Of my many short relations with so many men, I have never fallen for any of them with the exception of one perhaps two where I may have some affection towards them. I have to single out this one that it took me some time and a short holiday to forget him.
He was none other than my oldest, short time lover. He was 60 but never look a day older than 50. I never call any of those men that I had relations, lover because I will forget them in a few days time. He was different and even now I still have those feelings for him and longing to see him again. As I said, I have a soft spot for well dressed men with good manners and a good voice. It was sheer coincidence that we met 3, maybe 4 years back.
I was already staying on my own but my family home was in the eastern part of Singapore and often I go home for dinner just to make the two old folks happy. My work in the office was very liberal and once in a while I don’t need to go back in the afternoon. I was browsing around at Parkway Parade and was looking at some nice juicy steak at ESpirito Santo Butchery when I overhead this man ordering meat for his BBQ party. His wife was besides him and just like most wives, reminding him not to over order bla bla bla and more bla bla bla.
E. Santo Butchery has been my favourite meat shop and I was curious and wanting to know what he has ordered so I went closer to have a look. The usual boring stuff that we can find in any BBQ party but I thought he made some bad choices on the marinating so I suggested and recommend what I thought would have been better.
From there we had a short chit chat on BBQ stuff and so on. He invited me to his BBQ party, likely out of courtesy and of course I will not go but he left his number with me.
Friday came and I was in the office and out from nowhere the small piece of paper with his number was on my table. I don’t have a clue whose number it was so I call him from my office phone. The moment he said “hello” I was soft and it turns me on with that wonderful sensation feelings running all the way down my spine. After a few seconds we came to know that we met at Parkway Parade. We had some friendly conversations and hung up. The rest of the afternoon I was restless and just wanted to talk to him more. He has an average look, just like any ordinary elderly man with a small pot belly though he could easily pass off as middle age.
I called my girl friend and told her about it and as expected nothing good from her other than suggesting that I should call him again, engage in some phone sex and give myself some cheap fantasy. Trust her for any better ideas.
I don’t normally go home early unless there is a need for me to. By about 7pm I really don’t know what make me called him again and invited him out for a drink. He doesn’t seem surprised that I called and instead invited me for dinner since his wife was busy that night. We met up and had a nice dinner in one of those Teochew restaurants. I enjoyed the dinner not with the food but with him and only then I truly noticed that he was different from many of those men I met. Other than those many things I like about men whom he has them all in addition he was very caring and absolutely knows what you want next.
We had a drink after dinner and in the mist of our conversations and drink I was holding myself back and fighting hard not to ask him for a date in any hotels or my place that night. Just like many of my previous dates, I was wet and the fluid from below just cannot stop flowing. It may sound credulous but it is true with me and I don’t know how girls are like me.
When I was with him that night, it never crossed my mind that this guy was almost as old as my dad. I look towards him just like any one in the bar that evening. We shared some jokes, and there were a moment or two I touched him or held his hands, oh mine his hands were that a women. Smooth and tender and it gave me an extremely warm feelings holding his hands. I was having fantasy wishing that he could hold me and caress me.
All goods things have to come to an end, and it was time for us to go home. I offered to sent him back since he does not drive but he has to take over the wheels because I think my legs were too soft to step on the pedal. On the way back, I asked him if he would like to come up to my place to freshen up before going home. He very politely declined and said let’s make another time. He was probably the first men to reject me.
When I spoke to my girl friend, she said maybe for him is, the spirit is willing but the flesh is not…she may be right. However, I could not get over him and for the whole night I was restless.
ciggy time..
I don’t know what got over me, I was still restless the next day and was waiting for his call but it never struck my mind then that I had not given him my numbers. Habit dies hard. Who else to call but my bitchy girl friend.
We chatted for some time and she dares me to have a go with him and let her know what is like making love with a 60 year old, man. But it was not the challenge or the experience of having sex with a 60 year old. I just wanted to see him again. This has never happened to me before.
I called him and asked him out that night. I picked him up and we went to Club 5 which was all right with me seeing all those ballroom dance. I was holding his hands as we were walking in and I loved it all. Like the first night, we had a very pleasant evening and this time he offered to take over the wheels. It was early that night when we left and he suggested going to East Coast Park and have a walk along the beach. That was romantic and I never had that before.
