- because of my youth I play the character of a poor, young upstart which is believable and acceptable to them. I’m not rich but I’m better off than they realize ……………………………
- Be direct and unapologetic for your desires. Don’t be
- Take pleasure from looking at her body without shame or
- Touch her the same way. Put your hands on her with the
- Be 100% positive about HER sexuality and the things she
- Be 100% positive about YOUR OWN sexuality. Know
- Never be needy. Never make a woman feel that your
- because of my youth I play the character of a poor, young upstart which is believable and acceptable to them. I’m not rich but I’m better off than they realize ……………………………
- Be direct and unapologetic for your desires. Don’t be
- Take pleasure from looking at her body without shame or
- Touch her the same way. Put your hands on her with the
- Be 100% positive about HER sexuality and the things she
- Be 100% positive about YOUR OWN sexuality. Know
- Never be needy. Never make a woman feel that your
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Last week, went to a new play house at Clarke Quay… the PRC dancers there were so playful! Buy them ladies drinks and then grope and grope and grope like no tomorrow… got one dancer’s wechat so let’s see if got time to do follow up…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Grassland19744
I heard play house need min 2k spending! You mean can touch the girl inside playhouse?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
I think so… I was with a very generous host…………………….
as for touching… I had my 2 hands squeezing the D-cuppers of my 大连 dancer on the sofa until the manageress came to lead her away… it was fun but I was a bit tipsy from all the drinking…
Hi bros,
Very expensive! 2K per pax? How young, pretty n sexy r these PRC dancers? I hv been to a few n I’m most unimpressed…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deadcalmer
This has been a most enlightening thread………………………..
Was bored and fooling around with Wechat about three weeks ago. Saw a classy looking lady and dropped her a message. Replied and we started chatting. Her name is WW and I Found out she was working in Lido Palace. We messaged each other on a daily basis. I did a lot of teasing and joking around, and she also shared with me things about herself and her family, etc.
We arranged to meet up on a Saturday night to go out………………………
I wanted to F this WW very much but at the same time, I really wanted to know what game she is playing. So I looned and didn’t suggest anything. After the partying, we went for supper and I sent her back. Again, she didn’t mention anything about money.
The next day, she choot pattern already. I mentioned before about going on a trip together. So she told me to give her 6K and she would be with me for the whole month and also go on the trip with me. Again, I flatly rejected her telling her that I am not interested in this arrangement as I am not the type to BY girls. I also told her that I treated her as a friend and I would never pay money for a friend to go out with me. I told her she is more than welcome to go with any guy if she managed to secure a BY from him.
I basically cooled off after that and was ready to break contact with her. But she still carried on initiating contact with me. The last week I was very busy with work and she actually asked me to go out three times and all three times I couldn’t make it, citing work which is actually the truth.
Yesterday after work, she got a bit tipsy and started texting me, getting quite emotional. The crux of her messages was that she also needed someone to share with her happiness, and sadness. And she didn’t need someone to give her a lot of money, but she needed someone to give her emotional support…………….
A moment ago, she just knocked off from work and texted me that she wanted to meet me to go drinking again. She said she missed me, etc. I didn’t reply and she texted me like 4 messages, the last one which is “You don’t have to pay for drinks. I will pay for it.”!!!!!! That is pretty amazing. I still haven’t replied her as i have no intention of going out tonight (lack of sleep from last night working).
I am really wondering what game this girl is playing. Any esteemed bros care to comment or advise? ……………………
Hi bro deadcalmer,
Thanks so much for ur detailed FR.
She is a WL n she is here for money. However, as a woman in a foreign country, she needs emotional connection n support. It’s very likely that she has made enuff money working at high end KTVs n that she does ST (you can verify this by doing some investigation).
Kudos bro. You hv made all the right moves…by not paying her a penny, by not fxking her right away n by being very stingy w/ ur time. You hv demonstrated that u hv more sexual value than she. Your behaviour has created massive attraction n sets u apart from her customers/friends.
Only time will tell if she is playing game w/ u n whether she has an ulterior motive. It really doesn’t matter what she is up to, as long as u continue to play it cool. You must make love to her very soon to establish a sexual RS, foc of course. Here is a warning though. Don’t forget to practice safe sex. And never, ever get KC-ed.
On the other hand, you’re spending quite a lot of time w/ this WL. It makes sense only if she is exceptionally pretty n sexy n totally ur type of pussy n has other attractive character traits, otherwise u should just fxk her, as suggested by bro justl00king below.
Just my 2 cents.
Other more experienced bros may hv a very different take on this.
Good luck,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
justl00king
Bro,
No need to think too much, will just complicate matters.
If me, I would have banged her hard that first night out and just treat it as one night stand.
She need a friend, a driver and someone with $power.
Hi bro justl00king,
A great alternative approach which I personally like…
If her pussy turns out to be very pretty, tight n wet, bro deadcalmer should continue the RS foc IMHO, haha…
Ths,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deadcalmer
Thanks for the advice Bro Warbird. It’s a great pleasure to see your reply. Have been reading a lot of your interesting stories and anecdotes.
Actually I haven’t spent that much time on this girl yet … have met her twice and mainly texted on wechat. But I will be mindful not to be KCed. Yes I will make my move on my next meeting with her probably tomorrow or over the weekend.
Cheers!
deadcalmer
Hi bro deadcalmer,
You’re most welcome!
Could u give us an update on this particular girl?
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Hi all just like to share my story.
I am not sure i am being kced or not but after having 1 night with her other girls I had with seem sub par in bed……………………….. if i am still single she will bring me to her parents. followed by she want to introduce her friends to me and have a house party. Sorry as my story too long i gonna write 2 post.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
continue…..
………………………… Then suddenly when the date for my business trip got closer she message me “sorry and hope you don’t think so much but how much you going to pay me. Pls dont get angry cause i need pay for my rent in here and sg last one month i no work at home do thing. I want to stay friend with you so 1000 sgd okay? I dont want last min ask you for money we no more become friend.” Then i was like wtf?!?! Now i am still pondering whether to pay her or not.
