- The body language that women find attractive
- Speech: use a deep and resonant voice, and
- Behavior: well, this one’s more complex.
- Are you comparing your girlfriend to someone you don’t know as
- Have you really dated enough women to know EXACTLY who you’re
- Is it YOUR DECISION to get married?
- Are you comparing your girlfriend to someone you don’t know as
- Have you really dated enough women to know EXACTLY who you’re
- Is it YOUR DECISION to get married?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hehehaha
Re: Kakis Invited for KTV Outings to Find " Very Attractive Gals"
Had anyone watched Sleepless in Seattle? I remembered there was something about it may rain up to nine months of the year.
Since then, I never had good impression of Seattle, since I can’t stand the rainning days in Singapore, had never thought of visiting another place that rain more than Singapore.
So, 1 question about Seattle, does it rain a lot?
Dear bro,
No, it doesn’t.
The wide held belief that Seattle is a very rainy city is a myth, but one that Seattleites want to perpetuate. Why? The city is too nice and clean and they don’t want too many outsiders to pollute it, hahaha.
There r many cloudy days and it often drizzles, but the average annual rainfall is less than half of that in SG. It ranks 44th among major cities in the US, behind New York, Houston, Boston, etc. Less than Tokyo and Shanghai.
http://www.skyscrapercity.com/showthread.php?t=349393
http://www.todayifoundout.com/index....hat-much-rain/
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
Where in SG can I find my type of girls??
年青貌美的女孩子, 年龄在18岁-24岁之间，身高在163cm-173cm.
一定要身材匀称, 皮肤细腻白皙, 乳房丰满（最少有B），手细腿长，臀部又圆润又翘。 有大专水平最好.
Must be non-smoker. Of course no big scars, tattoos, plastic surgeries, pregnancies…
That is for outward appearance only. I hv other requirements when she is stark naked n for her pussy…
I leave no stone unturned in my search. Anyone to intro?
Let’s talk about another topic.
I know we all feel insecure and/or unattractive to women/girls of our type if we r too ugly, too short, too tall, too fat, too thin, too old, too poor, undereducated, from a different ethnic group, different creed…
That is most unfortunate. We don’t fully understand what women want…
Here is a brief discussion written by a noted Ang Moh guru.
What Women REALLY Want In A Man
Hey Bro Warbird,
.. WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT IN A MAN?
Here’s a short list for you.
Women really want:
- A guy who is taller than them.
- A guy who can provide for their future.
- A guy who is great in bed.
- A guy who can make them laugh.
Etc.
Sound familiar?
Well, I’ve got news for you: NONE OF THESE
THINGS ARE WHAT WOMEN ACTUALLY WANT.
Of course, a guy who has these qualities may
find it easier to get an AUDITION with a woman -
but ONLY an audition.
It’s not the deciding factor.
Think about it! How many examples can you think
of, for EACH of these qualities, where a guy has
that desirable quality, BUT STILL STRUGGLES WITH
WOMEN?
Yes, women prefer men who are taller than them.
But does this mean that tall men automatically
find it easy to get women?
Uh-uh.
How about rich men? Do the owners of companies
and apartment buildings find themselves swarmed
over by women the moment they make their first
million? Do they find it easy to get sex, a
girlfriend, or a wife, just because they’re rich?
Nope.
I don’t know any guys who are great in bed (for
reasons that should be obvious to you), but I know
that if a guy can’t ATTRACT a woman, she’s never
going to be able to find out whether he can make
it between the sheets or not.
And guys who can make women laugh don’t
necessarily have success with women, either. In
fact, many guys use jokes and humor as a way to
get female attention, only to have that woman
laugh along with them … and then categorize them
as a FRIEND.
Ouch.
So what’s going on here? Why are women so
confusing?
They SAY they like tall guys. They SAY they
want a man who can make them laugh. And they ALL
say they want a man with a good sense of humor,
who is also sensitive and considerate.
