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The petite 20 yo Hunan gal should hv been JF (instead of JK). She is the gal u intro me!
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The 23 yo Hubei gal JK is the one I met in SZ. I find her very attractive n sexy although she is not my usual type at 163 cm. Perhaps the fact that my HK fren was drooling over her might hv made her seem more desirable…I may hv lost my objectivity, haha. Yeah, she could be ur type.
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Treat her like any other person, disagree w/ her when u think you r right n say No to her if her request is unreasonable…high quality gals r never attracted to men who always say YES n can be easily manipulated. NEVER ever appear to be needy or desperate (even if u can’t sleep or eat n PCC everyday thinking of her, hahaha).
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Flirt w/ other gals. Show her that u hv many, many options. You r hard to get n r being eagerly sought after by many chio MMs.
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Get sexual early on…yes, u are a MAN in excellent health, w/ strong libido n super immunity…all very desirable traits…
- Courage When It’s Expected As Obvious
- Courage When Faced With The Unknown
- Courage To Accomplish What Motivates You
- Courage When The Chips Are Down
- Courage Among Men
- Courage Towards HER
- When considering a brand new woman to date, teleport yourself
- How do you feel about introducing her to your friends?
- Imagine you have already seen her naked 100 times and had sex
- Do you actually enjoy her company?
- Is life more fulfilling with her in it?
- Are you trying to overlook serious character issues?
- Do you envy guys who appear to have higher-quality women with
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
You are correct to say that in By-ing, some degree of KC-ing always occurs, whether by design or unintentionally. However, since the act of BY-ing is a commercial transaction, the chances of the guy getting sucked into a trap laid by the gal is really slim.
KC-ing WLs/FLs leads to trouble 99% of the time…………..
I have seen and met many WLs/FLs who are very easily KCed. But if you were to think with your big head, you will see through their act immediately. In short, a gal who is easily KCed is just putting an act to get your money.
Successfully KC-ing a gal means different things to different people. For some, they believe they have successfully KC-ed a gal when she says that she loves him…
For others, they say that it is successful when the gals finally agrees to stop working and be with them full time. But the thing they always forget to mention is that they are paying the gals 10K/mth for that..
Bro TD,
There is usually a lot more KC in a BY-ing RS than in ST-ing, regardless of whether the gal is a WL/FL, KTV gal/singer, student, etc. n regardless of her former/usual occupation.
Of course, most cases of exclusive BY-ing r strictly commercial transactions. But the BAO-er must like the gal to BY her n the gal must hv at least some liking for him. Whereas ST-ing is 100% pure commercial transaction, at least initially…
Most of my BAO-ees hv never done ST before n the biggest complaint they hv against me is that I treat our RS as pure business transactions. KK was the 1st one to say that. Couple of others complain that I only want to fxk them n that I’m unromantic (不浪漫）, hehe. They all want me treat them like real GFs or mistresses…
IMHO, it’s much easier to get KC-ed by the gal in BY-ing than in ST-ing.
What is a successful KC? IMHO, it’s when a gal is truly addicted to a man financially, emotionally n sexually. She is in love w/ him n will do just abt anything for him. She will be in severe emotional pain n may contemplate suicide if he dumps her. She will sleep n eat poorly for wks if not months…
Anything less is partial KC, at best.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
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Hahaha, yes bro WB, I’m a realist.
$3K a month and swear she will not get fxxked by other men? Easy, no need to verify……………………… I don’t need faithfulness. I want to good fxxk………………………………………
BO down there can also be caused by menses.
Bro FA,
I admire ur candor, haha.
The smell from normal menses is different…
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Originally Posted by
n733
bro wb sorry u did not enjoy your trip…and very sorry i did not get the chance to see u…when u call me i was on the transport on the way back to sg.was your agent sam?did he do his part?i had seen him in cp and told him to take good care of u….
Hi bro n733,
No, I used another agent.
I did enjoy my trip to CP, though not as much as I had hoped for due primarily to my high expectations n time constraint. I hope to go again in July. Will try ur fren Sam.
Ths!
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Originally Posted by
woody17
Hi Bro Warbird
Didn’t realize you had another fabulous meeting with a stunning beauty from Hubei …I should have accepted your dinner invitation…pity that I had to join my mamasan lunchbox for dinner in Shenzhen that evening who is another stunning beauty, hahaha….
Dear Bro Woody,
Dun worry, we shall meet again. Next time, wherever we r, I like to take u to dinner, hopefully accompanied by 2 stunning beauties, one for u n one for me, hahaha.
The other day, I took a close look at ur new business card n I was most impressed w/ ur impeccable credentials! I also envy that u are domiciled in HK. It’s a prosperous, safe n cosmopolitan city, n best of all, it’s in close proximity to unlimited supply of pretty PRC gals. It’s very easy for them to get a pass to come to HK to spend a few days w/ u. BTW, one can take non-stopped train from Kowloon to CP in 70 min. You do hv an unfair advantage, hehehe. How to compete?
