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Originally Posted by
BernardFrosty
Been reading this thread for a while. Kitty and all the resident readers who made this lively and intriguing. There had been various conjuncture that I had wanted to jump in and post some words of my own. I am glad that I had held off till the end .
I really liked how it’s someone writing and laying it bare for all to see. It’s not the erotism but the brutal honesty that has drawn me. While sex is physical and a primeval instinct. I think it is the mind that differentiate us from animals. Dolphins are the only known living thing other than human beings that copulates for sheer pleasure. Dolphins are intelligent beings and I firmly believe that it solicits emotional gratification other than sheer physical release.
I’ve digress to that of a marine biologist.
I tend to disagree with the title of this thread “The 3 that changed me”, Lol. I don’t think Kitty has changed. Point of view yes but the core of it is still Kitty. Think all 3 plus Mr T are just onion skin peelers while the core had always been the same. They are just mirrors giving you a reality check…a rather harsh one though. As the thinner outer layers are peeled, it just leave you with a stronger and more resilient layer.
Some recovers from a bad relationship by looking for a rebound. It works but very often, it is just a jump from one shit hole into another. I’ve got female friends that had made a habit of it. Some even took failed marriages to get the right message. They’re looking for anchors but more often than not, they picked the anchors that actually sinks them.
People that wears that heart on their sleeves make some of the best friends but also suffers the hardest knocks.
Stay true to your beliefs. You’ll get there.
Ups! (= agreed
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Originally Posted by
kittymae
Realistically, folks here are unlikely to be looking for something that last.
Despite how it seems,I’m just like every other gal with her own set of insecurities and confidence issues. Coupled with past experiences, I kinda doubt that even more.
The choices were either I wallow in self pity at things that have changed me, and that I do not have to power to change, or
I could leave it behind and try every day to find a reason to smile…that was kinda like a promise, I made to the 3rd…
frankly speaking sis
from my point of view , no guys can be that faithful as what written in fairy story or idol show
in my real life, all my gang fren tends to flirt times to times and covering each other, most of us are married at the moment but yet we still have the need to try more new sexual things, u knows, every gal have a unique feeling, that is wat make us unfaithful and sink into the darkness
Alright, actually I have been holding back myself from posting this post for quite some time for fear of hurting your feeling. But in the end, I decided that doing nothing would be worse.
Personally, I think in a way you are playing with fire, don’t get burned ok. First of all, in my opinion, it is never healthy to start off a relationship with sex. I think what you had with Mr. T is your sexual awakening.
A new ‘Toy’ is always fun to play with at the beginning. But how long can a relationship last if it feeds on lust and sex? 2 months? 6 months? What happen when the sparks has gone off? Is it going to be like going thru the motion after he has laid down all his skills and tricks?
What happen next? In the end of the day, are we going to see a kitten licking over a wounded heartache again? That would be back to square one again.
I know it is rude, but I sincerely and honestly dread where the day one said “I told you so” will come.
Life is like a marathon and not a race towards a checked flag. You are beautiful. Trust me when i said you are beautiful. To have three guys fallen in love with you must speak of something right. Eventually, your day will come, it’s just that the cupid arrow has not strike you yet.
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
wah long time no see you posting
very busy is it?
hahah. ya lor. miss me ah? i downgrade to silent reader ma. =X
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Originally Posted by
Iluminati
Alright, actually I have been holding back myself from posting this post for quite some time for fear of hurting your feeling. But in the end, I decided that doing nothing would be worse.
Personally, I think in a way you are playing with fire, don’t get burned ok. First of all, in my opinion, it is never healthy to start off a relationship with sex. I think what you had with Mr. T is your sexual awakening.
A new ‘Toy’ is always fun to play with at the beginning. But how long can a relationship last if it feeds on lust and sex? 2 months? 6 months? What happen when the sparks has gone off? Is it going to be like going thru the motion after he has laid down all his skills and tricks?
What happen next? In the end of the day, are we going to see a kitten licking over a wounded heartache again? That would be back to square one again.
I know it is rude, but I sincerely and honestly dread where the day one said “I told you so” will come.
Life is like a marathon and not a race towards a checked flag. You are beautiful. Trust me when i said you are beautiful. To have three guys fallen in love with you must speak of something right. Eventually, your day will come, it’s just that the cupid arrow has not strike you yet.
Hey, thanks for the warnings.. I do hear u.
Well, I’ve been ‘burned’ before so as to speak and am more cautious of putting myself entirely out there.
I doubt there is any sort of ‘relationship’ between myself & Mr T (or Mr Toy is u wish
) at least not in the way u may be thinking of. In any case, no one comes to this forum expecting anything committal or long-term. At least that I’m realistic enough, anything else would be a bonus.
Thanks for e compliments tho uve never actually seen this kitty…
If that day comes, it comes, I’m not holding out for sthg to happen anyway. If it does, it does… Hoping or expecting too much brings about greater disappointment.
Perhaps BernardFrosty got it somewhat right…these experience changed my POV on many things. Yet in another way I also exploring different facets of myself thru each of these experiences.
I may have to lick my wounds in future, hear all the ‘I told u so’, but at e least I took a chance- if nothing but to add my experiences in life.
But again, thanks for the well meaning words. I do appreciate when people don’t sugarcoat the truth or glaze over it…
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Originally Posted by
kittymae
Hey, thanks for the warnings.. I do hear u.
Well, I’ve been ‘burned’ before so as to speak and am more cautious of putting myself entirely out there.
I doubt there is any sort of ‘relationship’ between myself & Mr T (or Mr Toy is u wish
) at least not in the way u may be thinking of. In any case, no one comes to this forum expecting anything committal or long-term. At least that I’m realistic enough, anything else would be a bonus.
Thanks for e compliments tho uve never actually seen this kitty…
If that day comes, it comes, I’m not holding out for sthg to happen anyway. If it does, it does… Hoping or expecting too much brings about greater disappointment.
Perhaps BernardFrosty got it somewhat right…these experience changed my POV on many things. Yet in another way I also exploring different facets of myself thru each of these experiences.
I may have to lick my wounds in future, hear all the ‘I told u so’, but at e least I took a chance- if nothing but to add my experiences in life.
But again, thanks for the well meaning words. I do appreciate when people don’t sugarcoat the truth or glaze over it…
Would it be better if I say u do that somemore u will burn in hell?? Not sugarcoating right? Hahaha
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Originally Posted by
rubberduckygirl
hahah. ya lor. miss me ah? i downgrade to silent reader ma. =X
Ya lo mizzzzzz u so much haha when catch up? Extension open liao I bet u not familiar anymore although u hang around that place often once hahaha.
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Would it be better if I say u do that somemore u will burn in hell?? Not sugarcoating right? Hahaha
Well, if I look at it candidly, I won’t be the only one?!
Wait..exactly what did I do that warrants that in the first place..??
Ah right….ive out stayed my welcome, signing out.
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Originally Posted by
kittymae
Well, if I look at it candidly, I won’t be the only one?!
Wait..exactly what did I do that warrants that in the first place..??
Ah right….ive out stayed my welcome, signing out.
Haha pussy tat u will never never out stayed and is always welcome anyway. Kitty kitty….
Talking about that where the Dr…..and his dish LaLa haha his thread like got buried under must bump it up?
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Haha pussy tat u will never never out stayed and is always welcome anyway. Kitty kitty….
Talking about that where the Dr…..and his dish LaLa haha his thread like got buried under must bump it up?
I outstay my stay on my thread, so go stay on others threads lo!