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Never tell her your real name only alias
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Never tell her where you stay always lie!
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Never give her your real number, always have a sleaze number like wat a bro says, a prepaid card. Better still, if you have a chick who is goin back, ask her for her PP sim card since she cant use it in PRC, i have a few liao, damn useful haha
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Never tell her where you work or stay
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Never show her your IC or Business Card
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Always bring her to places you hardly go, if you stay east, bring her to westmall jalan jalan, if you stay west, bring her to parkway parade or tampines mall walk walk
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Meals are very important, always bring her to very quiet places where you and your family hardly ever go, my personal fav is millenia walk, very quiet and discreet place wif good restaurants and kopi joints
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If need to screw, always bring her to ulu places, not the HOT ZONES
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You won’t get hung up on one particular woman
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You’ll be happier because you have a busy life filled
- You’ll be more attractive to women because they see you
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Trying out Bro WB’s survey - kinda late, being in heavy action at work and at play
My humble views in red below.
Hi Bro Dragonkeep,
Ths for ur valuable feedback n insights.
You’re a very experienced BAO-ee, hehe.
Thanks Brudder…..for the advice….life still have to go on……but i have to admit….she really makes me feel that i am the only one for her…..
well….at the very least it is over…thank goodness..i did not do anything stupid as in to leave my family…….(though..it did cross my mind)[/QUOTE]
Good for u, brudder.
You’re bruised a bit, but a lot wiser. There will always be younger n prettier pussies out there…
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
All I can say is that NO-ONE else is more worth it than our very own family.
Why HFJs? ……………….
Good advice bro.
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
I’m pretty sure it’s never again…
I understand. But you will be available when I need ur advice, right?
Cheers!
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Good morning!
Hugh Hefner, the iconic founder of Playboy who is 85, is going to marry a 24 yo playmate. His net worth is a surprisingly modest 43M. But he has fame, charisma n gravitas…
“You’re as young as the girl you feel,” Hef laughs.
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusive...-girl-you-feel
Lately, I’m feeling young, very young, like a teenage boy, haha.
I hv been scouring many Chinese Websites for SYTs. I want to connect w/ them n then up them and/or BY them. A wk ago, I came across the photos of a very pretty CL, who has just turned 17, n I made ctc w/ her. She is a student, a non-WL.
A few days ago she invited me to do 视频 n I accepted. She is my type of SYT, 169, 52 kg, very fair skin w/ deep cleavage even though only the upper 3 cm was revealed, at least a D. Vital statistics 93 60 93 (she has measured them). Very cute n innocent gal! Very young like a pretty high school gal, but the figure of a sexy woman, w/ perky big round ass n very proportionate figure n long, slim straight legs. Quite slim arms too. She is in Dalian. Her first impression of me: 像那个 什么杰来…我想想哈…李连杰· Me look like the famous kungfu actor?? I wasted no time in asking her to come to Beijin n I promised to make love to her everyday, hahaha. She looked shocked, smiled n was amused, but didn’t terminate the video calling. She was speechless, didn’t say yes or no. She sent me more photos including full body shots, haha.
She is the only child. Her dad died due to an industrial accident when she was a toddler. Her mom remarried but is now separated from her step father. Last yr she enrolled in a commercial school hoping to become a flight attendant one day. The school is now defunct n she is staying home…Her mom is 41 n owns a beauty salon. She lives w/ her mom, mom’s BF n her maternal grandparents.
We converse in Mandarin, but in texting, I hv used mostly English which is easier for me. And she could comprehend over 90% of my text msg.
Even though I can’t wait to fxk her n is actively in the process of KC-ing her, I’m trying avoid her as she won’t leave me alone! I hv time constraint n she has been trying to chat w/ me n do video calling on QQ almost constantly! I hv already spent many hrs! She is stalking me! Telling her how old I’m n that I’m a lao chi ko pek has not deterred her. She sent me overtures while I’m writing this. I ’m the one to terminate our dialogue every time. Yesterday she woke up at 2: 35 AM her time n wanted to chat (11: 35 AM in Gotham City). I called her n she was in the bathrm as she didn’t want to wake up her family. After 23 min, I said goodbye. She sent me more pics…but not revealing enuff.
I hv used push-pull n playing hard to get…CL has requested video calling 咱俩视频吧 whenever she is awake n at home. When she is outside she wants to chat using her HP. She just sent me msg inviting me to chat (3:57Am her time). I ignored her most of time now n she said 我想死你了 , when I replied her text, she would be thrilled: 我们恋爱吧 . As I expected, she has accepted my offer to spend 2-3 days w/ me in BJ. She is my lover n I’ll pay for her travel expenses. I may buy a nice gift for her, hahaha.
BTW, she told me yesterday that her breasts r D or E n 100% natural. I told her I would love to kiss her n suck her nipples…she is not my usual type for only one reason: Her boobs r a bit too large!
Last night, she forwarded an explicit pic showing her large breasts w/ quite large pink nipples. Looks like D or perhaps E to me. Also shows her slim waist, large hips n slim thighs/legs…she was wearing a G-string.
My reply in English: Very pretty n sexy. I love to kiss n suck them everyday. Any more photos for your arms, abdomen, buttocks, pussy n thighs/legs…I like to kiss n suck them too, hahahaThanks, CL. Love u!
If we r compatible n like each other, I’ll invite her to do schooling in SG. I’ll treat her like a lover n pay for travel, living expenses n school tuition. I may buy her gifts from time to time. I hope it’s legal. If she does come, I’ll “retire” from BY-ing n cheonging for 2 yrs.
I hv made ctc w/ other pretty SYTs who r non-WLs in China, but CL is among the prettiest. She is the youngest n has the sexiest body. Nevertheless, I’ll extend my stay in BJ for up to a wk for another pretty non-WL SYT n also to explore KTV gals.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
I really doubt you will need my advice…
By the way, which websites do you usually go to find your gals?
