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Originally Posted by
queeniegal
Haha bleach won’t change it he need a doc I feel.
I seen few guys like him. Personally my close buddy he is same like him. But I know why my friend he become like that haha I also encourage him see doc however his ego is high…
This type of man lots of thinks run inside them nobody will able to help him only himself and this type if man they usually very temperamental and their head and emotional are mix up.
So if he belong to this I seriously encourage to see doc if not long run he will suffer. N gal beside him will suffer
That all for now work work work! .
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Originally Posted by
curiouslala
sis queenie..
wahhhh.. so nice hur..
I’m so thrilled to go thaiiiii..
I better no comments about bro E.
its his life, he can do whatever that he want..
I don’t really care about whatever that he do or did..
as long as me or my friend’s not suffered from his wrong doings..
if one of us suffered bcos of him, it’ll be my problem..
Lolz.. Queenie supported the Thai economy for those few days.. The spike in their GDP can be attributed to her
Lala sis..what u said reflects my mantra exactly…
Truly sistas lol
Queenie, hearing ur story abt ur fren, I can understand better fr ur POV.
I’m not on anyone’s side per se, but everything and everyone has a different side to it/them. what I was trying to say was to maybe take a step back an loot at it from a different angle
I can empathize with ur fren too cos yes, I’ve been down that same road too.
Honestly, did professional help help? Sorry, no. I deign to elaborate here…
Perhaps I am the exception to the rule.
Perhaps it’s just my distrust of these so-called professionals and helplines and what not from my own experiences.
To each their own i guess?
I’m not condoning anything not am I advocating we should all think alike
But that’s the spirit of the forum as u have rightly pointed out- voice freely.
And because there is a diverse variety of people here, we can also exchange stories and learn from each others’ experiences.
I’m apologize if this post may upset u, when u are voicing ur opinion freely
But I just felt plain speaking on a public thread also has its limits even in e name of fun & sharing.
Bernardfrosty may be right: I know of a few cases where these guys have been ‘reformed’ as extra curricular pursuits as I shall call them have lost their attraction. There will always be black sheep, I don’t deny but let’s hold out for the pride of the pack- the good sheep.
And u never know when u strip off a wolf’s clothing, u’d be surprised to find a shivering , scared, meek little white fluffy sheep beneath
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Originally Posted by
queeniegal
I’m nt upset at all. I still hold my stand.
I will speak what I think. I don’t need to hold.
If there is a limit is for the forum owner to lay down the rules if the rules said I can’t speak freely yes I won’t be here.
Yes. Not asking you to call help line. Seeking for professional is to look for physiologist if you think counsellor can’t help you.
I can recommend if you need one. I have friends in this area.
I just like to clarify I speak what I see and feel is correct. I don’t really care how people look at me. As long as I don’t hurt anyone, I just hope people don’t get hurt or hurt themselves in any sense or ways.
Like I said, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
U believe professional help makes a diff, by all means.
But Don’t assume i didn’t try those fat cat psychologist, psychiatrists etc.
ys, I did visit them when I went thru tough times as I had written about earlier.
Did they help?
No…
So I don’t believe in the “professional help” advocated.. That’s my belief and I am not imposing it on u, or any other person either.
Everyone’s case is different, that’s why I am just asking u to not generalize.
One bad egg doesn’t mean every other one is bad too
What I am asking is only for u to give some consideration to other users of this forum. I do not think that is too much to ask.
Everyone is here to relax, TC, etc, why make it so serious by making sound personal…
In the beginning it was fun. Sure, but then it got personal which I felt shouldn’t be the case.
I will also speak what I think. If u can dish it out, I’m certain u can also swallow it.
Do u seriously u didn’t hurt anyone?
Words an be a double edged sword, to praise or to put some else down.
In our bluntness, our frankness we do hurt people unwittingly.
We may be right factually, but, are we doing it the right way?
Honestly, if I were the receiving end of that, I’d probably be upset and quit posting totally, which I nearly sometimes when I receive negative comments or PMs. Those closer to me,whom I confided in are aware of that.
Don’t assume everyone can take it bluntly.
Don’t assume words don’t hurt.
They do.
I can see we will not agree at all on this topic. Let’s agree to disagree and move on.
Close this topic.
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Lazy to edit the quote anyway I thought strip is furless sheep what good or bad. Isn’t a naked sheep better??
The sheep would be freezing!!
And a naked sheep well, isn’t that cute…
Nice fluffy ones…with a boiiiinnnggg feel..best….
Seriously, who is the one that started it & thus needs to grow up?
*shrugs shoulders*
Watch who,u point fingers at, cos 3 of them inadvertently point back at Urself.
