Thank you bros for ur support, and the understanding, yes, the feeling is shitty, was feeling really down, i haf juz been made a fool by L, and the thing was she tot she was in control. She wanted to haf mi by her side while J is settling his relationship problem wif his gf, meaning to break wif her. Wad a plot!
Anywae when i booked in, i was left wif 2 weeks b4 pop, meaning, i would book out 2 more times b4 passing out! And on my 2nd last bookout, i went home and logged in to her email again. tis time i saw..
L:" W, how’s life? As for mi, i guess i haf more or less made up my mind, i am much happier when i am wif J, rather than my bf, i know its kinda ironic, but we(J and I) juz felt the feel was rite, i am juz waiting for the rite time to tell my bf abt my decision. hear from you soon"
W:“since you haf made up ur mind, i wish u all the best!”
And so i knew our relationship was coming to an end, it was the first week of Dec, i thought our thailand trip 1 dae after my POP would be gone case. But she acted normal to mi, even telling mi how excited she was abt the thailand trip, abt the things she gonna do, and items she gonna buy. The last week of training in bmt was mainly on parade rehersals, and L said she will bring my mum and bro along to see mi. Soon it was time to POP.
Tat nite, i still rmb, 13th dec 2007, we went to Sentosa, for a walk, i even carried her, piggy backed her too. We strolled on the sand, which made mi wonder, y din i do it earlier, y is it happening only when its coming to an end?
After Sentosa, we went to Labrodar park, the carpark famous for some hot actions, as it was raining tat nite, i turned on the aircon to the min, but it was still enough for the windows and windscreen to be fogged. L suggested doing it in the car. I was game on, as it was oso one of my fantasy in my teenage years. She clarified " Though i tink it is exciting, does not mean tat i haf done it b4" I was like, yea rite, in my mind! U noe wad u haf done, and i noe wad u haf done. but i din sae out, i seriously dun noe y i can tahan so much, suffering in silence.
Both of us moved to the backseat, it was a small Chevolet( dun noe spelling correct anot) car, but it was adequate for us le. We took off our tops, and juz hang it at the windows, as double protection.“Off came her pants out came my bird, as we carry on, we sibei Song!” Guys who still rmb the song u learnt in army, " i ask my girl, to take a walk, to take a walk, wif a little dog" Sing to the tune. And we screwed in the back of our car(rented), the car shook, but i dun care, i juz gave her forceful thrust, for betraying mi. Fucker! and within 10 mins, i came, alot into her. Phew it was a tiring activity though.
We went home and returned the car the next dae, before departing to the airport.
Next i will touch on some happenings in thailand, and if i got time, the aftermath of the thailand trip..
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Xgenre
Who paid for the thailand trip? Is it 50% each? If that’s the case, maybe that’s why she waited till after the trip to break up with you. Actually, gfs of NSF damn poor thing. Wait and wait till the weekends, then bf comes out and only talk in army terms. Worse, bf gets so disconnected with the real world that he doesn’t understand how her life has changed.
My ex-gf cheated on me too during my NS days. 5 days before I ord (and regain freedom), we broke up as she found an older guy outside. Sibeh irony cos she waited so long for me. You are still so young, did you really think she’s the one you will marry? Maybe it’s a good thing this ’tree’ left you, there’s a forest of trees out there for you to explore (a chinese saying).
Wait till you get to meet other girls who are waiting for their NSF bfs. Then you can see the other side of the picture. Maybe you will go after these gfs too.
yea bro, actually its really 50 50 for the thailand trip, and i guess its only rite for the breakup to come after tat, we were all 21 then, might be a little too young, and luckily i din hang on to her as well. Rite now im happily attached to my gf, we are much more mature in terms of thinking and our actions.
Bro Xgenre,
Yeap, i am happy to sae tat i haf let go of the past relationship, last year. Anywae i cant update tonite, damn tired, and got fucked literally by my superior todae, tmr is another dae. Cheers
hey bros, thank you all for commenting, i cant update these few daes as something crop up at work, i gotta work from morning till nite, more than 14-15 hrs each dae, once back home i am really shagged out le. I am really pleased tat my story has such good response, thanks alot ! I will update once work has actually died down maybe come the weekend, or mid next week.
