Quote:
Originally Posted by
radiskull
Bro warbird
That’s why I tell men don’t chase women. When you’re chasing women, not only are you causing them to flee (you can’t give chase if she isn’t running first), but you’re also getting yourself tied up in emotional knots… that are going to bind you to her.
Except, it’s not a two-way bind.
You don’t bind her to you by getting emotionally attached to her yourself. To the contrary… the more emotionally attached to a girl you become, generally, the less attached (and interested) she’ll be in you.
The more time you spend emotionally pursuing something or someone - and any time you even vaguely “want” something, it’s emotional, at least to some degree - the more power you give that something or someone over you.
And what happens when someone has power over you?
What u said is really true. And it applies in real life. I chase a girl too hard and now she has the power over me. Too emotionally attached to her now. Causing too much pain and I really need to break free as it’s driving me crazy
Dear bro rediskull,
That is really bad news! The good news? You’re in great company haha. You’re one of the billions of men, in the last 5 thousand yrs of recorded history, who find themselves in this painful predicament.
Let me repeat. If a man is more emotionally attached to a woman than she is to him, he is the one caring more in the RS, he will lose power n she will become less n less attracted to him. What happens next is predictable. He will become needy n desperate for her affection n company…like a drowning man trying to cling to anything that will keep him afloat. And how would she react? She will lose whatever attraction n affection she had for him initially…very soon she will find him repulsive n would break away asap hahaha.
What I hv described is true whether he has been w/ her 30 minutes or 30 yrs. I hv seen a rich, tall n handsome SG friend who was dumped by an ugly PRC whore in her 30s simply cuz he lost his control n power in the RS. He was madly in love w/ her! He even offered to give her money upfront n marry her!! I would say he kena gong tao. She despised him n flatly rejected him n chose to continue to be a whore back in PRC!!
Take home lesson? A man must hv power in any RS, n he should be the one who cares the least n he must be prepared to walk out for good, no matter how much he loves the woman.
Hope + Uncertainty = Attraction (Passion)
Understanding this formula is more important than your looks, height, age, status, money, intelligence, education, masculinity, personality, character, skills, strategies, experience, etc put together. And if u could give her PVO, more prolonged n more intense than any other men, she will be sexually n emotionally addicted to u, even if u look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame, hahaha.
Where is ur emotional control n self mastery?
Bro, STOP contacting the woman who is causing u pain. Never ever ctc her again. Let her make the first move. If she doesn’t, forget her n find other younger, prettier n safer pussies. If she is living w/ u now, give her 24 hrs to move out, hahaha. Be firm n heartless. Doing so gives u the best chance to turn the table on her n for her to become attracted to u. She may even fall for u soon. There r no other ways.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
LOL..now i feel like making my gal cry too..and see her raw emotions..
Dear bro saabking,
Give her strong emotions, the good the bad n the ugly, n she will fall for u.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
PeteTsang69
ha ha ha ..think its your DNA ..or more correctly , it’s in our DNA …
since this is the most “educational” thread in SBF …maybe timely reminder of the “coolidge effect”………………………..
of course i felt this many times …initially felt guilty, thought i was “unfaithfull”, just after great time upstairs, exhausting long rounds ..
but down in the lobby straight away was excited again seeing someone “novel” …
now i know there’s a science to explain …my “natural” feelings
Dear bro PeteTsang69,
Tks for ur post. You’re a healthy n normal man.
Cheers!
…………………………..
Good morning!
Never ever forget this:
“The same is so in seduction - sacrifice your time and energy for a girl you’ve messed up on or who is not very interested, and you will end up paying $500 for a $10 item.”
Do the opposite n do a bit of searching n you may pay $10 for a $500 item, hahaha,
Best,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
radiskull
Bro warbird
That’s why I tell men don’t chase women. When you’re chasing women, not only are you causing them to flee (you can’t give chase if she isn’t running first), but you’re also getting yourself tied up in emotional knots… that are going to bind you to her.
