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Make sure you knock her off her pedestal some by “negging” her.
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Act indifferent toward her…so she’ll chase YOU instead of
- NEVER give a woman a compliment…ever.
To all samsters:
May you get a clean bill of health from your dentist, your ophthalmologist, your psychiatrist, your cardiologist, your urologist, and the Income Tax Department.
May your hair, your teeth, your face-lift, your love handles, and your stocks never fall, and may your blood pressure, your triglycerides, your cholesterol, your white blood count, your weight, and your property assessments never increase.
May you be sensitive to the needs of others and may you create within yourself a balance of your own needs.
May you laugh at yourself and realize if you were supposed to touch your toes while exercising, the Lord would have placed them further up, and may you realize the reason that so many people take up jogging is to hear heavy breathing again.
May what you see in the mirror delight you and what others see in you delight them.
May someone love you enough to accept and forgive your faults and be blind
to your blemishes, and tell the whole world about your virtues.
May you live in a world at peace, with an awareness of the beauty of every sunset, every flower, every child’s smile, and every wonderful astonishing beat of your own heart.
If by laughter I can cause you to wipe a tear from your cheek, that will be my reward.
Above all, may you continue to smile, may your life be filled with laughter, and may you never forget the words found in the Book of Proverbs:
“A gloomy spirit rots the bones; but a merry heart is like good medicine.”
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Jeremy Chiang
Hi Bro WB & all the fellow bros out here.
Just wanna post that Ima a fan of this page.
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Btw, does any of your BY stay in Changi Village?
Hi bro Jeremy,
Ths!
I dun know any gal in Changi Village. Any bro here got BY there?
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
FR for 01 January 2011
and
Club Las Vegas KTV and Niteclub
Woke up around 3pm despite sleeping at 7am in the morning.
Wash my cars and played out my role as a good daddy.
At 7pm, went to pick up my GF from PC and we went for dinner at Lorong 31 Geylang for the famous KL Hokkien Mee…………….
Sent her back to DC at 925pm. Phew just in time and rushed down to LV to meet with my 大大哥 bro Marc5 and bro LKY(aka “Andy Lau”). The whole building of TAM/CI/LV all damn quiet with many rooms available. The whole hall of LV was practically empty……………………………………… …………….
After LV, both 小倩 and I went over to Shanghai Dolly and Social House to meet up with another 2 more singers/musicians from DC 小薇 and 美子…………………Anyway, I do know that group of customers are generally not in my classification of “honorable and/or esteemed” cheongsters. Bro DYBJ and some other valued cheongsters do know this group of folks. Nonetheless, I do not want to express my opinions of others - to each their choices.
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Hi bro LDH,
Ths for ur detailed FR.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
Dominant Self Mastery is the secret to happiness n invincibility in life.
In BY-ing, a patron’s willingness to walk away from his most beloved mistress gives him power over her. She can sense it n it injects an element of doubt in her mind. Use push-pull tactic. Be very nice to her, compliment her n give her hope for the future, yet be ready to push her away if she is not 100% submissive. This tactic is highly attractive to her n will arouse her passion for u at the subconscious level.
I’m into my 2nd month w/ TC. She is 22, 169 n abt 52 kg, very fair n her body assets n proportions r very close to my ideals of perfection. Her long thighs n legs r perfect! Most importantly, she has very pretty pussy which is very tight n wet n is very easily orgasmic. She is violent n very vocal during COS which is highly sextisfying for me. Once I thought she was going to crush my head w/ her thighs when I was eating her. A lao chi pek like me is lucky to own such an exquisite pussy exclusively. She will return to PRC in 2wks. Good timing as my family will be here for the CNY.
How can a patron be 100% sure his mistress is his exclusively? He can’t, not unless he hires a PI. He can only be reasonably sure, like 99%. For example, I’m reasonably sure that TC doesn’t go to work anymore. The other day I checked w/ a popular mummy at TAM complex abt booking TC, n she replied, oh she must hv gone back to China as she has not been sighted for some time. I pretended that I was looking for her n would like to do ST. Definitely no ST, the mummy said. Reassuring yes, though not 100%. Then again there is no certainty in life. Not everyone in SG will be alive by tmr am.
Therefore, we should all live in the eternal present moment.
Have a great day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
ken li
Happy New Year! Hope 2011 will be even better for all bros than 2010 in all aspects!
Also take this opportunity to thank Bro WB and his posse of senior cheongsters for their valuable insights in this thread. Keep it up!
A constant reminder to be a master of oneself is always good! …….
Absolutely true that you cannot be totally sure that the BYee is exclusive (I might hasten to add - even if a PI is on the case). Be careful of relying on MI (Mummy Information). IMHO mummies can be even more devious than MMs.
Cheers!
Hi bro ken li,
Ths so much for ur encouragement, pleasure is all mine.
You hv rightfully pointed out that no patron can be 100% sure that his BAOee is faithful to him. Not just re a BAOee, the same should apply to GF/mistress/er nai/lover/OC, etc. But hiring a good PI is as good as it gets. But why bother? I simply appear suddenly n unexpectedly at our place (I hv the keys).
Any experienced bros hv any better idea?
Mummies as a group can still be very useful. For example I may call a mummy who doesn’t know me to book my mistress. Having several HPs could be most helpful, hehe.
There is much greater uncertainty if a GF continues to work…
There is no absolute certainty in life n I’m happy to live w/ it. In fact, certainty n uniformity would be too boring.
Additionally, no pussy is unique or special. There will always be younger, fresher n prettier ones…
Yes, dominant self mastery is the secret to happiness and all good things in life…
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Wat do you expect from these women, they leech off the WLs for a living
That’s Y i always tell bros to tip the gals direct
It is not an uncommon practice that if you pass the tips to the mommy or the ST fees to the mommy that it’ll be taxed by the mommy!
