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The leader (at work, socially, amongst peer group etc)
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Popular (people want to know you and be around you)
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Confident
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Funny (have a good sense of humor)
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Have social proof (be attractive to other women)
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Be socially competent and have social intelligence
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Strong/protective over loved ones
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Looks/body (have good genes for her offspring)
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Emotionally wired correctly
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Have power (be willing to use resources to protect her)
- Level1 : (a) BY-ing a chio gal of ur type but allowing her to work. This was my MO for most of 2009. If u find her in SG, she is most likely an undereducated PRC gal.
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(b) BY-ing a similar gal but her pussy is exclusively yours. She doesn’t work at all. Almost all my gals since Jan 2010 belong here. (My current level.)
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I never BY a gal who does ST or is known to hv done ST
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I keep my gals full-time n keep them in a studio or master bdrm of my choice, close to me. They dun work. Period.
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Get some trusted frens who live in the immediate vicinity or, even better, in the same house/condo, to monitor ur gals.
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Use unexpected video calling n/or visits. If she is not there, it’s a red flag. Engage a PI or just dump her.
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Ignore what she says, but carefully observe her body language, facial expressions n voice tone, etc. This is better than PI, hahaha.
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Originally Posted by
MillerV
Good luck with the hunt!
Hi bro,
Hunting SYTs of my type is lots of fun n gives meaning to life.
Happy bonking!
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Good morning!
My recent foray into the vast Chinese internet n my actual experience in China hv convinced me that almost all chio SYTs, excepting those from wealthy families n very pious families, r looking for men to BY them. This is just my humble but honest opinion. Pls dun zap me.
The other day, a PRC agency sent me a msg on QQ, saying that there r very chio SYTs of my type: 有双胞胎，处女，19 岁，在校大学生，白领, 是上海的，能去新加坡的. Isn’t it amazing?
BTW, two bros disapproved of my recent post under “Tian An Men KTV” :
Tian An Men KTV 12-06-2011 11:36 PM I cannot understand why you like to pay tons of $$$ to feed these PRC whores
Yes, I know I hv overpaid for exclusivity. But, in SG at this time, there r very, very few local/PRC FLs/WLs or legal CAT PRCs who r genuine SYTs of my type. Some so-so local gals r quite expensive. Most CAT150 PRCs r MILFs even if their passports state that they r 23-24. There r only a few who r chio n who r really 21-22. But none r tall n proportionate.
As for KTV gals, since my return to SG over a month ago, I hv only seen one SYT of my type. She was going into a lift at PC n I didn’t hv a chance to meet her.
BTW, the reason I want exclusivity is that I NEVER kiss nor paint a gal who does ST.
I’m no sucker. I’m planning to move to PRC. I’ll BY prettier n younger SYTs n save tons of $$$ at the same time, hehehe.
In the meantime, I hv chosen the expensive n complicated option of importing some of them.
Tian An Men KTV 12-06-2011 11:32 PM Good for you… you can spend the whole fortune that you made over your lifetimes in PRC.
No, I’ll NEVER spend my whole fortune in PRC. I hv family obligations in Gotham City n elsewhere. It would be great if I could spend a 1/3 of my net assets before passing on. When I started BY-ing 2 yrs ago, the global stock markets were quite low. Since then my net worth/assets hv increased by at least 35%, despite recent downturn.
We all should work hard n play hard…
Cheers!
Bro WB
The most beautiful gals/women in the world r looking for a real MAN.
IMHO, being in control of one’s own emotions under the most difficult circumstances is the mark of a dominant male, the real MAN. This attribute is most attractive to females at their subconscious level.
Let me also share w/ u one guru’s description of how to be the MAN.
Be the Man
Lack of a backbone and feeling needy and insecure are the biggest obstacles to
being a leader and attracting women through your charisma. If you want to be
the strong guy who sucks others into his vortex, observe and practice the
following guidelines.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. A man with charisma solves problems without placing
blame on others. As John F. Kennedy put it when discussing the immense
challenges of the presidency, “I do not shrink from this responsibility – I welcome
it.”