I discuss with my buddies some say 1000sgd only go lah money easy earn back since she is hot “my friends seen her b4” then some say 1000sgd i can fuck with many different girls leh. So now i am in delimma pay or not pay. Any advice is good since this will be the first time i getting an escort. Sorry in advance for the bad english.
Hi bro deathnitz,
She is a whore. Only u can decide whether u want to pay her or not.
SGD 1k for fxking an attractive gal for the whole wk is reasonable if you’re going to PRC.
Good luck,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
woody17
SGD1000 is reasonable if the MM is ‘hot’
I agree, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
If you’re married transactional is good I suppose. If she wants money treat her as meat, not friend. Friends don’t ask me to pay for company. When I go to major cities in China, lodging and fucking is free. All I’m ever asked to get is something from DFS, or nothing at all. Those then real friends. 1000 for a week for a hot chick is quite cheap, assuming you want to spend a week with one chick instead of going out to find fresh meat. Negotiate for payment upon departure so any time you can cut loss and pro rate payment if you wish.
Hi bro newbieboy,
Lodging n fxking r free? You must have mastered the secrets of attraction haha.
Pls post ur FRs n give us some pointers on ur methods n strategies.
Ths,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Thanks for the advice, yeah I guess she is ‘hot’ as she is known to be the ‘red card’ of the KTV. She seat with ppl 200sgd and still butterfly….my friend still pay for it but I pay her only 50sgd and she seat with me longer. Of course i never tell my friend about it……………………………………
Looks and Figure very similiar to Zhu Ying if i didn’t remember the actoress name wrongly and maybe her “there” abit bigger…………………….
Hi bro,
Even though she is a whore, she is obviously attracted to u. You must be a natural.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
justl00king
1K for a hot mm is really cheap.
I would give her without second thoughts so no strings attached. It’s those who doesn’t want money I more worried.
Just have a great time and but remember not to get KCed!
Ths for ur post, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Hi Guys, check with you if it is possible to get married, i.e. ROM with a girl on WP Singer’s pass?
Why not?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ronin_dark
hmmmmmmmmmm
Hahaha…
………………………………………….. …………..
Good morning!
I’m back in Gotham City.
I now believe any man, regardless of his prior experience n success w/ women, can still lose his composure n his confidence when he is strongly attracted to an exceptionally attractive woman/girl. He will behave differently n act like a pathetic ’nice guy.’
I hv alluded to TH as my ‘best find’ in recent yrs. When I bumped into her outside the lift on 5th fl at TAM complex almost 3 months ago, I was stunned by her attractiveness n youthfulness. More attractive than my lao po n EN, or so I thought at the time. She had a near perfect figure n I momentarily lost my confidence…n actually believed she was out of my league n would never let me ST or BY her. Yes, I forgot all my lessons n violated my own principles. I became timid n hesitant n never got sexual w/ her that night.
I went home feeling dejected. Fortunately, I quickly bounced back, changed my mindset n regained my self mastery over the next 24 hrs…to make a long story short, I fxked her the 2nd time we met! It was a wonderful experience. And since then I hv been fxking her whenever I want to haha.
The secret? A man is very attractive because he is very confident. PERIOD.
I last met TH 2 days before going overseas. Unfortunately, she is now much less attractive as she has put on about 3 kg since we 1st met. And I thought she was too good for me just 3 months ago?!!
To be attractive to a chio SYT, a man must play hard to get. But not so hard as to be out of reach n push her too far away. Additionally, he must like her a bit less than she likes him. Never upset that delicate balance n she will be his forever. If at anytime he begins to like /love her much more than she likes/loves him, he will lose her, eventually. It’s ineluctable.
I recently made connection w/ a very pretty n cute Teochew-speaking gal SY in PRC. She is 18 n has never been BY-ed n we have yet to discuss the terms, but I’m certain she will come to SG to be my mistress. After her initial resistance, I hv turned the table n she is chasing me…
SY has not slept well for the last 2 months cuz her 26 yo BF broke off w/ her recently n is going to marry another gal. She has been sending text n voice msg to me around the clock! This young man is her 1st n only BF ever. She fell in love w/ him a yr ago when he n his fren came to her rescue when she was harassed by a group of boys. BTW, she has never experienced orgasm w/ her BF. I believe she is very lucky as I’ll give her pleasure beyond her widest dreams haha.
Another lesson for me: Emotional addiction is stronger than sexual addiction.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deadcalmer
Thanks for the advice Bro Warbird. It’s a great pleasure to see your reply. Have been reading a lot of your interesting stories and anecdotes.
Actually I haven’t spent that much time on this girl yet … have met her twice and mainly texted on wechat. But I will be mindful not to be KCed. Yes I will make my move on my next meeting with her probably tomorrow or over the weekend.
Cheers!
deadcalmer
Hi bro deadcalmer,
You’re most welcome!
Could u give us an update on this particular girl?
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Hi all just like to share my story.
I am not sure i am being kced or not but after having 1 night with her other girls I had with seem sub par in bed……………………….. if i am still single she will bring me to her parents. followed by she want to introduce her friends to me and have a house party. Sorry as my story too long i gonna write 2 post.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
continue…..
………………………… Then suddenly when the date for my business trip got closer she message me “sorry and hope you don’t think so much but how much you going to pay me. Pls dont get angry cause i need pay for my rent in here and sg last one month i no work at home do thing. I want to stay friend with you so 1000 sgd okay? I dont want last min ask you for money we no more become friend.” Then i was like wtf?!?! Now i am still pondering whether to pay her or not.
I discuss with my buddies some say 1000sgd only go lah money easy earn back since she is hot “my friends seen her b4” then some say 1000sgd i can fuck with many different girls leh. So now i am in delimma pay or not pay. Any advice is good since this will be the first time i getting an escort. Sorry in advance for the bad english.
Hi bro deathnitz,
She is a whore. Only u can decide whether u want to pay her or not.