I’m in ctc w/ the cute 20 yo gal u intro me. We r frens even n though she is not my type as she is only 158. I’ll try to intro some frens to BY her in SG n in turn she will intro some taller gals to me for BY. She is only asking 20K RMB to be kept exclusively in SG. She doesn’t know anyone who is in or has been to SG n she doesn’t even hv a passport. Of course her travel expenses n rental in SG should be covered by the patron. I actually told her she should demand 25K RMB a month, hehe.
Cheers n hope to see u soon.
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
There definitely is a lot more KC in BY-ing than in ST-ing but much less than if the guy were to try to KC the gal.
For gals who have not done any ST before or never worked as a FL previously, I suspect that they treat By-ing as the BAO-er keeping them as a mistress. If this is the case, then definitely they expect the BAO-er to be romantic.
Successfully KC-ing is basically getting the gal to fall deeply in love with you. But it brings it’s own set of problems…………………………….
By-ing a gal for 20K RMB a month in SG is considered cheap. She is sure to have many takers.
Bro TD,
Ths for ur opinion.
I’m learning to be more romantic, hehe…who says u can’t teach an old dog new tricks?
Cheers!
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Good morning!
The 20 yo Hunan gal JK is quite slim, 158 n 40 kg. I hv her body shot which shows a very proportionate figure n very small bony frame. She does not know the going rates for full-time BY-ing in SG. If a prospective patron wants to BY her, it may be best to meet up w/ her 1st in SZ, China.
Back to the subject of KC-ing n BY-ing.
I recently received the following from an expert on RS n love:
Why It Pays To Play Hard to Get
According to Bertrand Russell, “Human nature is constructed so that it gives affection most readily to those who seem to demand it the least.”
This being the case “and I assure you it is” then what hope can any normal human being who intensely craves love and affection have of winning the one they want?
Won’t their very need for the other person be the thing that turns the one they want away from them?
The answer is “NO!” It is not the need for love, which all people inherently feel which drives others away from them, but it is their indiscretion about exhibiting that need. What we need to learn is to make a distinction in our lives between the way we feel and the way we act! Or, in other words, we must learn self-control. Not that we should suppress our emotions to the degree that we deny to ourselves what we are feeling. No, no indeed.
We should always realize and be honest with ourselves what we are feeling inside. But we must be discerning, discreet and wise about the things we know about ourselves, which we share with others. Just because you find yourself desperately wanting someone, for example, doesn’t mean you should act desperate. But neither does it mean you should try to deny the feeling in yourself.
So you feel desperate! So what?! There’s no shame in that. Join the club. Millions of wonderful, great, fantastic people who have lived long before you have felt this way. There’s nothing wrong with wanting.
But what I warn you against is not trying to control the way you talk about it to others. You see, a dog should wag his tail, not have the tail wag the dog. And YOU are the one who ultimately controls your behavior, your emotions should not be doing that.
Remember when you were small and felt unhappy and upset about not getting your way? What did most of us do? We would lie down on the floor and act out our emotions by beating our fists on the floor and kicking wildly. But when we got older we learned to put away childish behaviors and hold back, except in the area of romance.
What I’m saying is that we need to be mature in this area as well. “But,” someone cries out, “isn’t it dishonest to not express what you feel?” “No,” I answer. “It’s a simple matter of growing up.” The mature thing to do is to learn to distinguish between feelings and actions. Feel intently, deeply and honestly. But keep your behavior in check.
That person who keeps his behavior separate from his feeling ultimately commands the most respect, and love from others.
I must imprint the above advice deep in my primitive brains, hehehe.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
I believe you can easily learn to be more romantic…hehehehehe
Anyway, I’m contemplating retirement now…
Bro TD,
I’m making slow progress…one small step at a time.
Many bros talk abt retirement. What is ur definition?
I’ll never retire from learning n living…
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Originally Posted by
seaman6969
Bro WB
Fantastic observations posted again. It works very true in both sexes I find, at least in my limited experiences. No need to always show all your cards and you will get the upper hand most times. Thanks again…
Bro seaman6969,
Ths, you make my day!!
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Originally Posted by
woody17
Good morning!
“The 20 yo Hunan gal JK is quite slim, 158 n 40 kg. I hv her body shot which shows a very proportionate figure n very small bony frame. She does not know the going rates for full-time BY-ing in SG. If a prospective patron wants to BY her, it may be best to meet up w/ her 1st in SZ, China.”
Hi Bro Warbird: do u think JK would be my type? I don’t mind BY-ing her in SZ….
BTW, thanks for your compliment! You have impeccable credentials yourself la! I can’t compare with u as I am still a salaried white-collar…
Good morning Bro Woody,
You’re a humble man.
I made a mistake by giving the same initials to 2 different gals.
She is NOT a WL. When she was 18 she had a HK BF in his 20s n they were preparing for marriage after being together for 2 yrs. He bought a house in her name. But the RS eventually failed n she was in distress for a full yr. She has had 2 BFs since, all HK men.
She is smart, candid n a good conversationalist. I spoke w/ her for 1 hr the other day. She is going to apply for a student pass to come to SG. I hv mentioned ur high status as a business executive n sterling academic achievements to her. She just wants to be an ordinary fren, not a GF, since she is going to come to SG soon. She will be pleased to intro her frens to u.