Bro TD,
Yes, I’ll need ur guidance as I hv no experience in KC-ing SYTs, especially non-WLs.
There r many websites in China. Just 百度一下。I hv also placed ad all over…I hv been getting ctc of at least 1 chio SYT of my type to BY every 2-3 days. Many r non-WLS. But most of them want me to BY them where they go to school or work in China.
I’ll try to bring some of them to SG.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
woody17
Remind me of Michael Douglas’s movie ‘Fatal Attraction’….his lover becoming his fatal stalker … lucky that you guys are miles apart….
Bro woody17,
CL is different from all other gals/women I hv ever met. She is very young n very, very naughty.
BUT she wants my undivided attention around the clock, keeps sending QQ msg n inviting me to do video calling whenever she is awake n able to do so. She often wakes up at 2-3 AM China time to send me msg n nude photos. I hv only very limited time for her. She says she is very sad n dreams abt me…
Yesterday, She had waited to chat w/ me from 2AM until 2:30 PM her time (11:30 PM Gotham time). I purposely refused to answer her, hahaha. When I excused myself at 12 midnight to go to sleep, she won’t let me! Later shes was angry n sad…n cried!
Is she crazy or mentally n emotionally sick? I just want to make love to her n I dun want any trouble…I may not want to meet her in BJ.
I heard from JK that u had a minor accident. I’m sure that you’re perfectly fine now.
Take care, bro. Hope to c u in BJ! Cheers!
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Good morning!
Hef of Playboy fame is my No1 role model. He is old enuff to be my dad! And I’m a lao chi ko pek!
Finding, connecting w/ n proposing BY to chio SYTs make me young. It’s too much fun.
Also, going after more than a dozen gals at the same time keeps my mind sharp n prevents me from getting KC-ed.
I use push-pull technique. When my heartthrob CL wanted me to go to Dalian instead, I said No n ignored her completely, she then came begging me…I hv many options.
I did a video calling w/ TC (my good luck charm) n saw her older sis. Wow, quite pretty. Aged 24, 163, 50 kg. I jokingly told them I would BY both of them! She wants to come to SG on singer permit n is hoping to be BY-ed by a rich bro. She will forward her recent photos to me. Any bro interested?
I also requested TC to send me an up-to-date closeup pic of her very pretty abalone. I said I needed it to PCC so that I wont hv to look for other pussies, hehe. She said OK.
That’s all folks.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB………….
Anyway, young gals, especially non-WLs, can be very possessive especially if you have taken care of them for a period of time. Which is why I normally stay clear of those under 20 years old. The young ones seriously give me big problems every time.
For CL, I think judging from her behavior now, you have to monitor her closely before deciding whether to meet up with her or whether to BY her at the end of the day. I have a feeling that she is going to be very possessive once you BY her. My gut feeling is that she feels that you are a big fish waiting to be hooked and she is trying all means to do so.
Hi Bro TD,
Ths so much for ur expert advice n warning.
I’m having lots of good clean fun w/ her. I won’t be hooked easily though, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
I agree with teebs, WB. I have lived in China long enough, and have heard too many stories. I feel that this one is not safe. Be careful!
Hi bro chenzong,
I’m careful. I hv distanced myself from her.
BTW, there is a 22 yo recent uni graduate from Shanghai who appears quite pretty. She is 166 n slim. She is asking 4W a month for BY.
Could u meet her n “audition” her for me? She has agreed to meeting u. If so, I’ll PM her ctc no.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
chenzong
Dear Bro WB,
I have moved over to SZ, and am no longer in SH………..
It is best to meet up and get the feeling yourself. So, are you bringing her to SG, or going over to SH?
Dear bro chenzong,
Good advice.
I’ll try to import her to SG…if I really like her.
A successful BY depends on many factors. Then there r the imponderables…
Regards, n thank you,
Bro WB
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Good morning!
I never rely solely on OKTs for good reasons. I leave no stone unturned.
“Picking up” can also occur in cyberspace, hehe.
Now I hv too many potential GFs/Lovers/mistresses/er nai…both in PRC, SG n Gotham City…I’m getting luckier n luckier.
Are all gals work in bank loan Dept.? They want to give u loans when u don’t need them. Likewise, they seem to offer their pussies when u dun need them!
“IT’S LIKE THEY’RE COMING OUT OF THE WOODWORK”
A guru sent me the following just days ago:
I was talking to a friend of mine recently, who brought up a
certain infamous phenomenon that I think just about all of us can
relate to.
“You know, when you’re not getting a whole lot of dates it seems
like it’s next to impossible to get a woman to show any interest
whatsoever…let alone make the first move.
But now that I’ve got a girlfriend I really like, I’m noticing that
ALL KINDS OF WOMEN are sending very clear attraction signals my way.
It’s this just ‘dumb luck’?”
Hmmm.
I told him that my educated guess was that “luck” had nothing to do
with it. In fact, there was likely a very rational explanation for
what he was noticing.
It’s like this.
In the sales world, it’s a well-known and long-established fact
that people buy on the approval of others.
In other words, if NOBODY seems to want a certain product it’ll be
MUCH harder to sell to any given prospect.
However, if LOTS of people want it, a “snowball effect” is likely
to start where soon EVERYBODY will want it.
This is a big reason why customer testimonials are so valuable and
why large companies are willing to pay big bucks for celebrity
endorsements.
You can actually test this principle out for yourself.
The next time you’re hanging with a friend at some sort of store,
wait until you have several strangers around and then pick up
something off the shelf that you already have or point out some
snack that you’ve already tried.
In a voice that’s just loud enough to be overheard, tell your
friend how unbelievably great it is. Maybe give one quick detail
in support of that, and then casually move on.
Next, pay attention out of the corner of your eye. Almost
invariably someone nearby will pick up the item you were just
discussing.
