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BiRd13
Which is why I’m asking depending on what you want find/look for from the beginning. Is it just a friend, which can lead into marriage? Or a Fuck Buddy, that satisfy one needs, and probably one that can confide in, be it inside or outside.
If searching for a friend which can lead to relationship or marriage, of course chemistry counts, or like you said, same wavelength. However again, to have one who have 100% similar ‘wavelength’ as you, it’s really difficult. There’s sure bound to have differs in between. Again, depending on what your basic requirement is. (Like you mentioned, financially stable and able to give you income sense of security, dote on you, is what you require) I believe many of the bros here can do that =)
Again, if searching for FB, why care about chemistry or same wavelength? Importantly is the comfortability in between, and good in bed… No?
Hmmm…. Yes I do agree most of them here can but definitely not for me I would say… Lol… Yes for satisfying each other’s needs only looking for comfort level and bedminton skills
Well, just heck care that person… Perhaps he’s jealous that can’t get hold of you? Hence say those bo liao stuff?
Thanks for comforting me… Hugs
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BiRd13
I will prefer real hugs though… haha…
And you are most welcome… I’m just sharing my thoughts
Real hugs? Hmmm… Come find me I’ll give you the real hugs then…
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AmeShin
Only no8
Anyway if its for serious relationship many factors contribute to attraction
Imo,
Sometimes confident gals are attractive, but not to the extent of arrogance
Some find cute gals who need someone to depend on or take care attractive as they feel like protecting them
While some prefer gals who.are.mature and take care of their partners more attractive instead
Whether or not a gal is attractive , other than looks, it still also depend on what traits the guy has. That may attract him or compensate.and balance the opposite or negative traits he has.
Thus attraction also depend on personality if its for relationship wise. Else for fb most likely physically factors are counted for attraction
For otherwise relationships such as friends with benefits, must see physical attractive or not? All this while, I thought its just the comfort level isn’t it? Confused again…
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AmeShin
Well u may be correct for fb comfort level will do
But think deeper
In order to be comfortable obviously he or she need not be super attractive type but yet also cannot be ugly or zzzzz type ma
So a minimum certain degree of attraction must be there also right?
unless this includes the exception of guys who can engage into it as long as a lady, gal engage into fb as long as he is a guy.
Rare ma
Note also many has also conclude that for guys its easier for them to engage into ons as long as they find the gal attractive
Sadly for gals when they into ons they still have higher emotional needs than of man.this may explain why its so much easier hooking up guys than gals.
( again this statement dont apply to all , as some guys also have high emotional needs while some gals also have high urges and desires)
Why not you tell me what’s your stand in which type of women attracts men in terms of being in a BGR and friends with benefits? Maybe it will make me understand this situation more?