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adjective. having extremely favorable qualities
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adjective. pertaining to a person or thing that is rugged, strong, and/or ready to show these qualities
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noun. person who is perceived to have the qualities of definition 2
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I came. I saw. I conquered. — Julius Caesar
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One man with courage makes a majority. — Andrew Jackson
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I am the punishment of God…If you had not committed great sins, God would not have sent a punishment like me upon you. — Genghis Khan
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You may abandon your own body but you must preserve your honour. — Miyamoto Musashi
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My life is simple, my food is plain, and my quarters are uncluttered. In all things, I have sought clarity. I face the troubles and problems of life and death willingly. Virtue, integrity and courage are my priorities. I can be approached, but never pushed; befriended but never coerced; killed but never shamed. — Yi Sun-sin
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It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the dog. — Mark Twain
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Four things greater than all things are, – Women and Horses and Power and War. — Rudyard Kipling
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Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever. — Lance Armstrong
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Upon this a question arises: whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved? It may be answered that one should wish to be both, but, because it is difficult to unite them in one person, is much safer to be feared than loved, when, of the two, either must be dispensed with. Because this is to be asserted in general of men, that they are ungrateful, fickle, false, cowardly, covetous, and as long as you succeed they are yours entirely; they will offer you their blood, property, life and children, as is said above, when the need is far distant; but when it approaches they turn against you. And that prince who, relying entirely on their promises, has neglected other precautions, is ruined; because friendships that are obtained by payments, and not by greatness or nobility of mind, may indeed be earned, but they are not secured, and in time of need cannot be relied upon; and men have less scruple in offending one who is beloved than one who is feared, for love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails. — Machiavelli
Quote:
Originally Posted by
retief
Hi fellow senior,
Recently I got to know a girl from we chat, an interactive chatting apps like whatssap
She added me out of the blue and started chatting me up and she said she is currently working at a KTV………………
Oh.. She is quite a looker. With very good assets on her profile pic.
Hi bro,
She is a WL…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Apocalypse
u strike 4D la. KTV girl add u on whatsapp and seow kian u.
If it sound too good to be true, it usually is….
Strike 4D? You dun need luck to fxk a WL/FL.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
retief
…………..
Just like the old times how I chatted with my ex girl friend…………………
By the way, are all KTV singers like FL! If you pay you get to fuck?
She just tell me she is a singer and seems like quite busy with work………………..
Speaking from my limited experience w/ singers, some r FLs, but some play hard to get n only want to be BY-ed. Go to her joint to find out.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MindOverHeart
It was during one of these shows that a china girl declared: 我宁愿坐在宝马车里哭,也不愿意坐在自行车上笑! I am not sure if that is her subconscious surfacing !
That is from her conscious n rational mind. Dun be surprised that the same gal falls for a man who is a jobless bum.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Big B
@ Retief
The fact that you are asking these questions make it sound like you lack the necessary emotional mastery to not get KCed.
It is no doubt true that these working ladies are women too and often require loving care and concern to keep their sanity.
…………….
Hard core WLS only want money n more money n nothing else. Some of them hv BFs/husbands/lovers back home. Dun try to KC them. Recognize them quickly n avoid n treat them like lepers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
happyguy1234
i was using momo, a chinese chatting app to get to know strangers.. some of the gers there are stunning…. i promise u will think this app beats all the others like skout… i found out quite alot of prc chicks, some are students, moonlighting as FLs for as high as 1k per session…. hot though, i must say
Those models/actresses on momo r all FLs.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Good for u happyguy but i think all these chat software got nottin to do with the context or focus of this thread.
Maybe u shud start a new thread called “HOW TO FIND FLs WITH CHAT SOFT WARES”
Good point, Mr Chairman.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jacky chan
Nvr log in for so long, all dage missing from HFJ and going round giving advice…
Pls share ur FRs n insights.
,…………………………………………. ……….
Good afternoon!
I like EN a lot. Last wk I brought her to a dinner buffet at Raffles City. She enjoyed the food very much, but said too expensive, not worth it. She needs to dress up a bit n make herself more glamorous…although she is already very pretty wearing worn-out dress n w/o any make up. She is the 1st gal I know who refuses gifts.
She is also submissive, although she has her principles. Two days ago I mentioned to EN abt the idea of finding another tall chio 18 yo from PRC to ‘keep her company’ when she returns as a student. She flatly rejected the idea. 我不认识的女孩， 很可能合不来。。。她可能是会妒忌的。Nice try on my part hahaha. I’ll not bring up the subject for now.