This is all part of human nature. If something is worth having,
someone probably already has it.
Taken to an extreme, this is one reason why some (admittedly
dysfunctional) people get off on dating ONLY people who are already
married.
But even well-meaning people with a healthy mindset towards
relationships with MOTOS (members of the opposite sex) tend to
consider someone who someone else already considers attractive all
the more attractive themselves.
Add it all up, and when you have an adoring girlfriend more girls
tend to adore you.
But wait a second.
Sure, the explanation I just gave is more than logical. In fact,
you may actually have heard it the whole story before.
Still, it really doesn’t explain how or why you can suddenly start
attracting women like wildfire when you’re no longer single–even
when your girlfriend ISN’T THERE WITH YOU.
Heck, it’s altogether possible women will even be showing interest
in you who are TOTAL STRANGERS and have no way of knowing whether
you’re single or not.
So how does THAT work?
Obviously, there’s more to it in that case than ye olde “people buy
on the approval of others” factor, right?
Indeed.
What’s likely the case is that you’re carrying yourself in a way
that says you don’t NEED to find a woman, whereas in the past
“desperation” may have been written all over your face–whether you
realized it or not.
Moreover, when you DO interact with women nowadays–even attractive
ones–there’s nothing really “at stake” for you.
In other words, because you don’t WANT ANYTHING from the women
around you, your need for “approval” from them is almost
non-existent.
It’s as if what they think of you is sort of beside the point,
given the fact that you have a girlfriend already.
As such, perhaps ironically, you’re getting a first-hand look at
the sheer, raw power of what we talk about around here ALL THE TIME
as being an all-important mindset, regardless of your “relationship
status”.
When you’ve ALREADY got a woman who likes you, there’s not as much
fear of how other women will respond to you (or not).
After all, in your world it no longer matters as long as you’ve got
a great woman who truly digs you.
So then, since conversations with other women aren’t seen as
“competitions” leading to either “acceptance” or “rejection”, you
are more at ease, more confident and–frankly–more attractive.
Simply put, when you don’t NEED approval from women, you tend to
GET it from them.
No matter what the reason for it, having lots of women suddenly
show interest in you can be super frustrating when you’re in an
exclusive relationship.
That’s especially true if you’ve jumped into that arrangement
rather quickly after a long time without female companionship.
But nevertheless, there’s no reason to get bummed out by what’s a
very natural human phenomenon.
Remember, if you’re with the RIGHT woman then you’ll WANT to be in
that steady relationship with her. You can rest assured you have
the greatest woman of all no matter who else shows interest.
But on the other hand, even if seeing interest on the part of other
women proves to be far too intriguing to you, that can still be a
good thing. Maybe it’s a clear signal that you should “raise the
bar” instead of getting into a committed relationship with the
woman you’re currently with.
At the very least, you should be able to rest assured that should
your current relationship ever end, you’ll have plenty of other
excellent options…as long as you can harness the mindset you
CURRENTLY have and transform it into habit.
And if you’re NOT seeing that one woman exclusively?
Well…let’s just say that what I’ve shared with you today is a HUGE
reason why guys who are seeing one woman usually find it LOTS
easier to start dating others as well.
Be Good,
Mr. XXX
Good morning to all samsters,
I’ll be very busy for the next several wks.
Please continue to share your experiences n insights in “picking up” n in BY-ing.
Cheers,
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
Will wait for your return…
Bro TD,
Hopefully quite soon…
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Originally Posted by
besafe
求包养…………………..
闹太套，闹太套。
Ths bro besafe.
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Originally Posted by
city slicker
Bro WB
Enjoyed reading yr candid encounters and really appreciate yr generous sharing spirit….
Just wonder if there is a high risk of the BYer being blackmailed by the gal when he stops the arrangement (assuming a sticky girl)……………
Bro city slicker,
I believe in sharing n in win-win-win-win-win situations.
Never give ur real names or work/residence address…see post by mr. Chairman below.
A jilted mistress can be very spiteful n vindictive! I always try to make our parting amicable. But a few still hate me…
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
There shouldn’t be any chance of that happening. The only things she should know about you should be your name (which should not be your real name) and your HP number which preferably should be a pre-paid card.
Ideally yes.
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Originally Posted by
nameci
Wah Bro Warbird, if I have an opportunity to meet up with you when you’re in Beijing, I definitely must. Your adventures and insights are something I definitely need to learn from.
Hi bro nameci,
Hope to meet up w/ u.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
This risk shud no even exist unless you allow yourself to be totally exposed.
Guidelines are as follows:
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Hi Mr. Chairman,
Ths for ur contribution n insights.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
Just a quick update.
I hv arranged for two current high school students, both non-WLs to meet up w/ me in PRC. They hv done video calling w/ me n know that I’m a lao chi ko pek! They hv to take a leave of absence. Unfortunately, one of them (XB) already said no BJ or painting, but kissing is fine. I’m betting that when she is hving multiple orgasms, she will say yes to everything, hehe. The other is CL who has said okay to my kissing n licking/sucking every cm of her lovely body…I’m thinking of doing 双飞 w/ them.
Recently, I hv discovered that, in PRC, there r many, many chio n tall SYTs, non-WLs, aged 17-19, who r in high schools or uni, who want to be BY-ed by the right MAN. Why get fxked by boys their age for free? These boys can’t even give them orgasms, hehehe.
SG is a very boring place compared w/ PRC…unless I can import some of these SYTs.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
…They should be
mandatory
!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Isnt it obvious that some dun even know these mandatory stuff existed?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
There will always be people like that. ….
Hi esteemed bros chenzong, DUBJ n TD,
There r many things in life which r obvious n should be mandatory…but many people r ignorant or perhaps can’t control their emotions.