Accept advice from others, but don’t depend on them to make decisions. Always
be ready to take charge and make the decide what will be done.
BE ASSERTIVE. Have your own opinions and don’t be wishy-washy. Remember,
as a leader, it’s up to you to influence others. So make your own decisions in life.
And don’t be afraid to ask for what you want.
And as a charismatic leader, although you take other people’s viewpoints into
consideration, there’s no need to ever be a follower, nor to be submissive to
anyone. If you have to disagree with someone, that’s fine, since courage for your
convictions is a magical trait possessed by the charismatic.
Having said that, however, don’t be combative either. You see, getting upset and
overly emotional about things reeks of insecurity.
When you’re assertive, you tell people what you want, being respectful yet
resolute. There’s never any reason to threaten, act hostile, or lose your temper.
Just be honest about your needs.
BECOME DRIVEN TO SUCCEED. A charismatic person has an overpowering urge to create a better life and fulfill his potential in life. Create goals, and focus
on doing what it takes to reach them.
PLACE A HIGH VALUE ON YOURSELF. That means you don’t need other
people’s approval. You’re placing a low value on yourself when you:
• Brag about yourself. The only reason you’d ever brag is because you feel
insecure.
• Try to impress people. A man of high value isn’t required to prove himself to
anyone.
• Feel that anyone’s better than you. You never need to put a woman up on a
pedestal or feel like you have to impress your friends or followers. Remember,
no one out there is better than you! As such…
• Don’t give people your attention unless they have earned it. And then
when you do give them your attention, they’ll feel so much better about
it.
• Be busy enough in your life (due to your drive to succeed) that when
you give your time to others, they can be sure that they have earned it.
• Never feel as if you need to buy anyone’s affections. Instead use your
charm. A well-placed sincere compliment for someone will bring you far
better results than buying them gifts or giving them fake flattery.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
I joined an esteemed bro at LV 4th Fl sh last nite. This bro is such a fantastic singer that I honor him as Elvis of SG! He was obliging enuff to sing several of my favourite Elvis’ songs. Wow!!
He was correct in his assertion that there r still very chio babes available n that engaging the service of the right mummy is the key to finding them, hehehe. I brought one of my beloved 老婆 there to listen to her singing…n therefore didn’t get to book any new gals.
Additionally, I was also fortunate to meet a new bro who spends a lot of time in Shanghai n Suzhou. He has agreed to audition my prospective mistresses there.
BTW, I believe greed is good. But it must be controlled greed. Being too greedy can be negative in many ways n is indicative of lack of self control n self mastery. I may hv been a bit too greedy in BY-ing so many gals…I’ll try to slow down my pace.
At this time I like to share the traits of “Extinct Man” according to another guru.
Bro WB,
Most men are unsuccessful with women.
It’s a fact and established “law” that 80% of women want 20% of men.
It’s called Pareto’s principle.
Pareto’s “law” applies to almost everything in life.
80% of results are gained from 20% of actions.
If you’re not in that 20% of men that get 80% of the success
with women, it sucks doesn’t it?
It means you have to watch the same guys getting all of the best
women.
But you know what?
The BEST thing about being a man today is that women are not
exclusively looking for good looks, great body, money or whatever.
They are looking for a whole package.
And here at…we’ve unravelled the mystery of
exactly what women want… Even though, most of it they don’t even
realize themselves!
… And we’ve broken it down into 10 easily trainable parts.
We call these parts…
***The 10 Rarest Qualities Of The Extinct Man***
Why do we say men with these qualities are extinct?
Because they are SO rare, that if you can just emulate a few of
these qualities, you’ll find yourself in the top 20% of attractive
men.
If you manage to master all 10 of these qualities and let them
“become you”, you’ll be amongst the rarest… Almost extinct…
0.1% of highest quality men that ALL women want.
That’s what we’re doing here… Teaching you
how to use these “mental attraction triggers” that short circuit
women’s minds and generates massive unstoppable floods of
attention from women.
Then, once you’ve gotten a few of these qualities mastered, you can
use our step-by-step system for meeting women and generating massive
attraction for you in their minds.