SGD 1k for fxking an attractive gal for the whole wk is reasonable if you’re going to PRC.
Good luck,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
woody17
SGD1000 is reasonable if the MM is ‘hot’
I agree, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
If you’re married transactional is good I suppose. If she wants money treat her as meat, not friend. Friends don’t ask me to pay for company. When I go to major cities in China, lodging and fucking is free. All I’m ever asked to get is something from DFS, or nothing at all. Those then real friends. 1000 for a week for a hot chick is quite cheap, assuming you want to spend a week with one chick instead of going out to find fresh meat. Negotiate for payment upon departure so any time you can cut loss and pro rate payment if you wish.
Hi bro newbieboy,
Lodging n fxking r free? You must have mastered the secrets of attraction haha.
Pls post ur FRs n give us some pointers on ur methods n strategies.
Ths,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Thanks for the advice, yeah I guess she is ‘hot’ as she is known to be the ‘red card’ of the KTV. She seat with ppl 200sgd and still butterfly….my friend still pay for it but I pay her only 50sgd and she seat with me longer. Of course i never tell my friend about it……………………………………
Looks and Figure very similiar to Zhu Ying if i didn’t remember the actoress name wrongly and maybe her “there” abit bigger…………………….
Hi bro,
Even though she is a whore, she is obviously attracted to u. You must be a natural.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
justl00king
1K for a hot mm is really cheap.
I would give her without second thoughts so no strings attached. It’s those who doesn’t want money I more worried.
Just have a great time and but remember not to get KCed!
Ths for ur post, bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Hi Guys, check with you if it is possible to get married, i.e. ROM with a girl on WP Singer’s pass?
Why not?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ronin_dark
hmmmmmmmmmm
Hahaha…
………………………………………….. …………..
Good morning!
I’m back in Gotham City.
I now believe any man, regardless of his prior experience n success w/ women, can still lose his composure n his confidence when he is strongly attracted to an exceptionally attractive woman/girl. He will behave differently n act like a pathetic ’nice guy.’
I hv alluded to TH as my ‘best find’ in recent yrs. When I bumped into her outside the lift on 5th fl at TAM complex almost 3 months ago, I was stunned by her attractiveness n youthfulness. More attractive than my lao po n EN, or so I thought at the time. She had a near perfect figure n I momentarily lost my confidence…n actually believed she was out of my league n would never let me ST or BY her. Yes, I forgot all my lessons n violated my own principles. I became timid n hesitant n never got sexual w/ her that night.
I went home feeling dejected. Fortunately, I quickly bounced back, changed my mindset n regained my self mastery over the next 24 hrs…to make a long story short, I fxked her the 2nd time we met! It was a wonderful experience. And since then I hv been fxking her whenever I want to haha.
The secret? A man is very attractive because he is very confident. PERIOD.
I last met TH 2 days before going overseas. Unfortunately, she is now much less attractive as she has put on about 3 kg since we 1st met. And I thought she was too good for me just 3 months ago?!!
To be attractive to a chio SYT, a man must play hard to get. But not so hard as to be out of reach n push her too far away. Additionally, he must like her a bit less than she likes him. Never upset that delicate balance n she will be his forever. If at anytime he begins to like /love her much more than she likes/loves him, he will lose her, eventually. It’s ineluctable.
I recently made connection w/ a very pretty n cute Teochew-speaking gal SY in PRC. She is 18 n has never been BY-ed n we have yet to discuss the terms, but I’m certain she will come to SG to be my mistress. After her initial resistance, I hv turned the table n she is chasing me…
SY has not slept well for the last 2 months cuz her 26 yo BF broke off w/ her recently n is going to marry another gal. She has been sending text n voice msg to me around the clock! This young man is her 1st n only BF ever. She fell in love w/ him a yr ago when he n his fren came to her rescue when she was harassed by a group of boys. BTW, she has never experienced orgasm w/ her BF. I believe she is very lucky as I’ll give her pleasure beyond her widest dreams haha.
Another lesson for me: Emotional addiction is stronger than sexual addiction.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Thanks WB. Not sure if i am natural i believe i still got a lot to learn…
Is there any reason of this girls crying? I am those quiet type of guy when going KTV but damn choosy with girls until sometimes Mame ask me to just choose them lol :P. But my hit rate seems quite high.
Just last week i was out with my friends for another session. I just seat with a girl with really beautiful eyes “my weakness”. The things I talk about is how are you where you from then i will pick a song and ask her for a dance. Then as we dance she starts to cry…then she whisper to me “you are nice guy”?? i was thinking “huh”?? the next moment she ask me for my number and we have been talking ever since…………………
Hi bro deathnitz,
You’re too modest. Either their acting is very good or you’re a master in triggering their strong emotions haha. Either way, their pussies r yours…
Updates will be appreciated.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
as my nick suggests, I’m a newbie, but your following passage holds very true:
“To be attractive to a chio SYT, a man must play hard to get. But not so hard as to be out of reach n push her too far away. Additionally, he must like her a bit less than she likes him. Never upset that delicate balance n she will be his forever. If at anytime he begins to like /love her much more than she likes/loves him, he will lose her, eventually. It’s ineluctable.”
Then again I will venture to raise the validity of above statement to all women you’re attracted to, since I prefer MILFs to SYTs
A few constants in every relationship: know your weaknesses, play to your strengths. Understand the counterparty. Most importantly, make them laugh, keep them happy, they will soon realize what’s more important than money. Of course I say this because all of them have other people pumping petrol. My advantages are the following:
Of course every strength can turn into a weakness, it all depends on what the woman in question is looking for and prefers. The most important thing is to learn to switch my modes when facing different profiles. Some people say this is not being true to yourself, but 1) I have done worse things to get a pussy 2) we have different sides to ourselves.
My hit rate is not high and I’m still learning. But I have been told many occasions that I’d make a good gigolo, which I take as a compliment. Maybe time for career switch!