For example, why r there so many SUCKERS who bet against the casinos in games that they will surely lose in the long run?? This is a mathematical certainty. Personally, I’ll not waste $1 in any casino, unless I’m playing poker against other visitors aka patsies. If everyone thinks like me, ALL the casinos in the world will be bankrupt within a few months, hahaha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
China is now the land of opportunity for many things…
http://laowaiblog.com/the-land-of-opportunity/
Where else in the world could a lao chi ko pek make love to 2 non-WL students n hv them vying for his attention n affection??
I hv never met a SYT like CL. No, I’m not referring to her natural 34i boobs. No other gals hv ever liked me more or r more obsessed w/ me. She has spent her entire waking hrs trying to ctc me n chat w/ me in the last 4 wks. When she was w/ me, she wanted to hug n kiss n make love non-stop even though I was very tired! She only has one BF in her life n he made love only 9 times to her. Her cunt is very, very tight n wet. When I inserted my didi, she let out a loud moan, a mixture of pain n pleasure. She had a bit of pain after our 1st session but still tried to fxk me again n again! Additionally, she really treated me like the emperor of China n would let me do ANYTHING to her. Her affection for me is genuine judging by her body language n responses, etc. When I told her this morning that she might hv difficulty coming to SG, she sobbed…
Cl wants to come to SG for schooling. I’m her 干爹 n she only wants school fees n very modest living expenses from me, nothing more. Her mom owns a successful beauty salon from whom she will get some money as well. She confesses her profound liking for me n vows that her cunt will be mine exclusively. Does she love me? She says a least a little, but she never loved anyone else before. My worry is that she may get too sticky n needy which would be repulsive…
Then there is the other SYT XB who also calls me 干爹…but she only wants to come to SG during summer vacation.
My brief experience in PRC merely hints at the vast potential…
The key is to be a poker player n never reveal our feelings to these gals, at least not initially.
More advice on the subject from my favourite Ang Moh guru:
Have you ever made the mistake of
telling a woman how you felt about her?
It’s a common mistake, and I’m going to
reveal why in this newsletter.
If you’d like to jump straight to the
information that can help you avoid this
kind of fatal mistake with a woman you
want to get in your life, go here
QUESTION FROM A READER:
I have a problem, quite a big one in my
opinion.
Well where shall I start, a few months
ago I met this girl at college, she’s
smart, funny and I feel we connected.
We gradually became better friends and
we spend a lot of time together and over
the past few weeks I suspected that she
may have some feelings for me (I did
too).
Feeling quite confident about this
looking at the way she acted around me I
thought on New Years Eve I would try and
tell her how I felt and see if I was
right in thinking she felt the same way.
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She’s one of my best friends and I love
her, I’m so scared of losing her as a
friend, I just, for once in my life want
something more out of it.
Please… I really need some advice
from a expert like you.
Thanks a lot
Ash
West Yorkshire, Britain.
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MR GURU ANSWERS:
Well, my friend, you came to the right
place.
First of all, you know where your
mistake was, don’t you?
Let me replay your words:
“I took her into a quiet room and told
her how I felt…”
Guys everywhere are saying, “OOOH… Big
mistake” and shaking their heads.
Especially me.
The one sure-fire way to kill attraction
with a woman is to talk to her about
your feelings. It’s the ultimate
buzz-kill.
Why?
Imagine that you’re sitting there
watching a movie. It’s a really good
mystery. You’re keeping track of all the
clues, and you’re getting close to the
end. Right then, your roommate walks in
and says, “Oh, the guy’s wife killed
her.” And he goes to the kitchen.
How would you feel?
Probably like stomping on his head.
We humans enjoy the build up of tension.
What ruins it for us is to have the
mystery destroyed.
That’s why I hate this new show on cable
that shows you how all the magic tricks
are done. I don’t want to know how
they’re done… that’s why I like
watching magic shows! I know they’re
tricks, but I like not knowing.
This is exactly what your girl
experienced when you told her your
feelings. You probably thought she’d
just jump into your arms, relieved to
find out that she liked you, too. But
what telling her your feelings does is
remove all the mystery and uncertainty
from the situation…
And that’s what creates attraction and
romantic interest in the first place, my
brother.
Second of all, I want you to promise me
that you never make a move on a woman
that you’re “so scared” of losing.
Why?
Because you’re setting yourself up in
what I lovingly call a “double bind.”
This means that if you’re scared of
losing her friendship, that fear will
taint any attempt you make to attract
her.
You simply can’t have it both ways. You
can’t walk the fence.
Fear of loss is one of the most deadly
killers of a man’s game, because he will
never act like a man who is living his
life from ABUNDANCE and SECURITY.
Instead, he acts like he’s a wuss that’s
scared of making people angry at him.
Think about it for a second… Think
about any guy you know who is attractive
and charismatic. Does this guy run
around with a “Oh please oh please - I
hope you like me!” attitude?
No. He doesn’t care if you like him or
not - and THAT right there is why we’re
attracted to those types of people. They
communicate strength of spirit and
confidence that is not shaken by other
people’s opinion of them.
Really, take a second here and read that
over again. It’s big and important that
you understand this essential
characteristic of men and how they
communicate their Alpha Strength.
Third, if you do make a move on a woman
that’s your friend, be willing to risk
LOSING IT ALL.
This is the other side of that fear I
just told you about. You have to be
willing to lose what you’ve got to get
something more.
Don’t be lured into that false sense of
need where you try to play with “scared
money.” That’s when you’re gambling, but
you change your winning strategy because
your emotions are jacking with your
decisions.
You said that this “destroyed you…”
No, I don’t think so. You just lack
options.
From now on, no more emotional
discussions with her. Women don’t need
to know that you are interested in her
or have feelings in her. All she cares
is if SHE has them for you.
You can talk about your feelings later
on, when you’ve got a relationship and
you two are having wild monkey-love
together. Until then, keep your mouth
closed.
Next, make damn sure you’re out there
meeting new women and forgetting your
focus on this one woman. Obsession is
the number 2 killer of relationships,
and it’s the unhealthy focus on ONE
woman.
