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Originally Posted by
nine9nine
You dont know your legal rights still wanna be photographer… Next time get your victims to sign an idemity form. This will idemify you against potential suits against your favor.
bte, let me save you some lawyer fees. From the start till everything end, there is no money mentioned - implied or non-implied. Henceforth, there is no financial transaction as no money (consideration) is involved. If there is no money involved, how to file for damages?
Thanks bro, at least u understand the whole story about.
Cheers!
Peace everyone.
I had paid and settled with her and move on with our life.
So I would like to close this chapter / topic for now.
Sorry to have cause unhappiness to everyone here.
Thank you for all your reprimanding and advice, I am listening and learned from this lesson.
Hi bro,
As I mentioned in my earlier msg, both of us did not talk about any fee or mention anything about money at all even she didn’t mention to me too. What she said is, she wanna come over and talk because I told her that I’m a photographer. When she arrived, she said she don’t mind to let me take photo because she used to be a model and its fine to be taken. I only took not more than 10 shots and we chatted awhile more as she talked about how her bf had neglected her. While we were chatting, I held her hands and there’s everything started from kissing, petting and sex. Then I passed her $20 for her cab fare which she accepted it. Then we started to text each other on sexually topic and she wanted to come to my place again.
So same thing happened on the 2nd day but after we had done on 2nd time, she said she wanted me to pay her for the sex. That was when I was shocked of her asking for money for sex (she never mentioned or hinted to me that she is FL or Escort), I’m not taking about free meal here, it’s whatever we do, we should talk, agree and do it. But it wasn’t it. It’s just NO talk, NO agree & do then demand for money… Hope bro here get what I mean? That’s no mentioning, talking, hinting about $ at all. Even no agreement being voiced out. Don’t understand why I get so harsh from some bro here?
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Originally Posted by
<<totally>>
Very easy case mah, you try to talk Kam Ching with her. She talked Zhua Li with you. Some more, you go touch her hand first. You started the ball rolling so you know the rules. Btw take 10 shots from camera, little bro take 2 shots. I think you a bit not professional but the gal is professional enough to make the deal under 10 shots.
Aiyo, u still don’t understand. I mean if this gal don’t like me to touch her, she can either name me her fees or warned me not to touch her. But she didnt reacted any protest or name her fees (as I mentioned before, some bro might be lucky to get free meal from ONS in clubbing & etc. though it is dangerous because the gal might bite back to cry rape or ask for compensation) but I don’t understand why these guys who had ons was not reprimanded by other bros for “there’s no free meal in the world” which some bro here do experienced ONS (for free). But I got different treatment from some comments here? Why?
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Originally Posted by
<<totally>>
Very easy case mah, you try to talk Kam Ching with her. She talked Zhua Li with you. Some more, you go touch her hand first. You started the ball rolling so you know the rules. Btw take 10 shots from camera, little bro take 2 shots. I think you a bit not professional but the gal is professional enough to make the deal under 10 shots.
Bro, you know got one type always say:" 1 more time! " Your views about him being not ethical is inline with mine. Who knows he might have done something like, asking those silly young gals strip to naked and promised them front page deals.
Please don’t make assumption if you did not read the earlier msg. I didn’t ask the gal to stripe. There are no stripping, naked photo at all. Don’t ask me for photo as I had deleted it away before the police came. Btw, the police officers also didn’t ask to see the photo too. So actually our so-called settlement fee was negotiated by 1 police officer who separated us at the void deck to settle and agreed the closure settlement amount in front of them which both of us agreed before the police see off the gal flagging a cab and go.
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Originally Posted by
charmguy
Aiyo, u still don’t understand. I mean if this gal don’t like me to touch her, she can either name me her fees or warned me not to touch her. But she didnt reacted any protest or name her fees
So she keep quiet, you think Ho Sey,
assuming
liked Tom, Dick and Henry that the
Yan Dao Goh
you applied this morning is taking effects.
Let me counter asked you the following questions : “Have you thought that the poor girl is too
SHOCKED
to see your reaction thus unable to
RESIST
your attacks?” Knew but never think it that way or knowing that her shocked state is the best time for you to make your move?
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Originally Posted by
charmguy
(as I mentioned before, some bro might be lucky to get free meal from ONS in clubbing & etc. though it is dangerous because the gal
might bite back to cry rape or ask for compensatio
n) but I don’t understand why these guys who had ons was not reprimanded by other bros for “there’s no free meal in the world” which some bro here do experienced ONS (for free). But I got different treatment from some comments here? Why?
You said it yourself. You knew chances were there, yet you decided to put yourself into the high risk zone. Btw people eat shit, how come you dun go eat shit yourself?
If you cannot accepted both criticisms and favors, what is the point of raising the whole questions. You are defending yourself with what?
Past acts of other people
that had done similar things except with better luck. Having the intention to drag those who did not got the pointing and come bury together with you. This type of friend, you better stay far far away from me.
