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Originally Posted by
Bangster
Some of you people really have no manners leh….
People is a girl with a high sex drive and you are treating her like an object.
Please leh, dont throw the faces of MAN like this leh…
Got cock doesn’t mean you superman, ok? In here, a lot of people got cock, and these people(basically called “Ta Bor”, aka “Men”) also know how to fuck. So it’s not only you. Dont post such buay hiao bai things leh.
By the way, I won’t zap you cos my points are for upping those who deserve it.
And lastly, if YOU still dont know who YOU ARE
I think you’d better go to another forum lah.
EXACTLY. I couldnt agree with you more.
What a disgrace.
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Originally Posted by
MitMit
Im having this same problem for many years…….suffering in silence. Where to seek help?
Are you male or femaleeeeeeeeeeee
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Originally Posted by
devan69
hi miss 22 i have the same reaction the same as u .when i see them on streets coms or porns ,i really get turn on .im askin myself the same question too but they say try nt to eat too much oxyster all tat jus cant control it dun u ?
OYSTERS! isnt that a myth? teehee.
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Originally Posted by
noobie.swingers
A high sex drive is a problem only IF it affects your capability to function in your daily life. If you are able to concentrate at work and lead a “normal” social life, then it really isn’t a problem … except that of finding a willing and able partner
Likewise, if you are happy with who you are … highly sexed, wanting to indulge in “slut” role-plays, then there really isn’t a problem (although this one is rather tricky as it is hard to seperate undue influence from your close ones). It is only a problem if you are unhappy with who you and/or have self esteem issues.
So If you find that it affects your ability to work/socialise normally, or if you have self-esteem issues, then you may want to seek help.
I’ve met quite a few high sex drive women in my life …
One was my gf when I was serving NS. We would fuck like rabbits during the weekends but during the weekdays, when I couldn’t bookout, she would be incredibly high-strung and sexually frustrated. Masturbation didn’t fully satisfy her but she made do by scheming on what we would do on the weekends. It certainly made for rather explosive weekends
Another was a girl I knew in Uni, while in hostel. She had a bf but couldn’t enough even thoughly they did it daily. She started trawling campus for guys to fuck and it all spiralled down from there. Her bf was not supportive, she could not reconcile her shame of sleeping around vs her desire to fuck. She ended up needing help and medication. It messed her up.
Bottom line, if you find the right people, in the right environment, you can be happy. If you find yourself doing the wrong things for the wrong reasons, IF ever you are unhappy with who you are or what you are doing, force yourself to take a step back and evaluate your position from a 3rd person’s perspective. Don’t be shy about getting professional help. They often give you a perspective that your friends usually don’t. More info means better decisions.
Also, don’t bother about what constitutes “normal” masturbation or sex preferences. We are all different. We prefer different positions … different things excite us, motivate us, stimulate us.
Some of my gf’s could multi-orgasm, some couldn’t. First time I met one who couldn’t, I kept stimulating her after she came, insisting that she come again. I got a shove, a slap and a scolding for that. Some of them like to use fingers while masturbating, some didn’t. Some liked digital penetration, some prefered clitorial stimulation. As for what goes on in their mind, the variety of thoughts is stagerring.
You figure what works for you physically and mentally and leave it as that. Don’t try to benchmark against other people.
BTW, sports … I find that sports actually increases my sex drive! Other than the initial “aching-all-over” getting fit period, sports rarely leaves me so tired that I can’t get it up. OTOH, the competitiveness makes me more driven, more alive and it carries over into the bedroom. Sports also de-stresses me, which leads to more mental inclination for naughty stuff. Sports also makes me fitter, which means more energy and stamina for *ahem* nocturnal sports. These days, I find that I am actually buzzing after my weeknight sports sessions … to the extent that I actually have trouble sleeping unless I *ahem* release first. That’s me anyway. YMMV
my 2c. Thanks for reading.
Uni girl case is seriously messed up. That’s really quite something. I don’t think ill ever be in that position. Dont even have thought about that. I wont do things to others if i will never want to be done to me.
Yes i do sports too like 5 times a week, swimming. Do or dont do, it doesnt affect the sexual side of me actually haha.
You are right about - Also, don’t bother about what constitutes “normal” masturbation or sex preferences. We are all different. We prefer different positions … different things excite us, motivate us, stimulate us. - I guess i am curious about whats going on with other people out there
Thanks for your conversation
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Originally Posted by
guller
HSD are normal for every human regardless gender.
but it really depends on individual how to diverse their sex drive.
some may find it taboo but some may not,some even odd.
i’m a guy,for me i’ll masturbate twice a week sometime even up to once every single day durin hormone “raging”
for guys,if they masturbate more they will have less wet dream which is true to me.
why? bcoz once i nvr masturbate almost 2-3 week, every morning wake up my
undie are damp wit wetness
i duno whether gal does experience these situation.
but for sure ur boyfren is da happiest guy in da world.
haha its so lovable to see a standing cock in the morning next to me and damp underwear. haha.
girls too do experience this sort of thing. but not as significant as men.