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Originally Posted by
RobinGL
Bro,
Have to wait till the right time to talk about this with my wife. No easy and need careful planning. However i can have both…hehehehhe
Just a question for you. If you see a 50 dollars note and a 100 dollars note on the florr. Which one were you pick?
I know we cannot have the best of both world. Just that i want to spend a bit time with XY to see how we go about it. Can work out with XY a not, i really dun know.
if i see a 50 dollars note and a 100 dollars note, i will pocket both..
on the other hand, even if i decide to leave my wife.. it must be becos no feelings liao and not becos of XY.. seriously speaking, can u believe she is for real??
Well bro, we hope not to be caught in a similar situation like you. Hopefully Time will help to loosen things up and your problems resolved. Good luck.
bro, think carefully as while kids grow up, after wife brainwashing, they will get to hate you no matter what you have done for the family, too late to regret by then. You not too late as wife not suspecting and kids still young.
Take care.
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Originally Posted by
peachbloom
not home for 2 months…don’t you miss your kids?
think about your responsibility as a father and whether you want to continue to lie to them like this, perhaps will give you some direction on what you want. your kids will grow up very quickly and the time you miss out on their growing years is such a pity.
I mean two months did not sleep at home. I go back once a week to see my kids.
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Originally Posted by
owl888
Juz curious XY’s on social visit pass/WP or whatever pass? Should not take long b4 she gg back PRC? After she goes back then I m sure u can take a break and thought about your situation carefully……….
XY on work permit, 2 years
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Originally Posted by
sean69
if i see a 50 dollars note and a 100 dollars note, i will pocket both..
on the other hand, even if i decide to leave my wife.. it must be becos no feelings liao and not becos of XY.. seriously speaking, can u believe she is for real??
I’m loss
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Originally Posted by
picnic
bro, think carefully as while kids grow up, after wife brainwashing, they will get to hate you no matter what you have done for the family, too late to regret by then. You not too late as wife not suspecting and kids still young.
Take care.
quite sad,it seems relationship with your wife is not so good and what is left to hold you back are the 2 kids
Personal experience, as wife get suspicious, they have no way of venting their anger except to brainwash the kids, the kids grow up to hate me as the mother told them that the father is always out wif other women even though she doesn’t have evidences. moral of story, spend more time wif kids and wife bro.
Been BZ this week with tons of work. My Team is back working hard and will have less time writing. Nevertheless, will find time to write. For those brothers who advice me, i will keep that in mind.
Thank you readers.
Dear Bro,
My purpose of this threat is to highlight the danger for KC. This could lead you into deeper relationship which it is too late to salvage.
Many think that after their visa expire everything will be fine. But this is not the case. It the begining of the trouble. Never underestimate the power of women.
I will contine later, need to rush progress report, if not company got no money to pay my salary.
Continue………..
Three months in Singapore and she is going back for her son birthday. On the day before she left, she work till 3 am while I am doing the packing up for her. I know that she will be back as she make very little money during the three months. I was broke at that time and she dare not ask me for money. Most of the money was loss in CASINO.
She brings with her about a thousand dollars only. I promise that I will remit some money during pay day and she agreed. I have sex with her the last time before sending her to the airport and it was 4am and her flight was 6am.
While at the airport, I have the feeling of losing her and she will never be back. I thought she will cry when we separate but I end up crying. I know that I am going to miss her. Time up and time for her to board the flight and I hugged her hard before she go.
I went back home with her remain things in my car and now it time for me to make up to my family. I went home every day except for genuine overseas assignment. Once at home, I will be moody and I felt loss. Being the facts that my wife nagged a lot about my work and keep asking me for money. (never tell your wife too much about your work and let her know how much you earn)
I keep thinking about her and I called her at least three times a day. At first I thought that the love will die off but instead it glows stronger. She stayed with her parent and every day she would go gamble with the neighbour. She spend money like nobody business but lucky she win a lot when she is there.
In her absence, I cheong intensively with my buddies but I stopped calling gals to sit with me as I am afraid that she know. There are some changes in me and I felt that KTV is no longer fun. Suring the one month, I was like hell as my mind keep thinking about her. I either work late or go cheong. Sometime, I ended up in the pub drinking alone.
She promise to come back in three weeks but ended up a month. Before she came back, she told me that she need money and the money was supposed to pay for the rental but was remit to her. I waited and waited for her confirmation to come back. I even when around looking for house but was unable to secure the house as she need the money
Every day was so slow for me and week after week pass and finally she asked me to booked for a tickets. I was overjoyed and booked for a ticket but was cancel was she told me that she is extending her stay because of her son.