I’ll email her ctc to u.
Although JK is only 23, she is my RS n BY-ing consultant/guru, hehehe.
She said: 深圳美女如云，只要你有钱，你可以有最漂亮的女朋友。。。
“男女相爱，头24个月是激情，之后是亲情。。。“
When I told her abt my RS w/ KK n TC, her response: 对她们好一点，她们出身体，你出金钱。
She knows she is the type coveted by many SG men. Although I hv a head start which confers a small advantage at this time, when she is here, she is likely to go w/ someone else. That would be OK w/ me. I hv even promised to intro some rich 帅哥 to her, hehehe.
BTW, she dislikes men (such as all her former BFs) who would restrict her freedom n monitor her hourly, daily activities.
I told her I dun care what my GFs do, as long as they dun fxk other men or go to work. They also must tell me immediately if they hv fallen in love w/ some young men, hahaha.
Will I BY her? We shall see…I dun want to get KC-ed.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
I’ll be very busy for the next 1 wk n may not be able to post.
Hv a great day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Oh well, I guess I didn’t put it accurately. I’m retiring from cheonging, KC-ing gals and all related activities…
OK, may I assume that u hv found ur soul mate n true love?
If that is the case, congrats to u!!
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
…………So a rather shrewd fellow cheongster measures the no. of fxxks vs the total investment and uses that as a gauge of how far to go…………………………
Using damage per fxk as the sole gauge of cheonging success should apply only to WLs who do ST. Full time BY-ing confers many benefits to the patrons which can’t be measured easily or accurately. What is the price of companionship n psychological, physical, mental, emotional n sexual satisfaction? Health benefits?
In the past I was obsessed w/ damage per fxk n was trying “to get my money’s worth” which was counterproductive n physically harmful n emotionally stressful, especially when I had 2 or more full-time companions at the same time. Now I just relax n enjoy the company of these SYTs w/o regards to price per fxk, hehehe.
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
………………………I think I had only 2 gals so far from the many who got too pissed to be contactable after they found out what a prowler I truly am in the KTVs.
Just say to any “set-back” in this BY world, “fxck it, it don’t mean nuthin, drive on”.
Yeah bro, u got the right attitude. In BY-ing, there r no failures, only learning experiences.
Cheers!
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Greetings from Gotham City!
Global markets hv taken a severe beating since the massive earth quake in Japan. I’m following Getty’s advice “Buy when everyone else is selling…n hold on until everyone else is buying.” But it’s easier said than done.
In full-time BY-ing I expect my full-time GFs to always say YES, whenever I want to fxk them n whenever I want them to spend time w/ me. They also can’t say NO whatever I want to do to them, within reasons of course. It’s a given they can’t fxk other men n can’t go to work. In return, I allow them the freedom to make frens w/ anyone. However, they must tell me asap if n when they fall for some young men, hehehe.
BTW, while my other GFs r in China, my 1st BAO-ee XW’s pussy was always available to me. I hv narrated my saga w/ her in the past. She is now 23 n a very different person. Although I BY-ed her twice in the past, I was unable to give her COS bcos she would push me away after she came once or twice (a common problem…). She used to give me minimal service, but she is now so fxking hungry n passionate!! She couldn’t seem to get enuff…reaches COS in every session n she loves 69. Hv I improved that much? Her cunt is still as pretty n as tight as before. She said: “I’m getting old whereas u are still exactly the same. Many gals in my town r already married at my age…” I lost ctc w/ her in June last yr. She was kept by a SG man in his early 30s, who must be in some sort of “all cash business,” for abt 6 months. He was very generous to her…but unfortunately he fell for her n proposed to her! Her parents strongly objected to the marriage n ordered her to go back home in Dec. She recently returned, changed her HP…hahaha, his loss is my gain.
I recently received the following email from a guru:
Pleasure Panic: Why Some Women Say Stop
- Why women sometimes stop you or push you away
with their hips just when it looks like they are
about to orgasm…
***QUESTION***
Hey My name is […], and when i’m fingering or
going down on my girlfriend sometimes she will
make me stop because the sensation is too strong for
her to handle. Does that mean she reached the
point of orgasm and is too sensitive to continue
going?
- D
>>>MY REPLY:
Maybe.
Some women do, in fact, get overly sensitized
after orgasm and find continued contact too much
to handle for a short while and need to take a
break. But this is uncommon.
More likely is that she is right on the edge of
orgasm and is unable to cross over to the other
side.
This kind of “pleasure panic” is incredibly
common. Orgasm, for many women, is a huge act of
surrender. She is not comfortable losing
control of herself that way.
Especially in front of you. But often women
can’t do it alone either. They just PANIC when
they feel the rush of the oncoming orgasm.
(Often women can have shallow orgasms, but
when something monster big is coming, or when
they are already coming but feel a “stacked”
orgasm that will notch them up into a higher
level, they feel that sense of panic that they
just won’t be able to handle it).
That’s why so much of my book is about earning
her complete “Sexual Trust”.