It screams out: “I have no other options
but you, which means no other women want
me…” Which is a BIG red flag to women.
They want a man with social value and
confidence.
But I want to warn you about a problem I
see coming up…
I think you might be falling into the
Nice Guy trap.
You know how I can tell? From the tone
of your email at the end. It sounds like
you’re sobbing into a hankie, and you
might go out and rent a bunch of chick
flicks tonight while you sit home eating
chocolates…
You need the antidote to cure you and
rehabilitate you, and it’s called Alpha
Attitude.
What is “Alpha Attitude?”
Well, think of it this way:
It’s the inner confidence of a man who
knows he can create the kind of
relationship he wants with a woman.
Have you ever seen an at-tractive woman
on the street, and thought to yourself,
“Man, I wish I knew what to walk over
and say to her so that she’d stop right
there and really want to know more about
ME.”
But then we usually disqualify ourselves
in our head, thinking “What do I have
that she’d want?”
The Alpha Attitude wipes all that
self-doubt and fear away.
I explain the inner game mindset of the
man who is confident and has women in
his life all the time. I call him the
Alpha Man.
You know this guy. Chances are, you wish
you WERE this guy.
Being the kind of man that pulls women
into his life - and keeps them - isn’t
hard at all. It just involves learning a
few new skills.
I want to give you that deep
understanding and ability with women
that you’ve always wanted. I have a full
set of tools and techniques that will
improve your game with women MASSIVELY.
And I want to share them with you. This
is stuff you can’t get anywhere else.
………………………………………….. …
Talk to you soon,
Your friend,
Mr. Guru
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jnewwit
nice sharing bro ＷＢ.
My pleasure.
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Good afternoon!
I hv been searching for mistresses on Chinese websites n hv found many chio SYTs, most of them non-WLs, who r willing n ready. Unfortunately, many of them r unwilling to come to SG, even though they r quite eager to be kept by me in Beijing or anywhere else in China.
I hv some reflections on my experience in BY-ing which I started exactly 2 yrs ago. My 1st BAO-ee was XW who had resisted my advances for over 8 months. My mistake? Being an ah pek, I thought I wasn’t good enuff for her, a 20 yo SYT then. She left me twice…but she is back w/ me again. Now the table has turned. The reason? My attitude, or shall I say my subconscious mind, has changed radically. Now no gal is good enuff for me, regardless of how young n how chio she is. She can take it or leave it. Thanks largely to my meditation, self affirmations, self hypnosis n chanting, etc.
Now I hv a 老婆（XW ), 情妇（TC ), 女朋友 ( BB ) n 干女儿 ( CL )…n there r many more gals who hv agreed to be my BAO-ees, most of them in PRC. It may be coincidental that my current four gals r 168 in height. Fortuitously, the number 168 sounds like being very prosperous all the way down the road in Mandarin n Cantonese n some other dialects, hehehe.
I hv had more soul-searching dialogue w/ CL than w/ anyone else in my life. She is so much fun. Could she be my soul mate? She also has the smallest n tightest cunt, haha. She wants to be my lover for the next 10 yrs! My best fren has seen her photos n thinks she is definitely worth my effort. No, she is far from perfect: She has medium-sized bony frame n I hv failed to give her COS.
At this time, I like to share an email from a guru on the importance of high social value.
Hey,
Let’s face it: women love guys with high status. They’re suckers
for the alpha-male types that don’t give a damn about what others
think of them. It’s that “X-factor” that makes girls melt in their
seats and gets them all hot and bothered.
In PUA circles, players refer to this as social value, a commodity
worth GOLD in the field. It’s this mysterious, seemingly
intangible quality that all AFCs strive to have, but end up
scratching their heads trying to chase after it.
But first, let’s get a preliminary question out of the way…
WHY BOTHER WITH SOCIAL VALUE?
Well first of all, not having this is like going on a long drive
without passing by the gas station to fill up. In the same way,
going into the scene without a trace of status is pure SUICIDE.
Not only will you be stuck in uncharted territory, you’ll be making
an ass of yourself in short order. You have to appreciate the fact
that humans, even during these modern times are still compelled, no
- HARDWIRED - to follow behavioral patterns encoded into our DNA
thousands of years ago.
In the olden times, women learned to align themselves with men who
are able protect and take care of them. If you couldn’t hunt for
your daily meals or build that bonfire, then you’re pretty much
useless.
Now, while those same exact traits might not apply to today’s
standards, the same spirit of those desirable qualities lives on.
In present society, survival value have modern equivalents, such as
leading other guys, keeping bullies from beating up your brothers,
or being able to loan money to your broke friend.
In short, people may have evolved in many ways, but our underlying
social dynamics are still deeply rooted in the same logic that goes
way back. That simply means that women as a whole are driven to
seek men who are strong in some way, even if they aren’t
necessarily looking for a long-term commitment.
As such, you damn well better have the social value that they want.
If not, you won’t have a chance in winning over any of those
gorgeous women you seek to be with. You’re off to the sidelines,
watching those high-value males sweep your dream girl off her feet.
But don’t despair. Social value can be cultivated to your
advantage, so rest easy as I give you a run-through of the two most
effective ways to jumpstart your dating life.
#1: Lay off the validation
That’s why experienced guys swear by a basic principle when it
comes to attracting women: don’t kiss her ass.
Let’s face it - while women can be wonderful creatures to be
around with, they have the equal potential for ego-beating if you
let them. This is especially true for high-value women who are
aware of their status.
They reassure themselves of their feminine power by making short
work of guys that try getting on their good side. These suckers
will do everything short of rolling over and playing dead.
It can get even worse for some who “reward” these clueless guys
with crumbs of attention and then ditching them afterwards.