Finally she is coming back before my birthday, I quickly booked a ticket for her and waited for her return. On the night before she return, she came to the town and check into a hotel for the night, I talk on the phone with her whole night as she is afraid being alone in the hotel.
The day finally arrived and I keep looking at my watch while working, I took half day leave to fetch her but my boss want be at the office at 7pm for a dinner with a client. WTF so coincidence.
I arrived at the airport an hour early just in case her flight arrived early which I know it never would. I keep looking at the screen and finally her flight landed. I waited excitedly and keep looking around to spot her. …………
Continues……………
I cannot find her and was looking around anxiety, suddenly someone tapped on my shoulder and I turned around and saw her. She was hiding from me and upon seeing her I kissed her and hugged her hard. I was very happy to see her. We hold hand all the way to the car park and inside the car we began to kiss each other.
I sent her to our rental room (I resort to borrow money to pay for the rental). She was tired and I have to rush for the dinner. I assured her that I will be back early to love her (get what in my mind). I have a quick dinner with my client, at that moment I find the client long winded and every time he talk, I look at my watch. Time to go and I speed back to our rental room.
When I come back, she is all dress up ready for work.
M: Lau Po, where are you going?
S: Working
M: what the rush, you just touch down today.
S: no money
M: take a rest today lah.
She hugged me and play with my 2ic, I am very disappointed then and had a quick sex with her. I dun enjoy that kind of sex as I know that she had sex with me just to pacify me. She shows me the undies that she had bought for me. Total of six undies and one of them is red in colour. I was very disappointed that she is going to work. I dress up and wait for her.
S: Lau Gong, you angry issit?
M: No, but very disappointed.
S: (Half way through her make up), ok lah, I accompany you ok. Dun be angry.
M: (the whole atmosphere already gone but I still want her to accompany me)
S: I undress again.
We talked about her son, her family and she show me video of her hometown. We were talking non-stop in bed naked. As I do not enjoy the first sex, I did it again.
Two days later was my birthday, my buddies planned for my birthday. We had dinner cum KTV. One day before my birthday, this customer of her call her and date her out on my birthday. She asked me permission as this customer always give her big tips.
The next day when I back from work.
S: Lau Gong, my customer date me out on your birthday. Can I go?
M: Silent
S: Angry issit?
M: Of course lah, it my birthday your know. My buddies wanted to celebrate with me.
S: But he my big customer.
M: Then you asked him to marry you.
S: That day, I packed up my clothes and she begged me not to.
(She always have a way with me, as she know my weakness)
S: Ok, I dun go.
The next day was my birthday……..and early in the morning I received a call from my two kids.
Kids: Daddy, Happy Birthday.
M: Thank you so much and I love both of you. Give daddy a kiss.
Kids: muccccccccccch
Kids: Daddy, you coming home for dinner?
M: Pause for a while. Errrrrrr daddy wont be home but promise to bring you out on Saturday ok.
Kids: promise
M: promise
It brighten my day after receiving the call, the clock tick and soon it is time for celebration……I drove back to our rental house.
M: Lau Po, I’m back.
S: Happy Birthday, Lau Gong (and she kiss me)
M: Are you ready. We have to go now, I’m going to be late
S: Lau Kong, I have something to say.
M: (Happy Mood and I though she going to give me a surprise)
S: My customer called again and I promise him that I will be there. But I will go dinner with you.
M: WTF, you promise me and you let me down, you need money issit?
S: Dun be angry ok.
M: how not to be angry, I took my car key and left the house and she was chasing behind
S: I already turn the customer down and dun be angry.
M: silent
During the journey we did not talk. We arrived at the restaurant and pretend to be happy, I was late and guess what………..(I mention before, answer on next posting). We very chatting and laughter, some of my buddies “Tao Bao” to the KTV. As my buddies know her, she chatted a lot with my buddies.
I am so fed up and do not what her to be with me. Spoil my mood twice within a span of three days. I told her that she can go and accompany her customers. She keep asking me I will not get angry and call her customer. I pretend not to.
After our dinner, we proceed to the KTV and my buddies were walking ahead of us. She took a taxi to meet the customer. While inside the life, my buddies asked where she is and I told them that a customer date her.
KNN, my “Ta Ge” birthday and she not around. Why that customer got money we dun have issit. Can her come back, we each pound 100. In order to save her face, I told my buddies that she want me to enjoy without her around.
While inside the KTV, mu buddies could see that I am moody as I drink a lot quietly. I pretend to be happy and even fool can see thru. I sms her.
M: You go and die and I am going to call many gals.
No reply
Within five minutes, I sat with three gals…………..