BTW, I hv discussed the importance of masculinity, confidence, dominance n mental toughness in attracting the prettiest women.
I like to add another word: Badass.
bad-ass
Yes, I aspire to be the a very badass.
Now for some of the most badass, manly, masculine, alpha male quotes of all time:
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
IwasApo
Before Warbird dage reveal his insights, I like to give my tiny little 2cents to the matter.
At higher level, you should learn to trust your instincts….
At this stage, you are looking for a high level prey that can give your significant challenge. There will be some people whose entire focus, is to search out the hard core WLs, and convert them.
But do not attempt this without professional guidance
.
……………….
Hi bro IwasApo,
Ths for sharing ur insights n strategies.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
nitetcrawler
Always enjoy reading your insights.
How do you recognize them? Any exhibition of traits?
Mostly from hands on experience, but learning n reading do help.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Lub u deep deep
Theory n practical r 2 diff things.
Go cheong KTV n u will see it in no time
Totally agree. Practice makes perfect haha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Bro Guru, so, new catch consummated?
Hi Mr Chairman,
Not new catch. She arrived a few wks ago to be 包。Consummated the 2nd day. I hv yet to try ur techniques.
Ths,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
IwasApo
Dage, I was referring to the nature of the story.
Every man want to feel that he is special, that he found a gem from ktv………….
Ths for ur post.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jacky chan
Now market is bad, picking up of gals is much easier, either at KTVs or HFJs, both equally simple.just need to spent some times do the talking
Especially using the Smart phone…hehehe
Good observation, ths bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Where got bad dage, my company still making better growth than wat the PM stated on his projected growth for the yr lol
Aiyah dage, picking these WLs up is easier than buying underwear.
Picking up non WLs r the challenge n bears the best fruit…………
Good for u bro. Yes, many bros n many companies r still doing very well.
Yes, keeping non-WLs is a challenge…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Lim Beh song leh, wat can u do other than zap me??????
Correct or not pwagehkia
TS bo kao beh lu kao beh simi lanjiao wahahahaaha loser………..
Hi bro DYBJ,
I’m not complaining or shall I say, wa TS bo kao beh.
Cheers!
To the unknown zappers n “PwaGehKia”,
Stop wasting time zapping…what goes around comes around. Devote ur time to connecting w/ gals/women of ur type. Or post ur sexcapades, both positive n negative, on this thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sideswapu
Very nice thread.
Support..
Ths bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
OceanLi
Hi Bro WB, keep the posting cumming.
This thread getting interesting. ….
Hi bro Oceanli,
I’m doing my best. Pls also share ur vast experiences here.
I believe the collective wisdom n insights of all the esteemed bros here will easily beat those Ang Moh gurus’ from Gotham country, hahaha.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Guru must be shagging his new cai like crazy tats y reach home legs wobbly n very tired hehehehe.
Hi bro BYBJ,
A bit tiring. You know I always sleep early…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
IwasApo
Before Warbird dage reveal his insights, I like to give my tiny little 2cents to the matter.
At higher level, you should learn to trust your instincts….
At this stage, you are looking for a high level prey that can give your significant challenge. There will be some people whose entire focus, is to search out the hard core WLs, and convert them.
But do not attempt this without professional guidance
.
……………….
Hi bro IwasApo,
Ths for sharing ur insights n strategies.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
nitetcrawler
Always enjoy reading your insights.
How do you recognize them? Any exhibition of traits?
Mostly from hands on experience, but learning n reading do help.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Lub u deep deep
Theory n practical r 2 diff things.
Go cheong KTV n u will see it in no time
Totally agree. Practice makes perfect haha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Bro Guru, so, new catch consummated?
Hi Mr Chairman,
Not new catch. She arrived a few wks ago to be 包。Consummated the 2nd day. I hv yet to try ur techniques.
Ths,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
IwasApo
Dage, I was referring to the nature of the story.
Every man want to feel that he is special, that he found a gem from ktv………….
Ths for ur post.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jacky chan
Now market is bad, picking up of gals is much easier, either at KTVs or HFJs, both equally simple.just need to spent some times do the talking
Especially using the Smart phone…hehehe
Good observation, ths bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Where got bad dage, my company still making better growth than wat the PM stated on his projected growth for the yr lol
Aiyah dage, picking these WLs up is easier than buying underwear.
