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Originally Posted by
Sen5eS
But for the well-being of your mental/physical health and having to explain to your child how they got here in the 1st place would be a challenge. You can live with it, but can the “non-existant-father” or child be able to?
Exactly, I agree with Bro S here. If you choose to go down this road, you are robbing the child of a perfect childhood. Remember the child is innocent here. The situation would be different here if you were a divorcee. At least the child has someone who he/she can comfortably called papa.
Who should the child called papa? How would he/she feel during Parent & Teacher day to see other children having papa around while he/she don’t?
I know it’s not a big deal nowadays for a single parent to be raising up the kids. If it’s a girl, lucky you, at least she can look up to you for fashion and barbie doll. What if it’s a boy? Can he relate to you for computer games and sports?
Just putting things in perspective. Pardon me for my blunt approach.
Life ain’t “Gilmore Girls”
Queenie: 在这网站遇上的往往是「性」而不是「爱」。 这点我非常清楚。但若谈得来，做个朋友何尝不是件好事？ 「爱」从未在我脑海里浮现。
感谢您的鼓励，和长日以来的支持。
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Originally Posted by
Rickey
Thx u too for ur exciting stories, esp the last instalment, kitty
…sad to hear its the last
…do come back n tell us more if u hv…meantime, take care n all the best to u for the future
Thanks for sticking thru since day 1!
There was more with T.. More things we attempted
but I neglected to include as I wasn’t sure of the sequence. Chose authenticity over the thrill i guess.
I too hope here will be updates, esp with T.. He’s the best thus far & I enjoyed every moment with him
But that’s really not up to me to decide..(not about the sex either- we both agreed it was good)
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Wow Mr T with big tool hmmm that is that ? Duhz well do update if happen there is Mr S or Mr D or Mr alphabet……
Roll roll roll your boat roll into the sea merries merries merries…….
T = Tool? Lols
Keep guessing…I prefer to stick to just Mr T … For now
If possible
Right… I better nip this in the bud
Bro S-> ur fault here..
Both T & I are responsible enough. My comment was merely to respond to Bro s remark. While precautions are taken (in this case it was really at the end of my period & I’m actually on e pill as well), if accidents happen, I won’t cry and blame anyone, but rather take on that responsibility. That life isn’t mine to take (if it happens).
Thanks for all the kind concern and comments, I really appreciate it.
And it’s comforting to know that there are bros out there who take this really seriously… Ever thought being ambassadors for safe sex? Heheh
And I am NOT baking any buns!!!
Bro S… U better clear this up :/
Aside: illuminati bro… I actually do play some computer games.. And I do play some sports actually.. And believe it or not, I do know the offside rule and not watch soccer to oogle at the players… Haha…
I ain’t exactly ur typical girl girl..
my Bad … ignore all my posts
… I was the irresponsible one
Just means that accidents can happen (whether your period is ending or you’re pill free week) so take precautions.
I did not imply that you are desperately seeking a bun in the oven …
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Originally Posted by
rubberduckygirl
when i read your story, there somehow a sense of familiarity.
who i am today… indeed was changed by my past few failed relationships.
everytime i try to crawl and learn to stand, i just fall all over again.
probably a decade ago.. when im still in poly i would have thought likewise - to save it up for marriage. afterall its a sacred thing. but hell, midway thru university, i lost it. due to some reasons, we broke up.. then i got together with another guy.. and 3 months later, i got dumped. till date i dont know whats the reason, and neither am i keen to know. cos deep down in my heart, i know. he’s probably looking for gratification.. of sorts. and i happen to share the same wavelength as him.
once bitten, twice shy. as much as i wanted to look for someone to love again. a part of me is also afraid that guys these days just wanted to a hole to unload their ammo in and not looking for commitments. its just saddening to know once guys get past the pleasantries stage, they would ask for more, e.g. kiss and hug (nothing harmless right) and then before you know it, their hands would wander around, and you know whats gonna happen next.
my fwb is one i met online. and right from the beginning, he was outright about his status. he obviously couldnt offer me things that other guys could - like going for movies, going on dinner dates etc. but things were a lot better as we progress, and i gotta admit there were a lot of times i wanted him to be mine only. but i know i couldnt. i had to get tough sometimes to remind him theres someone else who needs you more than i do. sometimes i get to see him only once a week if im lucky. or when im not i might only get a glimpse of him once a month.
so kittymae, jiayou. one day you will meet someone who can make you forget that you were once hurt before. =)
wah long time no see you posting
very busy is it?