Once you do that, she will surrender herself
to you completely and you can gently guide her
across her fears to the other side– and she will
have mind-blowing pleasure.
Learning to build Sexual Trust is the key to
most of the advanced sexual knowledge that you
will ever encounter…
Learning to hold space for her to experience
things she might not even be able to do alone,
and learning how to give her CERTAINTY that you’ll
be strong and calm afterwards if she experiences
some wild emotions from it… these things can’t
just be faked, and they are much more important
than some finger, tongue, or thrusting techniques.
And if you spend a little time working at it,
you will give her her very first orgasm. Which
is pretty cool………………………………………. ……..
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Best,
Mr. Guru
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
No, not that. Just that I’ve grown bored again of these activities…
You’re right.
Sometimes too much of these activities r very boring…n may even be harmful to health. I also like to take periods of rest n restoration, hehehe.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Dear Bro WB,
There are many reasons why I look at it from a more commercial “damage per fxxk” way.
First and foremost, it IS a commercial transaction/business deal, no matter how the gal views it – providing/caring for her wellbeing etc etc.
Secondly, I want to keep it strictly transactional so as not to fall into the KC trap. You see, I may not have vast experience and ability to withstand or prevent myself from falling for a gal……………
It is akin to putting a stop loss whenever a FX trade is initiated. Another analogy, also FX trading one… there are 4 different types of traders: scalpers, day-traders, swing traders and position traders (or carry traders)… the key to success in trading is …..to find the trading style best fitting your personality and circumstances
…………….There are so many cases of cheongsters kenna KCed/cheated and sammyboy forum is filled with disastrous and tragic examples.
Thirdly, I do not………….
Dear Bro FA,
Yes, even full-time BY-ing is strictly a business transaction. We should KC these gals w/o getting KC-ed ourselves, hehe. Just remember that all these pretty n young pussies r fungible commodities n we will not be KC-ed.
You’re right again. Cheonging n trading share many similarities n a man must find his own method of cheonging n BY-ing to fit his unique personality, risk tolerance, financial status, prior experiences/training, comfort level n personal preference.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
I recently came upon this thread “Men who fall in love with FL’s are clinically sick!” Maybe these men r “mentally n emotionally sick,” but I dun really know.
However, I do know that there is a large grp of people, including men n women of all ages, who should be considered “clinically sick.” They r those who gamble n play against the house in a casino. Their chances of losing money r 100% if they continue to play on a long-term basis. Let me repeat: Their chances of losing money r 100% long-term. Yes, they r “clinically or rather mentally n emotionally very, very sick.”
There is only one game in which a visitor to a casino may win money on a long-term basis. It’s poker IF he is very good n if he plays against other players, not against the casino. Blackjack is no longer profitable bcos the casino reshuffles after every hand. I hv an Ang Moh fren at Gotham City who is a professional poker player who goes to work at Las Vegas 3 times a yr when they r big conventions. In less than a wk, he could make enuff money for him to live in luxury for the the entire yr, hehehe. He has 2 cute GFs n takes limo to n from the airport…
BTW, I went to MBS several months ago as my frens told me poker was available there. I thought I could play against other visitors (read patsies) n might be able to win a little money to buy a Cartier watch for my beloved TC. Unfortunately, poker was offered only as a house game. I left w/o risking even a dollar there.
Separately, couple of of my former BAO-ees recently got married. One of them is the 18 yo singer LW whom Mr Chairman arranged for me To BY 20 months ago. She is now 20 n I just saw her wedding album. She looked prettier than when I first met her! The lucky man? He is a bespectacled young man in his mid 20s who appears well educated…a good catch for her for sure, n perhaps for him…they hv my sincerest blessings!!
When I next visit SG, I’ll hv more than enuff full time GFs to keep me very busy, even if only half of them show up, hehehe. I hv another new target. Just 2-3 wks before I left for Gotham City, I met a very pretty n cute 22 yo student from Jiangsu. Took her out to dinner once. Very fair, 167, 46 kg n very proportionate figure w/ very small bony frame. Unfortunately, her boobs r quite small. I may still make an offer.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
l_o_v_e
WOW
its been a long time since bro warbird last posted her to provide advice to his disciples
Hi bro l_o_v_e,
I hv been very busy…
Advice? I’m merely sharing what little experiences I hv had in picking up, cheonging n BY-ing my type of pussies. I hv had more failures than successes, but I’m learning, improving…on the way to achieving my mission of absolute self mastery n unconditional happiness. BY-ing is merely for recreation n relaxation, to make the journey more pleasant, hehe.
My disciples? No no, I hv none. All samsters here r my dear bros/sisters n comrades, my de facto gurus…from whom I hv learned a great deal. Ths to u all.!!
I also like to express my sincere gratitude to all my current n former BAO-ees: Some of u hv been tough opponents, some hv played hard to get, many hv been mercenary n even duplicitous…but I hv enjoyed ur companionship n of course ur lovely young pussies, hehe. But for better or worse, I hv had quite a thrilling ride w/ all of u, n more importantly, I hv learned n understood a great deal abt myself n abt life in general n females n men-woman RS in particular. To be fair, I hv also played hardball w/ many of u n hv been a miser in many instances n hv been a jerk for terminating my patronage. My sincere apologies. That is life, let’s move on to a better tomorrow, shall we? Finally, ths for allowing a lao chi ko pek to BY you n best wishes for a great future!!