So what’s the story? Why is it that so many
men, with some, if not ALL, of these desirable
qualities - men who would probably make fantastic
lovers, boyfriends, and husbands - are waking up
alone every morning?
It’s because women are actually not that good
at figuring out what they want.
That’s why.
And hey - it’s not just WOMEN who have this
problem. EVERYONE does it. Studies have shown that
humans, as a general rule, almost ALWAYS
significantly overestimate how happy something is
going to make them.
In other words, it’s been scientifically proven
that WOMEN DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
They know what they THINK they want - which is
why your female friends and sisters are so happy
to tell you what the qualities of The Ideal Man
would be - but that’s not the same as what they
ACTUALLY want.
Another way of saying this might be that they
can’t tell you the qualities that they ACTUALLY
find attractive in a man.
Here’s the deal: all the tallness and humor in
the world is NEVER going to help you, unless you
know HOW TO MAKE WOMEN FEEL ATTRACTION.
That’s it. That’s the ONLY key.
You need to be able to know how to trigger that
magical feeling of ATTRACTION in a woman.
And then you know what else? When you know how
to do that, things like height, looks, and money
NO LONGER MATTER.
For example, I’ve got a couple of friends who
are pretty short, by most people’s standards.
One’s about 5'5", the other’s about 5'3".
That’s not tall by ANYBODY’S standards. Not
even Japanese women.
These men are perfectly aware that many women
believe they want a tall man. (Notice how I said
“BELIEVE they want”?) But they have BOTH come to
the conclusion, through their own personal
research “in the field” that their height only
becomes a problem if they allow it to affect their
confidence.
One of them phrased it like this: “It’s not the
shortness that’s the problem. It’s the LACK OF
CONFIDENCE that the shortness produces in the man
that’s the problem.”
He knows that he is one cool dude, and that he
could very well represent the best experience that
a woman will EVER have. And so he decided not to
let his shortness hamper him.
Now, whenever he’s talking to an attractive
woman who is also taller than him, he’ll throw
something out there like, “So, I see that you’re
tall. Gee. (pause pause pause for effect) So does
that make it hard to, like, buy shoes? Do you find
that, being so tall, your long long feet won’t fit
into all the pretty little girly shoes out there?”
… and he just roughs them up.
But here’s the catch: he does it in THE MOST
CHARMING WAY.
Incidentally, due to the ease with which you
can misconstrue the written word, I feel compelled
to point out here that he always says this kind of
stuff with a BIIIG cheeky grin … and makes it VERY
clear that he’s ‘just kidding’ (without actually
coming out and SAYING so) …
… so that she knows he’s giving her a hard time
on purpose, and not just being a rude knucklehead.
(If you’ve ever tried teasing a woman, you’ll
know that the risk involved is directly
proportionate to how expressionless you are, and
how little you know the woman.)
But I digress …
The point here is that these men are LIVING
EXAMPLES of my point, which is that:
a) Women don’t really know what they want
b) If you can make her feel ATTRACTION, she
will forget any preconceived notions of what she
THOUGHT she wanted, and will go with what works
c) It’s up to YOU to SHOW HER what she wants.
You can bet that none of the women those 2 friends
of mine hook up with woke up in the morning and
thought, “Gosh, I sure hope I hook up with a short
guy tonight!” Nope, they THOUGHT they wanted a
tall guy … RIGHT UP UNTIL THE MOMENT THEY WERE
PROVED WRONG.
So if you know how to make a woman feel
attraction, NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.
And fortunately, there are tried and true,
PROVEN patterns of behavior, body language, and
speech that appeal to women and flick their
attraction switches.
Briefly:
is the body language of an alpha male: cool, calm,
confident, and in control. (Hint: body language
supersedes the spoken word by about a million
percent in terms of how it demonstrates your
value. It doesn’t matter what you SAY, unless your
body language backs it up.)
speak SLOWLY. Inserting pauses into your speech is
an extremely effective way to sound confident and
interesting, NO MATTER WHAT YOU’RE SAYING.
