Quote:
Originally Posted by
NotMyRealName
Quote from sifu WB post：“If a woman gives a man sexual pleasure he has never had w/ other women, it’s very unlikely he will be addicted to her solely because of great sex. If he already likes her, he will like her more. If he doesn’t already like her, he will still not like her, despite the great sex."
Yes, totally agreed.
Dear bro NMRN,
I suppose there will always be rare exceptions. A man may get addicted to a particular woman solely because of great sex.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
city slicker
Bro WB, thanks indeed for sharing ideas and insights on men’s fav topic.
Am really intrigued by the concept of ‘PVO’.
How would you define PVO and where can one find more info on this subject ? cheers
:
Dear bro city slicker,
PVO = Penetrative Vaginal Orgasm
IMHO, it’s the most sustained, most ‘full body,’ most intense n most addictive form of orgasm…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
If she woke up extra early, waited 2 hours in the immigration so that she could come across the border to meet with you.
If she peel off her jeans and jump into bed at the first opportunity in the room so that you could snuggle up next to her.
If she let you know you are the one she cherished the most, and she would never give up.
Then, no matter how challenging this journey can be, one should persevere.
Dear bro saabking,
Even a ‘Long March’ is worth it…
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
tirak69
Thumbs up to this thread. Bring back memories of my ktv days.
Dear bro tirak69,
Thank u! Pls share some of ur experiences. I’m sure I can learn a lot from u.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Morning bros, just went for an outing last night was thinking do you think some ppl are just trying too hard to proof themselves?? I was with this girl last night at this TD. I hang 50 bucks and she sat with me most of the time while the other guy hang like 500?? then the guys was like jealous or something….keep grapping the girl’s hand and refuse to let her go….when she sat with me they kept looking at my table…. I mean come on is the girl’s choice sigh…. what a way to show how gentlemen they are lol.
Thats why i am not really into TDs…. Still having abit of hangover sorry for the bad english.
Dear bro deathnitez,
I really love ur story!! But I don’t get it n need clarifications to make sure I get your story right.
You went to a TD (Thai Disco?) last night n u hung a girl $50. She sat w/ u most of the night. Whereas other guys (not one guy, but how many?) hung individually or collectively $500? And she ignored them almost completely n they became so angry n envious that they tried to grab her away from u?!! How did u react when they did that to ur girl? Perhaps they ran away like frightened little puppies w/ their tails between their legs, hahaha.
This is incredible! You must be the most dominant n coolest badass she had ever met. Do u also look like 潘安?
I presume u just met her n I also presume that she was very pretty. Even if it was ’love at first sight’ for her, she would’ve whispered,
‘My dearest deathnitez, even though I’m madly in love w/ u, those goons n retards over there hung lots of flowers for me tonight, it’s my job n my obligation to go over there to sit w/ them, if I want to keep my job. After work, meet me at XXX n make passionate love to me…’
My only logical explanation for her most unusual behaviour is that you somehow hypnotized n controlled her completely, But even then, the boss of the joint would’ve intervened…did u hypnotize him n the other guys too?
If so, you’re the most powerful person in the world, not Vladimir Putin.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/caroline...l-people-2013/
I would appreciate more details on what actually happened.
Thanks,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Actually i Doubt is love i guess our grp is more fun?? One example was previously I was in another TD. I saw this guy hang like 1000s of dollars at one of the girl which my friend hang?? She was like much happier with our grp then the other guys group…………….End up this guy with his buddies decides to have a brawl event with us…………….end up everything was settle cause my friend got some connections… but really sigh lets no go too into it….
Dear bro, tks for ur clarification. Did u up the girl?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Ever heard of them pulling such tactics to make the one that is trying to get her even more jealous & insecure so he’ll do more to score more points in her book? This is a very normal reverse psychological tactic used between singers to clients & clients to singers in the HFJ scene.
Dear Mr. Chairman,
Thanks for reminding us abt the tactics n mind game in the night scene.
Actually, they r used by all men, women n children, directly or indirectly, in everyday life hahaha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
Yup, have been used as a prop before for the above. No skin off my back, just enjoy the ride.
they become even crazier when the girl gets close and chooses us to go for supper with. If you’re smart don’t fight it with money, the more you do, the deeper you fall. It’s like poker, don’t treat every hand you play like the last. Live to fight another day!
