Dear Bros & Sis..
I’m newbie to this forum, but I’m really glad that I’ve found this forum because I need advice from senior expert bros & sis here
I will start my story now:
Playing violin is always one of my passion. Though it’s only for my hobby or interest, to become a good violinist, I try to search a music/violin teacher to help me in practising violin.
After searching through many website, about 4 months ago I decided to engage a female music/violin teacher who has quite a good write-up on her music/violin skill.
She is in her early 20s and she is still a student in a local Uni.
When we met up for the 1st time, I was quite surprised as she looks very young and I must admit that she is quite a good looking girl.
I’m quite sure that 7-8 out of 10 guys will turn their head to see more on her when they walk pass by her.
We start practice violin together and she will come to my place to teach/help me. Nothing special happened in the first few sessions, we really learn and practice violin. We do have discussions and talk about casual topics, though as I remember most of the topics are about music.
However, since the 1st meet-up, I notice that she always wear short pants and blouse. I start to pay more attention on her appearance & apparel.
She really has a nice figure as she stands at 1.62-1.64m and weight around 48-50kg. Honestly speaking, I start thinking other than our violin lesson.
I start to think on how can I get closer to her, how can I have more intimacy with her…. and of course how can I make love with her (I wish I really got chances)
But my problem is, I’m not that kind of guy who can easily tease a girl with his sweet talking. Now, I’m blur and have no idea how to direct our conversation, our topic of discussion to more intimate topics. I really don’t know where to start…
Now, I think our relationship is more than “teacher-student” relationship. We’re just like a friend though it’s just a very casual one. We do exchange sms sometimes and I always try to joke to make her laugh or at least smile.
In her eyes, I am a nice guy and student. This is also the main reason that I affraid if I start discussing something “unusual”, she might think that I have a dirty mind and agenda (whis is true
) and she might decides not to meet or teach me again, which is the last thing that I really don’t want and the last thing that I wish to happened.
That’s why I’m here to ask for advice from Bros & Sis here…
How can I lure her to talk about something different from our casual topic?
By the way, for information, I’m quite much older than her, at least 10 years.
I would much appreciate if Bros & Sis can enlighten me..
Many thanks for your attention and time to read my thread!
Regards,
-Composer-
Not very girl needs to be sweet talked. Seems like you don’t have issue talking to her.
Anyway, what is your ultimate goal? Become gf or fb?
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Originally Posted by
5ag1_Boar
Not very girl needs to be sweet talked. Seems like you don’t have issue talking to her.
Anyway, what is your ultimate goal? Become gf or fb?
Thank you for your reply, Bro!
Yes, it can be said that I don’t really have an issue talking to her.
She is quite open to me, but all these time the topics that we talk about are not far from the casual things such as music, her study, my lesson, our activities & our family.
I really want to bring our conversation to the next level which is more intimate, or in simple words..talk about hot topics
But like I mentioned in my previous post, I have difficulties and cannot find my way to talk such thing to her.
To be honest, at this point of time, my goal is getting her as my FB.(umm…this stands for “Fuck Buddy” right? CMIW…sorry..I’m quite newbie on this
).
But I don’t really mind if she is willing to be my GF
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Originally Posted by
loneyheart
Seen it in yr place prepare a nice dinner for her w red wine
Thank you for your advice, Bro loneyheart!
This is really a good idea to make her impressed.
However, everytime she comes to my place at around 7.30pm, she always said that she has taken her dinner.
According to her, her study is finished around 5pm and after that if she is not coming back to her place, she will self-study at her school and take her dinner before come to my place.
Though we don’t have any issue talking to each other, she tends to a bit shy and quiet person. Everytime she comes, I serve her with drink and sometime fruits or dessert. And everytime I notice she just drink a little (never finish her drink) and took the fruits just 1-2 pcs only.
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Originally Posted by
howgoodisthat
Just be direct and ask her out for a dinner loh.
Thanks, Bro. I will try to ask her for dinner with me
Hi Bros & Sis,
I would like to thank to all of you who had read my thread, and especially to those who gave me advice and suggestions.
My thread may not as interesting as other stories here, but I still want to update what I experienced last night.
Monday night is my lesson schedule. And last night as usual my music teacher came to my place and to my surprise, she dressed very sexy. Not as usual, last night she wore a low cut one-piece dress. The top part shows her cleavage generously, and the bottom part is about 10-15 above knees…
By the way, I’m quite sure that she has at least a B-cup. One time she wore a T-shirt which just nice fit her body. I could see her round boobs bounced when she walks.
I told to myself..WTH…I wouldn’t be able to focus to the lesson and to whatever she said lol…
As we sat side by side, I had a very good view of her deep cleavage for the whole time of our session yesterday, especially when she bent down a bit when she want to point the music book..
(I kept thinking and talk to myself, OMG…sooo round and smooth…I wish I could touch them, lick them & suck them…hahaa..)
Another good thing was unlike previous lessons when she usually left my place directly after finished the lesson, last night we had a good chit chat for about 10-15 mins more..but so sorry to tell that no hot story I can give as there was nothing happened between us other than casual chit chat
I only dare to tell her that she looks different and looks pretty today (last night), and I asked her playfully.. are you going back to home or going somewhere else with your boyfriend?
She answered me…no la, I go back to home…
FYI, as far as I know, she has no boyfriend (according what she told me last time when we had chit chat about family & relationship, and her FaceBook status also single). I asked her just to tease her and indirectly also to find out whether or not she has a boyfriend now..
So sad, I still couldn’t find my way to lead our conversation or to make her talk about seductive things.
I’m not good in telling a story, so apologies if you find the way I write my story is terrible..
At this stage of the game, forget talking about sex or anything seductive. You guys could always “date” in terms of lunches and dinners coupled with movies to get into the friendship mode before you begin to get closer. Just my 2 cents worth. If u take the sex out of the equation at this stage, you would probably be less intimidated and she can she you for who you are and probably begin to develop feelings for you.
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CaptNeeda
Do keep your story cuming bro .
I will bro…provided I have a good progress and have interesting things happened between me and her
Anyway, thanks for your support bro!
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Originally Posted by
Wins88
At this stage of the game, forget talking about sex or anything seductive. You guys could always “date” in terms of lunches and dinners coupled with movies to get into the friendship mode before you begin to get closer. Just my 2 cents worth. If u take the sex out of the equation at this stage, you would probably be less intimidated and she can she you for who you are and probably begin to develop feelings for you.
Bro Wins88, you are the expert! I think I must learn from you on how to build a relationship in a good way
You’re right bro, if I think carefully with my big head I also don’t want too rush to talk to her about anything seductive or even sex. As I mentioned in my first post above, I’m affraid that if I talk something unusual like seductive things, I will ruin our friendship and even also our teacher-student relationship.
But to be honest, quite often I really tempted to try to seduce her especially like last night when she looks so hot hahaa…
Last night, it was really a torture to me that I could only see and keep my thought in my mind (on how hot she is) without being able to do anything…
I think I must practice harder to refrain myself from doing or talking any stupid thing to her lol…
Thank you so much for your opinion and good advice, bro! Really appreciate it!
TS,
Drop her a sms that you are near her Uni … a bit before 5pm on Monday
Women always … i mean always appreciate a nice company while travelling in some public transport …. best of the best … pick her up with a car if possible, most of them hate waiting for public transport ALONE
Good luck and do provide us your real time updating on the progress