But let’s not get ahead of ourselves…
Here are the 10 qualities of the extinct man (there are MORE but
that is highly advanced material beyond the scope of this free Email
course).
When you read this list, don’t let any of them put you off
thinking “well, I am NOT this or that…”
…See the thing is, you don’t even NEED to BE these things… there
are ways to flip the “mental triggers” in her mind so that she’ll
ASSUME you are these things without you ever needing to say it, or
even be it…
As I said, there are MORE, but these are a good start…
If you can just flip 5 of these mental triggers,
you’ll have her WANTING YOU BADLY…
Seriously, this material is powerful enough to create total
stalkers out of the most gorgeous high quality women that you would
never dream would want to stalk you right now, I’ve been there…
more than once. It’s a great feeling to know women want YOU… And
exclusively you. It’s like you short circuit their brain to only
SEE and THINK about YOU…
Anyway, this email is getting a little longer than I wanted it to…
I’m going to tell you more of the “do this” “do that” details
in my next email Bro WB,
Mr. XYZ.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB, sharing your nuggets of wisdom again…
To me, those I highlighted in red are the 5 more important traits…
Hi Bro TD,
What nuggets of wisdom? I’m merely quoting some “foreign talents,” hehehe.
Yes, I fully agree that if u hv all those 5 traits, you’re THE MAN. Chio gals/women will flock to u…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
I started this thread 2 yrs ago becos I like to share info on how to pick up chio gals at minimal cost. The reason was that I hate spending money on the intermediary. You can say that I like to reduce the “friction cost"of investing, hehe or u can call me cheapskate…
I just replied to an esteemed bro who thought I had spent big at TAM complex in “Tian An Men KTV.” Actually, nothing could be further from the truth.
<<<[/QUOTE]
Originally Posted by lover8boy View Post
Warbird dude…
you arent the only one who spends big at TAM…and IMO nothing wrong with that.
My friends regularly go to Vegas…blow away $40k 50k a month. They like the Syts there too. Like the attention they get. Capitalism at its best! But no matter how they spend, they wont blow their fortunes away. They alway say drinking and cheonging bills will never make them poor. Not to sound crass but they can well afford it. Lifestyle to them.
Singapore has all types of cheongsters.
Peace[/QUOTE]
Hi bro lover8boy
I hv never spent big at KTVs.
I want to spend the minimal while maximizing my chances for making ctc w/ my type of chio SYTs. PERIOD. Pls read my thread “Picking Up KTV gals outside KTVs.”
I hate giving the medium or intermediary (KTVs, mummies, agents, etc.) a penny if I could avoid it.
I only like to spend money on ST-ing or BY-ing chio pussies of my type, w/ ZERO going to the intermediary.
Nowadays, I prefer making direct ctc w/ SYTs of my type wherever they r, in SG, PRC, Gotham City, in cyberspace, anywhere, anytime…hahaha.
Recently, I got two chio n tall high school students to spend a few nights in BJ w/o paying the intermediary a penny. That is what picking up is all abt. Picking them up inside KTVs/HFJs n similar joints is much less fun.
Cheers!
Bro WB>>>
BTW, I hv seen incontrovertible proof that a man’s perceived ranking on the Male Dominant Scale is the SOLE determinant of his attractiveness to females. PERIOD. And possessing all 5 traits highlighted by Bro TD will put a man at the apex of the scale.
I like to add that the foundation of these traits n male dominance is self confidence/self mastery, without it a man is a fraud n he can only fake it for the time being.
I’m making progress in every area of my life, every hr, every day n I live in the eternal present moment…
After 2-yr of BY-ing, I’m ready to move to a higher level of game w/ higher quality of gals. I’m now after high school n uni students, chio SYTs of my type, in PRC n elsewhere. Some 电影学院，艺术学院 in PRC hv my type of gals. I hv identified a very chio SYT CE, a student n a part-time model/actress in Shanghai. I want her to come here for a month.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
You are the man…
The next level up will be to get chio gals to stay with you without paying them a penny…
Hi Bro TD,
No no， I’m not the MAN, bcos I’m still working very hard towards my goals.