小强精神！
Dear bro newbieboy,
Acting as the unwitting decoy or shill for a pretty girl must be lots of fun haha. You’re prefect for the role as you’re always cool as cucumber.
Good advice bro. Spending money when one is jealous, emotional n angry is very risky to one’s financial health haha.
I’ll never forget abt our discussions on true love n PVO a few months ago. I hv been thinking n researching on these topics ever since…
I wish I had 1% of ur knowledge n sexperience when I was ur age!
Cheers!
Bro WB
………………………………………….. ……
Good morning!
Coming back to the situation where a customer is extremely perturbed because his intended target is spending much more time w/ a competitor who has spent much less money on her. It must hv happened to everyone of us, haha.
If a man becomes jealous n insecure, much worse if he gets visibly angry, aggressive n tries to grab her arms, he is acting like a little boy…do u think the girl will ever be subconsciously attracted to him? IMHO, never. Of course he can still get her body by throwing money at her if she works in the night scene. But he will always be repulsive to her primitive brain. Its a certainty.
How should he behave to turn the table on her? He should’ve acted as if nothing has happened, smiling n appearing very relaxed, n starts paying attention to other girls…hahaha. The girl would be shocked n awed n become very attracted to him, subconsciously, where it really counts.
In other words, he must hv excellent emotional control n self mastery…
Do u think u hv awesome self mastery? Really?
What if ur BELOVED legal wife or long-term GF/mistress/lover/er nai tells u, suddenly n unexpectedly, that she is leaving u for another man? She must be a pussy u love dearly n trust completely, otherwise it doesn’t count. How would u react?? Be brutally honest w/ yourself.
That is when ur self mastery will be put to the litmus test hahaha. If u remain truly very relaxed, calm n smiling…
congrats bro, you’re invincible.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Actually i Doubt is love i guess our grp is more fun?? One example was previously I was in another TD. I saw this guy hang like 1000s of dollars at one of the girl which my friend hang?? She was like much happier with our grp then the other guys group…………….End up this guy with his buddies decides to have a brawl event with us…………….end up everything was settle cause my friend got some connections… but really sigh lets no go too into it….
Dear bro, tks for ur clarification. Did u up the girl?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Ever heard of them pulling such tactics to make the one that is trying to get her even more jealous & insecure so he’ll do more to score more points in her book? This is a very normal reverse psychological tactic used between singers to clients & clients to singers in the HFJ scene.
Dear Mr. Chairman,
Thanks for reminding us abt the tactics n mind game in the night scene.
Actually, they r used by all men, women n children, directly or indirectly, in everyday life hahaha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
Yup, have been used as a prop before for the above. No skin off my back, just enjoy the ride.
they become even crazier when the girl gets close and chooses us to go for supper with. If you’re smart don’t fight it with money, the more you do, the deeper you fall. It’s like poker, don’t treat every hand you play like the last. Live to fight another day!
小强精神！
Dear bro newbieboy,
Acting as the unwitting decoy or shill for a pretty girl must be lots of fun haha. You’re prefect for the role as you’re always cool as cucumber.
Good advice bro. Spending money when one is jealous, emotional n angry is very risky to one’s financial health haha.
I’ll never forget abt our discussions on true love n PVO a few months ago. I hv been thinking n researching on these topics ever since…
I wish I had 1% of ur knowledge n sexperience when I was ur age!
Cheers!
Bro WB
………………………………………….. ……
Good morning!
Coming back to the situation where a customer is extremely perturbed because his intended target is spending much more time w/ a competitor who has spent much less money on her. It must hv happened to everyone of us, haha.
If a man becomes jealous n insecure, much worse if he gets visibly angry, aggressive n tries to grab her arms, he is acting like a little boy…do u think the girl will ever be subconsciously attracted to him? IMHO, never. Of course he can still get her body by throwing money at her if she works in the night scene. But he will always be repulsive to her primitive brain. Its a certainty.
How should he behave to turn the table on her? He should’ve acted as if nothing has happened, smiling n appearing very relaxed, n starts paying attention to other girls…hahaha. The girl would be shocked n awed n become very attracted to him, subconsciously, where it really counts.
In other words, he must hv excellent emotional control n self mastery…
Do u think u hv awesome self mastery? Really?
