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No textbook ans for your question, feelings just develop, end of story. No why no how no reason. Only human. You try to ponder for an ans to this question you will die old with this question still unsolved because its like an formula which equates to infinity.
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Plenty of time for you to ponder and learn about life, and this learning process can and will happen anywhere anytime, not just when you holiday and free. If you tell me you only think about these stuff during your holiday then u are probably nothing more than a robot with dynamic memory matrix programmed to run in certain conditions. Given so you won’t be able to comprehend anything human, esp when it comes to feelings and emotions.
- You still asking questions despite all the ans, you sure you really spending time to absorb? Have a nice day dude.
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TwinLighter
It seems as tho, the answer is within the question itself.
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TwinLighter
Maybe not absorbing 100%, on flu medication…sorry…
-Edit, it just seems that some things aren’t meant to understand till a certain age…
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Reoxy
On leave.
Got nothing better to do.
Since you said you got nothing better to do, why don’t you do some good deeds by answering my questions too? The more (answers) the merrier!
Or at least, give me some life tips and etc…
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BartSimpson
Since you said you got nothing better to do, why don’t you do some good deeds by answering my questions too? The more (answers) the merrier!
Or at least, give me some life tips and etc…
Different League.
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Reoxy
Different League.
You are in a higher league than me, that means you must have been in my current league before. Leading to the fact that you can give me at least 1 useful tip, be it anything.
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ccoollyack
TS, please focus on studies.
I will
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ccoollyack
In these days it is very fortunate to get a girl who truly cares about you selflessly. Chances are you wouldn’t find one now. Give yourself a few more years where you get to learn the cruelties in life, that you will understand whatever feelings from the heart and all those bullcrap is just self-made.
Understood.
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ccoollyack
It comes from deep within, a desire to seek attention, a desire to attain the sense of superiority to show off. Its a gross, shameful human weakness that most of us, including me, have been through.
This was what I was been trying to figure out. But I am still puzzled that in what sense that I want to attain the sense of superiority to show off? I mean, I didn’t say anything that proves or states that I am showing off right??
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ccoollyack
So do put your mind in things that are far more important to you then a fleeting experience that you seek to adore.
Studies are far more important, but getting “road block” or “detours” by these problems is what I have trying to get rid of.
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ccoollyack
Regardless your results are fantastic or not, being responsible for yourself is of utmost importance.
By any chance you sound like my teacher? o.o But agree with you.
And FYI to people out there, nothing was given to me without being having to work hard and achieve for it. At most, special occasions only. The fact that I do not have a maid and is a latchkey kid, meaning that I will have to take care of myself while my parents are hard at work. My parents don’t buy me anything out of the blue, but the fact that I earned it from them. Or at least if they are genorous and are in the mood of giving. I still do treasure my Android for the fact that I had to change to it, only when my old phone is really out of order, and the fact that it was more expensive to repair it than to get a new one.
I had a phone because, I am a latchkey kid and I need to keep in communication with my parents all the time.
-Just a thought for the older generations, not trying to offense anyone. But come to the think of it. Aren’t you guys (the older generations) that groomed us (current generations) to what we are today? That infact most of you guys are parents too. I am not trying to push the fault to anybody, but it is clear common sense on what we have been taught and what was given to us by our parents, teachers… just anybody in fact that are older than us to be our model or at least listen from.
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asdfghjkl
Mr Lim Siong Guan, former Head of the Civil Service, once wrote this:
“We can learn by copying what others do. It is a good way of learning. But it also means we will always be behind them. If we want to be ahead, we must also learn by trying new ways. By experimenting … and watching what happens. The point is to Learn by Doing. Don’t just talk. Don’t just think. Do!”
Sorry sir, but I guess this is still too deep for me to understand.
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goodpartner
Hey kid, I’m placing a bet here that u’ll still visit this forum in 2012 or after, be it with another account or lurking anonymously.
Do you want my IP to prove that I won’t be here?
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goodpartner
Why I say that? This could be, by far, your only outlet where u’re getting this much attentions in life. It’s actually quite sad… U have to resort to this ‘adult’ forum to seek answers for these mundane stuffs.
Seems to be a way to remain anonymous and ask these kind of rather weird questions.
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goodpartner
where u’ve been told again & again to disregard them for there’ll be no answer.
I guess I’m a little bit slow, but it seems to get into my head by now.
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goodpartner
It’s not the elusive answer that you’re after here, u didn’t know that u just wanted attention
If I want really attention seeking, aka “attention whoring” (my generation’s term), I doubt I will need to even be here, I mean just post some random shit on Facebook and that is enough attention if you ask me. How do I know it will work? Same shit happened to a friend and he got enough “likes” and “comments” till the end of the year.
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goodpartner
which u said lacking in your physical world w/o friends
You used the word “physical world”, in a way you are saying that I am having friends “online”??
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goodpartner
and only to be confused with that 18yo zeh zeh who don’t give a shit.
Understood that she doesn’t give a shit liao… hmmm notice the term “zeh zeh” very familiar… which forum…..oh yeah.. EDMW<<(Senior there selling stuff, so was there for awhile)??