Hi bro newbieboy,
Ths so much for sharing your methods…
I believe my dictum on RS balance applies to women of all ages and regardless of whether you hv known her for 30 minutes or 30 yrs hahaha.
Yes, you could be a very good gigolo. But you’re far too good n far too superior to be one.
You will be a high status dominant male in a few yrs…
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
chenzong
Once it becomes a career and work, what you like now is likely to lose its sheen and lustre, and become something unexciting and routine.
Work is never fun, unless you’re your own boss.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
In jest lah… Hehe. KTV girls do bring some color to life, all the long hours at work make it hard to have a “normal” relationship with “normal” girls but the night girls are so interesting I have no regrets :
Not just KTV gals, any chio gals/women of my type r interesting to me hahaha.
………………………………………
Good morning!
I come across something abt masculine confidence which I like to share.
You know how you really like it when women act all girlish
and feminine?
Well, it turns out that they feel the same way about YOU
being manly and masculine.
Here are a few of things that you should be doing to trigger
her sexually feminine emotions by displaying MASCULINE
CONFIDENCE:
afraid to talk about them or tell her what you want… and
don’t be afraid or tentative about acting on them.
embarrassment. Don’t look away or pretend you are not
looking at her. Drink her in.
same confidence that you would handle an instrument or
tool that you are very skilled, familiar, and proficient
with. Let her feel how much you enjoy handling her.
I know I’ll take some flack for this from feminists that
think that I’m objectifying a woman by comparing her to a
tool, but the fact is, women love it when you handle them
with familiarity and comfort and easy confidence…and they don’t like it when you touch them like you are afraid
of them, like they are mom’s fine crystal bowl.
desires, the things she says, the things she does. You
should never be surprised or negative about anything
regarding her sexuality. That is a massive sign of
insecurity. The rule is “positive reinforcement only.” Let
her know immediately when she does things you like
sexually, and never mention the things that you don’t
like.
Over time, she will only do the things that you positively
reinforce.
exactly what you are doing in the bedroom. Learn
enough about female sexual response that you can be
confident that you know exactly how to give her an
orgasm and be comfortable with doing it.
If you have any insecurities about your own performance
(problems getting hard or ejaculating too soon when you
are nervous), then deal with those issues in your life
immediately.
sexual validation or ego is at stake in the bedroom.
Getting her to open up to you sexually should not be
something you NEED for you to feel good about yourself
and your sexuality.
If your ego is at stake… if you need her to agreement to
sex when you initiate to protect your “male ego”… not
only will she sense that emotion (and be put off by that
kind of pressure), but also, that kind of stress is bad for more than just your sex life. It’s bad for the relationship
itself.
Remember that your mood will affect her mood. Emotions
are contagious—and that goes double for women.
If you are tentative, shy, embarrassed, ashamed, or nervous
when it comes to sex and your ability to perform, she will feel those
same emotions about HER desires. If she was previously feeling
sexual towards you, you could actually rob her of that feeling and
make her begin to feel shame or embarrassment about herself.
And then, of course, she’ll shut off.
If, on the other hand, you are calm, confident, and assured
in your own sexuality, that emotion will also be contagious…
Not only will she be feeling attraction to you because of your
sexual confident manner, but also she will feel those emotions
about her own desires and her own body. She’ll feel open and
positive about her sexuality. And she’ll be excited to share it with
YOU.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Thanks WB. Not sure if i am natural i believe i still got a lot to learn…
Is there any reason of this girls crying? I am those quiet type of guy when going KTV but damn choosy with girls until sometimes Mame ask me to just choose them lol :P. But my hit rate seems quite high.
Just last week i was out with my friends for another session. I just seat with a girl with really beautiful eyes “my weakness”. The things I talk about is how are you where you from then i will pick a song and ask her for a dance. Then as we dance she starts to cry…then she whisper to me “you are nice guy”?? i was thinking “huh”?? the next moment she ask me for my number and we have been talking ever since…………………
Hi bro deathnitz,
You’re too modest. Either their acting is very good or you’re a master in triggering their strong emotions haha. Either way, their pussies r yours…
Updates will be appreciated.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
as my nick suggests, I’m a newbie, but your following passage holds very true:
“To be attractive to a chio SYT, a man must play hard to get. But not so hard as to be out of reach n push her too far away. Additionally, he must like her a bit less than she likes him. Never upset that delicate balance n she will be his forever. If at anytime he begins to like /love her much more than she likes/loves him, he will lose her, eventually. It’s ineluctable.”
Then again I will venture to raise the validity of above statement to all women you’re attracted to, since I prefer MILFs to SYTs
A few constants in every relationship: know your weaknesses, play to your strengths. Understand the counterparty. Most importantly, make them laugh, keep them happy, they will soon realize what’s more important than money. Of course I say this because all of them have other people pumping petrol. My advantages are the following:
Of course every strength can turn into a weakness, it all depends on what the woman in question is looking for and prefers. The most important thing is to learn to switch my modes when facing different profiles. Some people say this is not being true to yourself, but 1) I have done worse things to get a pussy 2) we have different sides to ourselves.
My hit rate is not high and I’m still learning. But I have been told many occasions that I’d make a good gigolo, which I take as a compliment. Maybe time for career switch!
Hi bro newbieboy,
Ths so much for sharing your methods…
I believe my dictum on RS balance applies to women of all ages and regardless of whether you hv known her for 30 minutes or 30 yrs hahaha.
Yes, you could be a very good gigolo. But you’re far too good n far too superior to be one.
You will be a high status dominant male in a few yrs…
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
chenzong
Once it becomes a career and work, what you like now is likely to lose its sheen and lustre, and become something unexciting and routine.
Work is never fun, unless you’re your own boss.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
newbieboy
In jest lah… Hehe. KTV girls do bring some color to life, all the long hours at work make it hard to have a “normal” relationship with “normal” girls but the night girls are so interesting I have no regrets :
Not just KTV gals, any chio gals/women of my type r interesting to me hahaha.
………………………………………
Good morning!
I come across something abt masculine confidence which I like to share.