Except, it’s not a two-way bind.
You don’t bind her to you by getting emotionally attached to her yourself. To the contrary… the more emotionally attached to a girl you become, generally, the less attached (and interested) she’ll be in you.
The more time you spend emotionally pursuing something or someone - and any time you even vaguely “want” something, it’s emotional, at least to some degree - the more power you give that something or someone over you.
And what happens when someone has power over you?
What u said is really true. And it applies in real life. I chase a girl too hard and now she has the power over me. Too emotionally attached to her now. Causing too much pain and I really need to break free as it’s driving me crazy
Dear bro rediskull,
That is really bad news! The good news? You’re in great company haha. You’re one of the billions of men, in the last 5 thousand yrs of recorded history, who find themselves in this painful predicament.
Let me repeat. If a man is more emotionally attached to a woman than she is to him, he is the one caring more in the RS, he will lose power n she will become less n less attracted to him. What happens next is predictable. He will become needy n desperate for her affection n company…like a drowning man trying to cling to anything that will keep him afloat. And how would she react? She will lose whatever attraction n affection she had for him initially…very soon she will find him repulsive n would break away asap hahaha.
What I hv described is true whether he has been w/ her 30 minutes or 30 yrs. I hv seen a rich, tall n handsome SG friend who was dumped by an ugly PRC whore in her 30s simply cuz he lost his control n power in the RS. He was madly in love w/ her! He even offered to give her money upfront n marry her!! I would say he kena gong tao. She despised him n flatly rejected him n chose to continue to be a whore back in PRC!!
Take home lesson? A man must hv power in any RS, n he should be the one who cares the least n he must be prepared to walk out for good, no matter how much he loves the woman.
Hope + Uncertainty = Attraction (Passion)
Understanding this formula is more important than your looks, height, age, status, money, intelligence, education, masculinity, personality, character, skills, strategies, experience, etc put together. And if u could give her PVO, more prolonged n more intense than any other men, she will be sexually n emotionally addicted to u, even if u look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame, hahaha.
Where is ur emotional control n self mastery?
Bro, STOP contacting the woman who is causing u pain. Never ever ctc her again. Let her make the first move. If she doesn’t, forget her n find other younger, prettier n safer pussies. If she is living w/ u now, give her 24 hrs to move out, hahaha. Be firm n heartless. Doing so gives u the best chance to turn the table on her n for her to become attracted to u. She may even fall for u soon. There r no other ways.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
LOL..now i feel like making my gal cry too..and see her raw emotions..
Dear bro saabking,
Give her strong emotions, the good the bad n the ugly, n she will fall for u.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
PeteTsang69
ha ha ha ..think its your DNA ..or more correctly , it’s in our DNA …
since this is the most “educational” thread in SBF …maybe timely reminder of the “coolidge effect”………………………..
of course i felt this many times …initially felt guilty, thought i was “unfaithfull”, just after great time upstairs, exhausting long rounds ..
but down in the lobby straight away was excited again seeing someone “novel” …
now i know there’s a science to explain …my “natural” feelings
Dear bro PeteTsang69,
Tks for ur post. You’re a healthy n normal man.
Cheers!
…………………………..
Good morning!
Never ever forget this:
“The same is so in seduction - sacrifice your time and energy for a girl you’ve messed up on or who is not very interested, and you will end up paying $500 for a $10 item.”
Do the opposite n do a bit of searching n you may pay $10 for a $500 item, hahaha,
Best,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
radiskull
Reading this make me feel so much better. I’m not alone.
I’m going to restore my pride and dignity from today. Knn make me suffered so much. Even pangsai also think of her. Going to break free from her witchcraft………………………
Dear bro radiskull,
Even the most experienced player may get KC-ed when he meets his ‘dream girl,’ hahaha.
The best defence is to hv abundance mindset n believe that younger, prettier, fresher n safer girls r lining up for you…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
LookingGuy
Very meaningful thread. …………So many guys my age put the pussy on a pedestal, and act like dogs or pets in order to humor a woman.