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goodpartner
Here’s a tip which u wanted: Go talk to your parents. Look them in the eyes and request for some quality time to listen to these problems u’ve shared with us. Ya, u’re damn right that your generation is an offspring of our generation BUT hey your parents are the one responsible, don’t point to “us”. Let’s see u ACT on this advice by 31st Dec and update us. If u don’t, but keep on debating here even if u think u’ve done nothing wrong, it’ll only reinforce the idea that u’re nothing more than attention seeking here.
I will update.
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goodpartner
Ps. Don’t give excuse that your parents don’t care u hor, I’m sure they are decent parents but just lack the “connection” with you; just like the uncles here. Blame them/us? Since u seem to appreciate the generation gap so well, now then go and manage your parents.
They are very decent folks indeed. The fact that they do care for me, and everynight before sleep. I always tell them I love you. Actually, they aren’t lacking that much of a “connection” with me, when a twitch of my eye and my mum can already sense something is wrong with me? Also to include that, I had spent tons of quality time with them during the holidays to go overseas. I don’t appreciate the generation gap, but the fact that we know nothing can be done about it.
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goodpartner
Btw, u must be freaking joking me to even take what I say about kites, marbles and spiders literally!
Sorry lah.. how I know which line to take and which line not to give a damn??
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goodpartner
Kids just like to argue, debate, and basically wanna have the “last say” when challenged. That’s what you’re doing here in this thread and driving all uncles nuts -
I wasn’t trying to have the “last say”, but I was taught to not be rude. And I do find it rude when not replying to people.
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goodpartner
maybe that’s why your parent don’t want to give you attention.
Are you sure? To a extend, you’ve never met me, my parents or even seen me in the “physical world”. And please don’t drag my parents into these, in the sense that I do feel that they are being insulted of not being a good parent and not giving their kid enough “attention”. Actually, I am the only child, I have more attention from my parents than I will ever need. Which is really a good thing in the sense that you will always know somebody is a there for you when you need them.
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Now, chew of this and maybe tell yourself to grow up further.
-Not maybe- but surely. I do know that somehow my mentality is still a kid, but the fact that nothing can be done about this. Till I’ve spent more time on this world.
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Aklim
If I were you, I would just tell this “Sis” what you told us. She is really nice to you and awesome, also letting you follow on her twitter account. She is really different, and you wish that she will be your friend, real friend, not “friend with benefits”. Be sincere and open minded!
That was what I’ve been trying to say, real friends, not “friends with benefits”. Although your advice is quite the opposite of what others had say to me. Is there a reason for it??
PS, finally someone with another point of me.
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Johnston
Boy, you are dense and starting to come off as deeply irritating …. im coming off a beer high, so i’ll indulge you futher…
THE point of Mr alphabts words = if you only copy paste other ppl work, your work will forever be their work, you must ownself go test test and do own stuff…
Oh now I understand liao…
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Johnston
Go do a bit of research on Mr Steve Jobs, we can say he whole life only copy cat, like xerox mice technology, portable mp3 player etc etc….. whens the last time you saw a Creative Mp3 player? Not recently, i bet… the difference is he
COPY + IMPROVE
Yeah..I know about Steve Jobs, seems as tho, for our current generation there is already nothing left to Invent, but only left to Improve, or is it?
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Johnston
That’s rich : your gonna give us your IP addy to prove a Point… Old Man like me also know that IP this thing is fickle and people can bypass it…. right now you can try to go to playboy.com and see if you can get in… i can
I guess nothing can prove my innocence.
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Johnston
Reference back to one of my posts : where else fuck can you get seasoned fuckers to give it to you like it is? EDMW? Their threads are 25 pages of crap and 5 pages of actual responses….
True lah.. u guys are older..probably having more life experience at the same time too…
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Johnston
Alternatively we can direct you to Flowerpod where the forum is full of xmm, syt, milf and maybe gilf to give you tender loving care…. or not
Flowerpod?? What do you mean?? Yeah.. I very blur…. I admit…
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Johnston
*rubs eyes - oh shit i didnt notice this yesterday , now you admit you tossed arund in EDMW…\
Since when did I decline that I’ve never been on EDMW?? Just go there see see look look sappork senior only lorh…
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Johnston
Chiu is rike what you been talk to so far? TS if you not careful one day u think of syt so much later u up lorry how?
I don’t get you on this one… o.o….I’m who I’ve said…yeah..bout thinking of the SYT…I don’t get it?? Why will I tio up lorry?? -Btw, SYT to u lah.., but same age group to me lorh..-
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Johnston
contrast this place with Edmw , one thing going for us is we’re a fucking sex forum - so even logging into this place on a computer is seen as socially undesirable - and good luck telling your teacher and all “i read it on sammyboy” That is a factor in keeping out pesky kids
Huh? Tell my teacher what thing??
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Johnston
if you dont like how you have been handled thus far, well tough shit but the handling we’re giving you is maybe 60% what the Real World is gonna give you… trust me - when you graduate to OFFICE LIFE workplace your boss can give two shits about PCCG (Pastoral care and guidance)
Actuall still okay lah… but just don’t get it why must be like that lorh..I just took it as a way to prep myself ready for the real world…
The fact that you caped “R"eal “W"orld, make it seem as tho it is a proper term..??
Hmm just curious, Ministry Of Manpower, not of any help ah?