Speaking too fast is a sign of a deep lack of
self-confidence (you talk fast out of a fear the
other person will lose interest, basically.)
Speaking slooooowly, and inserting a pause of 1
second (a count of ONE-one-thousand) between TWO
and FIVE TIMES PER SENTENCE is ideal.
I’ll start by saying that all of your behaviors
should demonstrate high social value. The more
PASSIONATE and CONFIDENT you are (passionate, in
this context, meaning INTERESTED in whatever it is
you’re talking about or doing) the higher your
value. The less supplicative and needy you are,
and the more impervious to other people’s opinions
you seem, the higher your value. Self-referenced
(as opposed to externally referenced) men are HIGH
VALUE.
Learning how to create attraction is the MECCA
of success with women. It is the all-embracing
recipe for mind-blowing and CONSISTENT success. It
is something that all men want to learn … but very
few do.
This isn’t because men are dumb, or because the
information is difficult to grasp. In fact, it’s
actually very EASY once you figure out what to do.
And once you’ve mastered THAT, you can move on
to the more advanced stuff:
I’ll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
Mr. Guru
I like to add that:
Hope X Uncertainty = Attraction (Passion)
Therefore, no Hope, zero Attraction. No uncertainty, zero attraction.
Big Hope and lots of Uncertainty = Massive Attraction?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ahpui99
Thanks warbird
Been closely following your posts. You are the man
Thanks for ur support.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
merrygoround
great sharing warbird bro..
Pleasure is all mine.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ahpui99
Hi Guys,
I send a PM to warbird to show my appreciation for his insights. Just wanted to share with you guys that I have been sending extracts of his articles to my friends. Even seasoned bros are speechless how good he is.
Have I been KCed before? Yes, be it singapore or china. Luck saved me previously but cannot always depend on it.
Certain articles like maintaining self- control and the important DGAD attitude allows us to play without screwing up your mind. I still am trying to figure out how to make the girls addicted to me. Haha.
Bro, hope your insights are either blogged or can be searched. Cos i really learned a lot. Quit smoking recently so my mind is not as strong as it used to be.
Hi bro ahpui99,
Your flattering words make me speechless…
You’re spot on. Self control and DGAD attitude is THE SECRET that separates the men from the boys.
Making girls emotionally and sexually addicted is a arduous process. Be careful, don’t get addicted yourself.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
defendercourt
yeah true…learn a lot
I hv learnt a lot too.
………………………………………….. ..
Good morning!
“It’s not the shortness that’s the problem. It’s the LACK OF
CONFIDENCE that the shortness produces in the man
that’s the problem.”
Put in another way, It’s not ‘shortness’ or any other self perceived shortcomings (in looks, weight, age, physical defects, educational level, intelligence, financial and social status, ethnic group, creed, nationality, etc) that’s the problem. It’s the lack of confidence that the self perceived shortcoming produces in the man that’s the problem.
The big scar between actor Joaquin Phoenix’s lip and nose is obvious. Many men w/ such defect will be shy and withdrawn.That would be a big problem.
Take a look at two other celebrities: Nick Vujicic n Sean Stephenson. Quite amazing.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
I received an e-mail from a RS guru yesterday. Although the topic is not directly related to this thread, it’s a problem many of us will face, sooner or later. It’s a situation which may arise in any long-term male-female RS, whether the gal/woman is a spouse, GF, lao po or mistress, etc.
“What To Do If You Get A Girlfriend But “The Grass Is Greener” Elsewhere”
Mr Guru,
I need to ask you a question.
I am in a VERY happy relationship. I am going to get engaged very
soon. But in my day-to-day encounters I do work with or interact
with attractive and cool women.
Since I work in a large group, there are some people at my
workplace that I don’t see on a daily basis but enough to have
regular conversations.
I have an ongoing dilemma on how to deal with particular women at
work.
Take for example a girl named Christina I work with.