As we were walking on the pathway, he held my hands and said do you know how old am I and you have met my wife too. I said, yes I know because you told me the first time we met at E Santo. You are sure you want to go on. Now he got me in a fixed. All this while, for me was a one night of fun and pleasure and good bye the next day. How am I going to put it to him? I have no answer for him but to tell him, you come home with me now.
He was never in a hurry even after my shower with my bath towel on, he came to me and held me in his arms and whisper,you must have a beautiful body. Our kisses were very passionate and when he kissed me behind my ears and down the neck and his hands ceaselessly caressing my body I felt so good I was so willing to give it to him. We were still standing and hugging, he continue with light kisses on my inverted nipple until it protrude and he kept on licking and kissing it. I felt that I was coming and I want him to put it in when he laid me on the bed. I held his manhood which is of average size and wanted to glide it into me when he turn round and started to french me. Oh my goodness I was telling myself when is he going to stop and I need it now. He was a good lover and strong in spite of his age. That night I gave it to him without any protections because we had totally forgotten about it even though I had them ready at the bed side table. Though we knew we had unprotected sex but we never talk about it.
I would have forgotten about the previous night affair if it was any other man. At the most I will think about it for a week and I will soon forget what took place. But not with him. The next day was Sunday, I had given him my numbers when I had a call from him while having dinner with my folks. Later that night he came by my place and we had another beautiful time together. He left early that night. How I wish he could stay for the night.
This went on for about three months and never once we had any protections. I don’t know what made me do that because I am a very careful girl though I am carefree. He was good and seems better each time. My visits to my usual hangout were less frequent. My girl friend could not believe her ears when I told her that I was still him. I could not believe myself to.
When we go out for our meals, we were like lovers holding hands or I will be clutching his arms without any fears and as though the world belongs to just the two of us.
We still had occasional drinks and I don’t bring him to those places I’ve gone to not because I fear meeting someone I know but we want to be alone.
Problem came one evening after dinner. I had a call from home and my dad wanted me to go home that night. On the way there I had a hunch it has something to do with me and him. My dad found out that I was with someone close to his (dad) age. I am the type of person that I won’t deny or give excuses for things that I had done. I admitted everything but when my dad asked me what about the future I have no answer for that.
My dad can be very out spoken and direct at times but can be very diplomatic too. During moments like this I don’t like to go into a debate with him because I know I cannot win. The ending for that night wasn’t pleasant at all. On the way back I have no one to turn too so I called my girl friend, the only shoulder that I can lean on.
This girl friend of mine can be bitchy as a matter of fact always bitchy, seldom put words in a nice way, crude and vulgar during privacy, but is one person whom you can confide your problems with.
She may utter words that don’t sound meaningful but on second thought she isn’t far from wrong. She thinks that I was crazy and don’t see any reason why I should continue or start in the first place. He may be good on the bed (hahaha you may guess it right…..she said, let me try him I will suck him so dry that he has no more for you….) He may be nice and fitted into your good book perfectly but there are still many people out there you have yet to meet and they could be better. She ended up with……..I think you kenna his gong tou.
I decided to move on and he knew the moment I called him and sincerely wished me luck and he fully agrees with what my dad said we see no future to continue.
It was not easy in the beginning and I took a couple of days break and went off for a short holiday with my girl friend. I don’t want to elaborate too much of my life when I was with him because at this moment I am writing about him, I have the urge to be in his arms and want to feel the surge of his hot juice shooting into me again.
Many of my girl friends asked what was it like going to bed with an old man. It was just like any other men that I went to bed with and in some way he was even better. It was just mind over matter, don’t think he is an old man but as long as someone that you like to be with and what’s important we can satisfy each other.
To think that going to bed with an old man is like some Chinese movies portraying a 16 year bride helping a 60 year husband to bed, to help him to undress and all the other things you may be wrong. Some of my friends think it was a novelty for me but I don’t think so or was it a novelty? At this point in time, I am thinking of him now.
Monday I will be back to work, I should be very busy and I will be back to my normal self which means logging into this nice forum lesser.