I myself have also experienced a lot of heartbreak, been manipulated and eaten (was a total carrot when I was younger). Look forward to learning from more experienced bros on emotional control, self-mastery, and being a better and more successful man overall……………………..
Dear bro LookingGuy,
Tks for ur post.
No man has a monopoly on emotional control n self mastery. There is room for improvement for everyone.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Hi Bro WB,
yeah tbh sometimes I myself is not sure about geniune but I do know the girl which was one of fav make a super big feat on her FB Line Wechat and Whatsapp with her statues comments and postings……………………..
Just a question does dancing actually in a way trigger their emotions?? Anyway i am not planning to follow up with any of the girls…. one thai girl is enough to suck me dry….
Dear bro deathnitez,
Yes, dancing does trigger their emotions n fantasies. I’ll explain below.
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Good morning!
I believe that bros who can sing well n dance well hv an advantage in attracting n seducing beautiful women or pretty SYTs at their subconscious level, at least initially.
Most women don’t even know why n don’t see any connection between dancing n sexual attraction hahaha. Of course a good dancer could turn out to be a big disappointment later hahhaha.
Let me let u in on a secret which very few people know. The reason is because good dancers n good singers r perceived to hv good RHYTHM.
Good RHYTHM is crucial if u want to give a woman the most incredible PVO. With Good RHYTHM u put her in a trance n set her up for the most intense n explosive PVO hahaha.
BTW, I searched SBF n couldn’t find anything on rhythm n female orgasm/satisfaction? Are we SG men all robots?
Unfortunately, I don’t sing n I don’t dance well. I hv to learn to improve my rhythm slowly n painstakingly…the goal is to merge my rhythm w/ hers…when two shall become one flesh.
Of course it takes a lot more than just rhythm…
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
RHYTHM? I’ve got good rhythm. Hehehe. I can sing and love to sing and I love to listen to the singers sing. Not all of them can sing though. Ironically, the worst singers get the most flowers. And they say: dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire.
Dear bro FA,
Great quote!
“Dancing: The vertical expression of a horizontal desire legalized by music.” — George Bernard Shaw
Singing is not as powerful as dancing. Do u dance well? If u do, u hv an unfair advantage in attracting girls, at least initially.
Dancing is definitely sexual. Even folk dancing by adolescent girls has sexual undertone.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
After much thought, I think the formula, Hope + Uncertainty (Doubt) = Attraction (Passion), should be modified.
The new formula is Hope X Doubt = Attraction
If u give a girl no Hope or zero Hope for the future, her attraction for u will eventually be zero, as in 0 X Doubt = 0.
If u hv confessed ur eternal love for a girl or if you’re in a legal marriage, u hv removed all Doubt(s) n Uncertainty has dropped close to zero or zero. Despite very high Hope(s) for the future for both of u, Hope X 0 = 0. No wonder there is sky high divorce rates n very unhappy long-term RS.
A man must balance the right amt of Hope n Doubt to maintain n sustain Attraction, whether he has been w/ the girl/woman 30 min or 30 yrs.
Your comments n criticisms?
Another recent encounter. A few days before leaving for Gotham City, I saw a singer XH who could be my type, at a high end joint. I was in a rm w/ two esteemed bros. My ex mistress CY was also in the rm. I told the waitress to get XH. She came n sat w/ me. Her singing was good but not great. She is 20, 168, fair, proportionate body. Unfortunately her boobs were only B? I like her voice n her youthfulness.
Two days later, I booked her for HH at a PC joint. I wanted to ST her, she said she would never do ST regardless of my offer haha. I offered to BY her. I was brutally frank abt my intentions n her purpose of coming to SG. She nodded n said she would consider.
The next day, she said OK for BY. I suggested two options: 1) I buy all her slots so she doesn’t work plus I give her some extra, quite costly. 2) She continues to work n the terms r negotiable, much less expensive.