Chances are, you’ve seen this happen - or heaven forbid - tried it
yourself. Here’s a classic example…
Guy says hi to hot girl, guy buys her a drink, and they make some
petty chit-chat. Girl finishes her drink, politely excuses herself
and re-joins her friends to dissect her latest victim.
Let’s not BS ourselves here. OF COURSE you like her, that’s why
you’re approaching her in the first place. But are you initiating
the interaction in a NEEDY or CREEPY way?
Once she knows that you’re sucking up, it tells her that you’re
selling yourself, and that gives her all the power in the world
over you.
A guy with social value never tries to prove his worth. In fact,
he knows that it’s suicide to ask for her approval through drinks,
compliments and so on.
Look, you’re more than welcome to do all that once she’s fallen for
you, but dealing your best cards early on in the game will leave
you NO leverage to seal the deal.
#2: Playful, not pitiful!
That’s why high-value guys hold back on the attention and
validation by reversing the traditional script. The usual pattern
is to prove yourself, so the smart PUA reverses this order.
How does this happen? They replace groveling with playful
flirting. When you flirt, you’re telling them, “I’m here to have
fun and don’t really care if you respond positively or not.”
And you really shouldn’t care. When you build up the interaction
into something you really have to succeed at, then it’s important
to you.
When she senses that it’s important to you, then you’ve already
blown the approach because you’ve just lowered your social value.
In fact, you can care so less to the point of making fun of her in
a seemingly off-hand (but not belittling) way. If you’re in a club
and approach the girl who appears to be the most popular in the
area, say something like “What else do you have going aside from
your looks?”
Not only will you have her full attention, she’ll unknowingly give
chase. You’ve now created an opportunity for a back and forth
exchange of verbal wordplay without lowering your social value.
So now she’ll have to justify her own value by proving you wrong.
After all, you just demonstrated backbone by not placing importance
on the one iota of power she has over other guys.
Of course, the smart PUA won’t take the bait and casually dismiss
her answers with a comment like, “Hmmm, really?”, and then
launching into a prepared routine.
That’s pretty damn cocky, right? You’ve just leveled the playing
field by subtly (well not really) convincing her to prove herself
to you, and not the other way around. She’ll be thinking “Who does
this guy think he is? I’ll show him.”
Women absolutely LOVE it when a man can take her crap and give it
right back. That sense of cockiness keeps your dignity intact by
not having to use it as a bargaining chip in the game.
Be playful, but not insulting. Be feisty, but never play around
with the possibility of violence. The whole point is to get a
woman to play with you, not to crush her dignity or smack her
around.
Otherwise, mean-spirited insults or jokes about punching her will
raise that red flag and take you OUT of the game.
Get used to greeting everyone you run into throughout the day,
whether it’s the guy who delivers your morning paper or the
striking receptionist at work. Work your way up by starting
conversations when the opportunity presents itself.
Try this for about a couple of weeks to numb you to the fear of
initiating a conversation. Once you’re comfortable enough, you can
move to casually approaching women in particular.
One thing though - a good approach never seems premeditated nor
should it look like you’re hovering about. Both of those things
are social value killers. The operative word here is “nonchalant”,
and remember that when you’re out on the field.
Don’t think that you have to make her laugh or get her number right
then and there. All you need to do is to gradually learn how to
embed flirting in your conversations.
If you’re thinking, “I HAVE to get this right!” you will have
already undermined your social worth and lead to failure.
Keep the play-by-play analysis on hold until AFTER the chit-chat is
done. Once the conversation is over, ask yourself:
“What should I have I said/done differently?”
“Did I convey enough social value?”
I know how paralyzing fear can be; however, the gradual process of
coming out of one’s shell is a very effective strategy for shy guys
to meet women. Expect a lot of botched approaches so don’t take it
personally as you learn from your mistakes.
Think of it as accumulating field experience which will
continuously refine and improve your game as you go along………………………….
Let’s chat again real soon.
All the best,
Mr. Guru
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jf66312
well said again…
thanks for sharing bro…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
mama88
Thanks for sharing bro Warbird. I should have paid more attention to your lessons earlier. Just blew $5k for one lousy f*** with this KTV gal.
Hi bros jf66312 n mama88,
Just trying to share what little info I hv…
Blew $5K for one lousy fxk? It has happened to me before, hehe.
Pls describe ur experience n what u could hv done differently.
Never become obsessed w/ one particular pussy, no matter how chio she is. I hv more to say on this subject.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
YoungAhPek
baoyang gal only for the rich, i almost baoyang one 22 student from Dy classic last time, she wanted me to baoyang her but i told her that i only earn 3K how to support her, after cpf only left $2400 not even enough to feed myself (
Hi bro YoungAhPek,
Yes, BY is expensive n may not be worth it…
The key is to be unconditionally happy.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MillerV
Good stuff as usual from bro WB.
Gonna start practicing.
I see you changed your profile pict!
Hi bro MillerV,
Long time no see.
Many bros r going to LV sh tomorrow. Want to join us?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
You paid $5K for a f*** with a KTV gal? That’s way off the market rates? Why were you wiling to pay so much?
I like to know too.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
mama88
Just to clarify, it included a couple of dates and movies, makan etc etc. She just played hard to get and I was just too kind to her. In the end finally got it but took so much effort and overpaid I think. Not worth it and not gonna happen again.
Next time just pay per screw. All this KC is super tiring.
Hi bro mama88,
For $5K, her pussy should hv been exclusively yours for at least a wk, during which time u could hv fxked her 10-15 times.
I hv learned the hard way that the best cure for my obsession w/ any one “special” pussy is to go after many pussies simultaneously…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Still, $5K is a lot of money to blow……
But that’s how it works, generally, I guess – you invest a little time and money in the beginning in the hope that eventually it can become a longer term, more frequent thing, but at a much lower cost of maintaining that f***ing relationship, or for BY-ing.
Bad sex happens. Just move on to the next target.