Yes, the next level up would be Level 3 when a man gets to stay w/ a chio gal of his type w/o paying, but I’m barely out of level 1…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
mama88
Have to agree. Ultimate is without money involved. Otherwise still a commercial transaction and not really a true test. My opinion only.
You’re right bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MillerV
Wah Bro WB, you 双飞 two SYT!!!
Well done …. i think that should be on my bucket list :P
Hi Bro MillerV,
双飞 or even 三飞 is quite common in PRC, hehehe.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
spainrule
bros, if you are looking for advice on how to pick up girls with little money now.. i have a website to recommend:
http://buckmylife.com/bulletproof-ad...-into-a-lover/
lots of useful advice on how to be a man and turn girls into sex partners.. cool shit!
Hi bro spainrule,
Pls just share w/ us the strategies for picking up gals, etc. I hv quoted many gurus n I urge u to do the same.
BTW, I dun like to visit any unknown websites.
If u trying to use this thread to advertise for financial gains, u dun belong here.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
Bro TD’s idea of bringing the game of BY-ing to a higher level is very interesting n challenging. If a man is able to keep a chio SYT for free, he is not BY-ing her, or is he? The question is how does she support herself n her poverty-stricken family back in China? If she has to work at KTVs, there is no exclusivity which is intolerable for me.
I’ll leave the above questions aside for now n describe my personal concept of the different levels of “BY-ing.”
Level2 : Finding chio uni students or recent graduates of ur type in PRC, importing them to SG for BY-ing. (My next level.)
In retrospect, I was at this level once unwittingly. Last May I briefly kept a chio 22 yo SH gal I picked up at TAM. She was a recent graduate of 上海电影学院 who had a small role in a TV series, but our RS lasted only 2 wks. She was from a relatively well to do family. The kicker here was that she was a virgin, hehehe.
I was quite frugal then n when I refused to buy her a high end Apple laptop (over 3K I think), she cried n was angry w/ me, n we separated. Was I heartless? She returned to SH two days later n has not been back to SG since. Her pussy was very pretty n of course couldn’t get any tighter, hehehe. A few esteemed bros met her when I brought her to PC 2nd FL on Fri 7 May, 2010. I still think of her pussy sometimes.
Level3 : (a) Getting FOC from a gal of ur type, but her pussy is not exclusive to u.
(b) Staying w/ a gal of ur type FOC n her pussy is exclusive to u.
Level4 : (a) Staying w/ a chio gal of ur type n she PAYS u, but her pussy is not exclusive to u.
(b) Staying w/ a chio gal of ur type n she PAYS u AND her pussy is exclusive to u.
Believe it or not, this is still NOT the ultimate.
Drum roll please…this is the ULTIMATE test of a real MAN.
Highest Level or Level5 : (a)Staying w/ many chio gals of ur type AND they pay u AND their pussies are exclusive to u!!!
(b) Accomplishing the above despite the fact that YOU r wealthy!!
I guess the very rare MAN who attains Level5, either a or b, may be said to be a master of mass hypnosis, Gong Tao or black magic, hahaha.
Are there any Level5 bros here? Pls come forward n tell ur story. Thank you! Would u accept me as ur most humble disciple?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
S i l v i a
Level 1(b)
BY-ing a similar gal but her pussy is exclusively yours. She doesn’t work at all. Almost all my gals since Jan 2010 belong here. (My current level.)
>>> seen quite a few prcs over here, claimed never work, yet go to work & offer their pussies…. bitches brains
I know. A few yrs ago, I met a chio GL streetwalker who offered herself for $80 ST. She said she was BY-ed by a local man, hehe.
I’m aware of the possibility that my current 2 老婆 here r secretly working. They stay in master bdrms at City Square owned by a fren who monitors their activities. Of course I dun trust anyone completely. I use unexpected QQ video calling at odd hrs or show up suddenly.