Right or wrong, I’m sure readers can judge from each response who is the real juvenile one..
Bro A: this for playing peacemaker… Despite it being to no avail.
And to other readers: this is wht happens when 2 females clash… Never ever try get involved..for,ur own safety.
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Thanks just didn’t want to see a cat fight. Have a good one ladies.
Cheers
and where is the half sis disappear.
Switching to the ‘dark’ side..erm I,mean the other “half”
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Huh u also have a pole to show???
Maybe?? Lols….
Special pole used to poke Mr.T
Leant fr Sis Lala
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Originally Posted by
curiouslala
erm.. sorry..
I was poking and stroking at the same time..
both hands is busy.. phew~
Just curious… Who were u poking???
Random conversations
Over some tea and cakes one cold rainy weekend afternoon…
Friend [aka C]: eh, so now Ian isn’t in SG.. U how?
Me: huh? How what? Like that lor. Work, meet friends, go for classes. The same routine? (Then turns slightly red when T comes to mind)
C: (eyes me carefully) u sure or not? Don’t pretend ley. say!
Me: Okaaay, maybe there’s someone but we’re,not seeing each other in that way…
C: get out of here! What did u do to my friend? Didn’t realize u can be so havoc kind with this…what they call friends with benefits?
Me: erm, I’m not really sure…
C: Spill! Who, where, when, how, why…!
Me: ( feeling like a deer caught in spotlights) *gulp* right….He is…
A good 20 mins passed as I briefly summarized up the points she wanted to know..
C: u lucky thing then. At least this one sounds like got some standard. I pity the ur next bf or,the guy after that
Me: Wei. Ure making me sound very promiscuous. Anyway, after this I doubt I’d do sthg like this again.
C: (grins mischievously) got plans with T later or not? Need me,go shopping with u? Get sthg to knock his boxers off.
Me: no need la. Besides,(Giggling) I’m sure his boxers will fly off pretty quickly.
And both of us giggle at this lame attempt at humour
Me: anyway, I just saw T this week. Twice.
C: overnight?
Me: lol. I wish! Nah, just a quick one at my place both times.
C: Enough meh? From what u described earlier, an image of an insatiable sex machine comes to mind.
Me: haha. Maybe? Or maybe cos I make him work hard?
C: work hard? U mean u just lie down there? Don’t need to anything?
Me: hey! I do stuff to okay? Like teasing him? Haha. The first time we met this week, it was actually my doing the baiting. Just chatted via our usual chat app like normal until I was certain he was horny before,I casually mentioned my place was available for awhile
C: hahaha.. Ure evil! Bait the poor guy. But tempting is better than u doing something like messing around with him Ai-Mai, ai-Mai kind. Damn frustrating!
Me: Wah. U know so well? How many times u tried?
C: oei, don’t geh geh change topic. So he went over and u both horny rabbits…
Me: aiyo. Don’t say it like that please. We both put attention into the build-up ok. Especially the hugs, and kissing..
C: hello hello, wake up, don’t drip of to dreamland. Continue leh. Sounds exciting kind. Never imagined it for u…
Me: 神秘女郎 haha. Aiyo, it’s very much any other pair do what, hug, kiss then..
C: (interrupting) oei, woman. DETAILs.
Me: okok. Went my room,and then he began undressing first, leaving only his boxers on. Sat on his lap and we began to make out lor. Really enjoy holding his head, kissing him,having our tongue battles. His hands were roving around my body…
C: he never try to strip u and get on with it? Guys can be quite Kancheong one.
Me: funny u should mention. I wearing a concealed back zip dress. He felt around quite abit before locating it.
C: haha. Next time try those slip on kind. See his confused look…u know,that dress u wore that time..
Me: lol. Idea! Make it,challenging for him. He welcomes challenges anyway.
S he got,me out of my dress, but I think he has issues,with my,underwear.
C: why? U not wearing granny pants and squashed up unsexy bra I hope..
Me: no la. Is more on his exclaiming on my wearing a matching bra & panty set. Nothing sexy about it tho, those t-shirt bra kind.
C: wait. Not sexy is one thing. Color?
Me: erh, hot pink I tink? Wy!
C: (chuckling) nothing. Then then??
Me: continue make out la. And then of cos very soon he divested me of my underwear too. I had to do the same for him of cos. and there was his monster, welcoming me with sheer delight…
TBC
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Changed the presentation & narrative style for some variety. Not sure how it will go down with readers but…nothing ventured,nothing gained…even for writing experiences.
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Originally Posted by
curiouslala
wah..
then I think I’m a better actor than u la..
none of my friends knew what am I doing..
pp
Someone I knew in the past also like that….. No one in her circle of friends including family member knew of her dark side……..
Thinking back scary.