Recently, I bonked a celebrity for $2.5K a pop. I also wrote about it in the FL3 section.
Hi bro FA,
Good observation.
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Good afternoon,
Asian stock markets r sinking, hehehe. Tomorrow could be a good time to pick up some bargains.
BTW, CL is pulling out all stops to KC me. I spoke w/ her 41 yo mom who would be very happy if I could keep CL indefinitely! I’m now very resistant to KC bcos I’m in multiple RS n am still looking for younger n better ones.
I’m not suffering from ONEITIS, but MANYITIS, haha.
At this time I would like to share a recent email from another Ang Moh guru on…what else,
How to Stop Obsessing Over a Girl
Friday, 20 May, 2011 6:21 AM
From: Bro SSP
To: Bro Warbird
I’ve been there myself…
Sometimes you can’t STOP thinking about a girl.
You *know* it’s not going to work.
Yet you can’t seem to get her out of your mind.
Don’t worry. This is a common thing. It happens to
a lot of guys.
In fact, there’s a term for it –> “ONE-ITIS.”
One-itis is a horrible feeling.
It’s an obsessive thought pattern you can’t eliminate.
Now, you probably already know this. ANY obsession isn’t
a healthy attitude to have.
Thinking about a girl as “The One” is REALLY bad…
…Especially when she doesn’t feel the same way.
This makes you miss out on a number of opportunities with
women who COULD great to date.
I’m going to be honest.
We’ve all experienced one-itis.
It could a girl from a past relationship
It might be a a woman who is “just friends”,
It could that girl Jill who works in the corner office.
My point is we guys always have one or two girls who we
can’t stop thinking about.
What’s the answer?
Simple.
Start dating OTHER women. Even if you think you’re
*destined* to be with this single girl.
Why?
Because dating gives clarity. It provides OPTIONS.
It’s easy to put a girl on a pedestal when you don’t
have anyone else in your life.
Bottom line. Start meeting other women.
They could be female friends, “hook-up” partners, or
someone in between.
The important thing is to fill your life with different
women.
You don’t have to sleep with every one.
Instead you’re keeping your options open.
Here’s why:
with interesting people
as an important guy who is “pre-selected” by females
With a lot of women, you won’t have time to think about
The One.
Plus it’s like doing a Jedi-Mind Trick on this girl.
Once she realizes she’s replaceable, she’ll STOP acting
like a drama queen and/or stringing you along.
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Yeah, yeah.
Blah, blah.
You like this girl and don’t want to *mess things up*
Let me tell you something…
If you’re not with her NOW, I guarantee “waiting” for her
is NOT going to improve your chances.
Furthermore, dating different women will provide complete
perspective ONCE you meet another *perfect girl*
You’ll know what it’s like to date different women.
So you’ll be able to correctly identify if she really IS
the one.
What’s the next step?
My advice is to get out there and meet the KIND of women
you like.
In other words, don’t surround yourself with crazy, party
girls if you’re not into that scene.
That’s why I like to focus ONLY the girls who are my
*type*
You can do this by asking a few basic questions within
the first minute of a conversation.
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I know it’s hard to stop thinking about a girl.
I’ve been there myself.
In 2009, I was in a relationship with a girl who made me
COMPLETELY miserable.
The ironic thing was I couldn’t stop thinking about her
after we broke up.
What finally ‘clicked’ was going back to my roots.
I started dating lots of different girls.
I even went to Europe for a few months and met a LOT
of cool people.
Now…I’m completely over this girl. In fact, I barely
remember what she looks like.
Trust me, dating lots of girls, is the surefire way to
stop thinking of “whats-her-name.”
Talk Soon,
Bro SSP
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Originally Posted by
mama88
Bro Warbird
Yes, $5k should have got me a lot more. The funny thing was that I wasn’t even that keen on this girl, but became more like a friend over the few weeks we were together. That bf-gf feeling can lull one into danger ie being less conscious about spending money - be it rental, utilities, parents sick, brother in debt etc. In fact it was she who was always calling me up, and before I knew it… already $5k out-of-pocket. Only when I realised what was happening that I insisted on my f**k. She knew she had to give in, as I was kind of seeing the light here. After that night, she tried to pull one last stunt, and that’s when I dumped her.
On chasing many pussies at once, that’s not my style, mainly because of lack of time and energy. ．．．．．
Oh well, live and learn.
Ｈｉ ｂｒｏ ｍａｍａ８８，
Ｙｏｕ＇ｒｅ ｔｏｏ ｓｏｆｔ－ｈｅａｒｔｅｄ． Ｔｈｅｓｅ ｇａｌｓ ｒ ｖｅｒｙ ｃｕｎｎｉｎｇ ．
Ｓｏｍｅ ｏｆ ｔｈｅｍ ｒ ｏｕｔｒｉｇｈｔ ｗｈｏｒｅｓ ｗｈｏ ｗｏｒｋ ｉｎ ｂｒｏｔｈｅｌ ｓ， ＫＴＶｓ ｏｒ ｓａｕｎａｓ ｂａｃｋ ｉｎ Ｃｈｉｎａ． Ｗｈｅｎ ｔｈｅｙ ｒ ｈｅｒｅ， ｔｈｅｙ ｐｌａｙ ｈａｒｄ ｔｏ ｇｅｔ．．．
Ａｌｗａｙｓ ｈｖ ｍｏｒｅ ｏｐｔｉｏｎｓ ｓｏ ｔｈａｔ ｕ ｃａｎ ｔｅｌｌ ｈｅ ｒ to take it or leave it.