She said Option 2 better. She only wanted some living expenses, no need to hang flowers or buying her slots. Said she would never fuck other men. I said: 你可以和客人去宵夜，she thought I said no supper n replied: 啊不能去宵夜？！I said: 当然可以. I told her I would test her w/ Oraquick n send her to KK n hinted that I would fuck her raw. She said not a problem. I would start the RS when I return from Gotham City in a month.
I hv had very little experience w/ singers as I sleep early, a great disadvantage. But she is one of the very few singers of my type I hv seen in the last few yrs in SG. Two clear n present risks. Firstly, whether I ’ll still like her when she is stark naked n whether I can make her cum n cum. Secondly, whether she will fuck other men. To mitigate the risks, I’ll pay her weekly haha. If the ’living expenses’ r low enough, I’ll treat it like a serial STs or packaged STs. If she fucks her men, I’ll drop her. Of course, I’ll check my sources to see if she has a BF when I return.
Any better options? Just drop her? I can take it or leave it haha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
radiskull
Reading this make me feel so much better. I’m not alone.
I’m going to restore my pride and dignity from today. Knn make me suffered so much. Even pangsai also think of her. Going to break free from her witchcraft………………………
Dear bro radiskull,
Even the most experienced player may get KC-ed when he meets his ‘dream girl,’ hahaha.
The best defence is to hv abundance mindset n believe that younger, prettier, fresher n safer girls r lining up for you…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
LookingGuy
Very meaningful thread. …………So many guys my age put the pussy on a pedestal, and act like dogs or pets in order to humor a woman.
I myself have also experienced a lot of heartbreak, been manipulated and eaten (was a total carrot when I was younger). Look forward to learning from more experienced bros on emotional control, self-mastery, and being a better and more successful man overall……………………..
Dear bro LookingGuy,
Tks for ur post.
No man has a monopoly on emotional control n self mastery. There is room for improvement for everyone.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Hi Bro WB,
yeah tbh sometimes I myself is not sure about geniune but I do know the girl which was one of fav make a super big feat on her FB Line Wechat and Whatsapp with her statues comments and postings……………………..
Just a question does dancing actually in a way trigger their emotions?? Anyway i am not planning to follow up with any of the girls…. one thai girl is enough to suck me dry….
Dear bro deathnitez,
Yes, dancing does trigger their emotions n fantasies. I’ll explain below.
………………………………………….. …………….
Good morning!
I believe that bros who can sing well n dance well hv an advantage in attracting n seducing beautiful women or pretty SYTs at their subconscious level, at least initially.
Most women don’t even know why n don’t see any connection between dancing n sexual attraction hahaha. Of course a good dancer could turn out to be a big disappointment later hahhaha.
Let me let u in on a secret which very few people know. The reason is because good dancers n good singers r perceived to hv good RHYTHM.
Good RHYTHM is crucial if u want to give a woman the most incredible PVO. With Good RHYTHM u put her in a trance n set her up for the most intense n explosive PVO hahaha.
BTW, I searched SBF n couldn’t find anything on rhythm n female orgasm/satisfaction? Are we SG men all robots?
Unfortunately, I don’t sing n I don’t dance well. I hv to learn to improve my rhythm slowly n painstakingly…the goal is to merge my rhythm w/ hers…when two shall become one flesh.
Of course it takes a lot more than just rhythm…
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
RHYTHM? I’ve got good rhythm. Hehehe. I can sing and love to sing and I love to listen to the singers sing. Not all of them can sing though. Ironically, the worst singers get the most flowers. And they say: dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire.
Dear bro FA,
Great quote!
“Dancing: The vertical expression of a horizontal desire legalized by music.” — George Bernard Shaw
Singing is not as powerful as dancing. Do u dance well? If u do, u hv an unfair advantage in attracting girls, at least initially.
Dancing is definitely sexual. Even folk dancing by adolescent girls has sexual undertone.
Cheers!
Bro WB
………………………………………….. ………………..
Good morning!
After much thought, I think the formula, Hope + Uncertainty (Doubt) = Attraction (Passion), should be modified.