She is super cool and very attractive. But if I continue to
interact with her, inevitably I will end up wanting to get to know
her more, get a big crush on her, and maybe even starting thinking,
“Man, the grass might be greener here.”
Maybe this is just a man’s tendency to want variety. As I said, I
love my g/f dearly, so it’s not secondary to unhappiness with my g/f.
So I can pursue a stronger friendship / more interaction with
Christina at work, because I am physically and personality wise
attracted to her…but at risk of torturing myself since I will
fall for her but not do anything about it (the ultimate masochism).
Or worst-case scenario I’ll fall for her so hard that I compromise
my relationship with my g/f.
This Christina girl is just one example….as there have been many
Christinas in the past who I usually end up AVOIDING to not create
drama in my life.
What do you think?
XX (Chicago, IL)
=====
Thanks for the great e-mail, Bro XX.
So why is it that women named “Christina” always seem to be hotties?
Here’s the cold hard fact of the matter: If you are still gazing
at “greener pastures”, you’re either not ready to get married
because there is more left to be done in your dating life, more
deep-thinking ahead first, or because you *could* be settling.
I hear you telling me that you have a great relationship with a
woman whom you intend to marry, and that you couldn’t be happier.
And I greatly admire your discipline with regard to not wanting to
compromise that relationship in any way. Big ups for that.
But YOUR genuine concern over the possibility of being drawn away
by another woman concerns ME also.
Taking your message to me at face value, I’m pretty sure that if
you were able to make the “Christinas” of the world a “non-issue”,
then you would be an even happier man than you may now even realize
is possible.
Some will be quick to say this is an “unrealistic” explanation.
But much like, “you can never understand women”, such is the battle
cry of those who SETTLE.
When you’ve met the one who wins your heart forever, other women
will melt into the background insofar as any real desire for
romantic involvement is concerned.
Hang with me here and I’ll show you what I mean by that.
This does NOT mean that no other women are ever going to be
attractive or endearing to you ever again. And you *can* acquire the
skill set of enjoying femininity without requiring sexual
fulfillment to come from it, by the way.
(And that is REALLY COOL, opening the doors wide-open to GREATLY
ENHANCED day-to-day interactions.)
What it DOES mean is that you never, EVER second-guess the decision
you made to be with one woman, because you always keep the
perspective of having been through the dating process and having
made your decision from a position of ABSOLUTE STRENGTH and a
WEALTH OF EXPERIENCE.
The greatest woman you’ve ever met–your “100 out of 100”–will
literally COMPEL you to cut ties with the other women you’ve been
seeing until then.
No kidding, man. I wouldn’t have believed it myself five years ago.
And there’s no compromise when that happens. No “giving away your
manhood”, “sacrificing your freedom” or anything negative at all,
really. It will have been YOUR decision…and a GOOD one.
And you’ll be able to tuck away that definitive notion for safe
keeping over the long-haul, no matter how many hotties catch your
eye over the years to come.
I have to be honest with you here though Bro XX.
My first thought after reading your message was that if you REALLY
believe Christina might possibly be the kind of woman who could be
better for you than your current girlfriend, then perhaps you
haven’t “raised the bar” high enough just yet as far as the person
you are going to spend the rest of your life with successfully.
If that doesn’t resonate with you, and you are indeed firmly
convinced that your current girlfriend is the greatest woman you’ve
ever met, then so be it.
Nonetheless, If you ARE second guessing yourself on the possibility
of being sexually drawn to other women such that it would
compromise your current relationship, it’s time for some hard
consideration.
The questions to ask yourself include:
well?
This is always a loser of an idea. There’s too much opportunity
for idealism there. I can’t tell you how many guys blow a
long-term relationship for a fling with a new chick only to wonder
what they’ve done when she quickly falls short of expectations as
he “gets to know her better”.
looking for?
Your girlfriend MAY BE the greatest woman in the world for you.
But unless you have a firm grasp of what you want, you’ll never
really know if you’ve found it.
