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you did not state clearly whether or not you are married; have kids until somewhat later part you brought it in that you are married with two kids.
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many contradiction to your stories, when you said things like ‘knn, go back fast fast forger me already..’ or ’ just another one night stand for me and all the promises is just to get her body’ or ’ i wont see her again bla bla’..then seconds later..when she rang or called, you would without hesitation rush to her place..this really confused me.if you are married, how come you are living life like a 20 year old bachelor who just go home, tcss and log on to sammyboy then next min just rush out of house when xy calld you ?!?!? it dont make sense.
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i dont think you treat her like a playmate, becos many times you dont even know what you want yourself. what i meant..you clearly know that it was just a game from the start..and girls like her are everywhere..dont deny with me..they are everywhere.. but slowly you are drawn into this darkhole not knowing how to come out cos your constantly suck into her sex. when you asked her go die..call her slut..and then you were drunk..you woke up next to her knowing that she works hard becos why..she OWED money..and you stupidly enough borrow from friend, then gave it to her.. what do you want actually ? you already know shes blood sucking your money, yet you dont mind juz becos she dint dump you and can easily find another rich carrot head?!?? to me your are the real carrot head..brother.
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whether your family/wife/kids/ah gong ah ma/ uncle auntie find out in the end..it dont matter anymore cos you already know what youll end up with..ever since the 10K is borrowed to her.. do you think shes not gonna gamble anymore for the rest of her live? ask yourself..if you are given heroin..and i told you not to take drugs anymore..when you crave for it again..and i give you,but telling you not to take drug,will you stop then?
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you did not state clearly whether or not you are married; have kids until somewhat later part you brought it in that you are married with two kids.
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many contradiction to your stories, when you said things like ‘knn, go back fast fast forger me already..’ or ’ just another one night stand for me and all the promises is just to get her body’ or ’ i wont see her again bla bla’..then seconds later..when she rang or called, you would without hesitation rush to her place..this really confused me.if you are married, how come you are living life like a 20 year old bachelor who just go home, tcss and log on to sammyboy then next min just rush out of house when xy calld you ?!?!? it dont make sense.
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i dont think you treat her like a playmate, becos many times you dont even know what you want yourself. what i meant..you clearly know that it was just a game from the start..and girls like her are everywhere..dont deny with me..they are everywhere.. but slowly you are drawn into this darkhole not knowing how to come out cos your constantly suck into her sex. when you asked her go die..call her slut..and then you were drunk..you woke up next to her knowing that she works hard becos why..she OWED money..and you stupidly enough borrow from friend, then gave it to her.. what do you want actually ? you already know shes blood sucking your money, yet you dont mind juz becos she dint dump you and can easily find another rich carrot head?!?? to me your are the real carrot head..brother.
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whether your family/wife/kids/ah gong ah ma/ uncle auntie find out in the end..it dont matter anymore cos you already know what youll end up with..ever since the 10K is borrowed to her.. do you think shes not gonna gamble anymore for the rest of her live? ask yourself..if you are given heroin..and i told you not to take drugs anymore..when you crave for it again..and i give you,but telling you not to take drug,will you stop then?
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A SMSes came in.
S: Lau Gong, sorry. I should have accompany you but I disappointment you. I will not do it again. I promise
M: Go and die, I am happy here hugging mei mei. No next time.
S: Lau Gong you must be drunk, I come over now.
M: Dun one, I am so happy here.
S: I come now
I continue to drink and drink until I was very high as I was in a foul mood. I cannot remember how many gal I sit with except that I spend about 300 on tips. I know I cannot go on drink like that and asked to be excuse.
I went to the car park and look for my car, KNN I forget which floor I park. I search from the top floor to the ground floor and cant find my car. I almost give up when I remember I park my car at the next building. When proceed to the next building, my hand phone ring.
M: Wei.
S: Lau Gong, where r u? I cant find you in the room and your friend say you go back around.
M: Ya, I go “Kai Fang.
S: Lau Gong, I am sorry ok. Where r u?
M: At the car park
S: She go look for me and I wait at the car.
When she arrived, I scolded her “Slut” and drove home. I was very high and yet I drive. She remained quiet all the way home and I drove very fast. Upon reaching home, I fall asleep.
I remained angry for the next few days and I could see that she is very sad. What surprises me is that this time round. She began to be very hard working. After I have cool down, I asked her why is she so hard working which is unlike her.
S: Lau Gong, I loss 10k while gamble at home>
M: What 10 k and that my two months salary.
S: What to do, the debtor is after me now.
M: serve you right. Ask you not to gamble.
S: How now.
M: You go work for the money, I dun have.
S: you go borrow from your friend ok. I pay him back in two months
I couldn’t bear to see her working so hard and I quietly borrow 10k from my friend. I promise to pay him back within 4 months. I got the money and refused to give to her until Saturday when she is not working and I remit the money in my presence. I could see that it a big relieves to her.