You know how you really like it when women act all girlish
and feminine?
Well, it turns out that they feel the same way about YOU
being manly and masculine.
Here are a few of things that you should be doing to trigger
her sexually feminine emotions by displaying MASCULINE
CONFIDENCE:
afraid to talk about them or tell her what you want… and
don’t be afraid or tentative about acting on them.
embarrassment. Don’t look away or pretend you are not
looking at her. Drink her in.
same confidence that you would handle an instrument or
tool that you are very skilled, familiar, and proficient
with. Let her feel how much you enjoy handling her.
I know I’ll take some flack for this from feminists that
think that I’m objectifying a woman by comparing her to a
tool, but the fact is, women love it when you handle them
with familiarity and comfort and easy confidence…and they don’t like it when you touch them like you are afraid
of them, like they are mom’s fine crystal bowl.
desires, the things she says, the things she does. You
should never be surprised or negative about anything
regarding her sexuality. That is a massive sign of
insecurity. The rule is “positive reinforcement only.” Let
her know immediately when she does things you like
sexually, and never mention the things that you don’t
like.
Over time, she will only do the things that you positively
reinforce.
exactly what you are doing in the bedroom. Learn
enough about female sexual response that you can be
confident that you know exactly how to give her an
orgasm and be comfortable with doing it.
If you have any insecurities about your own performance
(problems getting hard or ejaculating too soon when you
are nervous), then deal with those issues in your life
immediately.
sexual validation or ego is at stake in the bedroom.
Getting her to open up to you sexually should not be
something you NEED for you to feel good about yourself
and your sexuality.
If your ego is at stake… if you need her to agreement to
sex when you initiate to protect your “male ego”… not
only will she sense that emotion (and be put off by that
kind of pressure), but also, that kind of stress is bad for more than just your sex life. It’s bad for the relationship
itself.
Remember that your mood will affect her mood. Emotions
are contagious—and that goes double for women.
If you are tentative, shy, embarrassed, ashamed, or nervous
when it comes to sex and your ability to perform, she will feel those
same emotions about HER desires. If she was previously feeling
sexual towards you, you could actually rob her of that feeling and
make her begin to feel shame or embarrassment about herself.
And then, of course, she’ll shut off.
If, on the other hand, you are calm, confident, and assured
in your own sexuality, that emotion will also be contagious…
Not only will she be feeling attraction to you because of your
sexual confident manner, but also she will feel those emotions
about her own desires and her own body. She’ll feel open and
positive about her sexuality. And she’ll be excited to share it with
YOU.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
………….but this 1k trip with her gives me a lot of insight. She cried again a few times in the bed told me a lot of things which comes in as a shock to me not sure is it a shock to you guys………………………And the number of sugar daddies she has is nuts… all of her houses are bought by her sugar daddies. I told her i am not rich definately cannot afford such crap…. She say is okay….. And then she told me a lot about her family from show me photo of her with her relatives in the kampong to many stories and having parties with her friends…. Oh anyway i stay at her place for a few nights
…
Then when i was about to leave she told me the next time if I come she really just want to be “friends” with me when she retires…. I told her i will visit her every year and will always treat her as a frien………………….
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Now waiting for my transport to airport for bz trip so abit bo liao just write abit more detail regarding the trip…. she actually got like 5 houses in the span of 2 yrs working in the KTV from suitors including 3 Cars, 2 shops she basically drove me around in her car to her houses and it is definately well furnish…. and regarding the car, as i am an idiot in cars i don’t know the model cum brand of cars…………………………………Then she starts to tear….and keep looking into my eyes….“how i wish you are not married”….I was like wow?!?!
Then on we had a house party with her friends, the headcount goes 12 girls and 1 guy which is only me. All her friends from KTV from different parts of the world… But her friend is “too good” knowing she is interested in me they don’t dare come too close to me only left me and her to enjoy our time………………….
Hi bro deathnitez,
Ths for ur FR. Quite an exciting adventure and quite a story…hahaha.
Next time don’t pay her anything. She may already be emotionally n sexually addicted to u bro.
I’m curious as to where she is from, her age n the no of her patrons, etc. Are her patrons mostly PRC or SG men?
Even if she has really earned (self-proclaimed but not verified) enuff money to buy 5 houses, 2 shops n 3 cars in 2 yrs working at KTVs, why would she want u to know? For what purpose? Maybe she wants to BY u haha.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
asdfghjkl
wow.. nice read this evening!
Yes, very interesting FRs…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
All u hv to do is think, if ur in her shoes, how n wat wud u hv to do to be so successful?
Wat i say, do, think, carry myself etc will make a man give me everything n anything i want!
Once u can tink like this, u saw thru her liao
Women like these r fearless n very sharp, but once they meet someone like tat, they’ll be the 1st to run.
Conclusion, wanna be player or playee also u call the shots.
Hi Mr. Chairman,
You hv hit the nail on the head!
This type of women r heartless n ruthless…
Cheers!
………………………………………….. …………….
Good day!
Bro Newbieboy alluded to the topic of gigolo. All of us could adopt the positive strategies of a gigolo w/o the negatives.
The following interview w/ a successfully gigolo in Gotham is quite interesting:
Sexual Secrets of a Gigolo
Reporter XX
Jimmy (not his real name) is a professional paid “escort,” a Gigolo….
XX: Welcome Jimmy. Thank you for meeting with me.
Jimmy: It’s my pleasure.
XX: Jimmy, I don’t know how to ask this question tactfully. You use the term “gigolo.” Aren’t you really a male prostitute?
Jimmy: No. Not at all. And don’t worry – I’m not offended. A prostitute is generally for sex only. Slam bam, you know. A gigolo is, I’m speaking for myself, someone who is very much concerned with giving his client pleasure. Sexual pleasure, yes—but also understanding her as a woman — her wishes, her desires; what she likes and what she doesn’t.
Her agenda becomes my agenda. I think of myself as someone who represents the best in men in both character and sexual skill. I always conduct myself in a way so that I bring credit to myself and pleasure to my clients.