I’ll post an update n some insights soon.
Cheers n hv a great day!!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
I’ll probably be taking a very long break and not sure if I will ever be coming back to these activities again… But I’ll still be around here to TCSS…
Good for u, bro TD.
I hope u could continue to share ur wisdom n insights on how to get chio SYTs to fall for u.
Best,
Bro WB
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Good morning!!
I hv a question on RS n love for all samsters in general, but for esteemed Bro TD in particular.
Do u ever say it out loud to these SYTs that u like them n love them (even if u dun really love them)?
IMHO, a man should never reveal his feelings early on even if the gal happens to be his dream gal. It will greatly reduce his mystique, attractiveness, desirability n his chances of tasting her pussy. It’s OK when he is sure that the gal has already fallen deeply for him. Additionally, if he shows his liking for her prematurely or put her on the pedestal, she will walk all over him n may try to extract more money from him.
If u meet an extremely beautiful gal or ur special one or even ur dream gal, be a contrarian n do the opposite of what every man is doing:
Last but not least, 4) you must be perceived as being very high in the Male Dominance Scale, as manifested by ur demeanor, eye ctc, speech/voice, posture n body language, etc. Otherwise, even if you were really King George the VI also no use, hehehe.
BTW, I hv “taken care” of many PRC MMs in the last 22 months. Although I’m the one who terminates the RS in most cases, I still miss their pussies, even to this day. No, I’m not KC-ed. In fact, I had some KC only for two gals, XW n KK, especially the former. XW initiated ctc w/ me recently. Unlike before, she is now very passionate n can achieve COS easily. Ironically, I hv zero KC for her at this time.
The young Hubei gal LL has agreed to come to SG on a tourist visa. I’ll pay for her travel expenses, rental in SG n give her a monthly allowance. A fair deal? The other Hubei gal JK will come later.
BY-ing is very exciting n a fun game. I enjoy hunting for my type of SYTs wherever they are. I often get sexual very early on n then “propose” to them…another fun part is to negotiate the terms.
Before inking the deal, I always do my due diligence by checking n inspecting the warm meat. I also try to find out as much as possible abt the gal from other sources. I often use all my 5 senses…for example, after my 2nd meeting w/ TC n before BY-ing her a wk later, I tried to kiss her, squeeze her boobs n butt n even smell her pussy, whenever we were in a dark KTV rm or in a car. Once she wore hot pants n T shirt n I could see a bit of her ass crack when she was sitting. I turned my head to get a closer look at her behind n use my fingers to explore n caress her ass crack when no one was looking. She feigned displeasure, grabbed n pushed my hand away, saying: 以后天天在一起， 你还怕看不够， 摸不够？ I actually delayed fxking her to generate sexual tension n made the journey more sexciting…haha.
Cheers n hv a great day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
Thanks for your kind words. But I’m not even close to being an expert on getting SYTs to fall for me….
I mentioned previously that I was trying to KC a gal and this was the last gal I will KC. And the fact is that I succeeded and failed beyond my wildest dreams……………………….
Bro TD,
Like they say, you can’t argue w/ success, n you’re successful in getting SYTs to fall for u.
Ths also for ur valuable comments.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Yes, be a contrarian. The beautiful gal you have been eyeing and trying….
When I was in university…………………………..(Inciden tally, the brain is the biggest sex organ)………………….So, there are different tactics used for rich people (like Bro WB dearest) and poorer people like yours truly. But the message is clear – differentiate or die.
Successful investors and traders are also contrarian. Again, “Be-Fearful-When-Others-Are-Greedy-Be-Greedy-When-Others-Are-Fearful” Buffett is a fine example……………
Was in the hall in LV last night from 9+pm…………
Dear Bro FA,
Ths for ur insights on being a contrarian n for ur update on LV.
BTW, I’m not rich, I just hv enuff money to get by.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
A man’s self confidence n self mastery n his perceived ranking on the Male Dominance Scale r the most important determinants of his attractiveness to females.
One of the indices of a man’s self mastery is his courage.
A guru sent me the following email on courage:
You’ve heard time and again “Don’t be a wuss”.
So then, what’s the opposite of a wuss? That would be a man who is
bold and courageous. Boldness relates to confidence, but what
exactly does it mean to be courageous in the particular way that
drives women wild?
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WHAT COURAGE MEANS TO WOMEN
We spend a lot of time around here shining the light on ‘hidden
detractors’. By this I mean anything that could possibly be
keeping you from meeting the kind of women you want to meet and/or
having total control over continuing the relationship when you so
choose, but which you haven’t quite got a handle on yet.
I believe that one of the darkest such “hidden detractor” for many
guys involves Failure To Deploy in the area of courage.
That’s right, simple “courage”.
