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asdfghjkl
and once again.. i am humbled by mdx greatness.. even if Confucius were to walk the earth again, delivering his supremely authoritative and grand teachings, he could not have surpassed the manner in which mdx did..
Bro,
Thanks for your compliments…
I am nothing compared to Confucius and Buddha….
Maybe I am just an underage “boy” talking nonsense…
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asdfghjkl
sounds funny ler.. u really ah
Of course not lah… If not, I think a lot of bros won’t listen to my advices already… Okay lah… I think we don’t TCSS here… Don’t spoil the “serious” mood…
Well… Guess all these advices are frm guys… So might wanna seek a gal’s opinion…. Erm…… Think 1st thing 1st… Is ur wife’s ex her 1st love??
Usually 1st love are hard to forget…. So that’s why she might still continue stay in continue with her ex…. But… If she is fully aware of what is her status?? Like she is married for 2 yrs?? Well…. 30 sms with sexual contents in them….. Erm…. My friend… It’ll depend on how open she is??
If for me… I won’t lor… Occassional flirtin is fun jus to spice up life a little… Though I’m not married… But I’m fully awared that I’m attached so there is a need to consider the feeling of my partner… So… I’ll avoid all situations that can cause any misunderstandin…. So ur wife left her HP openly and without deletin the messages… Don’t know she forgets or she’s careless… If she wanna give u to wear green hat… She’ll b very careful on coverin her tracks….. She could left that kinda stuff ard to do some testin?? Ke ke… Like I will go out with a guy friend… But onli told bf that I go out with friend (not emphaisin what gender)… So when he suspect sometin… He’ll ask and I jus tell him e truth… Though he’ll get jealous & I suffer the effect of the testin… But it’s worth it cause I know I’m in an impt position in his heart…
Another reason could be that she’s very open… Onli can sms but no action… Jus like some cybersex online…. Ppl can go online tc but no action… Jus to have a kick…… But must know when to stop otherwise become addiction….
So oli u know the character of ur wife…. So best advice… Stay cool.. Be alert… As and when throw hints like tc sayin ur friend nowadays like to sms to some stranger gals to have sms sex or issue on wifes givin green hats to their husbands etc.. See how’s her reaction?? Surely will have that kinda gulity look on her face if she’s really actin bad behind ur back….
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DingDongBell
In case I am busy… here is the solution
Once all the fact in hand that she is cheating you… from this point onwards there are two things you should be clear.
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First, do you still love her, forgive her and want her back.
Second, if no, then divorce her, quick and simple.
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If you want her back, then a bit difficult. But not impossible. Locate the ex-boyfriend parent address and hire somebody to beat up one of the parents. At the same time, telling the parents what their son had done, destroying people family and letting you wear green hat. And you give a warning, if the whole affair doesn’t stop, ask them to buy their casket first. If this comes to police affair, you always claim that you doesn’t know anything and you were somewhere else.
If the boyfriend are smart, he will leave you alone and your wife dare not confront you because she has done something bad behind your back. Remember, If your wife confront you, you should shown her what you have on your hand and threaten to expose her to her parents. Remember, change your will so that if you got anything happen you, everything will go to your parents or children and not a cents goes to her.
“It is the parents fault if the son are not taught manners.”
Interesting advise….if i may comment my opinion on your advise to him:
given the fact things did went haywire with her ex….problems lies in you on not just that guy…..secondly what has the relationship got to do with the parents. remember, you can hire to whack somemone, police can also trace the incident. More so in Sillypore.
Like you quoted…..it’s the parents fault if their son are not taught manners.
quote this to your advise……your parents must have brought you up as a hooligan.
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DingDongBell
Locate the ex-boyfriend parent address and hire somebody to beat up one of the parents.
There r little option n i think most of them r oredi listed. But bro r u serious abt tis beating up of old folk?? U can talk 2 them but not physically BEAT them up rite?? Hope tis a typo….
Hi Mango,
I think most of the people here have been giving you pretty sound advices. If i may i would like to share with you a little about trust and understanding.
I sms and talk alot with my ex-gf who is already happily married with children. We can talk anything from work to intimate feelings with havee for each other to the extend that we could actually go to bed.
However there’s already a strong bonding in the relationship that physical contact would not have happened as compared to when we were a couple. Some have told you that there are things hard to tell their bf or husband and it’s true. For example that they have sex that finish as fast as it started. How to tell hubby. We can say nothing should hide (I agree) but man has this ego that will over-rule the openness for discussion.
Just repeat what some had said. Do try to open a conversation with her. For example asking her if she contact her ex or not and that she should tell you if she has so as not to have any misunderstanding. It helps well in my ex case.
Cheers
One more thing.
Okay, if I am going to talk to her, what should I expect from her? Ask not to do it again? Not contact her ex? Of course, I wanna her belong to me. If she become smarter and start to delete those SMS or start using email instead of phone, then i will never find out she has do what she promise. You know, the trust is gone. Luckily she never write dairy, else i am very sure i will read it.
The situation is like your wife caught you fucking outside gals, she has a big problem to trust you again. Now it is me to has this problem, although she is yet to have sex to her ex, but i do feel the same.
I want her back, I wanna save our marrige. so when i talk to her, what really should I expecting from her?