XX: What makes you good at what you do?
Jimmy: Well, that’s a good question. How much time have you got?
XX: Plenty. Go on –don’t worry.
Jimmy: I think the most important thing is that I am attentive. I pay attention to what the woman I’m with is saying as well as what her body language is saying. I think sometimes the body language is far more honest than the words…
XX: What else?
Jeremy: I compliment her often. I make her feel special. It’s always about her. Never about me. I’m not the kind of guy who struts around drawing the attention. I make sure she gets it.
XX: I don’t know, Jeremy. You look like a pretty spiffy guy.
Jimmy: I believe I should present myself well. I dress nicely – never in jeans, my nails are clean and manicured. I speak softly, but confidently. I’m always a gentlemen, although in the bedroom I am sometimes asked to be otherwise. (We’ll save that for another interview—editor)
XX: Do you have any special tricks you use?
Jimmy: Yes, but I don’t think of them as tricks. It’s more like technique. I spend a lot of time looking at her eyes, rather than her other features…
XX: Do you ever talk dirty too them?
Jimmy: Rarely. Never in conversation, but sometimes in bed, if asked.
XX: Okay Jeremy, since you brought it up, let’s talk about “in bed,” if you don’t mind. What’s your secret?
Jimmy: No secret, really. First, I try to get her to relax and feel real comfortable. I caress her and talk softly. I gently kiss and nibble on all her sensitive places. I ask her to be honest with me and tell me her sexual fantasies. I ask for her sexual wish list, so to speak, and nod approvingly at everything she says. I tell her how sexy she looks and how she really turns me on. You’d be surprised how often I hear that the men they know rarely do this.
I take my time—do everything verrry slowly. I get her to a high level of excitement… I use my tongue….my fingers. I make it unbearable. I urge her to surrender…to let go. I never let go myself until she reaches the absolute height of her sexual experience.
When we are finished I tell her what a great lover she is –the best.
XX: Whew! I’m exhausted. So at the days end you are satisfied with a job well done.
Jimmy: Yes. I think being a gigolo is an honorable profession. The rewards are many —not just the money.
XX: Thanks Jeremy, for being so open with us. I think I’ve learned a few things.
Jimmy: Thank you, too. May I leave you a few of my cards?
…………………………
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
………….but this 1k trip with her gives me a lot of insight. She cried again a few times in the bed told me a lot of things which comes in as a shock to me not sure is it a shock to you guys………………………And the number of sugar daddies she has is nuts… all of her houses are bought by her sugar daddies. I told her i am not rich definately cannot afford such crap…. She say is okay….. And then she told me a lot about her family from show me photo of her with her relatives in the kampong to many stories and having parties with her friends…. Oh anyway i stay at her place for a few nights
…
Then when i was about to leave she told me the next time if I come she really just want to be “friends” with me when she retires…. I told her i will visit her every year and will always treat her as a frien………………….
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
Now waiting for my transport to airport for bz trip so abit bo liao just write abit more detail regarding the trip…. she actually got like 5 houses in the span of 2 yrs working in the KTV from suitors including 3 Cars, 2 shops she basically drove me around in her car to her houses and it is definately well furnish…. and regarding the car, as i am an idiot in cars i don’t know the model cum brand of cars…………………………………Then she starts to tear….and keep looking into my eyes….“how i wish you are not married”….I was like wow?!?!
Then on we had a house party with her friends, the headcount goes 12 girls and 1 guy which is only me. All her friends from KTV from different parts of the world… But her friend is “too good” knowing she is interested in me they don’t dare come too close to me only left me and her to enjoy our time………………….
Hi bro deathnitez,
Ths for ur FR. Quite an exciting adventure and quite a story…hahaha.
Next time don’t pay her anything. She may already be emotionally n sexually addicted to u bro.
I’m curious as to where she is from, her age n the no of her patrons, etc. Are her patrons mostly PRC or SG men?
Even if she has really earned (self-proclaimed but not verified) enuff money to buy 5 houses, 2 shops n 3 cars in 2 yrs working at KTVs, why would she want u to know? For what purpose? Maybe she wants to BY u haha.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
asdfghjkl
wow.. nice read this evening!
Yes, very interesting FRs…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
All u hv to do is think, if ur in her shoes, how n wat wud u hv to do to be so successful?
Wat i say, do, think, carry myself etc will make a man give me everything n anything i want!
Once u can tink like this, u saw thru her liao
Women like these r fearless n very sharp, but once they meet someone like tat, they’ll be the 1st to run.
Conclusion, wanna be player or playee also u call the shots.
Hi Mr. Chairman,
You hv hit the nail on the head!
This type of women r heartless n ruthless…
Cheers!
………………………………………….. …………….
Good day!
Bro Newbieboy alluded to the topic of gigolo. All of us could adopt the positive strategies of a gigolo w/o the negatives.
The following interview w/ a successfully gigolo in Gotham is quite interesting:
Sexual Secrets of a Gigolo
Reporter XX
Jimmy (not his real name) is a professional paid “escort,” a Gigolo….
XX: Welcome Jimmy. Thank you for meeting with me.
Jimmy: It’s my pleasure.
XX: Jimmy, I don’t know how to ask this question tactfully. You use the term “gigolo.” Aren’t you really a male prostitute?
Jimmy: No. Not at all. And don’t worry – I’m not offended. A prostitute is generally for sex only. Slam bam, you know. A gigolo is, I’m speaking for myself, someone who is very much concerned with giving his client pleasure. Sexual pleasure, yes—but also understanding her as a woman — her wishes, her desires; what she likes and what she doesn’t.
Her agenda becomes my agenda. I think of myself as someone who represents the best in men in both character and sexual skill. I always conduct myself in a way so that I bring credit to myself and pleasure to my clients.
XX: What makes you good at what you do?
Jimmy: Well, that’s a good question. How much time have you got?
XX: Plenty. Go on –don’t worry.