Do you WANT to get married, or do you simply fear losing a great
woman? Are you DONE dating, or does the timing feel a bit premature?
Please know that you may indeed be able to resolve all of these
questions VERY successfully vis-à-vis your current relationship.
If so, I imagine your resolve will be rock-solid going forward.
If not, you may be frustrated now (as may she), but take it from
the guy who has been in front of a judge before and paid the
divorce lawyer richly for my trouble.
It’s like the old Fram Oil Filter commercial: “You can pay now, or
you can pay later”.
Be Good,
Mr Guru
…………………………………………..
Hi Gang,
Think twice before u get hitched. Never settle for a girl/woman out of pity, family pressure or obligations. Never ever settle period.
Mr Guru is a puritan! I hv a spouse, a long-term mistress n I still do shorter term BYs n eat outside regularly haha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ahpui99
Thanks warbird
Been closely following your posts. You are the man
Thanks for ur support.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
merrygoround
great sharing warbird bro..
Pleasure is all mine.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ahpui99
Hi Guys,
I send a PM to warbird to show my appreciation for his insights. Just wanted to share with you guys that I have been sending extracts of his articles to my friends. Even seasoned bros are speechless how good he is.
Have I been KCed before? Yes, be it singapore or china. Luck saved me previously but cannot always depend on it.
Certain articles like maintaining self- control and the important DGAD attitude allows us to play without screwing up your mind. I still am trying to figure out how to make the girls addicted to me. Haha.
Bro, hope your insights are either blogged or can be searched. Cos i really learned a lot. Quit smoking recently so my mind is not as strong as it used to be.
Hi bro ahpui99,
Your flattering words make me speechless…
You’re spot on. Self control and DGAD attitude is THE SECRET that separates the men from the boys.
Making girls emotionally and sexually addicted is a arduous process. Be careful, don’t get addicted yourself.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
defendercourt
yeah true…learn a lot
I hv learnt a lot too.
………………………………………….. ..
Good morning!
“It’s not the shortness that’s the problem. It’s the LACK OF
CONFIDENCE that the shortness produces in the man
that’s the problem.”
Put in another way, It’s not ‘shortness’ or any other self perceived shortcomings (in looks, weight, age, physical defects, educational level, intelligence, financial and social status, ethnic group, creed, nationality, etc) that’s the problem. It’s the lack of confidence that the self perceived shortcoming produces in the man that’s the problem.
The big scar between actor Joaquin Phoenix’s lip and nose is obvious. Many men w/ such defect will be shy and withdrawn.That would be a big problem.
Take a look at two other celebrities: Nick Vujicic n Sean Stephenson. Quite amazing.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
I received an e-mail from a RS guru yesterday. Although the topic is not directly related to this thread, it’s a problem many of us will face, sooner or later. It’s a situation which may arise in any long-term male-female RS, whether the gal/woman is a spouse, GF, lao po or mistress, etc.
“What To Do If You Get A Girlfriend But “The Grass Is Greener” Elsewhere”
Mr Guru,
I need to ask you a question.
I am in a VERY happy relationship. I am going to get engaged very
soon. But in my day-to-day encounters I do work with or interact
with attractive and cool women.
Since I work in a large group, there are some people at my
workplace that I don’t see on a daily basis but enough to have
regular conversations.
I have an ongoing dilemma on how to deal with particular women at
work.
Take for example a girl named Christina I work with.
She is super cool and very attractive. But if I continue to
interact with her, inevitably I will end up wanting to get to know
her more, get a big crush on her, and maybe even starting thinking,
“Man, the grass might be greener here.”
Maybe this is just a man’s tendency to want variety. As I said, I
love my g/f dearly, so it’s not secondary to unhappiness with my g/f.
So I can pursue a stronger friendship / more interaction with
Christina at work, because I am physically and personality wise
attracted to her…but at risk of torturing myself since I will
fall for her but not do anything about it (the ultimate masochism).
Or worst-case scenario I’ll fall for her so hard that I compromise
my relationship with my g/f.