The new formula is Hope X Doubt = Attraction
If u give a girl no Hope or zero Hope for the future, her attraction for u will eventually be zero, as in 0 X Doubt = 0.
If u hv confessed ur eternal love for a girl or if you’re in a legal marriage, u hv removed all Doubt(s) n Uncertainty has dropped close to zero or zero. Despite very high Hope(s) for the future for both of u, Hope X 0 = 0. No wonder there is sky high divorce rates n very unhappy long-term RS.
A man must balance the right amt of Hope n Doubt to maintain n sustain Attraction, whether he has been w/ the girl/woman 30 min or 30 yrs.
Your comments n criticisms?
Another recent encounter. A few days before leaving for Gotham City, I saw a singer XH who could be my type, at a high end joint. I was in a rm w/ two esteemed bros. My ex mistress CY was also in the rm. I told the waitress to get XH. She came n sat w/ me. Her singing was good but not great. She is 20, 168, fair, proportionate body. Unfortunately her boobs were only B? I like her voice n her youthfulness.
Two days later, I booked her for HH at a PC joint. I wanted to ST her, she said she would never do ST regardless of my offer haha. I offered to BY her. I was brutally frank abt my intentions n her purpose of coming to SG. She nodded n said she would consider.
The next day, she said OK for BY. I suggested two options: 1) I buy all her slots so she doesn’t work plus I give her some extra, quite costly. 2) She continues to work n the terms r negotiable, much less expensive.
She said Option 2 better. She only wanted some living expenses, no need to hang flowers or buying her slots. Said she would never fuck other men. I said: 你可以和客人去宵夜，she thought I said no supper n replied: 啊不能去宵夜？！I said: 当然可以. I told her I would test her w/ Oraquick n send her to KK n hinted that I would fuck her raw. She said not a problem. I would start the RS when I return from Gotham City in a month.
I hv had very little experience w/ singers as I sleep early, a great disadvantage. But she is one of the very few singers of my type I hv seen in the last few yrs in SG. Two clear n present risks. Firstly, whether I ’ll still like her when she is stark naked n whether I can make her cum n cum. Secondly, whether she will fuck other men. To mitigate the risks, I’ll pay her weekly haha. If the ’living expenses’ r low enough, I’ll treat it like a serial STs or packaged STs. If she fucks her men, I’ll drop her. Of course, I’ll check my sources to see if she has a BF when I return.
Any better options? Just drop her? I can take it or leave it haha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
LOL…Warbird’s Law Hope X Doubt = Attraction ..is as universal as Newton’s laws..
Totally agree..that’s y sometimes need to create doubt and explore the emotional possibilities of fear..
Hope & Fear - the basic emotions that move markets..
Dear bro saabking,
You’re spot on.
Women thrive on strong emotions. If u give them more hope, they will get greedier…if u give them more doubt, they will get more fearful, because they don’t want to lose ur support n the intense PVO u hv given them hahaha.
Fear is the most powerful emotion. Greed is a distant 2nd.
If u say no or reject a girl, say for BY, u must keep her hopes alive, otherwise she will just give up on u for good.
Cheers!
Bro WB
……………………………………..
Good morning!
Another FR. This time picking up inside a KTV.
A few days ago I reconnected w/ a young woman RJ who is getting her undergraduate degree at a UK university next yr.
I first met RJ at TAM 1st fl over 1 1/2 years ago. I saw her in the hall n quickly got her ctc. I didn’t book her as I had a mistress n another girl w/ me. I called her two days later to ask for ST. She said NO. I then offered BY n she replied that she was finishing her education in SG n returning to China very soon. Besides, I had too many tall SYTs already, she said. I got her QQ anyway. Couldn’t see her pics as password was required. i didn’t follow up.