What if ur BELOVED legal wife or long-term GF/mistress/lover/er nai tells u, suddenly n unexpectedly, that she is leaving u for another man? She must be a pussy u love dearly n trust completely, otherwise it doesn’t count. How would u react?? Be brutally honest w/ yourself.
That is when ur self mastery will be put to the litmus test hahaha. If u remain truly very relaxed, calm n smiling…
congrats bro, you’re invincible.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Dear Guru, pls allow 小弟 newbie noob me to share one of the incidents that I went thru 1st hand.
At a joint in duxton, got my sights set on a singer. Know from very credible intel plus my own eyes that 2 chaps we hanging her almost on a daily basis.
For 2 straight days, I bombed her. Whether the other 2 was around or not is really of no importance to me.
Day 3, the other 2 decided to start hanging. Reckon they did their homework & background check but never once hung more than 500 at a go.
So total hung were
Hanger 1 => 1.5k
Hanger 2 => 2.0k
Me = $0.00/-
After PPC, called for the bill & singer saw. She was very nervous & came over to ask me wats goin on. Am I angry or wat???
I simply replied, congrats, u hv so many supporters, happy for u. Prince LDH was there n laffing all the way for he knew it’s showtime.
Best part was, while we stood up & was abt to leave, she appeared all clothes changed & seems tat she herself 卖场 to leave wif us
The rest was history. She was the top earner in the joint & her flower tally in tat joint has broken all records & understand its yet to be broken:
Dear Mr. Chairman,
Thank u for ur FR.
Your response to the two hangers’ 3.5 K flowers “set u apart” from the crowd: “I simply replied, congrats, u hv so many supporters, happy for u.” How did the losers respond? Did they finally throw in the towel? Hahaha…
Your FR strengthens my belief that a lot more than money is needed to get the highest quality girls. Getting that top singer was the collective results of ur experiences, strategies, maturity, psychological skills, n more importantly, ur mindset n dominance as reflected in ur body language n voice…in other words, u had more mojo n self mastery than the rest of the crowd.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
Yes - this is the topic of my research and experiment - LOL..i am on a journey to discover how much self-mastery and emotional control i can achieve..No a easy task mind you..but good to persevere and see where one can land.
Dear bro saabking,
The good news is that we can always hv better emotional control n self mastery.
The bad news is that it’s almost impossible to hv ABSOLUTE SELF MASTERY.
IMHO, the best quote on self mastery is:
“He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.” - Lao Tzu
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
PeteTsang69
hi bro warbird …long time no see ..am lover of this thread …thot am KTV virgin
bros here love Mark Twain quotes …give you 2 ….1st one is about being
SMART
2nd one about being
WISE
, making it easier to let go and apply the the 1st quote
He had discovered a great law of human action,
without knowing it - namely,
that in order to make a man or a boy covet a thing,
it is only necessary to make the thing difficult to obtain
.
A human being
has a natural desire
to have more
of a good thing
than he needs
.
Dear bro PeteTsang69,
Thanks for the quotes. Women behave exactly the same hahaha. They also covet things they can’t easily get…
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Dear Guru, pls allow 小弟 newbie noob me to share one of the incidents that I went thru 1st hand.
At a joint in duxton, got my sights set on a singer. Know from very credible intel plus my own eyes that 2 chaps we hanging her almost on a daily basis.
For 2 straight days, I bombed her. Whether the other 2 was around or not is really of no importance to me.
Day 3, the other 2 decided to start hanging. Reckon they did their homework & background check but never once hung more than 500 at a go.
So total hung were
Hanger 1 => 1.5k
Hanger 2 => 2.0k
Me = $0.00/-
After PPC, called for the bill & singer saw. She was very nervous & came over to ask me wats goin on. Am I angry or wat???
I simply replied, congrats, u hv so many supporters, happy for u. Prince LDH was there n laffing all the way for he knew it’s showtime.
Best part was, while we stood up & was abt to leave, she appeared all clothes changed & seems tat she herself 卖场 to leave wif us
The rest was history. She was the top earner in the joint & her flower tally in tat joint has broken all records & understand its yet to be broken:
Dear Mr. Chairman,
Thank u for ur FR.