This Christina girl is just one example….as there have been many
Christinas in the past who I usually end up AVOIDING to not create
drama in my life.
What do you think?
XX (Chicago, IL)
=====
Thanks for the great e-mail, Bro XX.
So why is it that women named “Christina” always seem to be hotties?
Here’s the cold hard fact of the matter: If you are still gazing
at “greener pastures”, you’re either not ready to get married
because there is more left to be done in your dating life, more
deep-thinking ahead first, or because you *could* be settling.
I hear you telling me that you have a great relationship with a
woman whom you intend to marry, and that you couldn’t be happier.
And I greatly admire your discipline with regard to not wanting to
compromise that relationship in any way. Big ups for that.
But YOUR genuine concern over the possibility of being drawn away
by another woman concerns ME also.
Taking your message to me at face value, I’m pretty sure that if
you were able to make the “Christinas” of the world a “non-issue”,
then you would be an even happier man than you may now even realize
is possible.
Some will be quick to say this is an “unrealistic” explanation.
But much like, “you can never understand women”, such is the battle
cry of those who SETTLE.
When you’ve met the one who wins your heart forever, other women
will melt into the background insofar as any real desire for
romantic involvement is concerned.
Hang with me here and I’ll show you what I mean by that.
This does NOT mean that no other women are ever going to be
attractive or endearing to you ever again. And you *can* acquire the
skill set of enjoying femininity without requiring sexual
fulfillment to come from it, by the way.
(And that is REALLY COOL, opening the doors wide-open to GREATLY
ENHANCED day-to-day interactions.)
What it DOES mean is that you never, EVER second-guess the decision
you made to be with one woman, because you always keep the
perspective of having been through the dating process and having
made your decision from a position of ABSOLUTE STRENGTH and a
WEALTH OF EXPERIENCE.
The greatest woman you’ve ever met–your “100 out of 100”–will
literally COMPEL you to cut ties with the other women you’ve been
seeing until then.
No kidding, man. I wouldn’t have believed it myself five years ago.
And there’s no compromise when that happens. No “giving away your
manhood”, “sacrificing your freedom” or anything negative at all,
really. It will have been YOUR decision…and a GOOD one.
And you’ll be able to tuck away that definitive notion for safe
keeping over the long-haul, no matter how many hotties catch your
eye over the years to come.
I have to be honest with you here though Bro XX.
My first thought after reading your message was that if you REALLY
believe Christina might possibly be the kind of woman who could be
better for you than your current girlfriend, then perhaps you
haven’t “raised the bar” high enough just yet as far as the person
you are going to spend the rest of your life with successfully.
If that doesn’t resonate with you, and you are indeed firmly
convinced that your current girlfriend is the greatest woman you’ve
ever met, then so be it.
Nonetheless, If you ARE second guessing yourself on the possibility
of being sexually drawn to other women such that it would
compromise your current relationship, it’s time for some hard
consideration.
The questions to ask yourself include:
well?
This is always a loser of an idea. There’s too much opportunity
for idealism there. I can’t tell you how many guys blow a
long-term relationship for a fling with a new chick only to wonder
what they’ve done when she quickly falls short of expectations as
he “gets to know her better”.
looking for?
Your girlfriend MAY BE the greatest woman in the world for you.
But unless you have a firm grasp of what you want, you’ll never
really know if you’ve found it.
Do you WANT to get married, or do you simply fear losing a great
woman? Are you DONE dating, or does the timing feel a bit premature?
Please know that you may indeed be able to resolve all of these
questions VERY successfully vis-à-vis your current relationship.
If so, I imagine your resolve will be rock-solid going forward.
If not, you may be frustrated now (as may she), but take it from
the guy who has been in front of a judge before and paid the
divorce lawyer richly for my trouble.
It’s like the old Fram Oil Filter commercial: “You can pay now, or
you can pay later”.
Be Good,
Mr Guru
…………………………………………..