Courage, as it turns out, is an overarching masculine theme that
quite literally pervades a man’s being…or SHOULD, at least.
When you successfully “inspire confidence”, which is one of the
“Big Four”, you have essentially–by definition–succeeded at
assuring a woman of your own personal level of courage.
So then, let’s go ahead and outline EXACTLY what courage IS.
And more specifically, lets talk about the kind of courage that
women in particular find irresistibly attractive.
Before we start, however, I’ll give you a hint: It’s NOT found
in the Jeff Foxworthy moments when we tell everyone, “Hey y’all,
watch this!” Nope, meaningless foolishness is a turn-off to women,
as is “showing off” purely for the purpose of impressing them.
So here we go…a half-dozen ways to eliminate wussification forever
and execute with strength:
If most garden-variety human beings can stand up something, so
should you. It’s not unusual to have phobias, even irrational
ones.
But know this: If you are afraid to fly, cross bridges or take the
elevator you will NOT be exactly inspiring confidence in a woman
who likely has no such trepidation.
Your ability to inspire confidence takes a direct hit when you are
afraid when even most women are unfazed.
It is crucial to grasp this concept accurately. Nobody is asking
you to drive in an ice storm, tail rattlesnakes like freakin’ Steve
Irwin or even eat food off the floor.
But if you do things like throw a hissy fit when a bee that you
aren’t even mortally allergic to flies within five feet of you, and
the women surrounding you go, “Um…dude, what’s the big deal?”, those
are the times you know you have to learn how to get over it.
What happens when there’s a question mark ahead? Do you hold your
head up and boldly face the music, or do you thrust your head in
the sand and procrastinate for as long as humanly possible?
One key example, made hilariously famous by George Lopez in a stand
up routine of his, of this is when a guy knows he has a medical
issue but refuses to see a doctor.
Knowing the doctor could tell you any number of things ranging from
the innocuous to the devastating, you go anyway and get it taken
care of.
“It’s better not to know…besides, they’ll charge me for
everything!” is funny when George Lopez says it, but would
demonstrate to a woman in your life that you are a complete coward
were YOU say it.
If you know the company is announcing layoffs today, you go to
work. Whatever it is, unless it’s armed and deadly and you are
not, you face it. Women love the initiative and the leadership.
I don’t know how many guys I have heard talking about what they
dream of doing, or where they dream of going…quickly followed by a
phrase beginning with the word “but”.
“Oh man, I’d LOVE to go to [insert exotic destination here]. But
what if I got arrested and thrown into jail there or caught some
weird illness while there?”
“Wow…I’d LOVE to get a motorcycle license. But I’m really afraid
I’d have an accident.”
All this is BORING to women, who are often craving excitement in
their lives.
The most breathtaking irony of all in that respect is that I am
wracking my brain, but believe I have NEVER suggested that a woman
join me for something adventurous and have her flatly refuse…as
long as her confidence was inspired.
When it’s “fight or flight”, women are counting on you to keep a
level head and make the right decision. Like the NBA all star
wants the ball when his team is down by a point with five seconds
left on the clock, you should likewise seek to be the
decision-maker when a crisis looms.
Whether it’s a family issue, a job loss, a car accident, a spider
in the bathroom or a weird sound in the middle of the night, you
take the proverbial bull by the horns.
If you are consistently dominated by and generally manhandled by
the AMOGs around you, women will not be impressed by your
passivity. Have the courage to suggest ideas, take leadership in
the face of ambiguity and remain reasonable when foolishly provoked.
Nothing inspires confidence in a woman more than this. You aren’t
starting bar fights, but you are standing your ground and refusing
to be a doormat.
Of course, there’s one final linchpin that all five of the previous
examples are predicated upon…
You must not be afraid of the WOMAN herself.
This means that you approach her and talk to her that first time
you meet her without trepidation, which in turn will help her feel
at ease with you.
This also means you don’t kowtow and “kiss up” because you are
afraid of either losing her favor or pissing her off.
And it especially means that you don’t soft peddle every last
original idea you have lest you offend her or not give her what she
wants.
Most guys are deathly afraid of making a woman cry. You have to
understand that women are more upset by your cowardice in telling
the truth than by your honesty, as long as you keep her best
interests at heart.
I mentioned that lack of courage is often a “hidden detractor”.
Seriously, in this day and age of safe cubicle jobs and couch
potato lifestyles it’s all too easy for us guys to completely miss
the simple fact that we’re even lacking in this area.
But make no mistake–women have a sixth sense for this stuff. So
building genuine courage, backed by solid reasoning skills, should
be the goal of every man.
Here’s the thing.
I could give you a set of “rules” to follow. I could give you a
checklist of things to do that might allow you to, at least for the
time being, fool a woman or two into thinking you had it all
together.
But ultimately, the checklist would fail you. You can’t be
fumbling for notes when a situation calling for genuine courage
comes up.
I can’t think of a better example why honestly becoming the kind of
man who genuinely deserves what he wants will trump the “quick fix”
approach.
Every. Single. Time.
If you have been following these newsletters, you already know that
courage is just one of endless examples of what drives women wild,
but which also cannot be faked.