Picking up non WLs r the challenge n bears the best fruit…………
Good for u bro. Yes, many bros n many companies r still doing very well.
Yes, keeping non-WLs is a challenge…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Lim Beh song leh, wat can u do other than zap me??????
Correct or not pwagehkia
TS bo kao beh lu kao beh simi lanjiao wahahahaaha loser………..
Hi bro DYBJ,
I’m not complaining or shall I say, wa TS bo kao beh.
Cheers!
To the unknown zappers n “PwaGehKia”,
Stop wasting time zapping…what goes around comes around. Devote ur time to connecting w/ gals/women of ur type. Or post ur sexcapades, both positive n negative, on this thread.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
sideswapu
Very nice thread.
Support..
Ths bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
OceanLi
Hi Bro WB, keep the posting cumming.
This thread getting interesting. ….
Hi bro Oceanli,
I’m doing my best. Pls also share ur vast experiences here.
I believe the collective wisdom n insights of all the esteemed bros here will easily beat those Ang Moh gurus’ from Gotham country, hahaha.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Guru must be shagging his new cai like crazy tats y reach home legs wobbly n very tired hehehehe.
Hi bro BYBJ,
A bit tiring. You know I always sleep early…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Tks Guru for ur most impartial comments as usual
Bro DYBJ, I want to be neutral n evenhanded always.
[/QUOTE]Yes of cos guru, so u can let them “EARLY BIRD CATCH UR WORM”
[/QUOTE]
I dun know, when I gain something, I lose something else n vice versa…there r many benefits of staying up very late, hahaha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jacky chan
Bro Warbird
Always try few liao without having handing a single cents, thanks to the smart phone bro
Hi bro JC,
Yes, but it could be very time consuming.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
OceanLi
Bro WB,
I believe all senior here will be able to share their own adventures and I can
even pick some skill from them, these include you, 9696, JC, LDHLDH etc.
Am just an ordinary borish guy with ordinary decent job, earning from
hand to mouth. Perhaps will be glad to “learn and gain more exposure” if all
Gurus like youself dun mind me tag along the outing for eye-opening.
Hi Bro Oceanli,
Haha, I’m still a trainee. There r many more experienced n accomplished bros here.
Cheers!
………………………………………….. ..
Good afternoon to all samsters who contribute to this thread.
Ths for all ur lively n informative discussions.
In life, when one gains something, one loses something else, n vice versa, hahaha. One should accept all ‘gains’ n ’losses’ w/ gratitude, joy n peace.
Two examples.
My 1st Bao-ee has been my woman for 1 1/2 yrs. I hv enjoyed her companionship, but I must hv missed out on many other pussies, perhaps younger n prettier.
I hv mentioned the 18 yo EN. She is a non-WL, chio n tall, etc. BUT, it takes a long time to make her cum n she is very inexperienced…
Have a great day!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Tks Guru for ur most impartial comments as usual
Bro DYBJ, I want to be neutral n evenhanded always.
[/QUOTE]Yes of cos guru, so u can let them “EARLY BIRD CATCH UR WORM”
[/QUOTE]
I dun know, when I gain something, I lose something else n vice versa…there r many benefits of staying up very late, hahaha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jacky chan
Bro Warbird
Always try few liao without having handing a single cents, thanks to the smart phone bro
Hi bro JC,
Yes, but it could be very time consuming.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
OceanLi
Bro WB,
I believe all senior here will be able to share their own adventures and I can
even pick some skill from them, these include you, 9696, JC, LDHLDH etc.
Am just an ordinary borish guy with ordinary decent job, earning from
hand to mouth. Perhaps will be glad to “learn and gain more exposure” if all
Gurus like youself dun mind me tag along the outing for eye-opening.
Hi Bro Oceanli,
Haha, I’m still a trainee. There r many more experienced n accomplished bros here.
Cheers!
………………………………………….. ..
Good afternoon to all samsters who contribute to this thread.
Ths for all ur lively n informative discussions.
In life, when one gains something, one loses something else, n vice versa, hahaha. One should accept all ‘gains’ n ’losses’ w/ gratitude, joy n peace.
Two examples.
My 1st Bao-ee has been my woman for 1 1/2 yrs. I hv enjoyed her companionship, but I must hv missed out on many other pussies, perhaps younger n prettier.