Hi Gang,
Think twice before u get hitched. Never settle for a girl/woman out of pity, family pressure or obligations. Never ever settle period.
Mr Guru is a puritan! I hv a spouse, a long-term mistress n I still do shorter term BYs n eat outside regularly haha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
This phrase i agreed never ever settle down with a girl out of pity or family pressure etc
Also, never ever settle for less than you deserve because you’re afraid that nothing better will come along.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
The movie is a bit draggy - 2hrs…the exciting part was the Croc Hermes on X’mas Eve.
But I think the Tiong can really relate to the story and the whole the grass is greener on the other side as well as the Seattle romantic city, great American dream myth.
Just my two cents worth.
Thanks for sharing ur review.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Ladyrain
Never ever settle for anything less.
Period.
I couldn’t agree w/ u more.
“The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
This phrase i agreed never ever settle down with a girl out of pity or family pressure etc
Also, never ever settle for less than you deserve because you’re afraid that nothing better will come along.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
saabking
The movie is a bit draggy - 2hrs…the exciting part was the Croc Hermes on X’mas Eve.
But I think the Tiong can really relate to the story and the whole the grass is greener on the other side as well as the Seattle romantic city, great American dream myth.
Just my two cents worth.
Thanks for sharing ur review.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Ladyrain
Never ever settle for anything less.
Period.
I couldn’t agree w/ u more.
“The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.”
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Thanks WB like this 2 advice you give lol you the man lol
Bro deathnitez,
You make my day!
………………………………………….. .
Good Afternoon!
I hv some musings on the subject of cheonging n BY-ing.
In the last 6 months I hv had difficulty maintaining an erection whenever I put on CD. I feel very little, even w/ the thinnest ones.
However, I hv had no problems at all when I do raw w/ my long term mistresses. As a result I hv done fewer ST or short term BY.
I suspect that many bros hv similar problem w/ CD.
A word of warning. Doing raw w/ any girl/woman carries some risks even if she is ur spouse. Sadly, over 50% of legal wives cheat. Nothing in this world is 100% foolproof. I do advise testing her n yourself w/ Oraquick for HIV every 2 months.
Your wife/spouse/mistress/GF/lover will be much less inclined to cheat if she is sexually addicted to u. And the best way to get her addicted is to give her regular penetrative vaginal orgasms PVOs. I hv alluded to this fact in the past.
A woman will feel empty n discontented if she doesn’t experience regular PVOs, often w/o knowing the cause herself. It’s all in her subconscious mind.
The other day I just received the following newsletter related to this vital subject from a guru..
I don’t agree w/ the guru that it takes at least 20 min to give a woman PVOs. if you can prime the pump by giving her clitoral n/or G spot orgasms using ur fingers, tongue, etc. first, lasting 10 min is more than sufficient.
I also don’t agree that if u can’t get give ur woman regular PVOs she can never be really attracted to u. Or that she will never love or be addicted to u. In the short term, say a few yrs, she can be addicted to u n love u.
BUT, in longer term, she will lose her love or addiction for u IF you can’t give her regular PVOs. It’s a CERTAINTY.
Here is what he sent me:
Hi Bro Warbird,
Sex Secret # 1: Oral Sex Alone Is Never Enough To Truly Please A Woman!
A lot of guys think that going down on a girl is the best way to make her happy in bed.
I know, because I used to be one of these guys
But now, after having been with a whole lot of women, I can tell you that is absolutely FALSE.
Sure, girls like a guy who knows how to go down… but if you REALLY want to blow her mind, you’ve gotta first rock her BODY…
And the way to do that is through good ole’ fashioned penetration sex!
You probably already know that women are biologically programmed to want penetration from a man… the same way we are programmed to want to penetrate a woman.
But what most guys DON’T know is this:
The orgasms a woman gets from penetration sex are literally TEN TIMES as intense and powerful as any orgasm she can get by any other means!
Ask any woman and she’ll tell you… no tongue or vibrator will ever replace her craving to have a man inside of her.