A few months later she sent me a text msg n asked how I was doing. I asked if she was coming back to SG soon to be my woman haha. No, she was flying to the UK to study next wk. I looked up her QQ pics (she unlocked for me) n realized how pretty n sexy she was. She was 23 then, abt 170, B/C cup? Very proportionate body with shapely, beautiful ass. I visualized giving her frequent PVO she had never, ever experienced before haha. I bemoaned the fact that she was so far away.
She sent me another QQ msg 9 months ago n gave me her UK HP no. I never called her even though she said she could meet me if I go to see her in London. she was spending most of her waking time studying…
A few days ago, I registered for a new WhatApp w/ my Gotham phone n I came across RJ as being available. We had a long chat in English. She is Hakka Han, from 广东梅州. I hv never BYed a 客家人.
She sent me newer photos n added me to her Wechat. She has never been BYed. She has a regular BF now who doesn’t give her any support. She is from a middle class family. She is not in love w/ her BF n will not marry him after graduation. To me, that means he is NOT giving her any PVO hahaha. If she had told me she didn’t hv a BF, she would be lying or she is a lesbian. I can’t believe such a pretty n sexy girl w/o a BF. I told her to get a good job in SG n become my mistress next yr. I told her I hv only one er nai at this time. She said she would seriously consider hahaha. She would be different from all my other mistresses because she is better educated n has a degree from the UK. Like a bro says, intelligent n educated women r attractive. And she is my type in looks n figure.
Good day!
Bro WB
Good morning!
I’m going to be very blunt n brutally honest.
In the era of AIDS, our lives literally depend on the faithfulness of our women/GFs/wives/mistresses/lovers. Women cheat as much as men, but they r much better in concealing their affairs haha. Over 50% of legal wives cheat. Local SG girls cheat just as much as maligned PRC n Thai girls.
A few days ago, a good kaki of mine was to up a pretty n tall local SYT in a well known 5-star hotel. She was very expensive n was said to be my type too. My kaki was late because he had to park in another nearby hotel. He ran but was still over 25 mins late n the girl got very nervous, cried n left. According to the OKT, she was a ‘very good girl’ n had a new local BF n she didn’t want him to get suspicious! I know this hotel very well n there is valet parking!
How do u ‘cheat proof’ your women? Be vigilant n maintain a high index of suspicion. NEVER be complacent whether you hv been w/ her 2 days or 20 yrs. Most importantly…her degree of emotional n sexual connection/addiction w/ and for you. In doubt, don’t hesitate to engage a reputable PI.
I hv mentioned the importance of making deep emotional connection w/ your women n that this connection, no matter how seemly strong n secure, can’t last forever without strong sexual connection and/or addiction as well.
I hv also mentioned that the most powerful n fastest way for a woman to get sexually addicted is regular, intense n prolonged PVO. IMHO, the 2nd most powerful way is to give her masterful cunnilingus n make her come n come. It’s even more powerful If u know how to give simultaneous stimulation of her G/deep spot n anus, the so-called trigasm. Making a woman sexually addicted to you takes time, perhaps minimum of 3 to 6 months or longer of staying together…
One factor that has not been well discussed, nor well understood, is the right balance of dopamine n oxytocin in inducing sexual addiction. Too much in one may upset the balance n may disrupt the addictive process. Unfortunately, this is very complex n there r many other variables, depending on both partners n the activities, inside n outside of bedroom..
Any comments?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
LOL…Warbird’s Law Hope X Doubt = Attraction ..is as universal as Newton’s laws..
Totally agree..that’s y sometimes need to create doubt and explore the emotional possibilities of fear..
Hope & Fear - the basic emotions that move markets..
Dear bro saabking,
You’re spot on.
Women thrive on strong emotions. If u give them more hope, they will get greedier…if u give them more doubt, they will get more fearful, because they don’t want to lose ur support n the intense PVO u hv given them hahaha.
Fear is the most powerful emotion. Greed is a distant 2nd.
If u say no or reject a girl, say for BY, u must keep her hopes alive, otherwise she will just give up on u for good.
Cheers!
Bro WB
……………………………………..
Good morning!
Another FR. This time picking up inside a KTV.