I hv mentioned the 18 yo EN. She is a non-WL, chio n tall, etc. BUT, it takes a long time to make her cum n she is very inexperienced…
Have a great day!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Istrike4D
Anyway I am leaving this place for good. I have found better things to do like cheonging KTVs instead of talking cock here.
Smart move. It will give u a lot more free time to bed gals of ur type.
You may want to post ur FRs here at a later date on ur newfound sucess. But no flaming or use of profanity pls.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Bro WarBird, please accept my most humblest apologies for this shit but it has been revealed to me that………………………………..
Hi Bro DYBJ,
No problem, apologies accepted.
As u can see the flamer is leaving voluntarily…
Let bygones be bygones.
Cheers!
………………………………………….. ………………………….
Good morning!
There has been a lot of flaming on this forum. One can feel the hatred, anger n emotional turmoils…n thoughts of revenge.
Most people believe that the best revenge is making big money. Perhaps.
IMHO, the best revenge in life is to bed the prettiest gals of ur type n making them addicted to YOU, haha.
I like to share “An Issue of Insecurity” w/ all bros here. I just received it a few days ago n it may be relevant to problems some of us encounter…
Hey Bro Warbird,
I received a very good email from a man with a question about
something that is making him feel insecure, something that makes
many men feel insecure.
Luckily, there is a simple solution to this issue…read his
question, and my answer below. Odds are you’ve had this issue at
some point in your life…I know I have.
Good day Mr XYZ,
I read your emails everyday, and let me tell you I always look
forward to them daily as it as really helped improved me as a man
all round. Keep it up.
I have a sticking point I have being working on for a while and
need your help. The problem is that currently I do not make as much
money as I would like to be making and sometimes this affects the
way I perceive myself in relation to people who are making more
money than me.
I often times feel bad about myself (as if am not good enough) when
am around people who are doing better than me. I know this is a bad
feeling to have that leads to insecurity and I want to get rid of
it. Please help me out. Thank you
KO
Mr XYZ’s reply:
Bro KO,
Thanks for the email, this is a really great question because
many men experience it. The first thing you should know is this:
everyone, even the richest man in the world has money problems at
some point in their lives. It is perfectly normal, and it’s how
you deal with them that matters.
Secondly, no other subject brings with it as many emotional
hang-ups as money. Money is linked to the most primal human urge,
survival, and it unlocks powerful forces. As a result, people feel
inferior or superior because of it, they fib about how much they
make, they try to take it from others, label those truly successful
as evil due to jealousy and envy and so on.
The way to fight through this is to immerse yourself in the study
of money, so you understand what it really is, and how good it can
be, as well as how it can be misused. Understand this: you can
get rich no matter how much money you make if you live below your
means and put compound interest to work for you. Many people who
appear to make a lot of income are actually dead butt broke, living
paycheck to paycheck and are three months away from having
everything they own repossessed. Others are not always who they
appear to be.
When you start educating yourself about money, the getting of it,
the keeping of it, and the investing of it, you will start to feel
much better about yourself. That feeling of insecurity will
disappear because what is an ethereal unknown to people becomes a
known quantity to you. You’ll see that getting wealthy is a simple
science, not something that just happens. Then you’ll see how dumb
about money the people you once thought were smart really are.
This newfound knowledge and confidence is attractive, and when you
become more comfortable with money, you will also become more
comfortable with women. Where should you start?
The library is a good place, as is Amazon.com particularly the
Kindle marketplace where you can get good information at an
extraordinarily cheap price. So, educate yourself about money, use
the knowledge you gain, and never will you feel insecure about it
again.
Best,
Mr XYZ
Yes, to get rich is glorious!
Good day,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Istrike4D
Anyway I am leaving this place for good. I have found better things to do like cheonging KTVs instead of talking cock here.
Smart move. It will give u a lot more free time to bed gals of ur type.
You may want to post ur FRs here at a later date on ur newfound sucess. But no flaming or use of profanity pls.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DYBJ
Bro WarBird, please accept my most humblest apologies for this shit but it has been revealed to me that………………………………..
Hi Bro DYBJ,
No problem, apologies accepted.
As u can see the flamer is leaving voluntarily…
Let bygones be bygones.
Cheers!
………………………………………….. ………………………….
Good morning!
There has been a lot of flaming on this forum. One can feel the hatred, anger n emotional turmoils…n thoughts of revenge.