Your response to the two hangers’ 3.5 K flowers “set u apart” from the crowd: “I simply replied, congrats, u hv so many supporters, happy for u.” How did the losers respond? Did they finally throw in the towel? Hahaha…
Your FR strengthens my belief that a lot more than money is needed to get the highest quality girls. Getting that top singer was the collective results of ur experiences, strategies, maturity, psychological skills, n more importantly, ur mindset n dominance as reflected in ur body language n voice…in other words, u had more mojo n self mastery than the rest of the crowd.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
Yes - this is the topic of my research and experiment - LOL..i am on a journey to discover how much self-mastery and emotional control i can achieve..No a easy task mind you..but good to persevere and see where one can land.
Dear bro saabking,
The good news is that we can always hv better emotional control n self mastery.
The bad news is that it’s almost impossible to hv ABSOLUTE SELF MASTERY.
IMHO, the best quote on self mastery is:
“He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.” - Lao Tzu
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
PeteTsang69
hi bro warbird …long time no see ..am lover of this thread …thot am KTV virgin
bros here love Mark Twain quotes …give you 2 ….1st one is about being
SMART
2nd one about being
WISE
, making it easier to let go and apply the the 1st quote
He had discovered a great law of human action,
without knowing it - namely,
that in order to make a man or a boy covet a thing,
it is only necessary to make the thing difficult to obtain
.
A human being
has a natural desire
to have more
of a good thing
than he needs
.
Dear bro PeteTsang69,
Thanks for the quotes. Women behave exactly the same hahaha. They also covet things they can’t easily get…
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
john1981
A nice documentary film introducing a world of players and playees..
it a cycle!!
enjoy!!!!
Bro,
These ‘hosts’ are not players. They rank near the bottom in the Dominant Male scale, they r losers. I feel very sorry for them. I can’t imagine wasting my time w/ women who aren’t my type n I’m a lao chee ko pek hahaha.
I hv more to say abt them when I hv time.
Are there many bros who r envious of these ‘hosts’?
Any comments, criticisms and dissenting views will be appreciated.
Good day!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
To think of it I feel is like us playing with girl and this girls we play with also gonna play with customer feelings indirectly………………
After all I still feel that feeling is just a word…. when you have that many girls which you have been with, love is not really necesary….. Making 3 girls cry in a week trust me is a total hell………………..-
Dear bro deathnitez,
Tks for sharing ur experience.
Making 3 girls cry in a wk is good… if their cry is genuine. Girls enjoy strong emotions n what don’t kill them will make them stronger haha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
tirak69
My 2 cents worth. I do find TD or HFJ ca be mentally draining at times. There are many fisherman trying to catch the same fish. You have to devise tactics to win her over and keep competition at bay…………………….
Dear bro tirak69,
Anything that is mentally draining is not healthy. Do something that is relaxing n fun…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
This is stuff of legends and the reason why you are my idol - despite haven’t had the chance and privilege to meet you in person!!
Dear bro FA,
He is a living legend in the HF circle.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
aczeta76
Bro DYBJ, u r back in action huh.
Good to read about all of u n wb after my long hiatus from sbf…
Been kept busy till now.
All of u all so much intel in HFJ… Aiyoh, how can solo cheongster like me survive
Dear bro aczeta,
Mr Chairman is the master n mentor who has extensive connections n intel…
I’m just a trainee or mentee.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Can dun worry, solo is stealthy = more deadly
I retired lah bro & I quote
Dear Mr Chairman,
I feel honored that you still take my calls in ur ‘retirement.’ You’re the man I consult when I need info on a singer haha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
crood
How to really love when her occupation is to fake GFE, facing endless guys everyday??
and how u can love when u have the moolah to change a new gal everyday?? …………………………………..
When there is a game, there will always be a winner and a loser. U heard of crocodile tears?? This could be just because take so much effort to sharpen the knife yet carrot run off or hasn’t chop enough yet. Don’t tell me u believe they love u genuinely??!! U have more gals than u can handle but for them, there are endless supply of Roberts flocking to them everyday.
Count yourself is they cry and not you cry! By that time if pocket empty also “kao bo bak sai” …..
nothing to really boast about on the women u can use $$ to bed, the real prize is those have $$ also cant bed…….
Dear bro crood,
Tks for ur post.
I couldn’t agree with u more. Where is the challenge?
Luckily, there r still a few women out there who want more than money before they spread their legs…
BTW, bedding a desirable woman should only be the 1st step. The mission is to get them sexually addicted to YOU n only YOU.
………………………………………….. …………
Greetings from Gotham City!