Once i find time, i will update le.
Now…
On the wae to the airport, my dad fetched us to the airport as its the first time both of us are taking the plane. When we reached, bid goodbye to dad and we checked in. “We are going to haf one round b4 going to shop, i dun care.” L said excitedly, but in my heart and mind, i juz wanted the trip to be a fruitful one, tat is in terms of my benefit, the sex part. It was only 9 am and our scheduled departure time was 10 50am, somewhere there, however, we departed only at 2130H, if bros do rmb, somewhere in dec 2007, there was tis thai airline which was stranded at the airport, terminal 2 for 10 hrs, yes, i was one of the unhappy travellers, but lets not touch on tat.
And so we touched down at Bangkok airport quite late, wasted half a dae’s holidae back at our own Changi Airport. The travel agency refused to gif us partial refund. Ok, we signed up wif a tour group and so took the bus to the hotel. True to her words, we had a round of sex in the bathroom of the hotel, in the bath tub, it was my first time in the bath tub, and the movement was not tat easy, the water really restrict the movement alot.
The first nite went past juz lidat, 2nd dae, early in the morning, we followed the bus to places like, water market, the thai temple(dun tink is the famous one) some ulu jewellery shops, which really is damn ex, visited tis farm in thailand which claimed their honey is the best, went shopping at some shopping mall, and at nite we went to the nite market, but not b4 watching the famous tiger show.
So the 2nd nite, she had some naughty tots, she bought a sexy nite gown during the afternoon shopping trip and asked for my opinion. I chose a purple translucent one, whereby i can see the matching g string, easily. She wore it and tried to seduce mi. I suggested taking out the camera and record it. And she was game on, she posed sluttishly for the camera, and gave mi some lap dance, all facing the camera. We recorded our first and only sex video. But when we reached Singapore after the holidaes, she deleted it(haiz)
3rd morning was our last dae in thailand, and we went to the zoo b4 heading to the airport for our flight back to singapore. The zoo trip was quite ok, but the photos taken during the trip were all deleted by her as it was her camera, not mine. Blame myself for being a fucking PTE tat time, juz passed out from bmt, wif no savings, reason i said no savings is becos, during my younger daes, 15 onwards, i indulged in gambling and gambled awae my hongbao money, my bursaries, my savings. Haiz, sad past…
Next, i will touch on the events which happened and wad led to our break up…
bri gemini, agreed wif u, however during our thailand trip, we haf not broken off yet, as L tot she had everything under control. Bullshit!
Good Evening to all bros here, finally, work is over for now, it was a hectic 2 weeks, tats y i got no time to update the conclusion here. Here’s the conclusion.
And so we came back from thailand after 3 daes, her attitude sorta changed once she touched down, and back to work. I still haf the habit of looking at her sms sometimes. And i would randomly find msgs from J, saying things like, " dear, i miss u so much during ur absence. Hope u enjoyed ur trip, really wished tat was mi wif u" And i scrolled down to wae before J’s msg. I found something stunning.
It was some sms exchanges wif Dr G, a newly posted in Doctor at her workplace. I saw things like L saying “Hi G, hows life? im alone walking at far east plaza and i think alot of ppl staring at mi bcos im wearing a top whereby my boobs is almost exposed” Wah bros, on tat dae i went to find her at far east, she was wearing those tops u would find easily from those push carts, however they alwaes come wif tube inside, L juz disregard the tube, and wore it juz like tat, no wonder the stares! SLUT!
Dr G’s reply " wow, can i see or touch them den? oops" NBCB, when i saw tis i was like sian diao, meaning wad? from quite some time back she was already flirting wif this Dr G, b4 J’s appearance. Wah lan, i was really being made a fool lor. When i questioned her abt Dr G, she said he’s a new colleague, only been to his hse twice, to get something, (yeah rite, if its the truth, how come never tell mi ? and when i questioned, juz sae get something?)
