Firstly, u shldnt hv admitted u’re the one in the photo. U shld deny at all cost.
Secondly, do report him to the police otherwise the matter wll nvr end.
Finally, dun worry too much abt bf. If he cant accept then too bad, there’ll always b another
Gd luck
How many of you can actually recognise Tammy from NYP if she walks past you now? I can’t for sure so TS why worry?
Report to police…
if bf’s friend extort u also let police know
maybe don’t tell your bf u work fl before, just say picture taken with a ex
Well, people do look alike. So maybe you should deny it. If your bf really loves you and accept who u are, he should look forward to the future with you and not your past. As for guy who posted pics online, well he should know that he can be arrested for posting obscene pics online.
Hi everyone
Hope u guys have had a wonderful weekend ya..
Really touching to hear words of encouragement from all of u.. I can’t thank u enough , hope my updates can show my appreciation.
Right now at this point of time, I’m trying to adjust my mentality to accept my self as an ex FL.
I do not have any sob stories , neither was I forced into circumstances . Its was pure greed that made me lost my moral compass. I was wrong , and I deeply regret it today.
If I can use my property and car , my savings , anything in fact , in exchange for a clean past, I would.
The irony of my situation is that I am someone who seems so traditional and conservative , never tried ons, fb, even brings my bf along when my boss dates me. I am so protective about my image that my bf swears me by the Perfect wife material.
Really, I am reluctant to break this news to him .
I would try my best to love and accept myself.
Pls continue to jia you for me…
Thanks.
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Thanks
Hi everyone
Hope u guys have had a wonderful weekend ya..
Really touching to hear words of encouragement from all of u.. I can’t thank u enough , hope my updates can show my appreciation.
Right now at this point of time, I’m trying to adjust my mentality to accept my self as an ex FL.
I do not have any sob stories , neither was I forced into circumstances . Its was pure greed that made me lost my moral compass. I was wrong , and I deeply regret it today.
If I can use my property and car , my savings , anything in fact , in exchange for a clean past, I would.
The irony of my situation is that I am someone who seems so traditional and conservative , never tried ons, fb, even brings my bf along when my boss dates me. I am so protective about my image that my bf swears me by the Perfect wife material.
Really, I am reluctant to break this news to him .
I would try my best to love and accept myself.
Pls continue to jia you for me…
Thanks.
My dear Sis, like i said in my earlier post, we ALL HAVE our past,be it good or bad, and sometimes, we just make silly decisions, but hey, we don’t have to live in it (our past), you gotta forgive yourself, let it go sis, love yourself, it’s over, don’t torture yourself with your past. And if the day comes that you break your news to him, and IF he can’t accept it, it’s just too bad for him.. If i am him, and if my ex breaks such news to me, Seriously, i would go hunting for that guy and make sure i skin him alive. That’s me. Start forgiving yourself, that’s the first step. Someone once said this to me, “IF the devil tries to remind you of your past, remind him of his future…” This guy, someday karma would come knocking on his door, but don’t you bother about that, live your life well now..
Don’t live in your past.. Let it go!
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Stud00
My dear Sis, like i said in my earlier post, we ALL HAVE our past,be it good or bad, and sometimes, we just make silly decisions, but hey, we don’t have to live in it (our past), you gotta forgive yourself, let it go sis, love yourself, it’s over, don’t torture yourself with your past. And if the day comes that you break your news to him, and IF he can’t accept it, it’s just too bad for him.. If i am him, and if my ex breaks such news to me, Seriously, i would go hunting for that guy and make sure i skin him alive. That’s me. Start forgiving yourself, that’s the first step. Someone once said this to me, “IF the devil tries to remind you of your past, remind him of his future…” This guy, someday karma would come knocking on his door, but don’t you bother about that, live your life well now..
Don’t live in your past.. Let it go!
Bro Stud00,
Well said the way i feel a man should do.
For TS really you have to let it go what past is past nobody can change the past. what bro Stud00 have said is the best choice for you.
Well sad to hear that tat guy took ur pic .
Well if he show iy again tell police ur being force by him to take this pic and the police will keep it in low profile to warn him so no worries
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Originally Posted by
Thanks
Hi everyone
Hope u guys have had a wonderful weekend ya..
Really touching to hear words of encouragement from all of u.. I can’t thank u enough , hope my updates can show my appreciation.
Right now at this point of time, I’m trying to adjust my mentality to accept my self as an ex FL.
I do not have any sob stories , neither was I forced into circumstances . Its was pure greed that made me lost my moral compass. I was wrong , and I deeply regret it today.
If I can use my property and car , my savings , anything in fact , in exchange for a clean past, I would.
The irony of my situation is that I am someone who seems so traditional and conservative , never tried ons, fb, even brings my bf along when my boss dates me. I am so protective about my image that my bf swears me by the Perfect wife material.
Really, I am reluctant to break this news to him .
I would try my best to love and accept myself.
Pls continue to jia you for me…
Thanks.
Moral wake up call!!!!!!
Allo~~~~~~~~
Look around you, your possessions, your CAR, your property if any, the things you own………….
I am a very blunt & direct person so listen to the pointers and reflect then think really hard if you actually can be considered an EX-FL
Look at your possessions
Look at your bank account
You at your material stuff
Look at your clothes
Look in the mirror
If any of those stuff is still around, my dear, you brought your past into your future already.
So wat if you’re not an FL anymore????
Dun tell is the best policy?
No, it’s just a ticking time bomb.
If you wear a mask to hide your TRUTH, are you being you towards someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life with?
My stand!
Honesty is the best policy!
If someone loves you, he shud except a past that you walked away from.
Not use your past to slap you left rite center.
If so, this man is not for you.
The last thing you want is to example marry someone who doesnt know your past and after a few years, have kids then he finds out!!!!!!!!!!
Do it rite, do it once else you’ll always be very very uneasy wif anyone you truly care for!
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Stud00
Don’t live in your past.. Let it go!
One of the best advice so far….yes, let it go and stop beating up yourself at the same time. Most of us…..learn things the hard way.