Most people believe that the best revenge is making big money. Perhaps.
IMHO, the best revenge in life is to bed the prettiest gals of ur type n making them addicted to YOU, haha.
I like to share “An Issue of Insecurity” w/ all bros here. I just received it a few days ago n it may be relevant to problems some of us encounter…
Hey Bro Warbird,
I received a very good email from a man with a question about
something that is making him feel insecure, something that makes
many men feel insecure.
Luckily, there is a simple solution to this issue…read his
question, and my answer below. Odds are you’ve had this issue at
some point in your life…I know I have.
Good day Mr XYZ,
I read your emails everyday, and let me tell you I always look
forward to them daily as it as really helped improved me as a man
all round. Keep it up.
I have a sticking point I have being working on for a while and
need your help. The problem is that currently I do not make as much
money as I would like to be making and sometimes this affects the
way I perceive myself in relation to people who are making more
money than me.
I often times feel bad about myself (as if am not good enough) when
am around people who are doing better than me. I know this is a bad
feeling to have that leads to insecurity and I want to get rid of
it. Please help me out. Thank you
KO
Mr XYZ’s reply:
Bro KO,
Thanks for the email, this is a really great question because
many men experience it. The first thing you should know is this:
everyone, even the richest man in the world has money problems at
some point in their lives. It is perfectly normal, and it’s how
you deal with them that matters.
Secondly, no other subject brings with it as many emotional
hang-ups as money. Money is linked to the most primal human urge,
survival, and it unlocks powerful forces. As a result, people feel
inferior or superior because of it, they fib about how much they
make, they try to take it from others, label those truly successful
as evil due to jealousy and envy and so on.
The way to fight through this is to immerse yourself in the study
of money, so you understand what it really is, and how good it can
be, as well as how it can be misused. Understand this: you can
get rich no matter how much money you make if you live below your
means and put compound interest to work for you. Many people who
appear to make a lot of income are actually dead butt broke, living
paycheck to paycheck and are three months away from having
everything they own repossessed. Others are not always who they
appear to be.
When you start educating yourself about money, the getting of it,
the keeping of it, and the investing of it, you will start to feel
much better about yourself. That feeling of insecurity will
disappear because what is an ethereal unknown to people becomes a
known quantity to you. You’ll see that getting wealthy is a simple
science, not something that just happens. Then you’ll see how dumb
about money the people you once thought were smart really are.
This newfound knowledge and confidence is attractive, and when you
become more comfortable with money, you will also become more
comfortable with women. Where should you start?
The library is a good place, as is Amazon.com particularly the
Kindle marketplace where you can get good information at an
extraordinarily cheap price. So, educate yourself about money, use
the knowledge you gain, and never will you feel insecure about it
again.
Best,
Mr XYZ
Yes, to get rich is glorious!
Good day,
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
IwasApo
Bro Warbird, what you say is very true.
It is very true that there are many insecure people around, and it is no doubt they inhibit the forum as well. This does not mean the secure man will not lose a girl or two once in a while, or fail to bed a girl because of a miscalculated move. but the reaction of the secure man and the insecure man is vastly different.
The secure man
is mission oriented. This is like a soldier having to complete a mission……………………………………. ………He is a master of all the resource he has, and will take the route with the least obstruction, to avoid obstacles if he knows there will be obstacles there. A man like this will never be poor, and wealth will chase after the man. Everything he touch will prosper, because in his mind and soul he already lack nothing.
The insecure man
has no focus, and no mission in life. They are like the dry up grass floating about in the wind. They are constantly seeking approval from man, and values the opinion of man. Their objective is to find someone to quarrel with, and make it as drama as possible. ………………………. In order to continue to live and exist, they need to create an imaginery victories and boast about this imaginery victories.
Even the Pope did this (
no offense to any catholic bros
), telling the people of Europe that Ghenis Khan has fallen on his knees to God and will reclaim the holy land for him in the early crusades. History says that this is actually a lie, and Ghenis Khan refused to form any further alliance with the crusaders. Even such a powerful man can be insecure.
What is more interesting is that the secure man and the insecure man in this example are playing in the same field. The secure man is fully concern about going from point A to B, and largely ignores whatever the insecure man says, because what the insecure man says have no bearing on what needs to be done.