Unless you become the man women crave, life will continue to be one
“hidden detractor” after another. You’ll fix one only to have
another jump out at you.
That’s why The Master Plan is a complete blueprint for being the
kind of man that WOMEN want.
It’s true that a lot of us needlessly feel shame, somehow, for
being a man. That causes us to think that women probably want a
“woman with a penis” for a boyfriend.
But that simply doesn’t WORK when it comes to creating attraction,
does it?
Here it is. You should never, ever feel the need to “apologize”
for being a man…ever again………………..And I’ll talk to you again soon.
Be Good,
Mr. XYZ
Quote:
Originally Posted by
UndeaD80
Hi Bros,
Need some kang hu from u guys as i am new to this KC gals thingy.
Recently know a singer from a HFJ, wan to try KC her and oso prevent being KC by her.
She has been sms me almost everyday but i sumtimes gt reply sumtimes bo reply………………
Any ways to Kc her til she blur blur??
Thanks bros for ur kind advice.
Hi Bro UD,
No need to do anything, she is already in love w/ u, hahaha.
Pls consult our many experts on HFJs n singers. Dun forget Bro DUBJ aka Mr. Chairman.
Good luck!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro,
One friendly word of advice from me. Don’t go down the KC route unless you want to lose your pants in future.
As a newbie, now matter how level headed you think you are, you are no match for any working gal who has been dealing with these on a daily basis…
Hi Bro TD,
Very good advice!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
forget it, if u r new you are no match for singers…they are the queen of kc and will suck you dry…unless it’s a singer at those cmi joints those can be easily screwed for less than 1k……if not be prepared to spend at least 8k a mth…
Hi Bro ME,
Yeah, they will suck u dry, both financially n physically, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
What kind of man is most attractive to females at their subconscious level?
IMHO, he is a man w/ ABSOLUTE self confidence n self mastery, which will be manifested in his social standing, character, courage, body language, etc. His wealth, looks, height n age, etc r totally irrelevant. However, I hv never met such a man. Not even the historical Cao Cao.
If u r such a man, u dun need any gimmicks or strategies to KC any gal.
As mere mortals we will never achieve absolute self mastery. However, we should aim to become a man w/ formidable self mastery, such as John D. Rockefeller, Sr.
As for how to prevent being KC-ed by a beautiful gal.
When a man becomes enamored w/ a gal for whatever reason, he loses his objectivity n rationality n will attach great value to her pussy…and he will end up paying dearly.
If a man realizes that all pussies, including very beautiful ones, are fungible commodities n are expendable, he will never be KC-ed by any of them.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Singers will always call or sms u for 2 reasons………………….
All are here for money, will lovy dovy u so that u will spend more on them.
Even if u fuck them and they swallow your sperm……
Do not believe anything you see or hear.
………..
Dear Mr. Chairman,
Words of wisdom to live by…
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Bro WB, you flatter me again.
Not really, I hv yet to meet a more experienced man in cheonging singers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Bro WB,
That’s all in the past…and will not happen again anymore…
Never say never.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
littleman2
Brudder….well said and put together. how i wish that i have seen your comments much earlier………………………………
You will forget her quickly. Just remember that her cunt is a fungible commodity.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Taken from Another Thread: Hanging Flower Joints
http://sbf.net.nz/showpos...postcount=9823
In the world of HFJ, or nitescene, nothing is real.
You spend to try to get the CUNT or for some idiots, LOVE!
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Well said again.
What little “success” I hv had in BY-ing, I owe at least half to ur teachings.
Now I treat all my GFs aka BAO-ees as bot cunts or warm meat, hehehe.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
chenzong
It’s not just PRC singers. PRC girls generally.
Absolutely.
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Good morning!
I was trying to get some recommendations for finding pretty SYTs in Beijing, but I got conflicting FRs on escort services there. I’ll go to KTVs instead.
I’m very picky as I only want to up gals of my particular type. I often need to see many, many to find one I like. Seeing one gal at a time is not going to work unless there r truthful n detailed descriptions n real life photos of many gals for me to review.
Since finding SYTs of my type to BY in China is too time consuming, I hv recruited the help of a few trusted frens including my former mistress KK. My msg to her: 我要你介绍一个年青貌美的女朋友给我。 最好是18-22岁， 164-172 公分，体态均匀， 有大专水平。 她在新加坡或中国都没问题。她要求什么条件都可以， 只要我喜欢她…She replied: 。好的，没有问题…she will try to find someone I like very much, she is my personal n dedicated OKT hehe. She is one gal I had KC in the past. The other is my 1st BAO-ee XW who is my “woman” now.
For me, life is too short to settle for gals who r not exactly my type.
Have u ever settled for a gal whom u dun like that much? Unfortunately, I hv in the past. Dun ever do that again, advised an Ang Moh guru.
THE “SETTLE TEST”
A couple of weeks ago when we talked about blind dates I covered the idea
of “settling” some. It’s an idea worth elaborating upon further.
So recently I was on the phone with a friend talking about–what else?–dating and relationships.