Ｃｈｅｅｒｓ！
Ｂｒｏ ＷＢ
．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．．． ．．．．．．．．
Ｇｏｏｄ ａｆｔｅｒｎｏｏｎ！
Ｍｙ ｒｅｃｅｎｔ ｖｉｓｉｔｓ ｔｏ ＬＶ ｎ ｅｌｓｅｗｈｅｒｅ ｈｖ ｂｅｅｎ ｄｉａｐｐｏｉ ｎｔｉｎｇ．Ａｎ ｈｏｎｅｓｔ ｍｕｍｍｙ ｔｏｌｄ ｍｅ ２ ｄａｙｓ ａｇｏ ｔｈａｔ ｔｈｅｒ ｒ ｒ ｖｅｒｙ ｆｅｗ ｇａｌｓ ｏｆ ｍｙ ｔｙｐｅ ｆｏｒ ｅｉｔｈｅｒ ＳＴ ｏｒ ＢＹ．Ｓ ｈｅ ｗｉｌｌ ｃｏｎｔｉｎｕｅ ｔｏ ｄｏ ｈｅｒ ｂｅｓｔ．．．
Wat to do? I ｗｉｌｌ hv to import SYTs of my type directly from China. But the process is complicated…n many really great ones wont come. They ｏｎｌｙ wanｔ to be kｅｐｔ ｉｎ Ｃｈｉｎａ．
Ａｎｏｔｈｅｒ ｕｓｅｆｕｌ ｅｍａｉｌ ｆｒｏｍ ａｎ Ａｎｇ Ｍｏｈ ｇｕｒｕ：
Is the tone of voice you’re using with women
KILLING your chances of attracting them? If so, the good news is
that you can reverse your fortune RIGHT NOW…
IS YOUR INFLECTION INFECTED?
They say that some ridiculously high percentage of communication is
non-verbal.
That percentage varies based on which study you read, but one
thing’s for sure: It’s not just the words you use themselves that
matter.
By now you’ve heard enough about “body language” and such, but
today I want to address one VERY KEY specific piece of the puzzle
in terms of the INFLECTION of your voice when you’re talking to
women.
“Inflection”, of course, refers to HOW you deliver your words. And
the tone and cadence of what you say is a big part of “non verbal”
communication, no doubt.
Now, I’m not altogether convinced that it’s a coincidence that
“inflection” is just one letter off from “infection”. After all,
the inflection many of us use when talking to women is pretty sick
indeed…and not in the good way.
In fact, I don’t think it’s too strong a statement to say that HOW
you speak to women could be the SINGLE BIGGEST reason why you’re
getting NOWHERE with so many of them, if that’s the case.
This could especially be true if you’re often left in the dust
wondering what on Earth went wrong with a woman. You feel like you
SAID the right words, made the right moves, etc.
“Infected inflection” might very well be the culprit.
I’ve known for ages how powerful this factor is, but it wasn’t
until a recent coaching call with a Ten-Plus guy that I was left to
ponder the full-on gravitas of it all.
My friend on the telephone and I had just about everything going
for him in life, except he couldn’t quite get women to return his
calls as consistently as he would have liked.
A few days prior to one of our calls he’d gathered up the nerve to
approach a very confident hottie who had just gotten off of her
1000cc sportbike.
You can pretty much picture the scene. A firebreathing superbike
pulls to a halt outside, off comes the helmet…and she brushes back
her long, flowing blonde hair.
Very nice. But also NOT the least intimidating chick in the world
to approach. A woman like that typically has ZERO TOLERANCE for
wimpy dudes.
Sure enough, our hero approaches her, makes conversation with her,
and gets her number. Outstanding. So far, so good.
So he calls her a couple of days later and leaves her a voicemail.
No response…even after 48 hours.
She had seemed interested when he met her, so he was wondering what
he could have possibly said in a simple voicemail to crater his
chances.
I asked him to tell me what his message to her sounded like.
When I heard the words, a few too many of them were “just”…no
doubt. And as you’ve read from me recently, that doesn’t generally
work in one’s favor with regard to talking to women.
But what hit me between the eyes was the INFLECTION of his voice as
he recounted his message to “Moto Chick”.
Suddenly, I knew why she hadn’t returned his call.
I recommended that he wait about another day and then leave her a
SECOND voice mail (figuring she’d likely not answer the phone since
that first message had disinterested her).
I also suggested some very concrete changes in HOW he talked as he
left the message.
Two days later, “Moto Chick” returned his second call and they
happily went out together.
What made the difference?
Now ask yourself, who was in CONTROL during each of those
respective conversations?
Sure…it was whoever had MORE OPTIONS.
So let’s consider for a minute the last time someone tried to sell
you something that was in LOW demand. You know, something you may
in fact had not really wanted all that much anyway.
What was the INFLECTION of the salesguy’s voice?
My guess that he talked fast, possibly in a higher pitch than he
might during “normal” conversation, and that each sentence ended
with an upturn in the tone of his voice.
And you quite probably detected that he was attempting to be
particularly “nice”…as if he was “walking on eggshells” to keep
from scaring you away (and therefore losing a potential sale).
What you were hearing was the voice of a DESPERATE, NEEDY man whose
family needed food on the table.
Okay, so now consider the last time you went somewhere to happily
buy the newest, latest and greatest iPhone, video game or AMG
Mercedes.
What was the inflection of THAT salesguy’s voice like?
My guess is that it was more calm and reserved. Or maybe he even
gave you bold, direct answers to questions you asked…no “walking on
eggshells” necessary.
No matter what, there was no “fear of loss” to be detected
anywhere. In fact, you may have even forgotten that he was even
paid on commission there for a second.
Indeed…he wasn’t really “selling”. His job was simply to help YOU
buy…if you were actually fortunate enough to get there on time
before his supply ran out.
Now let’s get back to my friend and “Moto Chick”.
What was the difference between our hero’s first (unsuccessful)
voicemail and the second (successful) one?
The difference in his voice inflection was EXACTLY the difference
between the first salesguy’s voice and the second one’s voice.
That’s all it took. The words were actually very similar in
meaning…but the INFLECTION was cured of its infection.
Be Good,
Ｍｒ． Ｇｕｒｕ