The insecure man can make alot of claims, “there will be blood, we will kill this barbarian today” truth is he is afraid of the secure man. The insecure man can call the secure man many names “barbarian”, “ugly long hair mongol” but everyday he wakes up, he wish he can live the life of the secured man. Such is the irony and agony of the insecure empty shells.
Hi Bro IwasApo,
Thank u so much for ur detailed n insightful analysis on the insecurity of men (and women).
IMHO, all humans r insecure. Some r much less insecure n some r very, very insecure. Only ancient sages n very rare modern humans r truly n completely secure.
If a human is ever angry, anxious, frustrated, fearful, shy or jealous, he or she is NOT truly secure.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Bro WB Guru, time to catch up shall we?
Been quite a while.
Hi Esteemed Bro LDH,
Yes, I would love to meet up w/ u m ur gang.
Cheers!
………………………………………….. ……
Good morning!
Bro IwasApo described the differences between the secure man n the insecure man.
But very, very few human beings can be truly secure n confident. We lived through infancy n early childhood when we were totally dependent on our parents n others for our very survival…n then when our brains got more mature n developed, we became aware of the cycle of birth, ageing, sickness n death.
We need to live in the eternal present moment, like some ancient sages.
I recall reading a book entitled “The Wisdom of Insecurity” by Alan Watts.
The author is a century ahead of his time.
I’ll quote a few of his sayings here.
“For the animal to be happy it is enough that this moment be enjoyable.”
For man, we often miss this moment by trying to assure the next (eternal) moment will be as enjoyable.
Basically, we spend too much time planning and anticipating the future and too much time thinking about, lamenting and wishing to change the past. It’s an exercise in futility n we miss the joy of living in the present entirely.
“But tomorrow and plans for tomorrow can have no significance at all unless you are in full contact with the reality of the present, since it is in the present and only in the present that you live. There is no other reality than present reality, so that, even if one were to live for endless ages, to live for the future would be to miss the point everlastingly.”
“If happiness always depends on the future, we are chasing a will-o-the-wisp that ever eludes our grasp, until the future, and ourselves, vanish in the abyss of death.”
Cheers n hv a great day!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
IwasApo
Bro Warbird, what you say is very true.
It is very true that there are many insecure people around, and it is no doubt they inhibit the forum as well. This does not mean the secure man will not lose a girl or two once in a while, or fail to bed a girl because of a miscalculated move. but the reaction of the secure man and the insecure man is vastly different.
The secure man
is mission oriented. This is like a soldier having to complete a mission……………………………………. ………He is a master of all the resource he has, and will take the route with the least obstruction, to avoid obstacles if he knows there will be obstacles there. A man like this will never be poor, and wealth will chase after the man. Everything he touch will prosper, because in his mind and soul he already lack nothing.
The insecure man
has no focus, and no mission in life. They are like the dry up grass floating about in the wind. They are constantly seeking approval from man, and values the opinion of man. Their objective is to find someone to quarrel with, and make it as drama as possible. ………………………. In order to continue to live and exist, they need to create an imaginery victories and boast about this imaginery victories.
Even the Pope did this (
no offense to any catholic bros
), telling the people of Europe that Ghenis Khan has fallen on his knees to God and will reclaim the holy land for him in the early crusades. History says that this is actually a lie, and Ghenis Khan refused to form any further alliance with the crusaders. Even such a powerful man can be insecure.
What is more interesting is that the secure man and the insecure man in this example are playing in the same field. The secure man is fully concern about going from point A to B, and largely ignores whatever the insecure man says, because what the insecure man says have no bearing on what needs to be done.
The insecure man can make alot of claims, “there will be blood, we will kill this barbarian today” truth is he is afraid of the secure man. The insecure man can call the secure man many names “barbarian”, “ugly long hair mongol” but everyday he wakes up, he wish he can live the life of the secured man. Such is the irony and agony of the insecure empty shells.
Hi Bro IwasApo,
Thank u so much for ur detailed n insightful analysis on the insecurity of men (and women).
IMHO, all humans r insecure. Some r much less insecure n some r very, very insecure. Only ancient sages n very rare modern humans r truly n completely secure.
If a human is ever angry, anxious, frustrated, fearful, shy or jealous, he or she is NOT truly secure.
Cheers!
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Loving_Dickhead
Bro WB Guru, time to catch up shall we?
Been quite a while.
Hi Esteemed Bro LDH,
Yes, I would love to meet up w/ u m ur gang.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
Bro IwasApo described the differences between the secure man n the insecure man.
