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understands who they are to you and not clingy to you
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understands who they are to you but very clingy to you
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a lady who’s purely out for fun but expects you to treats her like a princess and expects loads of gifts and attention from you
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a lady who’s purely out for fun but not expecting anything from you
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a lady who pretends to be out for fun but expect you to be in a relationship with her
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a lady who pretends to be out for fun but like to 吊你胃口?
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a lady who pretends to be neutral but in fact she’s expecting something to happen
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a lady who is neutral ( in sense that if it happens it a bonus and if it doesn’t just another new friend found)
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a childish lady who pretends to be very mature
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a mature lady who behave childishly
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Originally Posted by
vin2324
No lah my drinking not powerful leh.
If u say dancing maybe…..
Hmmm…. Ok like that I know already…
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Originally Posted by
Yuppie132
Lol… I like ALL girls! I always feel girls are to be treasured regardless of looks, weight and behavior.
I do agree with what you said but sometimes some ladies just like to take guys for granted isn’t it? Does it mean that you will also treat her nicely? I mean be fair isn’t it? If you don’t like to be taken for grant same goes to others. Why must you take people for granted?
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Originally Posted by
BiRd13
That depend on what the guy is looking for. A friendship? A relationship? Or a FB?
Different man have different motive when looking for a girl, even if its in a sex forum.U
I’m sure there’s many bros out there who’s not just looking for sex, but probably a friend, or one who can talk to freely without any hesitation. Of course, sex is secondary and a bonus if it happen for such bro.
For some, they are mainly looking for FB… Well, this is a sex forum, so there’s nothing wrong against it. It takes two hands to clap… And I remembered a saying from a good friend of mine… It need guys’ sperm and girls’ egg to produce a baby
For me, probably a combination of both will be great. Not only just for sex, but one who can chat freely with, and keeping each other companion and do when needed
I will choose No. 1 or No. 4… For No.1, she’s definitely more suitable in such role, as she’s one who’s understand you, but know that you are attach/married, and hence not clingy to you.
For No.4, probably someone who’s just out for fun/sex, and one who enjoy happiness without worrying or demand anything in return
Well, like you said depends on what both parties are looking for. Most men would like a lady who is sensible enough to know what they want right?
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Originally Posted by
nightscreamer
Like I stated in the topic above, I’m seriously curious on what kind of ladies attract guys.
I need some enlightenment as I’m really curious. This has been a topic between some of my friends and myself. I suppose this is a correct place to get some clues since I’m in a sex forum and most guys here are experience enough to have dealt with what I’ve mentioned. Please help me in getting some conclusion
Thanks and huggies
First of all need to check with you, these point is before or after u have koe the gal or nt, coz if is b4 u koe them then all the above points u have mention cant b consider at all.
For me if is the first time i got to koe tis gal then i would first impression, hw she talk and the way she carry herself is very impt. She can dun b pretty or with the most ideal weight but if she can carry herself well and able to hold a conversation intelligently then she will attract me but bottom would still b the first impression bah.
As for gf material point 2 & 10 r some of the points which i would like my gf to b. But clingly is nt like kolar bear hugging u and follow u everywhere u go, clingy to me will b the 2 of us try to do things together and shower each other with attention every now and then time allow. Well think most guys would want their gf to b mature and yet at the same time who will 撒娇 once in awhile.
Think most ppl have their own 女神 material in their POV, these points u have mention r just some part of it and i believe there r still lot more with funny or weird points. So is quite hard to determine bah. Well u want to matchmate for me ar?
Hahaha….when did u become 非常勿扰 wor?
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Originally Posted by
SA23
First of all need to check with you, these point is before or after u have koe the gal or nt, coz if is b4 u koe them then all the above points u have mention cant b consider at all.
For me if is the first time i got to koe tis gal then i would first impression, hw she talk and the way she carry herself is very impt. She can dun b pretty or with the most ideal weight but if she can carry herself well and able to hold a conversation intelligently then she will attract me but bottom would still b the first impression bah.
As for gf material point 2 & 10 r some of the points which i would like my gf to b. But clingly is nt like kolar bear hugging u and follow u everywhere u go, clingy to me will b the 2 of us try to do things together and shower each other with attention every now and then time allow. Well think most guys would want their gf to b mature and yet at the same time who will 撒娇 once in awhile.
