information about Thailand…
Such information would be welcomed.
To start off, here is a useful guide.
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Originally Posted by
bkkguy
Aiyo ! You want me to confront your question 1 to 1. Iszit it make me
the ‘same type’ of person like you.‘WRITE’ less and ‘DO’ more in
Life. Proof all ‘critics’ wrong by your actions and not words. Till you actually
been there then you come here to boast about your ‘GREAT’ tirak stories.
That’s how ‘WE’ survive in Thailand. (all in 5 lines) See it can be done one.
I am sorry to let you know that all yr 5 lines did nothing to help those of us still walking the LDTR journey - the purpose of this thread. We pilgrims are very much aware that we have NOT arrived, or this thread would be useless. How to live successfully in LOS proper (while very very important), is not as critical as getting even to the poiint where one can make the final decision/take action to go (or get her to come to live in SG) in the 1st place. I fully agree that how to survive in LOS is something that must be looked at (& many info sources available & from a family-oriented perspective as well not just from a cheongsters’), and I am doing it in parallel. But it is not the same as the LDTR journey itself.
Your 5 (or however many) lines on the other hand, are good for those who think they have arrived, and want to reminisce old times or similar. They are absolutely fine and good as they are, but please do that in another more appropriate thread. My narrations are live/ongoing, & they reflect things as they are happening to me today (why do u quarrel about that?
), Meant for other fellow pilgrims to compare with their own walk and discuss/share; if there is something really obviously wrong they can tell me the specifics (and some bros do), and not in just 1 blanket statement dismiss everything as bluff or boasting. Those who know me well and even met or talked to some of the TGs I mentioned, know better than you that the narrations are not imaginary.
Since my posts are not meant for “successful” guys like you, perhaps they naturally rub u the wrong way. May I suggest u are in the wrong thread. Please check out this thread’s
Objectives here
. If u had read it in the 1st place, all these needless ding-dongs dun need to take place, and perhaps u will understand why I responded the way I did. Frankly, nothing personal - it could have been someone else who misunderstood.