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Originally Posted by
machinehead1234
Sorry to hear about your loss. Hope you stay strong.
I am thinking perhaps you are referring to Japanese girls from out of state (i.e. non-big city girls) who might be more drawn to Asian men (or anyone for that matter) who can speak fluent English. However, allow me to qualify my observations as being based on women that are actually born and bred in Tokyo/Osaka/Yokohama. (i.e. Big Cities). I am sure you will agree that interacting with such women is vastly different from the former.
Thank you, Yes. I am not refering to girls from the City itself. There are many girls that comes from other parts of Japan that are very sweet. And these are the ones that I am telling Singaporeans man to go for. City girls, There is no point in going for them. For fun, Yes. For lifetime, Difficult. But I still believe there are a handful of them which are better than their counterparts.
Thank you for all of your kind comments,
I will shortly write another episode on more of our sexual adventures.
The song above is the song that we loved the most during our times together. Listening to this song, Will remind me of her. And I would like to share this song with you guys. And the song above is the song I sang to her during our first outing to the Karaoke.
Try reading my ending with this song. You will understand my feelings even though you do not understand Japanese. The video above have english translation.
Bro, my heart sank when i read your ending……Don’t know if i myself can take it if happens to me…Anyway am glad you are back on track and moving forward. Read somewhere if something don’t kill you, it will make you stronger. Today you is definitely stronger than yesteryou.
for me.. i would like to hear as much as youd like to tell, in this case. after all, it must pain you to write all these down, no?
Hi TokyoMan,
I can understand how u feel, though your case is more painful than mine! When my r’ship with my ex was broken, I was also heart-broken. My situation that time was, not only am I brought down to ZERO emotionally, I was also brought down to ZERO financially (actually, negative), and the chain effect caused me to lose my job, my fighting spirit, even my family (parents) almost split, I lost almost everything! That period, I have no regard for life / death, whether it’s my own life or anybody else’s life!
That period was a real test for me. Mentally and emotionally, I was stretched to the limits, I was on the verge of breaking down anytime. Even doctors were monitoring me closely, ready to prescribe tranquilisers to me anytime. I needed sleeping pills to sleep for a period of time. To help myself cope mentally, emotionally and financially, I worked 3 jobs a day, sleeping only 3 hrs everyday!
Today, several years have passed, I am in much better position, in fact, a position that many people envy. But the damage might be lifelong (it is related to religion and superstition), or for how long the curse or poison will be, I’m not exactly sure.
Every now and then, I may think back of the past, look at the present, plan for the future. Few months back, I still have the intention to seek revenge. I can tell you, my way of executing revenge, is not by killing. I have quite sadistic ideas for revenge, you do not wish to know. But, contacts and friends who have the connections to help me execute revenge advised me, not to make the first move. At least, when I’m not the one that made the first strike, I am acting in “self-defence”, reacting to an “attack”.
Now, I leave everything to Fate. I / we all do not know what Fate has for us in life. But, what I can, and believe I should do, is to focus on the productive things, ie, work hard, make a decent living, cherish the people around me, cherish whatever I have now.
I quit Singapore after that fateful r’ship ended, moved to China and have been a globetrotter every now and then these years. Though I travelled to many countries, I had never been to Japan yet. There were 2 projects that initially required me to go Tokyo, but due to changes in situation, I didn’t go eventually. Recently, I’m thinking of going Tokyo for holiday when I have the chance, and then I came across your thread. Makes me feel even more wanting to go Tokyo for holiday! When I go Tokyo, will you be able to show me some places?
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TokyoMan
Thank you.
Is anybody still interested to hear more of our sexual adventures?
Bro TokyoMan - my heart is with you. My deepest condolence.
Stay strong to move on.
Btw - looking forward to your next adventure………..
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Originally Posted by
methenarcissist
for me.. i would like to hear as much as youd like to tell, in this case. after all, it must pain you to write all these down, no?
I would like to share the love M have for me to other people in this world. Therefore, I feel that it is alright for me to share about our love making stories.
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Originally Posted by
84gunner
Recently, I’m thinking of going Tokyo for holiday when I have the chance, and then I came across your thread. Makes me feel even more wanting to go Tokyo for holiday! When I go Tokyo, will you be able to show me some places?
I will gladly show you around buddy, And in this case, Please do not seek revenge. There is retribution. What goes around comes around. Since it stopped at you. Then swallow it and take it like a man. Like me. I have already forgiven the driver and allowed him to pay his last respects to M.
If I can do it, I believe you can too!
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Originally Posted by
TokyoMan
I will gladly show you around buddy, And in this case, Please do not seek revenge. There is retribution. What goes around comes around. Since it stopped at you. Then swallow it and take it like a man. Like me. I have already forgiven the driver and allowed him to pay his last respects to M.
If I can do it, I believe you can too!
bravo bro. Life has to move on and that is the best way to repay her love, by being strong and continue with life on behalf of her.
May all be well for u!