Regardless of “new rich love”, think through why you even applied for a flat with “poor old love” in the first place.
The rich princess may have casted a spell of temporary “blindness”.
just my opinion………..wan to go with your head ( rich grl) or your heart ( girl gone through thick n thin with u)
n what if u never knw the rich girl, but your girl dump u for a rich guy, how would u feel?
by a twist of events, i got a need for large amount of money. telling my current gf will just make me more loser and the rich one might be able to settle my problem but i will feel indebted. it just make me feel importance of money further.
can’t sleep at night, can’t do my work well, just staring into blank space in daze. my life seriously sucks
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littlepok
by a twist of events, i got a need for large amount of money. telling my current gf will just make me more loser and the rich one might be able to settle my problem but i will feel indebted. it just make me feel importance of money further.
can’t sleep at night, can’t do my work well, just staring into blank space in daze. my life seriously sucks
i think u have an answer but u are not willingly to take actions only because you dont want to feel like a bastard. That’s why u have sleepless nights trying to sort out on how to minimize the bastard feelings you got to go through.
My take is once you come to a decision, just go for it and dont think abt what consquences blah blah blah….if not you will lose your focus and direction..
If i am in your position, i won’t go for the rich girl as i have found a girl that is really willing to spend her life with me regardless i am poor or rich in good health or in illness.
Honestly, its like being the sole winner of the 10 mill toto lor.
Furthermore, living a high life does not appeal to me lor and i am those that if u give me a cart of gold, i wont take it too because i dont believe in there is free lunches in this world.
i am not rich but i believe in 简单就是幸福, 知足就是长乐.
Why change into another person just to be with a rich girl?
All the best TS!
Onlyhuman
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i might be going back to look for the fortune teller one day when got more visibility.
one thing is her family confirm will not get poor one. just a matter whether she is sick of me.
Hey bro littlepok,
Money wont come if you just work hard but not smart …. a good balance of both will bring you a fortune or at least a better career …
As come to your rich gf … or poor gf … depends who you love most and who really love you … married someone you dont love is kinda of SAD
…. Anyway someone ever suggested to me when i faced the same choosing problem before, is to off the phone & go disappear for a week and see who you miss most
I can tell you the outcome then … it only took me 2 days then i cannot tahan liao … me called the one i missed most … When i contacted her, she was so concern about me and showed all her love to me …. hehehe … with eventually the best sex i ever had with her …
Of cos the other one managed to get hold of me after i turn on my phone … unfortunately the first few words from that girl was “where the fuck are you? I’ve been looking high & low for you …. " and eventually i choose to forget about her.
but too bad … still i did not get to marry the one i miss most … her parent strongly oppose to our r/s …. (me a divorcee & 16 years older
)
Anyway it is just a suggestion
i like your post veri very beri much…..
take this one…bro!
if not, then at least try it and see how…just try first…
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Hey bro littlepok,
Money wont come if you just work hard but not smart …. a good balance of both will bring you a fortune or at least a better career …
As come to your rich gf … or poor gf … depends who you love most and who really love you … married someone you dont love is kinda of SAD
…. Anyway someone ever suggested to me when i faced the same choosing problem before, is to off the phone & go disappear for a week and see who you miss most
I can tell you the outcome then … it only took me 2 days then i cannot tahan liao … me called the one i missed most … When i contacted her, she was so concern about me and showed all her love to me …. hehehe … with eventually the best sex i ever had with her …
Of cos the other one managed to get hold of me after i turn on my phone … unfortunately the first few words from that girl was “where the fuck are you? I’ve been looking high & low for you …. " and eventually i choose to forget about her.
but too bad … still i did not get to marry the one i miss most … her parent strongly oppose to our r/s …. (me a divorcee & 16 years older
)
Anyway it is just a suggestion
thanks bro for the suggestion. hard to implement this coz 1 is close to my family and now also no ability to disappear 1 week. $$$
so did u regret giving up the other one?is like no fish prawns also ok, better than none.
now a better quality one comes along (i don’t mean her feelings towards me. i mean $, looks, figure, age etc) but i am afraid is a moment of folly and nothing else. any idea how to differentiate?
seriously, it seems like an enviable position but it’s not. the flashback of things done with current gf comes back repeatedly but self-reflect on own life, what i could possibly achieve with new gf is something i could not do on my own.
my sudden need of $ for personal use just seem to reinforce the fact the importance of $ in everyday’s life. the society is practical and cruel, how many can actually be so holy moly say love is of utmost importance, screw the bread. without the bread, how long can u survive on love alone?