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I think this happens because all men have fantasies.
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no one is in any position to tell you what to do.
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we are not fortune tellers we can’t tell if he is gonna change for the better or worse. But if these still continues I bet he will be damn bored, but you might become a wild kitten that he never expected.
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Various reasons. Short term relieve, no gf, lonely etc
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Well this depends, I don’t even know you.
Who was the somebody whom told you about it? Related to you? What was the motivation behind?
Would you have preferred your fiancé to do that after you have gotten married? It’s better for him to have experienced it all.
As for your question,
Last of all, you this very good girl is in this forum too. So does that makes you a bad person too. Pls be more matured in your thoughts and don’t just jump to conclusion.
Cheers! And chill.
Seriously? These type of questions? A man has needs and if you can’t provide it he still have to look for madam thumb and her four daughters or some other pussys that will and not yours. He’s being respectful by not demanding or forcing you to do it.
Don’t be so fucking naive. Sew up your cunt and while you at it, grow an oyster pearl in it.
Just because he comes to sb you want to break it off? Gosh, we are not in the 60s and the world may end in a few days. Cunts like you creates tensions in men that goes out to wage war by not relieving the sexual tensions in them. Call yourself a girlfriend. Pffffff.
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Can anyone explain to me how this can happen?
Men in general have the ability to separate love and sex. He may love just one woman (gf/wife) but may have numerous sex partners. I am guessing you are that woman your bf loves, i.e. the one who he sees having a long-term relationship with. I deduce this from the fact you he never demanded sex from you; this shows he respects you. However, your bf, like all other normal men, needs to get his rocks off. Masturbation, though is a way to do so, is nowhere as pleasurable as having sex.
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Should I marry this man? Or should I break off?
This question is best left to you to answer.
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What will my future be like with him?
Only God knows (if there really is one).
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Why do men pay for sex?
It’s convenient and hassle-free. I remember reading somewhere men pay prostitutes not to come, but for them to leave. Men have needs and fantasies and prostitutes can satisfy them. In short, I have a need and she provides the service – no love and emotions involved. I think you are also interested in knowing why men have this tendency to want to have sex with multiple women. In evolution theory, the way a male ensures his genes do not die out is to plant his seeds in as many women as possible.
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Lastly, if i were your serious girlfriend, fiancee or wife, would you quit doing this if you know exactly how hurt i am?
Yes, I would. If I love a girl, the last thing I want to do is to hurt her. But then again, this is easier said than done, and I do not have a serious girlfriend/fiancée/wife at the moment. Perhaps those who are in such a situation are in a better position to answer your question.
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I really don’t understand how the problem lies with me? Can u explain?
It’s not exactly your problem, but more like a conflict between your values and beliefs and his needs. Your religion forbids you to engage in premarital sex yet your bf needs to satisfy his urges.