One week after we came back from Thailand, we went shopping at town, den went to esplanade for a meal, and planned to go for a walk. The reason y i said planned was it did not happen, ( the walk tat is) Upon receiving a sms, she said she had to go and meet a friend, i wanted to tag along but she said they alwaes go out juz the two of them lidat, she quoted mi a name, whom i tot was of no threat and so there i was going back home alone, and letting her go and meet her friend.
Tat nite, i went over her hse and stayed over. She came back and was surprised to see mi, of cos she had to. And while she was bathing, i looked at her sms again. J sent a sms : " Dear, you were fantastic and so hot juz now" Wah lan i tell u bros, in my mind i really wanted to explode, but somehow i dun noe y, i kept my cool, pretended nth has happened. I mean i dun haf to spell it out, and u all can guess wad happened rite? she did not wan mi to tag along, den J sent tat sms, so once again im the fool.
The last call i think was during christmas eve, she juz suddenly sms mi sae she wanted to be alone, and how many times i called her, she either rejected, or did not pick up. And around tat period of time, i knew where i was being posted to. I was being posted to FDS, and she was quite disappointed. She smsed mi, " whether or not to continue tis relationship, i leave it to u" on the dae i had to report to my new unit. She even said, “i think 1.8k and 400 dollars is a big difference”. NB, So she was saying i could not earn enough to support her, juz bcos im earning 400 a month. And so tis was how we broke off. I thought it was no point in continuing, being made a fool dun noe how many fucking times.
It was later on, when we managed to talk it out,( after breakup, tat i knew on christmas eve, she went clubbing wif J.) She oso found out from mi tat i was being posted to OCS, after my training wif FDS. Something unheard of, but another csemate and myself made it thru. Nothing is impossible. Sometimes i wonder, wad if initially my posting was OCS? Would she still send tat sms? Even if she dun, i think i will also break up wif her, and expose her!( until now i never do tat,bcos i wan to let her think tat i noe nuts abt her) She dun deserve my love anymore, but of cos during our time together, it was great sex, good sharing session, an eye opener for mi on how Singporean girls can become.
Tats the conclusion Bros and Sis, hope you enjoyed my true life story. Cheers!
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Xgenre
What’s FDS?
I know of some girls who like their bfs to be commandos during their NSF. Then the girls can tell others their bfs are commandos. A lot of girls also like officers because the girls want to get married under a row of raised swords (called shooting arrows is it?). Whatever it is, relationships during NS tend to be transitional. Everyone’s young and just want to have fun. Don’t have to get angry if any party cheats, I feel.
yea bro, FDS is Field Defence Squadron. And yea, i dun tink i was angry, if not i would haf become dave teo number 2
Bros, thank you for all ur support all these while, sometimes i am contemplating on whether to continue wif the ending not, for fear of being laughed at, but as some ppl said, not all stories end wif a happy ending, and in my case, its so true.
Cheers and hope i can share more life experiences again!
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dunowhatla
Hi dvilla bro, I think you’re lucky to have found out early (I presume in an early stage of the r/s?). At least the hurt wouldn’t be as bad and you’ve managed to get a good steady gf now. Plus you had your share of fun. So probably you should let it go.
I too had been cheated on by my ex-bf and until this incident happen did I know that guys (well, almost all) cheats. And I’ve even accompanied him thru his 2yrs of ns plus work/study life (totaling to abt 4yrs). See how much time wasted, esp to a girl, becos guys would still be considered bachelor even when they get older but girls -spinsters. Even though I’m not that old yet, but well.. Those 4yrs are nv gonna be returned to me, so I think you are a lucky guy alr
Anyway, continue with your story! Would love to read the ending
P/s: this is my first post!
Hi sis, thanks for ur reply, and i think im quite honoured to haf a virgin post by u, oops, haha anywae my story has ended le. Good Dae