Bro S.. U sure have a way of doing things.. Adding ur own touch.. Haha
But nonetheless I really appreciate all the well meant advices and wishes.
No more updates at the moment really and I doubt for a whole.. So…
Time for me to bug all my fav writers again!
Thanks rubberducky babe for sharing ur POV
I admire ur tenacity to carry on wat u have even though u don’t get to meet him regularly.. But sometimes… These things happen.. I can understand in a way
Enjoy the moments!
Minor Live Update
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The short story with T is, he felt rather conscious of how shagged out after our sessions and was really making excuses to me for a timeout to get his stamina back in line. He has this need to constantly feed his alter-ego as a gift to sex-starved women. Haha
Of cos, the above paragraph is far from the truth… And I ain’t good at fiction..
What really is..?
The problem with T was he was at some sort of ‘mid-life crisis’ and need to sort things out. It wouldn’t be fair for me to, even as a friend to get embroiled in all that, so elected to put a stop to our sleeping together, and also any chances of being proper friends
Hearing his explanation out things in perspective for me. I myself faced similar situations so could understand Where T was coming from.
I thanked T for his honesty, and respect his decision. So we aren’t gonna continue slpg together. Well, for now. We’ll see about the future- im still not sure i can get used to anything less than him…. Lols
Things are gladly back to how they were before. I’m glad we had e chance to meet and work our arrangement out.
Of cos me being me, I couldn’t help to pose some temptation to T, testing his resolve to ’take me’ , in public, no less- earning a grope on my right breast and some caresses
And believe me, T surely gd some freaky mind power… Cos his lower body was reacting- verified by yours truly.
I enjoyed the times with T tho. Even if we don’t continue slpg together, i still have good memories… And of his weak spots.. Lols
And if we do, I need bath tub.
It’s an unfulfilled item on the ’to do’ list.
Thanks for all e concern, well wishes from all. people say online can be a cold world… But I think u all (u know who u are), have proven otherwise
Sex in a Jacuzzi would be more spacious plus the water jets might be useful as well
& Don’t forget the candles/aroma-oils/chocolate/wine/chill-out-tunes ..
hahaha once you go BLACK … you never go Back
Been reading this thread for a while. Kitty and all the resident readers who made this lively and intriguing. There had been various conjuncture that I had wanted to jump in and post some words of my own. I am glad that I had held off till the end .
I really liked how it’s someone writing and laying it bare for all to see. It’s not the erotism but the brutal honesty that has drawn me. While sex is physical and a primeval instinct. I think it is the mind that differentiate us from animals. Dolphins are the only known living thing other than human beings that copulates for sheer pleasure. Dolphins are intelligent beings and I firmly believe that it solicits emotional gratification other than sheer physical release.
I’ve digress to that of a marine biologist.
I tend to disagree with the title of this thread “The 3 that changed me”, Lol. I don’t think Kitty has changed. Point of view yes but the core of it is still Kitty. Think all 3 plus Mr T are just onion skin peelers while the core had always been the same. They are just mirrors giving you a reality check…a rather harsh one though. As the thinner outer layers are peeled, it just leave you with a stronger and more resilient layer.
Some recovers from a bad relationship by looking for a rebound. It works but very often, it is just a jump from one shit hole into another. I’ve got female friends that had made a habit of it. Some even took failed marriages to get the right message. They’re looking for anchors but more often than not, they picked the anchors that actually sinks them.
People that wears that heart on their sleeves make some of the best friends but also suffers the hardest knocks.
Stay true to your beliefs. You’ll get there.