Jimmy: I think the most important thing is that I am attentive. I pay attention to what the woman I’m with is saying as well as what her body language is saying. I think sometimes the body language is far more honest than the words…
XX: What else?
Jeremy: I compliment her often. I make her feel special. It’s always about her. Never about me. I’m not the kind of guy who struts around drawing the attention. I make sure she gets it.
XX: I don’t know, Jeremy. You look like a pretty spiffy guy.
Jimmy: I believe I should present myself well. I dress nicely – never in jeans, my nails are clean and manicured. I speak softly, but confidently. I’m always a gentlemen, although in the bedroom I am sometimes asked to be otherwise. (We’ll save that for another interview—editor)
XX: Do you have any special tricks you use?
Jimmy: Yes, but I don’t think of them as tricks. It’s more like technique. I spend a lot of time looking at her eyes, rather than her other features…
XX: Do you ever talk dirty too them?
Jimmy: Rarely. Never in conversation, but sometimes in bed, if asked.
XX: Okay Jeremy, since you brought it up, let’s talk about “in bed,” if you don’t mind. What’s your secret?
Jimmy: No secret, really. First, I try to get her to relax and feel real comfortable. I caress her and talk softly. I gently kiss and nibble on all her sensitive places. I ask her to be honest with me and tell me her sexual fantasies. I ask for her sexual wish list, so to speak, and nod approvingly at everything she says. I tell her how sexy she looks and how she really turns me on. You’d be surprised how often I hear that the men they know rarely do this.
I take my time—do everything verrry slowly. I get her to a high level of excitement… I use my tongue….my fingers. I make it unbearable. I urge her to surrender…to let go. I never let go myself until she reaches the absolute height of her sexual experience.
When we are finished I tell her what a great lover she is –the best.
XX: Whew! I’m exhausted. So at the days end you are satisfied with a job well done.
Jimmy: Yes. I think being a gigolo is an honorable profession. The rewards are many —not just the money.
XX: Thanks Jeremy, for being so open with us. I think I’ve learned a few things.
Jimmy: Thank you, too. May I leave you a few of my cards?
…………………………
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Krenjusen
Interesting giggolo interview
Yes, quite interesting.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
….. and i don’t mind being BY by her
.
…………………………
And the guys (KTV) just like to pay for her sex and emotions and she just falsefully give it. Guess she is pretty so she can play hard to get and the guys are willing to pay more for her “love” and sex. Anyway for this Bz trip she went out with me for free lol
To me i am quite firm in term of giving things to girls, in short i am stingy guy lol. On the previous trip, she ask if i will buy a expensive stuff for her i say “I will not promise you that i will get that for you.” and she was abit shock, not sure does that make a different cause i believe most guys which so call “go out with her” will buy any things for her??
One thing I have to admit she is really hot……………. But in the end i feel being confidence does help and I will still say no if she ask again about expensive stuff (FIRM).
Dear bro, ths for sharing ur FR.
………………………………………….. …….
Good afternoon!
It behooves every man to learn the methods of the most successful gigolo. Such a man has profound understanding of what women really want.
I hv mentioned my interest n focus on how to get women addicted. I hv also suggested that emotional addiction is the most powerful of the 3 types of addiction…
Regardless of who you’re, even if you’re a world famous rock star or a billionaire player or a powerful political leader, you still need to get ur women addicted to u, emotionally, sexually n financially. Why? Otherwise, ur women may fxk other men n give u nasty STDs n HIV. In other words, ur very life depends on ur ability to get them addicted to YOU.
I also want to be very blunt here. It may not be enough to get women addicted only emotionally n sexually to u in a long term RS. If ur woman is extremely attractive n you’re struggling to put food on the table, before long, she may leave u…sorry, she is only human.
A word abt emotional addiction. The secret is to make ur woman FEEL amazingly elated n euphoric in ur presence or, better yet, when thinking abt u in ur absence…and make sure she can’t FEEL like that w/ anyone else, ever. No amt of money or power can make her feel so good hahaha…
Another recent revelation: Regular Penetrative Vaginal Orgasms (RPVO) r quite different from other types of orgasms: More satisfying, more oxytocin surges and essential for deep bonding n much more addictive. And expert sexologists could tell if a woman has had or has enjoyed RVPO from the way she walks. Using ur finger to give her G or deep spot orgasms r still NOT enuff. There is sound neuro-physiological basis for this. Sadly, only abt 30% of women experince RPVO.
Recently, my long term mistress XW told me that she found RVPO most satisfying, I was skeptical but decided to do some research into the subject. She was 100% correct.
Over a month ago, I made connection w/ a very cute/pretty Teochew-speaking SYT in China. She had just broke off w/ her BF cuz he was going to marry someone else. She had not slept well for over a month. She had never experienced orgasm (not even clitoral) before n yet she loved him. To cut a long story short, I managed to transfer her feelings to me, despite the fact that she was shocked when I told her my age. She now texts me on Wechat around the clock n I only reply occasionally. She confessed that she is in love w/ me. I ask her NOT to come to SG until next yr when she turns 18. BTW, I hv not spent a penny on her.
Wishing All bros a Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year!
Bro WB
Good morning!
“The goddess was discovered by her gait.”
Virgil quotes (Ancient Roman Latin Poet and Author of the epic, Aeneid. 70 BC-19 BC)
Here is the abstract on the history of a woman’s PVO n her gait, published in J Sex Med 2008;5:2119–2124:
A Woman’s History of Vaginal Orgasm is Discernible from
Her Walk
Aurelie Nicholas, MA,* Stuart Brody, PhD,† Pascal de Sutter, PhD,* and François de Carufel, PhD‡
*Université Catholique de Louvain, Institut d’études de la famille et de la sexualité, Louvain-la-Neuve, Belgium; †Division
of Psychology, School of Social Sciences, University of the West of Scotland, Paisley, UK; ‡Unité de sexologie
fonctionnelle, Hôpital Braine l’Alleud-Waterloo, Braine-l’Alleud, Belgium
DOI: 10.1111/j.1743-6109.2008.00942.x
A B S T R A C T
Introduction.