I hv known both of them quite long time, one since Sep 2009 n the other since Nov last yr. Both hv never done ST to the best of my knowledge n one took 8 1/2 months before agreeing to BY…
I’m going to dump one of them anyway, to make rm for new fresh pussies from PRC.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
mama88
Bro WB. U are very funny and modest. I like how u have created the different levels of chionging. I am very low on the scale but reading this thread diligently so I can level up. Waiting for your next piece of sharing and advice.
Hi bro mama88,
Life is fun, isn’t it?
I want to level up too, hehehe.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
besafe
Hahaha Bro WB
Meaning I may have seen or bump into them before unwittingly…..
Bro besafe,
Indeed you may hv. It’s a big complex. They still dun know each other. I met both of them Sunday, they stay in different blocks, hehe.
I like the swimming pool n hv told them to go swimming in bikini…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
aczeta76
Ｂｒｏ ＷＢ
ｈａｈａｈａ ．．． ｙｏｕｒ ｌｅｖｅｌ ５ ｖｅｒｙ ｔｏｋ ｇｏｎｇ．．
Ｉ ｃｕｒｒｅｎｔｌｙ ｂａｃｋ ａｔ ｌｅｖｅｌ ０ ．．． ｏｕｔ ｏｆ ｔｏｕｃｈ ａｎｄ ａ ｃｔｉｏｎ ．．． 一年多 ｎｅｖｅｒ ｂｅｅｎ ｔｏ ＰＣ
你们继续玩
Hi bro aczeta76,
Honestly, very few modern men hv achieved Level5.
But like they say, “Aim for the stars: You might hit the moon”. All of us should aim high…
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
If you are at Level 1, I’m probably at Level -10 now…
Bro TD,
Not true. Since gals hv fallen for u n given u FOC, you’re securely at Level3.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
besafe
I am sure may people will be gawking at them.:
There r many Ang MOHs, Chinese Nationals n Japanese there…gawking them is OK, as long as they dun take action.
I hv frens, husband n wife, staying w/ one of them…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
lol…level 5…hmmm…..hugh hefner?
u r too modest darklord…
I think Hef has to pay n pay. Although he could get some FOC. I’ll put him at Level3 only.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
besafe
So.. did you pick up any girls around city square?
Please write more FR on Kenzo.
FRs pls.
Cheers!
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I hv posted my thoughts on BY-ing n faithfulness under “TAM KTV.”
<<<Yes, faithfulness of a man’s sexual partner has always been a problem from time immemorial. Nothing is foolproof, hehe.
I hv used simple guidelines to turn the odds in my favor.
Let’s analyze the words BY or 保养.
包 means inclusive, assured, guaranteed, bundled, packed, contained, to undertake the whole thing, etc. And 养 means provide for, keep, support, look after, maintain, etc. in other words, u undertake n assure/guarantee that u provide for n look after her total well being n livelihood n in return her body n pussy is exclusively yours. And she should not work at all.
So if ur beloved gal has to work at KTVs or HFJs n expose her beauty n body to other men, her faithfulness is at great risk. Bcos there will always be some men who r willing to offer more money…10X or 20X more in some cases.
There r times when I already hv 2 full-time 老婆，n I happen to meet a new gal I like very much, n if I fail to ST her, I may offer her “BY” but allowing her to work. This is usually a short-term arrangement n I’ll usually terminate the arrangement after 2 wks. If she proves her worth n her faithfulness, I may keep her much longer.>>>
Any comments or criticisms?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Hahahahaha…Those gals have already gone back to China so it doesn’t count anymore, though one of them has been pestering me to go to China and meet her…
Anyway, these days it is just going for FLs, pay, fuck and forget…
No, it does count.
If I could find many chio SYTs of my type for ST, I’ll stop BY-ing. I guess only in China, ya?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Ok this Kenzo, basically is a pub, a ktv, and a low end hanging flower joint, level 1 is pub, level 2 is ktv rooms, and level 3 is a hanging flower joint….customers there are probably the more average kind of customers who dun really hang much more….the singers will also butterfly around the rooms and even the pubs for tips….it is located just next to city square which means if u r a resident u can just walk over….how did i get to know the singers there? in the true spirt of picking up ktv gals outside ktvs i did just that…….unfortunately when i dated them out another day all cannot make it…i guess that night was petty dark and they looked quite pretty then so now i totally cancelled all of them…..today met a singer from orchard k…fresh and new but i think will be expensive so i will not pursue her but leave the ball in her court with some teasers
Ths for the info.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
tuscani2
Got to know a singer in Jade who sings in one of the Geyland HFJ (Now close already). One fine day, pick her up and 2 other gf for dinner. WL all cannot make it in the day. If you want to find nice looki singers, must go to establish joints. Dynasty, Jade , Hwang Chow etc….
