Need advice on date with tai tai


    Chapter #11

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    Originally Posted by

    Peter_North

    If you perform well in the hotel room during the first night, the second time you will be driving a new 350Z or RX8 liao.

    i like this the best! hehehehe.. care to enlighten me the two models above is which brand car ah.. me gong gong one..

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    Chapter #12

    YO! bro asdfghjkl,

    U flatter me brother.

    Thanx for your comments.

    Its nice to meet U here after so long…U were the first senior samster who welcomed me into this forum.Thank You once again.

    GONG XI FA CAI

    Mister911targa

    Post #14
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    Chapter #13

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    Originally Posted by

    asdfghjkl

    i like this the best! hehehehe.. care to enlighten me the two models above is which brand car ah.. me gong gong one..

    350Z is the Nissan Fairlady Sports Car lah. The RX8 is the ferocious looking Mazda RX series.

    Post #15
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    Chapter #14

    Thanks to the all the Bros who gave their wise opinions !

    I woke up this morning and I am really impressed and grateful with all you guys.

    As Bro Diesel said a “dinner means nothing”. I might only play the role of a social companion to this tai tai and end of the story. Anyway, I am also kiasu now that this tai tai mentioned to me about her husband briefly. As Bro Mister911targa mentioned my body could end up dumped in Sungei Buloh or MacRitchie Reservoir in the middle of the night if her old man is the jealous and vengeful type. In principle I will NOT take the lead or make any moves. This lady is just too high clas and any wrong move or comment from my part can spoil the whole thing. I will just let things flow naturally, not presuring myself or her (if I go with the mindset that I have to score that night I’ll be under extreme prressure). Moreover, I believe and should be confident that IF this tai tai really WANTS me I should let her take the initiative, therefore, she can never blame me for seducing her.

    As one Bro, suggested, I will tell this Tai Tai about my car and if she’s fine with that. Let’s see what happens.

    I am not with lady for the money. It’s not the first time I have a had a relationship with older women, I have had on at leats 4 or 5 occasions. I would say it is for the thrills of being with a mature woman. On two previous occasions I have had relationships with women 20 years older than me !!! Mature women, will treat a younger guy with some much care. They make you feel like YOU are their MAN. They please you sexually and pamper you like a puppy (I am talking in the sentimental sense not $ sense). One even offered me anal, even though she was 49 years old and had never done it in her life. She would beg me to lick her pussy and bite her nipples.

    This tai tai (focus of the story) looks quite OK for her age, and her looks are so classy, she stands out from a coffee shop auntie. Even the way she speaks is so high class, she speaks in perfect British Council English grammar, she will not use Singlish at all, she even claims she cannot speak Mandarin because she is English educated and lived in England.

    As I said Bros, I thank you all for your words of wisdom. I will post a report on my date, but as I said Bros, maybe it just turns out to be a friendly date where I acted as a male companion and that’s the end of the story.

    Bye Bros !

    Thanks !!!

    Post #18
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    Chapter #15

    Thanks Bros !

    I contacted the tai tai today through e-mail before my lunch break and humbly explained about my car being old and not luxurious and it was the only thing I had, and if it was acceptable to her or else she could give me a ride in hers. I apologized for the inconvenience.

    After my lunch break I logged into my computer and alamat, she send me an e-mail saying I can leave my car at her condo and go in hers.

    What do you guys think ? Her prompt reply shows that she must be a bored housewife logged to the internet and who has nothing to do at home, or maybe she likes me ???

    Post #25
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    Chapter #16

    Hi Bros !

    Thanks for your advice.

    It’s true, as the old birds say in this thread advise. It is better to go the dinner with a cool head and with no expectations or mental stress. Just let things flow naturally. If we ‘click" good, if we don’t it was just a nice dinner at a nice hotel.

    Will keep you guys posted with a FR in a few days.

    Bye !

    Post #33
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    Chapter #17

    I agree with you Bro Castrol !

    Many years ago I met in a club a 49 year old Filipina. She was sitting all alone at the bar and nobody approached her. I had the guts and went up to her to strike a conversation and tok cok. We had a drink and she was flattered that I took interest in her.

    Nothing happened that night, we just exchanged phones. Two days later she called me and invited me for coffee. We talked cok again and she told me her husband was an old Ang Moh expatriate, working for a foreign company, who was sexually impotent on the brink of retirement who had no interest in her and who had no sexual life with her, and her husband was often outside of Singapore on business. Nothing happened that afternoon, but I noticed she liked me by the way she talked to me and smiled at me, it was very flirtatious. When we walked to say goodbye, I was going to shake hands with her, and she actually grabbed by my arm and pulled me towards her and kissed me on the cheek a goodbye kiss. That I knew was a signal she liked me.