A few days ago I reconnected w/ a young woman RJ who is getting her undergraduate degree at a UK university next yr.
I first met RJ at TAM 1st fl over 1 1/2 years ago. I saw her in the hall n quickly got her ctc. I didn’t book her as I had a mistress n another girl w/ me. I called her two days later to ask for ST. She said NO. I then offered BY n she replied that she was finishing her education in SG n returning to China very soon. Besides, I had too many tall SYTs already, she said. I got her QQ anyway. Couldn’t see her pics as password was required. i didn’t follow up.
A few months later she sent me a text msg n asked how I was doing. I asked if she was coming back to SG soon to be my woman haha. No, she was flying to the UK to study next wk. I looked up her QQ pics (she unlocked for me) n realized how pretty n sexy she was. She was 23 then, abt 170, B/C cup? Very proportionate body with shapely, beautiful ass. I visualized giving her frequent PVO she had never, ever experienced before haha. I bemoaned the fact that she was so far away.
She sent me another QQ msg 9 months ago n gave me her UK HP no. I never called her even though she said she could meet me if I go to see her in London. she was spending most of her waking time studying…
A few days ago, I registered for a new WhatApp w/ my Gotham phone n I came across RJ as being available. We had a long chat in English. She is Hakka Han, from 广东梅州. I hv never BYed a 客家人.
She sent me newer photos n added me to her Wechat. She has never been BYed. She has a regular BF now who doesn’t give her any support. She is from a middle class family. She is not in love w/ her BF n will not marry him after graduation. To me, that means he is NOT giving her any PVO hahaha. If she had told me she didn’t hv a BF, she would be lying or she is a lesbian. I can’t believe such a pretty n sexy girl w/o a BF. I told her to get a good job in SG n become my mistress next yr. I told her I hv only one er nai at this time. She said she would seriously consider hahaha. She would be different from all my other mistresses because she is better educated n has a degree from the UK. Like a bro says, intelligent n educated women r attractive. And she is my type in looks n figure.
Good day!
Bro WB
Good morning!
I’m going to be very blunt n brutally honest.
In the era of AIDS, our lives literally depend on the faithfulness of our women/GFs/wives/mistresses/lovers. Women cheat as much as men, but they r much better in concealing their affairs haha. Over 50% of legal wives cheat. Local SG girls cheat just as much as maligned PRC n Thai girls.
A few days ago, a good kaki of mine was to up a pretty n tall local SYT in a well known 5-star hotel. She was very expensive n was said to be my type too. My kaki was late because he had to park in another nearby hotel. He ran but was still over 25 mins late n the girl got very nervous, cried n left. According to the OKT, she was a ‘very good girl’ n had a new local BF n she didn’t want him to get suspicious! I know this hotel very well n there is valet parking!
How do u ‘cheat proof’ your women? Be vigilant n maintain a high index of suspicion. NEVER be complacent whether you hv been w/ her 2 days or 20 yrs. Most importantly…her degree of emotional n sexual connection/addiction w/ and for you. In doubt, don’t hesitate to engage a reputable PI.
I hv mentioned the importance of making deep emotional connection w/ your women n that this connection, no matter how seemly strong n secure, can’t last forever without strong sexual connection and/or addiction as well.
I hv also mentioned that the most powerful n fastest way for a woman to get sexually addicted is regular, intense n prolonged PVO. IMHO, the 2nd most powerful way is to give her masterful cunnilingus n make her come n come. It’s even more powerful If u know how to give simultaneous stimulation of her G/deep spot n anus, the so-called trigasm. Making a woman sexually addicted to you takes time, perhaps minimum of 3 to 6 months or longer of staying together…
One factor that has not been well discussed, nor well understood, is the right balance of dopamine n oxytocin in inducing sexual addiction. Too much in one may upset the balance n may disrupt the addictive process. Unfortunately, this is very complex n there r many other variables, depending on both partners n the activities, inside n outside of bedroom..
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Cheers!
Bro WB