I was thinking abt why some men would pay big buck to ST or BY very ordinary women. I don’t need to cite examples, we hv all seen them.
Yesterday I received an e-mail from a guru on seduction, the danger of getting too attached to any one woman n why men should never chase women…which struck a chord with me.
Hi Bro Warbird,
…………………………..I was reminded of one of the most important lessons of both sales and seduction then: don’t over-invest in any one prospect, and don’t get too attached.
The rookie’s folly, of course, is that he allows himself to get too attached to one prospect.
One prospect who is guaranteed to give him precisely nothing.
Rookie salesmen and seducers alike are flying blind through inexperience, and struggling with desperation and an utter lack of abundance mentality. Thus, when they strike upon a customer or a girl who shows even a smidgen of interest, they very often do their best to latch their claws on, and pull out all the stops to try to close the sale.
And there begins the process of investing too much in a girl, and getting too attached to a girl.
Though there are a few exceptions, by and large attachment is formed in direct proportion to the amount of emotional “pursuit” energy you put into a thing.
The more you allow something to affect you emotionally as you pursue it, the more attached to it you will become.
That’s why I tell men don’t chase women. When you’re chasing women, not only are you causing them to flee (you can’t give chase if she isn’t running first), but you’re also getting yourself tied up in emotional knots… that are going to bind you to her.
Except, it’s not a two-way bind.
You don’t bind her to you by getting emotionally attached to her yourself. To the contrary… the more emotionally attached to a girl you become, generally, the less attached (and interested) she’ll be in you.
The more time you spend emotionally pursuing something or someone - and any time you even vaguely “want” something, it’s emotional, at least to some degree - the more power you give that something or someone over you.
And what happens when someone has power over you?
She realizes it………………………………………… …….
I can look at how a girl’s interacting with me and tell you almost instantly if she’s wasting my time (that is, trying to slot me into a role in her life I’m not interested in occupying) or not. When you’re new, you do not have this ability. I certainly didn’t always have it.
In fact, I’d say it probably took me a few years of dating lots of different women before I was able to get a fairly reliable read on when my time was being wasted and when any difficulties I was seeing were just the vagaries of life and the girl herself was still interested and committed to moving things ahead.
So there is some amount of paying your dues to get there.
Every rookie salesman wastes time with customers who lead him on and lead him on and never pan out, or wear him down into giving them the deal of a lifetime - and one he ends up regretting having given them later.
Likewise, every rookie ladies’ man wastes time with women who lead him on and lead him on and never pan out, or wear him down into accepting a “just friends” role with them, or quietly waiting in the background for her to finish up with her string of all-wrong bad boy hookups and realize that, really, he was the one she wanted all along, she just hadn’t seen it (cue romantic music).
These experiences get coded into your memory as “lessons”, and you need them there to stand as examples of what not to do, and where you don’t want to end up going again in the future.
So don’t think you’re going to have a few hookups or a girlfriend or two under your belt and be immune to this. It takes time, experience, and getting burned at least a handful of times first before your radar really starts going up and getting attuned to the proper signals……………………………….
Those caveats aside, let’s talk about the one rule to follow to ensure you don’t end up getting too attached to a girl:
As the time it takes to bed her INCREASES, the effort you put into doing so must DECREASE.
Most men take the opposite tack.
For most guys, as the time they put into a girl goes up, the effort into her remains constant, or goes up too.
And that’s how chasing happens. An escalating or never-decreasing level of investment as a woman stretches things out and strings the man along.
Likewise in sales - a customer stretches things out longer and longer, piling on more and more demands, and rookie salesmen continue investing the same levels of effort, or more.
My advice - both to greenhorn sellers, and to new-to-the-game seducers - is to reduce your effort in direct proportion to the amount of time that’s gone by and investment that’s been asked of you.
Getting too attached to a girl before she’s yours leads to:
You chasing hard (and her running away)
You becoming tentative and awkward; her meaning more and more to you
You becoming an emotional mess, subject to the whims of her availability
You passing up loads of opportunities with other, more interested women
That last one’s the real kicker. All the time you spend chasing a woman with an ever-decreasing probability of ending up with you (the longer the courtship, the less likely it is to ever be consummated) could have been spent on women with a much higher probability of ending up yours - including women prettier, smarter, more fun, and more amazing than the girl you’ve currently fallen into the attachment trap with.