    Next day, she called me again, and told me she was inviting me to the cinema. I accepted. While watching the movie, after 5 minutes, she started putting the popcorn in my mouth. When I did the same, she sucked my fingers as simulating a blowjob. Somehow we started french kissing, she was so steamed that she made introduce my hand inside her blouse and made me touch her tits inside the movie theatre and then I lost control and guided her handed towards my dick. We just coudn’t take it anymore and headed to a transit hotel.

    That was the beginning of our affair. It lasted about 4 months. With that lady I had raw sex, and I “had’ to give her 2 shots every time we met. She would command me to lick her pussy and bite her nipples. I was putty in her hands. I was like her sex slave but I loved it, had some of the best sex of my life with her. As Bro Castrol says, these ladies don’t care about money. This lady also told me the same. She does not need money at all because her husband provides for all her expenses, she can shop where she wants in Orchard Road malls, what she needs is company, because her husband completely ignores her and does not give her sex.

    I had the same experience many years ago. I dated an attractive 42 year old divorced lady. Similar story. She was depressed because her husband had dumped her for another woman, and all the dates after her divorce she had were with arrogant and materialistic bastards. So, when we dated we clicked, we shared similar tastes, etc, and our dates were fun, she knew I was in the relationship for her ( I truly liked this mature woman and had feelings for her), not for the money. These mature women don’t care about your status or bank account, they just want company. Furthermore, they will sometimes take the initiative for you to make love to them, not like young girls who you soemtimes have to beg to have sex with them.

    I never date women, be them young or mature for $. I do it for the thrill of the affair. So Bros, who think I am going out with this tai tai for money, please don’t get me wrong. Thanks.

    Bye !

    Post #36
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    Chapter #18

    Hi Bros !

    Here is my FR for my date with the tai tai. Bros, sorry but there’s nothing kinky or steamy in my report.

    As one bro pedicted, nothing happened.

    Here is my FR :

    Yesterday before lunch time, the tai tai calls me and she tells me her friend who could originally not go to the dinner function, had decided now to go. Kanna ! So now, it would not really be a date. I know some guys are thinking about a threesome, but come on lah ! Now it was her friend who would drive us to the hotel.

    OK, I went to the tai tai’s place at 6:30pm, as agreed. I went up to her flat and had a drink. I complimented her on her dress and told her she had a nice place. Five minutes later her friend showed up. Soon afterwards we left towards the function. The function was very classy and there were many tao kays and VIPs. The tai tai introduced to many people. I was with her all the time and followed her lead, I felt a bit like a toyboy, and was a bit paiseh people might think I am her loverboy, becuase the age gap between us is quite significant (almost 20 years I think). There was a moment during the dinner function when I was alone for a few minutes and as I was picking up a drink, an OK looking late 20s or early 30s northern Indian lady tried to make a move on me (seduce me), and try to strike a conversation with me. I acted politely and left the scene. I felt that the tai tai had invited ME to this function and it would look very rude that I began to strike up conversations with other women, especially much younger than her. I acted like a gentleman throughout the dinner. After a while, the tai tai said she was tired and told her friend and I to leave. I followed suite. We went back in her friend’s car back to the tai tai’s place. There we had a drink and some munchy munchy. We talked like almost two hours, almost up to 11 pm.

    That’s when her friend said it’s late and we left. Anyway during the long conversation the tai tai said her friend and her were both divorced.

    Anyway, the tai tai has invited me again (but also with her friend) to another social function tonight to an art gallery.

    Throughout the night I acted as a gentleman and never made any moves on her. This lady is not an ah huay or ONS, so you must behave accordingly when you are in her company.

    What do you guys think ? The fact that she is inviting me again for another social function ? Does it mean something, or she is just using me as a companion to social functions ?

    Post #55
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    Chapter #19

    Bro OceanEleven !

    Thanks for your advise.

    Yes, this lady has a lot of $, I can see from her luxurious flat near Orchard Road. She does not need money and she knows that I cannot afford to spoil her financially. Anyway I am not interested in her money, but in the thrill of bonking a mature woman who will treat me a like a man and lust me.

    I don’t know what will happen. Let’s just see.

    Thanks for your support.

    Bye

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by

    OceanEleven

    What we think is not impt, what you think is impt. If you interested to bed her then go for it. Pardon me for being straightforward, the only thing you can offer her is your time, companionship and perhaps your mojo. I guess she has life’s luxuries, what she lust for could be the above. Still be a gentleman, respect her decision and play along smartly.

    Post #57
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    Chapter #20

    Bro Castrol !

    I am kiasu Bro. I don’t want to mess up things and lose this lobang. I just act as a gentleman and see what happens. If I try to be aggressive and make lustful advances, it can backfire and she can even take me to court for molestation. I’ll just see what happens. Tonight I have to attend another function. Wish me luck Bros.

    Bye Bro Castrol !

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    Originally Posted by

    Castrol

    bro, i’d say time’s wasting, and before she really starts treating you as a chaperon, go bonk her already!

    Post #63
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