During the course of the conversation, we began discussing how
amazing it is that so many people settle for the first option that
comes along than doing what it takes to become a man or a woman who
can CHOOSE from MANY OPTIONS.
Ultimately, so many of us feel completely powerless when it comes
to actually being able to attract who we truly want, that when the
first person comes along who shows any level of attraction we jump
right into a long-term relationship.
Sometimes we do so and never look back.
If you perform a Google search on “number of lifetime sex
partners”, you’ll quickly find that darn near 25% of adults (at
least in North America) report having had exactly one partner in
their life.
Sure, there are always those who have the “high school sweetheart”
story going on.
But not withstanding that, you and I both know that there are a
whole lot of people out there who are flat-out, straight-up
SETTLING.
Worse, even though they KNOW they’ve settled, they stay in the
relationship anyway. And all too often, they even end up getting
MARRIED.
Why?
Well, there’s a whole litany of potential excuses.
“It was just time to get married, and this was who I was dating at
the time.”
Or, “Well, nobody’s perfect…and I don’t want to be too picky.”
Or, “Hey…some people out there have NOBODY. I should count myself
as LUCKY.”
And, of course, the one that truly makes me cringe: “She was
willing to put up with me.”
But here’s the thing.
Sometimes, you really can be fairly excited about having met a
certain woman early on. You can even be genuinely HOT for her.
Particularly if you haven’t been experiencing a dating life full of
rich options lately, you could actually meet a woman who exceeds
your expectations and be on Cloud 9 together for a while there.
Only after time has passed and you wake up one morning feeling
dissatisfied will the reality set in that you had in fact SETTLED.
Scary stuff, isn’t it?
There’s no wonder so many women think guys are “commitment phobes”.
The truth is sometimes we SHOULD BE.
So how do we solve this problem? How can you know up front that
you may wake up feeling like you settled someday?
I mean, how can you really get some 20/20 foresight here, for a
change?
I’m glad you asked.
Here, before your very eyes, I’m about to roll out–for the first
time ever–a lucky seven ways you can test a new relationship for
“Settlement Potential”:
into the future and HONESTLY consider how you’ll feel having been
exclusive with her for a few months.
You may think she’s pretty sharp, but if you honestly evaluate the
situation do you already know she’s lacking in a few places that
you are going to seriously wish she wasn’t after the novelty of the
relationship wears off?
Every day you may see women you find somewhat attractive, and each
will endear herself to you in a distinct way–and to a varying
degree.
With that sea of women around you, understand that building
long-term plans with a woman who doesn’t bring your vision of the
“complete package” to the table is going to mean inevitable
comparison to other women down the road.
And that’s not going to be a positive for either of you.
She may be attractive to you, but are you sort of embarrassed to
take her out in public? Do you fear your friends are going to
think you could “do better”?
Is there a chance she’ll publicly humiliate you in a social
setting?
If you’re feeling any of this stuff, it makes no logical sense to
form a “partnership” with her.
with her about as often.
Are you going to have long since been bored? Do you already look
at her and realize she isn’t everything you want in the attraction
department?
Even if you are obsessed over her extreme hotness, have you
considered that if the entire relationship has been built around
sex that you WILL burn out sooner than later…perhaps based on sheer
familiarity?
This might sound like a goofball question. But based on what I’ve
seen out there, I had to ask.
She may be the “best thing” who has come along in years, or so you
think. But are you basing that premise purely on physical
attraction? If she gets on your nerves now–or vice-versa–that
isn’t going to get any better later, I can assure you.
Are you looking forward to taking her with you on the next
adventure you have planned, or would you much rather leave her at
home to watch Lifetime Channel while you spend time with your
friends instead?
Do you foresee your future plans and lifelong dreams coming to
fruition with her in your life, or being postponed–if not scuttled
completely?
Are you sticking your head in the sand when it’s clear she has
addictions, jealousy issues or a demonstrated history of
disrespecting you? Are you fully confident she wouldn’t cheat on
you or betray you in some other way?
Do you get this strange feeling that there’s something about her
you’re not being told?
them?
Do you get that nauseous feeling in the pit of your stomach when
you go out and see other guys with women you perceive to be higher
quality than your girlfriend?
Have you actually gone so far as to COUNT how many guys in a
particular public place you’d gladly trade places with?
Do you come home from social events feeling angry or even resentful
toward your woman even though she didn’t do anything in particular
to cause it?
Did some of those concepts hit home for you?
It really doesn’t matter whether you have a woman in your life
right now or not. The stuff we’re talking about here must become
part of your mindset as you evaluate the potential of various women
who step into your life.
Usually when you take a test like this, you end up with a “sliding
scale” to score yourself with.
Not this time, man.
This is like horseshoes and hand grenades. It’s “all or nothing”.
If you’ve compromised ANYWHERE, you’re settling.
I know that the simple fact you are here reading this newsletter
alone represents that you are one of those who refuse to accept
mediocrity.
Deserving what you want is the only way to fly, and you know that
already.
Don’t ever settle, gentlemen. And I remain convinced that you
really don’t ever have to. Life is too short.
Be Good,
Mr.SSS