I have to thank many people here with those nice lines you have posted in my thread and also those words of encouragement you pm’d me. I hope I have not in any way offended any one cause I don’t know you and you don’t know me however if I do, I am sorry and I don’t mean it. If we are fated to meet in some hang outs we will meet otherwise let’s go on with our lives as it is.
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Originally Posted by
Snooki
Hi sis , about your story do u Really enjoy older guys?
I’m understand that sometimes we felt that young guys are immature and older guys are more understanding but 50+? the oldest bf I had is 40 but older than that no thanks ( sag everywhere :-p)
But it’s an individual choice….
For me guys around late 20s to late 30s the best cos they r at their peak. Older than that better ask them to concentrate on their wife / families :-)
Girls matures faster than men and thats a fact. Liking a younger man or not is individual.Likewise with older or shall put it, a very much older man is also with the individual.
I have never thought that I would go to bed with a man that of my father’s age put aside having a fancy for him but it had happened and like some of my friends said, it was a novelty for me or was it a novelty……..I dont know, I really dont know.
I must say during that 3 months when we were out, we were holding hands in the public and it had never strike my mind that I was with a man almost twice my age. The way we were together was not that of a father and daughter.
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Demonkin7
Nice experience Sister Silver.
I guess we can learn a lot from you. Some time I dun really hold my tongue well n said wrong things at the wrong time or tongue tie beside gals. Maybe can guide a little on what a gal like so we all can learn. For us lot who r not as experienced.
Thanks for the story Sis Silver.
Many girls, I think would like people who are sincere and caring. If you are afraid of saying wrong things then say something that is not important or something that is funny just to break the ice first. Be yourself and try not to imitate somebody. I like people who behave as who they are and not trying to be someone to impress me. Gifts hmmmm I like gifts and I think all girls like gifts.
After a few days of writing my experience and what I had gone through, I must admit I am beginning to like this forum.
I have never thought of getting involved or being active in this forum and the purposes of coming into Sammy Boy was the chat line that my girl friend and I logged in initially but decided to move away later.
My feelings for Sammy Boy at the moment is identical to that relation I had with the 60 year, I just want to hear his voice………..I want to log into Sammy Boy and see how’s things going.
I am still in the office and waiting for a call from UK after which I will head off to my favourite Subway for my 6 inch ah ha, boys no bad thoughts……..
Be patience, as and when I have time I promise I will spend some with you.
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shinozuke
Hi Sis Silver,
Just a curious and rather personal question. Hope you dont get offended by it.
You mentioned in your post and you had 3 months of unprotected sex with the lover…
Is there not a single time whereby you had pregnancy scare? presuming each time you allowed him to release inside you? Unless you are on pills. If not… guys should still be able impregnate girls even at the age of 60 right?
Correct me if i’m wrong >.<
Yes, I am on pills. I have always and yes always practice safe sex. Frankly I dislike giving oral but with him I lost control………..till today I dont have any answer to it. Though I was on pills but just to be doublely sure I worked on the dates too.
Anyway during those moment, I never think that far……..
I have to admit I am no good at writing and narrating intimating moments in details like many forumers here who are so good at. I find there is nothing wrong in expressing those moments in details which can be very entertaining and exciting, this is good for this forum. I shall try doing it the next time.
If you take a look at all the sections in this forum, this section has the most viewers and at any one time 10 to 20 per cent of those logged in are here.
However I have to add that some threads are totally irrelevant to the caption of this section which is Adult Discussion about Sex and in my opinion each thread should have a subject for discussions. But sometime with those irrelevant thread is what makes this forum more interesting.
I am aware with these words I am asking for criticism and may subject to some (just gotten to know this word) zapping so be it then but please be gentle. However, if you really want to zap, you should do it to my girl friend because she was the one who highlighted this to me. She loves being zapped…………..in a different way.
My girlfriend, I mentioned earlier this woman loves sex and love every minute of it. Unlike me, she can have several boyfriends at one time but if any of these boy friend of hers were to think of any long term relationship with her they have the wrong idea. Her fun with these boys will go on for maybe a couple of weeks and she will cool off and look for some other greener pastures. The criterion to be her boyfriend is simple. They have to be young, good height, good look and most important good on the bed. Though she is a divorcee with no children, but quite often she will meet up with her former husband and there had been times when her former husband stays for the night at her place. She is a very open minded, independent and frank woman. We shared many things in common and we like fun but we are never flirtatious though we hmmmm……….do flirt. The last thing we want is to hurt anyone’s feelings.