But here’s what’s REALLY crazy…
Sex Secret #2: Women Don’t Just LOVE Penetration Orgasms… They Actually Need Them!
Here’s another CRAZY secret most guys don’t know…
When you have sex with a woman, a special chemical is released in her brain that tells her whether or not you are a good mate.
I’m no scientist and I cannot spell the name
but I do know the more of this chemical that is released, the more she becomes attracted to you.
If you ejaculate too quickly, her brain doesn’t have time to register that she is having sex, and nothing happens.
On the other hand, if you last long enough to give her a penetration orgasm, her brain is literally FLOODED with this chemical!
She immediately becomes sexually addicted to you… and sees you as “the one” for her.
Women NEED this chemical in order to tell if a guy is the right mate… and if you can’t give her a penetration orgasm, she’s not gonna get it.
The next secret I had to learn the hard way…
Sex Secret # 3: If You CAN’T Give A Woman A Penetration Orgasm, She Can Never REALLY Be Attracted To You!
Because of this biological need a woman has for penetration orgasms… if a guy can’t give her one, she begins to see him as less of a man.
This is ESPECIALLY TRUE if a guy she was with before you was good in bed…
When this happens, she starts to worry she is with the wrong man… and thinks about going back to her ex, or finding a new guy.
The BUMMER is that this happens no matter how perfect you are for her in every other way!
No matter how well your personalities click, and no matter how much fun you have together, if you’re not giving a woman orgasms from actual penetration sex, her brain subconsciously tells her to find someone who will.
I learned this the hard way when a girl I was in love with cheated on me and then left me for another guy.
It wasn’t until many years later I figured out what the problem was (I’ll explain in a minute)… but first, get this…
Sex Secret # 4: Giving A Woman A Penetration Orgasm Can Actually Be Easy…
A lot of men make the mistake of thinking they need to be “huge”, or know some kind of special technique to give a woman a penetration orgasm.
NOT TRUE.
All it takes is a firm, steady motion… and being able to last at least 20 minutes in bed.
It has NOTHING to do with your size, and your technique isn’t that important either.
All that’s important is that you can LAST LONG ENOUGH for her to have one!
Women aren’t like us men. I know you’ve heard that women like a lot of foreplay. That’s true. Because everything takes longer for a woman.
It takes longer for her to get warmed up and ready for sex… and it takes longer for her to get off.
Let me say this in a different way:
It doesn’t take “tricks” to give your girl a penetration orgasm… but it does take TIME.
But… once you go the distance, it happens by itself!
I know what you’re thinking. If you’re like I used to be, lasting 20 minutes seems like an eternity in bed…
I used to be lucky if I lasted 2 minutes
……………..
Mr. Guru
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ahpui99
Hello warbird
Thank you for your post。
What about foreplay? Is it part of the 20 mins?
Also this feeling is just from penetrative sex?
Cheers
Hi bro ahpui99,
No, foreplay is not part of the 20 min.
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Good morning!
What is foreplay?
Some RS masters hv mentioned that ‘foreplay’ begins the second you meet the gal of ur type for the very first time n is a continuous process…
But for most men, foreplay begins inside the bedroom n includes hugging, touching, massaging, kissing n using the fingers, mouth n tongue to give the gal clitoral n g spot orgasms a few times. It will take abt 25-30 min. This should be followed by penetrative vaginal sex for 10-15 min, so that she will experience continuous orgasms. Longer than 20 min is not necessary.
While you r eating her pussy, you could use a finger to stimulate her ass. It will double her pleasure. You may also feel rhythmic contractions of her anal sphincters which is an objective sign of orgasm.
BTW, in a longer term RS, every healthy gal secretly wants u to eat her pussy n tickle her ass. Once she is comfortable w/ u playing her ass, you could easily do AJ on her, if u want to. I hv little interest in AJ though.
Regular PVOs is most satisfying physically, psychologically n emotionally for a gal/woman. There is no substitute in a long term RS, IMHO.
Your comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB