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There is still quite a section to go before the matter surface
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I am a little uneasy how to put it, there are something that is still nail to my heart that I find it difficult to unroot.
I inform my mother about May’s mother arrival during dinner. She asked me to book the restaurant and plan for the event and timing.
I spend some time with my parents in the living room, as I have not been home lately. I don’t want them to feel as they have lost their son to soon to be daughter-in-law.
My mother somehow knew about my intention, she said that it is not necessary. but was pleased of my consideration. My mom than suggested visiting May with me. So we left for May’s aunt place shortly. I sms ahead informing May.
May was a little awkward that my mom came to visit her, she told my mother it is not necessary for the elder to visit the junior. She apologized for not been to our house lately.
May’s aunt and my mother exchange some pleasantries and discuss of ways to help improve and strengthen May’s injured legs, both pulling secret recipe from their magical sack.
May’s cousin join in their discussion ……. I don’t believe that.
After an hour or so, I drove my mom back home, and spending the rest of the night with May on MSN.
The next few day passes by, with me visiting May before and after work. and soon it was Saturday. The day, my soon to be mother-in-law arrives.
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Clockwork picking up my soon to be MIL.
May was with me and her aunt in the welcome committee. Her mom travel very light. A cabin bag and a hand carry is all she had with her. In less than 30 minutes, we were on our way back home.
As it was a late flight, we went to the aunt’s home. Mary’s mother was almost in tears seeing her precious daughter in the state. She makes me promise to take good care of May from now on.
I left them to bond and left after some small talk with May. I, after all is still consider an outsider + a guy. Lucky May’s cousin wasn’t at home, otherwise they would have form a market.
Both our families arranged to meet for lunch. Mary’s uncle tried to excuse himself, but was asked to join in as there isn’t a male rep from their side. (Tell u guys later why May’s father not appear till date).
I guess this is a typical get to know the in-law session. The talks are damn typical, I guess. Too many pleasantries and compliments. Both side praising the others. Hmmmmmm, but somehow May and I felt as if we are being roll onto the execution table, parents from both side demanded grandson ASAP.
Jason and Jasmine was there, because they were the “Mui Por”(Cantonese). They were the happiest, because not only they get to eat for free, they receive 2 big red packet from parents of both side.
We can only keep quiet, after all, although we are the ones behind the show, with real control, but we feel powerless. But since we are not objecting to this, we just make our own small talk. The engagement ring was collected by me on Saturday afternoon. The lunch was also an acknowledgment to our formal engagement. I happily put on the ring on May’s slim hands.
With the engagement out of the way, we were to proceed to ICA to apply for approval for visitor with student VISA to get married to a Singaporean. But due to the leg injury, we will have to postpone a little. The traditional Chinese Wedding is set to sometime in March next year, after consulting some geomancer.
Nothing much happen throughout May’s mother sty in Singapore, except for my mom invited her over for a house dinner. My MIL did not stayed long, she has only plan for a 5D4N stay. But, by the time she returns, instead of a cabin bag, she has now a large check in bag. Feel with local delicacy, namely Ba Kwan, Bah Kut Teh spices, durian/ coconut candies and some other souvenirs.
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Ahem …….
I m not stalking you, but …… （Cough! cough!）
U know what I mean hor! Before I start singing this at your thread
Someone taking a long vacation
Another insomnia night.
My thought drifted back to all the times we spend together. We had out little arguments, but nothing last more than a day. We are so sure that our love will burn forever. I pull out her photo and gazed deeply. There still traces of heartache.
Maybe it was the double Espressor I had after dinner. The body is tired, but the brain is still running. But what I wish to say is It is difficult to continue the story ….
So if without much objection, I would like to fictionalize the ending and end this ASAP.
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Yes, every time in my shower, when I am driving …..
Thank you for all your support and for those bro and sis that has upzz me point. To some bro and sis that has requested I hurry up and asking what has happen to us that cause the split. The reason why I have not share this is because:
But there isn’t a matter of third party or problem between us. Sorry, I will let it out when I am ready.
Meanwhile just treat this as another piece of story. If you find the pace too slow, I apologize.
(PS for those that has not yet starting to pen down their story, will not understand how difficult it is. Sis Kitty has just realize the problem now. Meowwwwwwww)
Who so ever disapprove of this particular post, please PM me. I would like to know how this offended you. You did not put down the reason and your name.
Nothing much happen for the next few months. I take charge of looking after May medical appointment and out door activities. We rented a wheel chair from the hospital.
Every week end we will go out together and spend quality time together. As I mention earlier out relationship grew. May was not willing to wear the engagement ring when she goes out, since she still has mobility problem. So she will put it in a necklace and wears it under her conservative clothing. Once we were frantically searching for the ring that we though she has misplace when we were outside, only to remember later it was on her necklace.
She shared many of her past with me, and so did I. We decided that honestly of our past is good for the relationship (I left out many of my sexual encounters). We understand and acknowledge our past has made us whom we are today, that we are currently so attracted to.
I persuade May to spend he weekends at my house. Her aunt did not disapprove of this, especially, we Re set to get married next year. We tone down on the sex parts, due to her cast as well as we want to explore more after marriage. Most of the time, we satisfy each other tru oral or hand job.
Her fractured leg was healing nicely. Her cast was removed after nearly 10 weeks. The doctor was pleased with the healing.
ICA has informed us that our application has been approved. But May would have to surrender her student visa. She also would have to return home and for me to apply for a standard social visit pass. I will be able to apply for a long term dependent pass after the marriage.
We make plan to go for a short trip in HK. After that she will return toner home and get ready for marriage. I will return to Singapore after the short trip and apply for May social visit pass.
I pre-made the air ticket and hotel arrangement. We also make plans to go to HK Disneyland, and some of the remote island. May has quite a few many friends in Hong Kong. This will be what we refer as our pre honeymoon. Will be a 5D4N vacation.
Out of the 4 night stay in Eaton Hotel, 3 nite is free from my Asia-Miles point redemption. So we practically only paid for the air ticket.
May returns to school to make up for lesson during her MEdical Leave, but she will not be able to complete her course. But one good thing is that, if I can apply for her PR soon, her school fees will be much lesser. And her paper works to teach in the Academy will be much reduced.
We planned everything nicely. We agreed that if she is not able to conceive naturally after 2 years after marriage, we will go look for fertility clinic. We love kids, and so s the pressure from our parents. We also decided that we will ROM first than decide on the traditional Chinese ceremony later.
We were very happy with things so far.
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Yah..
But it also help him to move on la.. aiyoo..
Telling the story should start the receovery and moving on
But part of me deep down, is still unwilling to let go, that’s the problem.
I will try to relate to the story as truthful and as much as possible. But till this date, some things happen in that particular manner, is till mysterious. I do not want to write the wrong thing that will lead to readers mis-interpreting the event.
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Unker..
Please do let go..
I know its hard for u to do that..
But u should.
Gosh.
I really cannot imagine what happened when she left u.
Hopefully its not on ur wedding day..
Laugh Out Loud
It is not that bad lah, but just want a small part of what we used to share.
No pop corn or coke allow here
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Let me have a guess here…don’t tell me is something to do with her either parent’s business that she was forced to leave u and enter into a commercial marriage to expand the family business?
Still I support ur story be it true or fiction (but I still prefer a true account)
Good guess. That would be almost be the fictional ending.
But no, it’s not what that happens.