Often after a visit to our favourite haunt, we may bunk together either at my place or hers. It was one of those night as we were walking to the car after a boring evening at a pub, we saw this guy peeing behind some bushes. All of a sudden my girl friend grasped hold of my arm and excitingly asked me to “look at that thing, look at that thing……” I saw nothing wrong with a guy taking a leak due to the call of nature. She mutters and kept on asking me to look at that thing and added, it is so long, I can skip with it.
This guy continues with his business and when done, he zipped up and walk behind us.
My friend still couldn’t get over what she thought she had seen and finally I had enough and said, get him to your bed and hug his “thing” like a bolster and you can suck it like a lollipop as and when you feel like.
For the rest of the week, she kept bugging me that she want to meet this chap and with some chance we might bumped into him again at the pub we came out. I relented but we did not get to see him or anyone like him. I was not even sure how he looks like neither did my friend because his back was facing us and when we were walking to the car, he was behind us.
We had forgotten about that incident until one evening at the same place, a Japanese man came up to us and introduced himself and apologised as the man behind the bushes. Typical middle age Japanese man, and far from my friend’s good book except how good was he on bed no one knows.
I was not in the mood for anything that night so I left early leaving my girl friend with him. On my way home, I was curious to know if what my girl friend had seen that night was true. The next day, I texted her if she had brought the bolster home.
She replied, I made a grave mistake, it was a toothpick that I brought home but the toothpick proved to be better than the bolster. He was not only a toothpick but a great painter.
She surprises me because she took him home, he was neither young, tall and with just an average look.
She went on with this Japanese guy for about a week or so and ditched him. We thought everything was well and good and we girls will moved on with our lives not until one evening my girl friend called me and asked me to go over to her house right away. She said it had something to do with the Japanese man.
My girl friend met me at the pool and this man was there too and seems to be agitated but more emotional with something that my girlfriend had said. He wanted to continue with their relation and had treated my friend as his steady and giving lots of promises.
This really scares us and we were trying to explain to him that their relation was just some fun between two adults until I have to bluntly tell him that I thought Japanese man are very liberal and open minded and a sexual relation for a short period of time don’t happen just in Singapore.
We spent about 2 hours explaining, talking, arguing and finally had to tell him off it was impossible to continue and he has to leave my friend alone.
I was so happy to get even with my girl friend for some of the things she said and I could not help but have to tell her before going home, first you thought it was a bolster but turn out to be a toothpick however this high grade Japanese sticky rice proves a little too much for you to handle….hahaha
Until now I really don’t know what my friend saw, but the only confirmations she gave was that “thing” was not as long like she had imagine it to be. After that incident, we were more careful this time because it had never stuck our mind that we can unknowingly hurt someone’s feeling even it may be just a very short relation.
When a man and a woman have a relationship and after sometime, there’s a feeling for each other and this feeling is emotional and will build up day by day… It is unlikely this kind of emotional feeling is found in those one night stand encounters but there again no individual is the same. But somehow time is the essence for creating this love bond and likewise only time can wash away painful memories. How I wish everything is so easy……Delete…. I think there was once this guy came knocking at my door few days later and said that he loves me.
Oh man! That was a one night stand and he loves me. Is this love or infatuations or craziness? Has it happen to you before?
Today is Friday, soon I will be knocking off, might not be a bad idea to head down the road for a drink…………..
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mr_missile
spend time with me? u serious? literally or virtually?
bet the queue will snake from changi to tuas and back to changi if u are serious.
Have I not spent enough time with you, sweet………..
please take this as a joke……cheap talk like this, is good for the evening especially after work….
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Originally Posted by
mr_missile
bet the queue will snake from changi to tuas and back to changi if u are serious.
The second lane to Tuas is formed already.
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Originally Posted by
silverpussy
Have I not spent enough time with you, sweet………..
please take this as a joke……cheap talk like this, is good for the evening especially after work….
you are so carefree haha….