Hi bro,
Most gals can’t make it in broad daylight. Once I happened to enter the condo housing 9-10 singers from a well known joint at around 4PM. I saw 4-5 gals n they had just woken up, all w/o makeup n one would be wondering why there r men who would want to hang anything for them!
Cheers!
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Good morning!
I got zapped yesterday.
Tian An Men KTV 23-06-2011 12:33 AM Please change your mindset dun alway 包养 when you said you need to share your KTV bills with your bros. I know you are malaysian but spare a thought for Singaporeans. Do not let these PRC whores think that we are stupid you should
I don’t exactly understand what he is trying to say. Perhaps he meant that I shouldn’t be so stingy as to share KTV bills when I could afford to BY so many SYTs?? The M’sian n Singaporeans part is baffling to me.
Well, what can I say, I always want to minimize the friction cost of doing equity or pussy transactions. Period.
Could some smart bros here try to explain his complaints n what he was trying to say in simple English? Ths!
BTW, I’ll be very busy for the next 2-3 wks n will post infrequently.
Cheers!
Bro WB
God afternoon!!
Just received an e-mail from my favourite guru on sexual chemistry.
The following account applies to non-WLs. However, even though WLs r after money, deep down in their subconscious minds, they r basically the same.
The Building Blocks Of Sexual Chemistry
From:
Mr. Guru
To:
[email protected]
Dear Bro Warbird,
Here’s a no-brainer: would YOU like to free yourself from the
emotional burden of feeling like a failure with women? Do you want
to set yourself apart from the hordes of AFCs who can’t seem to go
from attraction to seduction?
Of course you do. That’s why you’re gonna need some serious,
field-tested, heavy-duty knowledge to get you going in the right
direction.
What you need is a map of the female psyche so that you don’t get
lost in the virtual maze that is her mind. If you’re ready to
learn about the strategies and techniques to trigger her attraction
framework…..
The disparities between men and women are worlds apart, just like
some books suggest. Yet, that reality shouldn’t daunt you from
using it to your advantage.
For instance, guys and gals don’t view the concept of SEXUAL
connection in the same manner, and there are a lot of useful
lessons you can derive from these differences. Sit back and relax,
as your good buddy Slade tells you all about the forces behind male
and female attraction.
Pair-Bonding Dynamics
First of all, men are generally (meaning there are exceptions)
attracted to the more tangible aspects of women first (like
physicality), and personality second.
The thing with us guys is that we’re naturally predisposed to
hooking up with women whether or not we’re going to stick around
for the long haul. Our attraction circuitry is more likely to
initially respond to a healthy-looking female who’s fit for
breeding.
Evolutionarily speaking, men are preprogrammed to interact and
ultimately mate with multiple partners rather than just one. Like
it or not, our primal instincts drive us to go forth and multiply
to ensure that our genes will be passed on through the generations.
When it comes to women however, they generally need to feel that
they’ve bonded with their partner before deciding to get sexual.
Deep in the back of a girl’s mind, she has to know that a man is
going to stick around even after they’ve consummated their physical
passion.
What’s funny is that a woman needs to feel this emotional
connection EVEN if her own commitment may not go beyond the morning
after. What’s important is that she has the OPTION of having you
around in case she wants more than just a one-night stand.
See, the female set of instincts are designed to be wary of men who
might leave her out in the cold once he’s gotten what he wants.
Again, if we were to look at our species from a much earlier time,
women would need their partner to PROTECT her from the elements as
she raises their offspring.
Imagine if the schmuck just bailed on her - she’d be left with her
child and no one to help her survive in a harsh environment. This
way of thinking has been passed on women today.