Knn,
你一定是没有义气！！专门出卖朋友的小人！
Please stand one side and dun block the traffic.
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Originally Posted by
charmguy
Aiyo, u still don’t understand. I mean if this gal don’t like me to touch her, she can either name me her fees or warned me not to touch her. But she didnt reacted any protest or name her fees (as I mentioned before, some bro might be lucky to get free meal from ONS in clubbing & etc. though it is dangerous because the gal might bite back to cry rape or ask for compensation) but I don’t understand why these guys who had ons was not reprimanded by other bros for “there’s no free meal in the world” which some bro here do experienced ONS (for free). But I got different treatment from some comments here?
Why
?
bro.you bonk her got use condom?
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Originally Posted by
charmguy
Please don’t make assumption if you did not read the earlier msg. I didn’t ask the gal to stripe. There are no stripping, naked photo at all. Don’t ask me for photo as I had deleted it away before the police came. Btw, the police officers also didn’t ask to see the photo too. So actually our so-called settlement fee was negotiated by 1 police officer who separated us at the void deck to settle and agreed the closure settlement amount in front of them which both of us agreed before the police see off the gal flagging a cab and go.
Oh!!!!! You two SIO GAN with full clothings.
Who is the one that do not know? I think I know too well. Your weak arguments distinctively exposed the man you really are!
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Originally Posted by
<<totally>>
Bro, you know got
one type
always say:" 1 more time! "
Btw please go and read again on my comment. I remembered clearly that I did not pin point you but to this special type of people who like to say:" 1 more time." So I do believed that you unknowingly acknowledged that you are that type. So what grounds you have, if you have already admitted that you are one. Haha. You are indeed a piece of shit!!
I believed those who can think will agreed with me. I shall closed my case.
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Originally Posted by
<<totally>>
So she keep quiet, you think Ho Sey,
assuming
liked Tom, Dick and Henry that the
Yan Dao Goh
you applied this morning is taking effects.
Let me counter asked you the following questions : “Have you thought that the poor girl is too
SHOCKED
to see your reaction thus unable to
RESIST
your attacks?” Knew but never think it that way or knowing that her shocked state is the best time for you to make your move?
You said it yourself. You knew chances were there, yet you decided to put yourself into the high risk zone. Btw people eat shit, how come you dun go eat shit yourself?
If you cannot accepted both criticisms and favors, what is the point of raising the whole questions. You are defending yourself with what?
Past acts of other people
that had done similar things except with better luck. Having the intention to drag those who did not got the pointing and come bury together with you. This type of friend, you better stay far far away from me.
Knn,
你一定是没有义气！！专门出卖朋友的小人！
Please stand one side and dun block the traffic.
FYI, as I mentioned just now, after the first day we had sex, we texted the whole night and the next day. All messages are sexually explicit which I had showed to the police officers as prove that she is a willing party and was not force to do anything. May I asked, if she felt threatened or not willingly, why don’t she informed the police about??? Which gal would afraid to tell police that she is being forced or felt threatened? In the end, the police officer concluded from both of evidences shown to him and negotiated a settlement between us or else both of us can filed for a civil case to settle it. So in the end, the gal chose to settle on the spot with the presence of 3 police officers which we had a settlement closure.
I had said in the very earlier thread that I am NOT showing off or brag about wanting a free meal or how great I am, I AM NOT SHOWING OFF anything to all the brothers here. I’m told my story here is we never know what is in a girl’s mind if she is desperate for money or taking a revenge? My story is just to share what had happened. But I felt that some bro here felt that I’m trying show off or brag which I’m not qualified to do so especially in this forum. Please don’t misunderstand me and keep criticising me harshly.
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Originally Posted by
charmguy
Please don’t misunderstand me and keep criticising me harshly.
Which gal would afraid to tell police that she is being forced or felt threatened?
Given the possibilities that some information might not be revealed, assuming you had something other than the photos. You have the smses. For the fact that you used it to defend that the woman is a willing party. What if you say something else? Nationality of the woman unknown. Some of my qns are not answered.
Do bear in mind,
those are 3 policemen in uniform, passing down judgement is not something they are up to. Only a judge can. We all knew that most of the time, those cops are NSF who either finished poly or after As. To play judge, I dared to say they are not close even. Those NSF cops only have one thing in mind,
they only want to minimize the case
and returned back to the air-conditioned post.
FYI, the above comment from you, will most likely to get my lengthy comments again. Even if I write them out, you are not going to accept and hence no point for me to do so.
Do you want to know why? What happened if no help was given? How come you posted your question?
You are afraid
and
do not know what to do
.
Counted yourself lucky! You are blessed to have those great minds of the few brothers who gave you some really great escaped route. I do certainly see that you had already abused that power of knowledge.
I did mentioned in my posts earlier on, if you cannot take the opinions from the other side of the story, you should do what?
Must I say it again?