Research has demonstrated the association between vaginal orgasm and better mental health. Some
theories of psychotherapy assert a link between muscle blocks and disturbances of both character and sexual function.
In Functional–Sexological therapy, one focus of treatment is amelioration of voluntary movement. The present study
examines the association of general everyday body movement with history of vaginal orgasm.
Aim.
The objective was to determine if appropriately trained sexologists could infer women’s history of vaginal
orgasm from observing only their gait.
Methods.
Women with known histories of either vaginal orgasm or vaginal anorgasmia were videotaped walking on
the street, and their orgasmic status was judged by sexologists blind to their history.
Main Outcome Measure.
The concordance between having had orgasms triggered by penile–vaginal intercourse
(not orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation) and raters’ inferences of vaginal orgasm history based on observation
of the woman’s walk was the main outcome measure.
Results. In the sample of healthy young Belgian women (half of whom were vaginally orgasmic), history of vaginal
orgasm (triggered solely by penile–vaginal intercourse) was diagnosable at far better than chance level (81.25%
correct, Fisher’s Exact Test P < 0.05) by appropriately trained sexologists. Clitoral orgasm history was unrelated to
both ratings and to vaginal orgasm history. Exploratory analyses suggest that greater pelvic and vertebral rotation and
stride length might be characteristic of the gait of women who have experienced vaginal orgasm (r = 0.51, P < 0.05).
Conclusions.
The discerning observer may infer women’s experience of vaginal orgasm from a gait that comprises
fluidity, energy, sensuality, freedom, and absence of both flaccid and locked muscles. Results are discussed with regard
to previous research on gait, the effect of the musculature on sexual function, the special nature of vaginal orgasm,
and implications for sexual therapy. Nicholas A, Brody S, de Sutter P, and de Carufel F. A woman’s history of
vaginal orgasm is discernible from her walk. J Sex Med 2008;5:2119–2124.
KeyWords. Orgasm; Sexual Intercourse; Gait; Psychoanalytic Theory; Functional–Sexological Therapy; Movement
My reflections n personal observations on the subject:
The above scientific study has confirmed my own experiences. Here is another thing: A woman’s gait may also change if she stops having regular PVO for as little as a month or so. It’s subtle but certainly discernible haha. It pays to observe ur woman’s gait very carefully.
I always walk BEHIND my mistresses n see how they swing their hips. I tell them I love their perky n bouncy butt haha. My 25 yo lao po XW is very orgasmic n experiences PVO almost very time. She would leave black n blue marks on my back n upper arms. Her gait is much more fluid, energetic n sensual n w/ wider swing in her hips compared w/ my 19 yo lover EN who has never experienced PVO despite my best efforts.
BTW, when I came back to SG last wk, after spending over a month at Gotham, I immediately noticed that XW’s gait is less energetic, less fluid n she swings her hips noticeably much less haha. Of course I wont tell her that.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Krenjusen
Interesting giggolo interview
Yes, quite interesting.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
deathnitez
….. and i don’t mind being BY by her
.
…………………………
And the guys (KTV) just like to pay for her sex and emotions and she just falsefully give it. Guess she is pretty so she can play hard to get and the guys are willing to pay more for her “love” and sex. Anyway for this Bz trip she went out with me for free lol
To me i am quite firm in term of giving things to girls, in short i am stingy guy lol. On the previous trip, she ask if i will buy a expensive stuff for her i say “I will not promise you that i will get that for you.” and she was abit shock, not sure does that make a different cause i believe most guys which so call “go out with her” will buy any things for her??
One thing I have to admit she is really hot……………. But in the end i feel being confidence does help and I will still say no if she ask again about expensive stuff (FIRM).
Dear bro, ths for sharing ur FR.
………………………………………….. …….
Good afternoon!
It behooves every man to learn the methods of the most successful gigolo. Such a man has profound understanding of what women really want.
I hv mentioned my interest n focus on how to get women addicted. I hv also suggested that emotional addiction is the most powerful of the 3 types of addiction…
Regardless of who you’re, even if you’re a world famous rock star or a billionaire player or a powerful political leader, you still need to get ur women addicted to u, emotionally, sexually n financially. Why? Otherwise, ur women may fxk other men n give u nasty STDs n HIV. In other words, ur very life depends on ur ability to get them addicted to YOU.
I also want to be very blunt here. It may not be enough to get women addicted only emotionally n sexually to u in a long term RS. If ur woman is extremely attractive n you’re struggling to put food on the table, before long, she may leave u…sorry, she is only human.
A word abt emotional addiction. The secret is to make ur woman FEEL amazingly elated n euphoric in ur presence or, better yet, when thinking abt u in ur absence…and make sure she can’t FEEL like that w/ anyone else, ever. No amt of money or power can make her feel so good hahaha…
Another recent revelation: Regular Penetrative Vaginal Orgasms (RPVO) r quite different from other types of orgasms: More satisfying, more oxytocin surges and essential for deep bonding n much more addictive. And expert sexologists could tell if a woman has had or has enjoyed RVPO from the way she walks. Using ur finger to give her G or deep spot orgasms r still NOT enuff. There is sound neuro-physiological basis for this. Sadly, only abt 30% of women experince RPVO.
Recently, my long term mistress XW told me that she found RVPO most satisfying, I was skeptical but decided to do some research into the subject. She was 100% correct.
Over a month ago, I made connection w/ a very cute/pretty Teochew-speaking SYT in China. She had just broke off w/ her BF cuz he was going to marry someone else. She had not slept well for over a month. She had never experienced orgasm (not even clitoral) before n yet she loved him. To cut a long story short, I managed to transfer her feelings to me, despite the fact that she was shocked when I told her my age. She now texts me on Wechat around the clock n I only reply occasionally. She confessed that she is in love w/ me. I ask her NOT to come to SG until next yr when she turns 18. BTW, I hv not spent a penny on her.
Wishing All bros a Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year!
Bro WB