Think most ppl have their own 女神 material in their POV, these points u have mention r just some part of it and i believe there r still lot more with funny or weird points. So is quite hard to determine bah. Well u want to matchmate for me ar?
Hahaha….when did u become 非常勿扰 wor?
Matchmake for you??? OMFG!!!! Your expectations so high, later matchmake already you start to complaint then how?? Better not…
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Originally Posted by
vin2324
The above 2 points is wat I thk will attract me
, btw my own motto is to make everyone happy, we can sing & dance & tcss the nite away…
Ya….so long as u got the chance to sing, dance and drink u b happy liao. Simple person tat’s y i like to hang out wif u
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Originally Posted by
nightscreamer
I know what kind of my girlfriends can ask come out to sing with you already.. Keke… 1 important point, must be as powerful as you when comes drinking… Lol
Cannot he is taken liao lei hahaha….
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Originally Posted by
Yuppie132
Lol… I like ALL girls! I always feel girls are to be treasured regardless of looks, weight and behavior.
Sounds funny the word u phase it but i strongly agree wif the looks and weight part but nt the behaviour
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Originally Posted by
nightscreamer
Matchmake for you??? OMFG!!!! Your expectations so high, later matchmake already you start to complaint then how?? Better not…
Chey…u make me happy for a second i thou i can have my 第三春 liao.
Dun worry my expectation is nt high de, look look see see at gal can b high but gf material wont b high, if standard too high she run away then worse rite. hahahah
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Originally Posted by
vin2324
Who had taken me
I want my 第二春leh…
Too many people want you till you don’t know who? Lol…. Both you and SA23 really can make my day…. Great jokers… Keke….
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Originally Posted by
BiRd13
Haha…thanks bro
No. I doubt so… Think man prefer ladies not that ‘sensible’ over sensible
And many of the times, the lady don’t know what she want. Or probably don’t dare to say it out what they want… Or find way in saying it…
Example: A guy bought a bouquet of flower for his gf during her birthday. What will the girl say? Most likely she will say ‘Aiyo..Why waste money? Might as well save the money up and can go holiday or buy some other materialistic stuff…’ But in the heart, they are damn happy to receive the flower…
So well, many of times, girl don’t do what they think/feel…
Meaning to say they prefer girls who are 口是心非?? Don’t you think this is a bit too fake?
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Originally Posted by
owl888
I would choose 2) understands who they are to you but very clingy to you
Coz she understands my needs, clingy coz she will love her bf
Being too clingy don’t irk you?
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Originally Posted by
Coffeecans
Guess my answer would be I like you for what and who you are.
Doesn’t matter which category or type you belong to.
Though I would like gals who are more initiated.
Guess I’ll be the most boring guy to be with. :P
Not boring lah…. Maybe you are those 被动性 lah. Not all guys would like girls to be 主动性 also.
Lady being too 主动 guys would think otherwise isn’t it??
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Well if the guy do think otherwise than too bad for him. Which is always the case it will end up with either nothin happen or it happen but wouldn’t be enjoyable time.
Haha I wouldn’t mind the gal I meet being 主动 what is that word they always use oh ya “spontaneous” did I spell it right. It make breaking the ice easier.
Not necessary what. 被动性 ladies can be wild at times too…
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Originally Posted by
SA23
Tis is not call口是心非and not fake, it’s actually call 口不对心and女人心海底深.
Tis is a gd example of口不对心coz if ur bf or gf dun bother to call or ask abt our well being, we will start to complain and make noise and if they start being clingy then we will start to complain also for not giving us enough breathing space. So clingy is gd but not overboard hw much is over depends on individual.
Too much of this 口不对心 & 女人心海底针 at times really can make a person 哭笑不得.
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Originally Posted by
scentbug
Different guys of different ages look for different things. There’s no one size fits all but in general, at least for me, prefer non pretentious behavior in a relationship be it GF/NSA/FB. Just come clean with everything so no surprises no disappointments.
I agree totally…. Honesty is the best policy!!!
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Originally Posted by
singlicious
for me would be,
Hmmm…. I would say all differs lor… Nice to hear all your comments..