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Can anyone here explain to me how this can happen?
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Should i marry this man? Or should i break off?
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What will my future be like with him?
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Why do men pay for sex?
- Lastly, if i were your serious girlfriend, fiancee or wife, would you quit doing this if you know exactly how hurt i am?
- Can anyone here explain to me how this can happen?
- Should i marry this man? Or should i break off?
- What will my future be like with him?
- Why do men pay for sex?
- Lastly, if i were your serious girlfriend, fiancee or wife, would you quit doing this if you know exactly how hurt i am?
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Can anyone here explain to me how this can happen?
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Should i marry this man? Or should i break off?
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What will my future be like with him?
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Why do men pay for sex?
- Lastly, if i were your serious girlfriend, fiancee or wife, would you quit doing this if you know exactly how hurt i am?
Hi all,
i recently discovered my fiance of 2 years is constantly on Sammyboyforum.
Constantly means whenever he’s not working or with me.
That translate to anytime after 6pm (if he has no OT), till 2am (or when he’s sleepy) plus Sat & Sun. He is an extremely
HARDCORE
Samster.
I am a very good girl and we’ve never had sex and he understands it.
(Of course, we did kiss n all. Everything but sex.)
My fiance takes care of me, respect me, very very sweet.
I would have
NEVER NEVER EVER
believe that he has been
ACTIVELY
looking for casual sex, paid sex, special massages etc…
If it’s not because someone told me about it, i might never have discovered it.
Though, my upbringing and religion discourages masturbation or pornography, i do not mind if he does so since he does not have the same beliefs as me. However, i can
NEVER ACCEPT
my future hubby to visit prostitutes.
Hi all,
i recently discovered my fiance of 2 years is constantly on Sammyboyforum.
Constantly means whenever he’s not working or with me.
That translate to anytime after 6pm (if he has no OT), till 2am (or when he’s sleepy) plus Sat & Sun. He is an extremely
HARDCORE
Samster.
I am a very good girl and we’ve never had sex and he understands it.
(Of course, we did kiss n all. Everything but sex.)
My fiance takes care of me, respect me, very very sweet.
I would have
NEVER NEVER EVER
believe that he has been
ACTIVELY
looking for casual sex, paid sex, special massages etc…
If it’s not because someone told me about it, i might never have discovered it.
Though, my upbringing and religion discourages masturbation or pornography, i do not mind if he does so since he does not have the same beliefs as me. However, i can
NEVER ACCEPT
my future hubby to visit prostitutes.
If he promised to change, should i believe him? I do not believe i have the power to change any man especially since he’s so hardcore about sex.
Please do not suggest that we have sex before marriage.
I’m so glad that we didn’t, at least now i can leave him and build another relationship with a good man.
Though, i must say that i do not know who to trust anymore.
I do not know how shall I put it but it’s time your should have a heart to heart talk. The problem lies on 2 party. That’s all I could say.
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Originally Posted by
pussylovettes
I do not know how shall I put it but it’s time your should have a heart to heart talk. The problem lies on 2 party. That’s all I could say.
i really dont understand how the problem lies with me?
can u explain?
Doesn’t mean he come to this forum to look for sex, same as that u go Geylang doesn’t mean u call chicken?
Maybe he oso troubled that his future wife not very nice towards him so he’s visited the section called “Matters of the heart” for advice as most troubled poor guy’s purpose of visiting SBF?
Since he’s a nice guy, takes care of me, respect me, very very sweet……then I think u should trust him coz he’s oso an adult. He’s got his freedom to do whatever he can during his free time…….
Best u ask him personally, dun listen to hearsay……have a heart to heart talk.
My 4 cents of thoughts!
Ts, just my 2 cents. It probably means that he values you enough to respect your boundaries and not force you to do anything you don’t want to do, and yet not enough to curb his desires and keep his dick to himself. If you marry him, be prepared to have this behaviour of his continue with or without your knowledge or approval.
Ask yourself this. If he is able to provide for you and your future family, play his role well as a husband and father, and if you are able to close one eye to his outside activities, then go ahead and marry him. If not, dump him because a leopard will never change its spots. That’s the sad truth.
its in guys nature to be horny and some girls are horny.. some guys are not and so are some girls..
its really up to u… but most men enjoy sex
If he promised to change, should i believe him? I do not believe i have the power to change any man especially since he’s so hardcore about sex.
change what? not to surf sammy any more?
He may be wanting sex mostly…
because they cannot get it from gf,wife and find it bored doing with their SO or their SO do not like sex..
Please do not suggest that we have sex before marriage.
I’m so glad that we didn’t, at least now i can leave him and build another relationship with a good man.
Though, i must say that i do not know who to trust anymore.
I am a girl so I would not know.. but i guess all guys can tell u they quit, but secretly stilll come here.. as long as they are not into prostitution, i still think its acceptable to read things here and not get carried away
just my own thoughts.. just want to say the world isn’t what we thought it is and many things happen despite us not wanting it to happen. Sometimes truth hurts.. we can live in a veil of rainbows as long as you think everyone is a saint.. or face the fact that humans do err and we try to be the best we can.. hope u will make a choice that will make you happy
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Originally Posted by
taoxue36
Hi all,
i recently discovered my fiance of 2 years is constantly on Sammyboyforum.
Constantly means whenever he’s not working or with me.
That translate to anytime after 6pm (if he has no OT), till 2am (or when he’s sleepy) plus Sat & Sun. He is an extremely
HARDCORE
Samster.
I am a very good girl and we’ve never had sex and he understands it.
(Of course, we did kiss n all. Everything but sex.)
My fiance takes care of me, respect me, very very sweet.
I would have
NEVER NEVER EVER
believe that he has been
ACTIVELY
looking for casual sex, paid sex, special massages etc…
If it’s not because someone told me about it, i might never have discovered it.
Though, my upbringing and religion discourages masturbation or pornography, i do not mind if he does so since he does not have the same beliefs as me. However, i can
NEVER ACCEPT
my future hubby to visit prostitutes.
If he promised to change, should i believe him? I do not believe i have the power to change any man especially since he’s so hardcore about sex.
Please do not suggest that we have sex before marriage.
I’m so glad that we didn’t, at least now i can leave him and build another relationship with a good man.
Though, i must say that i do not know who to trust anymore.
TS …. dun be a frog in a well. Go out and get to know the real world as it is… not some sheltered image of life that was planted into your head by the system. I feel it would be better for the 2 of you to go separate ways…. for HIS sake as his future would be ruined with a narrow minded person like you as his wife.
So why are you here asking us to solve your problem when you do not want him here in the first place? We can’t tell him to quit this place for you you know.
1.) Most man does it. get over it. be lesbian?
2.) Up to you, very likely the next better man you meet already fuck countless of ladies before.
3.) no idea.
4.) Cause GF/Wife refuse to provide sex.
5.) I would if i’m serious about the woman that i’m going to marry.
seriously, topic on monogamy have been discussed many times in every part of the world. conclusion, humans, like every living things on earth, don’t practice monogamy.
we only do it because of culture, religion and more…. whether or not you want to accept, its up to you.
May i know who is the one who told you about it? He/she might try to sabo your fiance. Since that person know, he/she might have a account too.