She worked and pay back my friend. I did not pay for her as I wanted to teach her a lesson.
I was broke when she returned but I managed to survive. Without failed, I will give my wife the household allowance. The rest I pay for her rental.
As time fly, I became more daring. I brought her to meet my client. My relative friend and even my relative. I want to assured her that I am serious with her. She will ensure that she will never be unfaithful to me and always reported to me when she wake up. She called me every hour when she is working and always come home.
The relationship goes on and on. ………………
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As I could not pay for the rental this month she fork out the money to pay for it. I was broke and she ensure that my wallet have at least few hundred. She encouraged me to work harder and always listen to my work problem but like my wife who nagged on my work problem.
I began to love her more and more. If a KTV gals is looking for someone rich she can find one easily in her work place. Because of me, she loss some customers. I do not wish to elaborate.
She also earn to pay off the money which I borrow, I felt that I owe her a lot. Her friends was telling her that I am a share which had not rise and someday this share would rise.
Every day before we sleep, we share our work problem and I will share brother behavior in the KTV
Similar story i heard from my friend. He runs into debt, relatives shun him but his KTV gal supported him during the most difficult time. He divorce his Sg wife (lucky no kids!) and relocate to start afresh a career in PRC with his KTV gf. At least this one got happy ending.
Hope Bro Robin, u will sort out with a happy ending
Bro TS, I enjoyed your story so much. I have been in your shoes 2 years back, I know it’s very difficult. Hang in there buddy, everything happens for a reason. Be it good or bad we have to face it somehow, thats life…. take care!
to be frank .. it was interesting reading your story from the begining but it annoyed me half way thru.
here are a few reasons why:
sorry but just these are just my honest 2c
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superman128
to be frank .. it was interesting reading your story from the begining but it annoyed me half way thru.
here are a few reasons why:
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sorry but just these are just my honest 2c
Bro, we also cannot deny the fact that what TS is going through, be it how contradicting and against logic, is very very typical of how a well educated new age Sg Society man will succumb to.
It’s the openness, frank and no bs narration of his story and voices from the heart that resonate in many of us, which makes his story captivating. Right?
So let’s be too judgmental for now. Since that’s not TS’s objective to seek “advice” in this thread.
IMHO, those that warrant quick bashing and mockery are stories where whore cheats ah peks CPFers like this one
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superman128
to be frank .. it was interesting reading your story from the begining but it annoyed me half way thru.
here are a few reasons why:
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sorry but just these are just my honest 2c
Bro Superman128.. I suppose TS’s encounter touches some of the bros’ heart.. I’m one of them cos I went thru that b4.. but mine wasn’t a KTV gal.. she’s just another gal next door type and I was married at that time..its really amazing and u really dun know what u are doing then…
U mentioned:
“’ i wont see her again bla bla’..then seconds later..when she rang or called, you would without hesitation rush to her place..this really confused me”
I’m like you. I would not believe a married can have such freedom.. now I believe so, cos I saw a real case… he’s my friend… his wife knows he is fooling around but she’s fine with it as long as he doesn’t bring the cow home… sometimes he even decribed his encounter in a KTV to us when his wife is around.. The best part is, both of them are still as loving and they have a son… you can say that they are putting up a show in front of us.. and who knows.. but to us, they are a loving couple..
OMG!!!!!
i was busy for the past year and din not post much.. once in awhile, come in see see look look… and I can’t believe it!!!
my rep dropped from few hundreds to -188 and power from 7 to 0
Imho, some of the things is quite difficult to 说到做到。 For eg, for me, last time when i first go cheong ktv. I also promise and tel myself nt to fall in lova with ktv gal and my grp ultimate aim is to make the gal fall in love with u so u no need to pay for tips… The one who fail to cntrl their feeling will loose the game. Then maybe is karma or natural reaction. When someone being nice to u, treat u e way no one treat u before and most imptly hav sex with u for free over a long period of time n even give u $, of coz feeling will develop and that is hw most of us will KIA and fall into tons n tons of problem where some bro will nvr rtn…
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superman128
to be frank .. it was interesting reading your story from the begining but it annoyed me half way thru.
here are a few reasons why:
sorry but just these are just my honest 2c
Bro, I thank you for your honesty.
At first, it just playing game but slowly developed into love.
I borrowed from friend but she pay my friend monthly not me.
We stop going CASINO and i can see the changes in her.
She changed because of me and she was touch by my love.
Something which i cannot explain.
You may think that i give excuses but this is the true.
I fully understand the sterotype of KTV gals.
But she represent the million.
I sleep in seperate room with my wife and she do not care where i go.
As lone as monthly expenses is pay to her.
I do not wsh to review how i got into this marriage. Not short gun but a sad story.