In sales, you miss out on more and better sales by wasting time on finicky customers who probably aren’t going your way anyway, or are going to give you something that’s not really worth the time and effort you put into it if you soldier on through and finally get it.
The same is so in seduction - sacrifice your time and energy for a girl you’ve messed up on or who is not very interested, and you will end up paying $500 for a $10 item.
Don’t let yourself get too attached. Be cognizant of when you’re spinning your wheels, and decrease effort as time increases.
Then instead of wasting time, you’ll save it - and save yourself from the draining emotions of chasing after women who aren’t interested (or have lost interest), too………………………………
Best,
Your Guru
“You will end up paying $500 for a $10 item.” Hahaha, that is how many men hv ended up paying much more than what some women are really worth.
IMHO, never ever get too attached to any one woman, regardless of your RS w/ her n whether you’ve known her for 3 minutes or 30 yrs, hahaha.
Have a great day!!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
To think of it I feel is like us playing with girl and this girls we play with also gonna play with customer feelings indirectly………………
After all I still feel that feeling is just a word…. when you have that many girls which you have been with, love is not really necesary….. Making 3 girls cry in a week trust me is a total hell………………..-
Dear bro deathnitez,
Tks for sharing ur experience.
Making 3 girls cry in a wk is good… if their cry is genuine. Girls enjoy strong emotions n what don’t kill them will make them stronger haha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
tirak69
My 2 cents worth. I do find TD or HFJ ca be mentally draining at times. There are many fisherman trying to catch the same fish. You have to devise tactics to win her over and keep competition at bay…………………….
Dear bro tirak69,
Anything that is mentally draining is not healthy. Do something that is relaxing n fun…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
This is stuff of legends and the reason why you are my idol - despite haven’t had the chance and privilege to meet you in person!!
Dear bro FA,
He is a living legend in the HF circle.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
aczeta76
Bro DYBJ, u r back in action huh.
Good to read about all of u n wb after my long hiatus from sbf…
Been kept busy till now.
All of u all so much intel in HFJ… Aiyoh, how can solo cheongster like me survive
Dear bro aczeta,
Mr Chairman is the master n mentor who has extensive connections n intel…
I’m just a trainee or mentee.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Can dun worry, solo is stealthy = more deadly
I retired lah bro & I quote
Dear Mr Chairman,
I feel honored that you still take my calls in ur ‘retirement.’ You’re the man I consult when I need info on a singer haha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
crood
How to really love when her occupation is to fake GFE, facing endless guys everyday??
and how u can love when u have the moolah to change a new gal everyday?? …………………………………..
When there is a game, there will always be a winner and a loser. U heard of crocodile tears?? This could be just because take so much effort to sharpen the knife yet carrot run off or hasn’t chop enough yet. Don’t tell me u believe they love u genuinely??!! U have more gals than u can handle but for them, there are endless supply of Roberts flocking to them everyday.
Count yourself is they cry and not you cry! By that time if pocket empty also “kao bo bak sai” …..
nothing to really boast about on the women u can use $$ to bed, the real prize is those have $$ also cant bed…….
Dear bro crood,
Tks for ur post.
I couldn’t agree with u more. Where is the challenge?
Luckily, there r still a few women out there who want more than money before they spread their legs…
BTW, bedding a desirable woman should only be the 1st step. The mission is to get them sexually addicted to YOU n only YOU.
………………………………………….. …………
Greetings from Gotham City!
I was thinking abt why some men would pay big buck to ST or BY very ordinary women. I don’t need to cite examples, we hv all seen them.
Yesterday I received an e-mail from a guru on seduction, the danger of getting too attached to any one woman n why men should never chase women…which struck a chord with me.
Hi Bro Warbird,
…………………………..I was reminded of one of the most important lessons of both sales and seduction then: don’t over-invest in any one prospect, and don’t get too attached.
The rookie’s folly, of course, is that he allows himself to get too attached to one prospect.
One prospect who is guaranteed to give him precisely nothing.
Rookie salesmen and seducers alike are flying blind through inexperience, and struggling with desperation and an utter lack of abundance mentality. Thus, when they strike upon a customer or a girl who shows even a smidgen of interest, they very often do their best to latch their claws on, and pull out all the stops to try to close the sale.
And there begins the process of investing too much in a girl, and getting too attached to a girl.
