Quote:
Originally Posted by
imax88
it is your good fortune to have found such a wife. nice life story…
I am truly lucky to have found such a good wife…S is a good wife & mother but like anyone else she’s not perfect…Nobody in this world is perfect…One is she’s not a very good cook,don’t like to exercise together wz me,always looking at Facebook….but I hv accepted her as who she is…We do hv our differences & argue stimes but who can tell me in their marriage dont hv arguments….Stimes I really hate myself for “eating outside”…What if I contracted STD???…Sigh…The excitement in having sex with others stimes its just to great to resist…But I hope slowly I can stop the temptation…It takes time….
Quote:
Originally Posted by
t.25
after reading this story, ive decided to chase that one girl that has been by my side since the start of this year. all this while ive been debating whether i can actually love again. after reading this, i think its best i give things a chance.
All de best bro…You’ll never know if you don’t give love a chance
Quote:
Originally Posted by
roomai
Well written!!! Upz you my points as a show of support to you, well done!!!
Thx bro for yr generous pts…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
westendgirl
ur wife set very high std. i def cannot match. addiction to facebook could be due to lack of social life. to remedy can hv more dinner gathering with friends and relatives.
Everyone of us is different in their own special way…I’m sure you are special in yr own way that compliments yr partner…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
SharkAttack
bro, instead of eating out, spend the money on dance lessons as a couple or some activity.
You’ll reap more rewards, both tangible and non- tangible.
All the best. Besides, spending more time with your wife also sets a high and good example to your son.
I am trying my best to quit “eating out” but like I said it takes time…Bcoz I work in de city,the convenience to “eating out” is there…
Every wkend I spend time wz my family…I dont go out wz my kakis on wkends…Thx for yr words of encouragement…
I always wondered if I were to be married to M or A,would they have stuck by me thru my darkest hours…I guess I’ll never know…Sthings are better left unanswered…
S has never voice out her frustration during our lean years…She kept motivating me to get on with my life & don’t give up…I really admire her for this…If she is someone tt look down on me during those times,I know for sure I won’t be here sharing my story now…
Gambling is really the mother of all sins…Once we are saddle wz gambling debts,it’s very hard to climb out of the hole…I am very very lucky coz I got S to help me out of the hell hole…Not by financial help but by being there for me when I really need a shoulder to lean on…
Imagine whenever the door bell rings,I was really afraid to open the door coz it might be debt collectors or being served a court letter…To those reading my story,please don’t take gambling seriously…A small punt is alright but don’t make it a habit…I’ve been thru hell & back & trust me when I’m in hell it’s really not a good feeling…
Our sex life has suffered due to my depression…We wanted another child hopefully a girl but it was not meant to be…I know S is dissapointed by this…How could we afford to hv another baby when I was not wrking???…
Although those dark days are behind us now,I still think back on what might have been if I didn’t came across the internet gambling…Would we have another child?…Would we be better off then now??…I guess in life we would never really know the answers to all our questions…What I can do now is to wake up everyday & be able to see S & my son smiling & I will be content for the rest of my day…
Being able to share my story here is in a way reminding me tt I am still alive today & it’s all bcoz I am married to the most special person in my life…S
Quote:
Originally Posted by
GorDJilla
Bro, cherish wat u hav in life. Dun ask for more.. S is really the best u can get. As the saying goes “friends in need are friends indeed”. The fact that she struck by u shows that u mean alot to her.. In most cases, the wife would run away, much less settle ur debts. Gd luck!
I will cherish my wife till the day I die…She’s my best friend
Quote:
Originally Posted by
pusiliker
Bro. If you want your wife to look good you must help her. It takes a lot of effort to exercise. You can start with taking walks with her after dinnerand progress from there. Next compliment her and buy some sexy lingerie for her. If you are shy to buy from shops go on line. Have more sex with her…every orgasm is worth a lot of negative calories to her. You might just be rewarded with your second child. Next be kinky take her nude photos etc. she may object but tell her you want to see her progress into a sexier body.
Good luck and have fun!
Thanx for the pointers bro…Will keep in mind…
A few days ago S brought up the subject of adoption…She says we have been trying for a 2nd child for 6 years & still no luck…My son also stimes sees his friends got siblings & would tell me he wats a sibling too…
Told S is an option but I ask her would she love the child as much as she love the child who is our own flesh & blood…S says yes…Much as I would like a baby girl but somehow the feeling is just not the same as seeing S carrying our own baby for 9 mths…
I told S we should let fate decides what lies ahead for us…What will be will be
whether to adopt or not to adopt a kid, should be a joint decision
if your wife is keen, but you’re not so, better not, because the adopted kid will suffer for lack of love from you