But very, very few human beings can be truly secure n confident. We lived through infancy n early childhood when we were totally dependent on our parents n others for our very survival…n then when our brains got more mature n developed, we became aware of the cycle of birth, ageing, sickness n death.
We need to live in the eternal present moment, like some ancient sages.
I recall reading a book entitled “The Wisdom of Insecurity” by Alan Watts.
The author is a century ahead of his time.
I’ll quote a few of his sayings here.
“For the animal to be happy it is enough that this moment be enjoyable.”
For man, we often miss this moment by trying to assure the next (eternal) moment will be as enjoyable.
Basically, we spend too much time planning and anticipating the future and too much time thinking about, lamenting and wishing to change the past. It’s an exercise in futility n we miss the joy of living in the present entirely.
“But tomorrow and plans for tomorrow can have no significance at all unless you are in full contact with the reality of the present, since it is in the present and only in the present that you live. There is no other reality than present reality, so that, even if one were to live for endless ages, to live for the future would be to miss the point everlastingly.”
“If happiness always depends on the future, we are chasing a will-o-the-wisp that ever eludes our grasp, until the future, and ourselves, vanish in the abyss of death.”
Cheers n hv a great day!
Bro WB
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hunkyhum
alright I hope I am writing this at the right place.
I always wondered how does the KTV arena works. I haven’t been to one but would like to give it a go………………..
Bruddar hunkyhum,
Get a few kakis n go to China Doll, 7th FL at Peace Centre. It’s a cheap joint. Buy a jug of beer n wait for the gals to come to ur rm. Dun tip more than $30. If u like to spend more money, go to 2nd FL Dynasty Classic. To go upscale, visit Las Vegas or Lido Palace, Havelock Road.
Cheers!
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IwasApo
Thanks warbird senior for your kind words. Yes, all man will be insecure from time to time. So part of being human, is about overcoming our insecurities. I like what you are doing with this thread, and do let me know if I stray from the discussions since I am also a student of how to make the prettiest ladies addicted to you, but they may not neccessary be ktv girls.
Whenever we approach the subject of secure vs insecure, we are bound to hit this topic of arrogance vs confidence. Confidence is attractive, and it put the hunter, into a position of power and the lady into a position of a follower. Yet alot of the problems we face is when ladies fail to recognize the difference between arrogance and quiet confidence.
A hunter is always calm and calculated in his approach. He does not seeks attention to himself…………………..
When the music stops, he is happy even if he is alone. He is thankful for the companion he has by his side, and he is at peace even if he has no companion. The elements of the universe is one with him.
Then there are the arrogant empty shells, not realizing that they are continuing their insecure traits…………………………………….. …
When we hunt for the prettiest girls around, we must be clear that we are truly confident, quietly confident. Quiet confidence is also known as quiet aggression. There is something magnetic and uniquely attractive about quiet aggression.
Ultimately the Alpha is comfortable within his own skin………………………
The alpha male makes no apologies
, he doesn’t explain his behaviour…………………
He talks slow, notice when you talk to someone you look up to you will talk faster…………………………….
He is in control of his ego.
This is one of the most important factors in an alpha males characteristics.
A true alpha male must make sure he doesn’t develop over inflated ideas of one’s own worth and even less project these on others.
Instead, he should be cool, calm and collected and quietly confident
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He is able to see the bigger picture. This means that the alpha males aren’t worried when things go wrong, as he is sure that it was meant to happen and will all work out. He isn’t concerned with short term gains, but looks to succeed in the long term…………….
He is a calculated risk taker…………………….
He is never impressed…………………
He always aims high…………………
Learns from his failures. An alpha male is not afraid of failing…………..
He is aware of his strengths and weaknesses…………………..
Hi Bro IwasApo,
Kudos to ur treatise on Alpha male.
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Loving_Dickhead
Yo bro WB, those are adhoc gatherings. I am retired from the scene already. Only back in there when necessary, i.e. gatherings or company entertainment.
Let me know when you are avail, we can do a quick catch up.
Hi Bro LDH,
Sure, I should be able to go twice a wk.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
I believe any man can get chio gals of his type n making them addicted to him. It’s part art n part science, just like the study of medicine. No matter how good a man is, he can still improve greatly…especially at his subconscious level, until he is completely secure, joyous n fearless, even in life or death situations.
Have a great day!!
Bro WB