Though there are a few exceptions, by and large attachment is formed in direct proportion to the amount of emotional “pursuit” energy you put into a thing.
The more you allow something to affect you emotionally as you pursue it, the more attached to it you will become.
That’s why I tell men don’t chase women. When you’re chasing women, not only are you causing them to flee (you can’t give chase if she isn’t running first), but you’re also getting yourself tied up in emotional knots… that are going to bind you to her.
Except, it’s not a two-way bind.
You don’t bind her to you by getting emotionally attached to her yourself. To the contrary… the more emotionally attached to a girl you become, generally, the less attached (and interested) she’ll be in you.
The more time you spend emotionally pursuing something or someone - and any time you even vaguely “want” something, it’s emotional, at least to some degree - the more power you give that something or someone over you.
And what happens when someone has power over you?
She realizes it………………………………………… …….
I can look at how a girl’s interacting with me and tell you almost instantly if she’s wasting my time (that is, trying to slot me into a role in her life I’m not interested in occupying) or not. When you’re new, you do not have this ability. I certainly didn’t always have it.
In fact, I’d say it probably took me a few years of dating lots of different women before I was able to get a fairly reliable read on when my time was being wasted and when any difficulties I was seeing were just the vagaries of life and the girl herself was still interested and committed to moving things ahead.
So there is some amount of paying your dues to get there.
Every rookie salesman wastes time with customers who lead him on and lead him on and never pan out, or wear him down into giving them the deal of a lifetime - and one he ends up regretting having given them later.
Likewise, every rookie ladies’ man wastes time with women who lead him on and lead him on and never pan out, or wear him down into accepting a “just friends” role with them, or quietly waiting in the background for her to finish up with her string of all-wrong bad boy hookups and realize that, really, he was the one she wanted all along, she just hadn’t seen it (cue romantic music).
These experiences get coded into your memory as “lessons”, and you need them there to stand as examples of what not to do, and where you don’t want to end up going again in the future.
So don’t think you’re going to have a few hookups or a girlfriend or two under your belt and be immune to this. It takes time, experience, and getting burned at least a handful of times first before your radar really starts going up and getting attuned to the proper signals……………………………….
Those caveats aside, let’s talk about the one rule to follow to ensure you don’t end up getting too attached to a girl:
As the time it takes to bed her INCREASES, the effort you put into doing so must DECREASE.
Most men take the opposite tack.
For most guys, as the time they put into a girl goes up, the effort into her remains constant, or goes up too.
And that’s how chasing happens. An escalating or never-decreasing level of investment as a woman stretches things out and strings the man along.
Likewise in sales - a customer stretches things out longer and longer, piling on more and more demands, and rookie salesmen continue investing the same levels of effort, or more.
My advice - both to greenhorn sellers, and to new-to-the-game seducers - is to reduce your effort in direct proportion to the amount of time that’s gone by and investment that’s been asked of you.
Getting too attached to a girl before she’s yours leads to:
You chasing hard (and her running away)
You becoming tentative and awkward; her meaning more and more to you
You becoming an emotional mess, subject to the whims of her availability
You passing up loads of opportunities with other, more interested women
That last one’s the real kicker. All the time you spend chasing a woman with an ever-decreasing probability of ending up with you (the longer the courtship, the less likely it is to ever be consummated) could have been spent on women with a much higher probability of ending up yours - including women prettier, smarter, more fun, and more amazing than the girl you’ve currently fallen into the attachment trap with.
In sales, you miss out on more and better sales by wasting time on finicky customers who probably aren’t going your way anyway, or are going to give you something that’s not really worth the time and effort you put into it if you soldier on through and finally get it.
The same is so in seduction - sacrifice your time and energy for a girl you’ve messed up on or who is not very interested, and you will end up paying $500 for a $10 item.
Don’t let yourself get too attached. Be cognizant of when you’re spinning your wheels, and decrease effort as time increases.
Then instead of wasting time, you’ll save it - and save yourself from the draining emotions of chasing after women who aren’t interested (or have lost interest), too………………………………
Best,
Your Guru
“You will end up paying $500 for a $10 item.” Hahaha, that is how many men hv ended up paying much more than what some women are really worth.
IMHO, never ever get too attached to any one woman, regardless of your RS w/ her n whether you’ve known her for 3 minutes or 30 yrs, hahaha.
Have a great day!!
Bro WB