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being a FL in Singapore (money transaction)
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intentional harassment (coming to my home and look for me, calling my phones after midnight, dawn and early mornings)
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post ads of what I had done to her
dont making excuse for yourself and dont listen to some of the bollocks here.
if you have taken her photos and shagged her. Pay her!
what do u expect, free meal?
dont be a cheapo, do the right thing and pay her.
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Originally Posted by
charmguy
May I asked anyone had tried before never pay after sex?
Please advice me, SB brothers!
Thank you and appreciate all your advice and comments which all of us in here can share as well.
where got free lunch one.. you not working and no money still can advertised for models? even though you didn’t indicate the fees, it is expected that at least she get paid for the photography if not the sex lah.
Hi to all brothers who had responded,
I would like to thank for those who are seriously and sincerely giving their comments and advice.
Let me conclude what happened in the past hours:
She really bought police to my house and I was quick to bring my camera and told everyone to talk downstairs but not outside or at my place.
After when we had reached downstairs the police wanted her to tell her story again in front of me from what she had told them earlier.
After her stories had been told, the police asked me for my versions, as I was telling halfway of my version, I asked the police officer if I can asked him something privately so we had separated to tell our versions.
Do you know that all the police are not interested to see the photo because I think they are not allowed to see any photo without the permission from the lady & me, so I also ignored it. (btw, the photo had all been deleted). the officer just asked me what kind of photo are taken, I told them it is some sexy photo she wanted to pose for me willingly, I didn’t forced her or grabbed her to pose those sexy photo and i didn’t blackmailed, threatened or intention to post her photo online. The police said that will save me a lot and it is fine & nothing illegal for personal viewing.
After my version had told all in real and facts with no created twists & turns and also with sms evidences, I told the police that the lady don’t know what offences she had committed. I pointed out some offences that she wasn’t aware that she had committed.
After hearing all these, the police officer went over to talk to her and warn her for her crimes. And the police officer told me that he will help me this time to “defuse the time bomb” so he arranged both of us to talk peacefully in front of them, but that lady is stubborn and begin to smash my camera onto the floor (camera screen cracked & not sure of the function of camera yet, need to send for evaluation tomorrow with damaged costs and reports printed) so the police told her to picked it up and returned to me.
The officer said they can’t be there whole day to let us settle which they felt that we can’t settled at all, they had told us that this is a civil case issue, no criminal offences. Then they said they are leaving and told us to engaged our lawyers for this case.
After then police left, both of us had a big scene of shouting at the void deck and i knew that the FL realized she was losing the case too, so she rushed to the lift and intention to make another scene outside my flat, luckily I blocked the lift and dialed 999 to ask for assistance again. Then there’s was a lot of neighbors wanted to take the lift up as this lift is the newly installed lift (only 1 lift) from the government.
As she is making a scene in the lift with so many neighbors looking at her, and they automatic because my witnesses of her harassing. But when the police came, all the neighbors are avoiding, the police officer shouted at the lady to come out of the lift as she is not a resident in that block.
So this is another group of police officers and we had to tell our version again…
I realized that she had printed out the ad I had posted and she showed it to the police but luckily is I didn’t stated any fee for the photo shoot. So I told the police office that the photo shoot is my audition for a trial shoot as it is a test shot so no money will be paid for it.
After all the questioning again, she demanded for $450 from me as a settlement and I insisted to the police officer that I was conned and scammed by her after our willing sex after the shoot and I am not going to pay her for her demand. I knew the police went over to her and told her about her disadvantages as my ads didn’t state any money and fee for anything she had done unless she admit that she is a FL. So she gave in by asking for $200 in the end. I had yet to send my camera for an evaluation report so I was wondering the camera damaged might end up costing more than our sex.
Lastly, I told the police officers to make sure she leaves my vicinity area and warn her of intention harassment charges if she commit again. So the police officers saw her leaving in a cab and asked me to go back home too.
End of this whole incident, I hope now everyone got a conclusion of the FL scammed / conned money after sex as I am not aware that she is a FL at all. I only knew it after the 2nd sex on the 2nd time when we had again.
So I need you guys to advice me, should I bill her for my camera damaged before paying her? I know it might end up I don’t have to pay her but what about my camera? I need that as my living too which the police and her are aware as I told them too.
Please advice.
Thank you so much for your serious and sincere comment and advice. Hope to hear from you soon.
Hi,
Yes indeed she is not afraid of losing face as she had been shouting at my void deck telling the world that I didn’t pay for her service but i did warned her that she will be charged for harassing & public nuisance if she continued.
I intended to lodge a police report of her harassing me by mailing me “pay-up-note” in my letterbox. Though it is not pasting the note but causing unnecessary disturbance from her is considering harassment.
Should I make a report?
Btw, I had a estimated quote from the camera repair centre that just alone of servicing and repair for the compact camera screen is already $180+ without fully evaluate on the camera functionality. I doubt she won’t settled that and insist on her $200 settlement.
Pls comment & advice. Thank you!
Hi bro,
Need your precious comment & advice.
Now instead of paying her of $200, should I pay her $100 instead because of the damaged of camera she had done which might cost up to $400++ or more?
Please advice. Thank you!
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Originally Posted by
Feee
Limpeh hope she ask banglas to burn your house you fucking cheapo
You better pray i can’t find her ads on what you did cuz i will embarass you till you kio tolong
Bro,
Please do anything foolish as the police are monitoring this situation on online posting as I had reported to them about that lady accusation.
And also please take note that there’s such scam and con outside running such scheme on do first, extort money after sex. I’m not sharing a proud story here, I’m telling this story is make aware of all bros who might one day fall into such scheme which the FL can name any price after sex. Please don’t mistaken that I’m proud of what had happened to me. If someone want to share their unhappiness story in here will be criticized by the brothers here.
Is it a kind reminder cannot be share in here?
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Originally Posted by
bhappi
bro play so big…
Is it giving and sharing reminder to some brothers here will get criticized?
I’m also puzzled why he behaved and comment that? Unless he…
It’s not about free sex and not paying, it’s where got after sex then demand any amount she wished to. Furthermore, she responded my ad and she didn’t mentioned that she is a FL, she doesn’t mention about $ even after the first sex.
But both of us clique and talk a lot of things before the first sex and after the first sex too, she even mentioned about her bf neglecting her. So all this feeling and moment is like a friendship that lead to “ONS” happened.
Bro, please don’t get my stories wrong, though I’m not working now but doesn’t mean I’m looking for a free meal. But from the above content, everything was not mentioned, agreed and talked about it from both of us until the last session then she “billed” me.
I believe some bro over here had experienced in ONS, so imagine that girl ONS with you an after that demand her price which u got shocked, how you will feel? Scammed? Conned? Threatened? Extortion?
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Originally Posted by
3Dragon
Since she not shy, post her pics here let us sbf samsters take a look ma. We can help u evaluate if she really worth $450 or not. LOL.
All this shit for $450???
I don’t wish to post her photo here because I felt that some bro over here are unhappy and offended now.
So sorry I can’t do that to make peace with those unhappy bro.
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Originally Posted by
bhappi
changed story again
deleted already still had her photo?
Of course deleted lah. Cannot stored at all.