In other words, a girl has to feel that a man is emotionally
invested (i.e. a series of shared experiences like multiple dates
over different locations) in her before giving him the green light.
Otherwise, her natural defense mechanisms will shut you out………….
The importance of balance
Consider the following concepts: light and dark, black and white,
fish and chips, chocolate and strawberry ice cream, etc. They all
have a harmonious ring to it, don’t they?
One wouldn’t be complete without the other. In the same way, there
has to be an element of balanced factors for sexual chemistry to
occur.
A man and woman’s individual traits needs to COMPLEMENT each other
for there to be a relationship, long-term or not.
Just take a look at the yin-yang diagram. Each partner needs to
contribute their specific traits to make this model a symmetrical
whole.
A typical man is a logical thinker who likes to analyze all
situations in his life. He’s also goal-driven and has various
pursuits which give him a feeling of accomplishment.
That’s why in many ways, guys are often compared to hunters because
their way of thinking is largely defined with a sense of unwavering
purpose. He likes to size things up, get a good feel of the
terrain before carrying out his plan of action.
After he’s taken all the factors into consideration, he’ll make his
move and go for the kill. That’s how the male brain works.
On the other hand, women operate on a different level. The female
essence is all about artistic expression, tactile interaction, a
nurturing personality and above all, being in tune with the world
of emotions.
This is why it’s more common for the ladies to get together and
talk about how they’re doing with their respective relationships.
It’s all about the connection between people and the energies they
share with one another.
Even the most career-driven woman would find it hard to make her
job her foremost priority as opposed to her role at home as a
mother and wife. She’ll definitely put her best effort into her
work, but the strong sense of family life will always be in the
back of her mind.
After taking the typical male and female characteristics into
consideration, you’ll now see that a relationship will need to have
all of these traits before it can work.
Although some men might be more in touch with their feminine side,
and some women might have a lot more “guy traits” than her peers.
Nowadays, you’ll find guys who are naturally adept at discussing
relationships on an emotional level. At the same time, there are
women out there who act like hunters (as we discussed earlier) and
enjoy the thrill of chasing their goals and passions.
However, on a broader scale, you’ll find that both genders will
naturally have a stronger affinity toward their respective traits.
Men are more likely to have male characteristics with a dash of
female sensibilities and vice-versa for the women.
This is the reason why a woman naturally responds to a strong male
presence in her life. She’s hardwired to be attracted to certain
men, just like how gasoline is inevitably meant to react to
elements such as fire.
That’s simply how the brain works; depending on the stimulus
involved, we’re conditioned to react in certain ways. So, having
alpha male qualities is a sure-fire ticket to turning her on.
No matter how independent a woman is, she’s programmed to respond
to a man who can take care of her and look after her welfare, even
if she’s well capable of doing that herself. Again, she wants to
have the OPTION of your protection, much like the sense of security
a safety net provides for a trapeze artist.
If you lead other guys and can demonstrate PROOF that you can also
look after those dear to you (like family and friends), a woman is
definitely more likely to have sex with you.
This all goes back to what I said earlier about our evolutionary
INSTINCTS. A thousand years ago, women needed to have the
comforting knowledge that her partner is going to brave the dangers
of the outside world for her.
The same goes for the present. While times have changed, today’s
self-sufficient women still have that same programming encoded into
their attraction circuitry. She wants to know that you’re capable
of pulling your own weight in a relationship.
In essence, she has to see that you can be a pillar of strength she
can lean on before actually considering the possibility of having
sex. She’s not about to share such an important part of herself
for some wimp who’s going to pull down her survival rate.
All in all, men and women are largely defined by the general traits
which have been shaped by countless centuries of history behind us.
Although we now live in a modern age where survival has shifted to
a different context, there are still core traits that dictate how
each gender interacts with their partner.
The better you can understand these differences, the easier it will
be to figure out how to tap into a woman’s emotional framework…………..
It’s your inside track to what women truly want in a man. Once
you’ve got that covered, no woman is out of your reach!
I’ll see you around.
Your Friend,
Mr. Guru