Hi Mr. Chairman,
These mummies r parasites. They feast on meat on the auction block…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
Yes, all mummies r parasites, but some of them r beneficial parasites, hehehe. At long last I hv found a group of mummies who will attempt to intro the prettiest gals to me, unlike the previous ones.
I had used mummies H n K for over one yr n they didn’t intro one gal I like. Not one! A bro explained that they were afraid I would take the prettiest ones off the market thus depriving them of 摇钱树。Really?
I came back to SG 1 1/2 months ago n on my very 1st outing I got 2 gals to sit w/ me, both brought by the new mummy. And both gals agreed to be BY-ed within a wk, hehehe. There is another gal, also intro by the new group, but I dun even hv time to follow up. In fact, there was a 4th one but she had since returned to PRC.
I often give details of my RS w/ my mistresses to illustrate some points n to present them as problems for further discussions n analysis. Esteemed bros could comment n give me pointers. I shall remain a faithful n diligent student, always eager to learn, to improve n better myself, to achieve my dream of Absolute Dominant Self Mastery.
I hv some new thoughts on COS n sex mastery which may be controversial. Of course a man can use his tongue n fingers only to give a gal endless COS. No big deal really as even a female or eunuch can give her the same pleasure. In my personal experience, using my tongue n fingers is only the prelude to the real thing. Perhaps it’s more psychological than physiological, but some of my mistresses appear to derive more pleasure when I’m fxking them long n hard. They never seem to hv enuff n always want my didi in their pussies for longer!
Unfortunately, I seldom last longer than 20 min. According to some gurus, a man needs to last 60 min or longer to really rock a gal’s bottom.
I went to see a mistress of mine the other day. She was very horny bcos I had not fxked her for 5 days due to her Big Auntie. She still had minimal spotting so I refrained from use my tongue or finger to pleasure her. After she gave me a great BJ, I entered her, changed a few positions. She had several violent orgasms but begged me to continue slamming her…her face contorted, eye rolling up…AAAAHHHH…voice quivering n stammering…不不。。。要。。。停停。。AAAAHHHH…but how to tahan? Her pussy was so tight n she was gripping my hips w/ her hands n thrusting her pelvis while moaning loudly…I did my very best but lasted less than 20 min. She couldn’t hide her slight disappointment. I knew I had failed. I hv a very long way to go before becoming a sex master.
According a Jewish guru, the prerequisite to be a sex master is a man’s ability to fxk a gal for a least 60 min vigorously n continuously, the longer the better.
The 1st step to sex mastery is PC exercises…which I started doing yesterday. It’s NEVER too late to learn to improve, even for a lao chi ko pek, hehehe.
Separately, my RS w/ my no1 gal TC is not exactly smooth. It’s wonderful! We hv had our share of arguments n differences…she is brutally candid which I like. The other day she made some disparaging remarks abt my looks n advanced age (I’m much older than her dad). She quickly added that you’re amazingly well preserved n virile, must be all the expensive herbs u hv been taking…I just listened reflectively n said calmly: 我明白你，我了解你 n excepting for momentary displeasure, I remained totally unfazed, unmoved n unflappable, hehehe, behaving exactly as prescribed by the Ang Moh guru whose writings I posted just days ago. I know I’m inducing emotional dependence (addiction?) in her subconscious mind. She later asked me if I was unhappy or angry, I just laughed it off. She has treated me better ever since. She also told me she likes the weather here n may want to settle here. I told her to marry a young man who has a good job n who loves her. She looked at me n said: 那你怎么办？I replied: 我没事的， 你幸福就好了。She was speechless. Hahaha, this is called reverse psychology. Too bad she is leaving soon, otherwise I’m confident that she will fall for me. She is human n she can’t help it.
Incidentally, I believe TC n I are predestined to be together. She has brought me very good luck from the very day we consummated our deal, hahaha.
Feedback n criticisms from esteemed bros here will be appreciated.
Hv a great day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
fun_n_pleasure
Thank you bro Warbird…..
I’m trying to absorb and internalised as much as I could. Many times, I believed I had made a break through… but when the time comes to action and application, often I still fumble.
For example, I took up the courage to approach a gorgeous gal and we exchanged contacts…………………………..
Recently, we arranged to meet up and she suggested in a joking manner that we go to some “ulu” location. In my heart I was like yahooo…. ON liao. But… that’s also when my weakness/fear kicks in…
Ok, the problem (real or imaginary I don’t know yet), but here it is…
She’s still in university, and I’m in my 30s and reaching 40 soon………. well, long story short but suffice to say I’m finally honest with myself of what I want, and no longer ashame to go for it.
So back to topic, I knew in my head that self-mastery involved accepting myself for who I am, and I should not lie about my age. But I’m still just so insecure abt it and worry that she cannot accept it……………………….
I’m sure some of the bros here have encounter similar situation, and how do you guys managed it?………………..
Any expenerices or thoughts? I hope to get some advise from the senior bros here instead of starting a new thread because I trust the bros here a lot more for the quality of the replies…………
Hi bro fun_n_pleasure,
You’re welcome!
You r young compared w/ me. I’m a lot older than all my gals’ parents. Of course my mistresses r all “bot meat.”
Even for non-WLs n I assume ur uni gal is a non-WL, ur perceived ranking on the Dominant Male Scale is the sole determinant of ur attractiveness to them. Period. “Perceived” is the key word here n ur ranking is manifested by ur attitude, voice tone, eye ctc, facial expressions n body language, etc.
And what is the secret ingredient of ur perceived dominant status n body language which is so attractive?
The caliber n depth of your Dominant Self Mastery and Emotional Control. Everything else is secondary.
Tell her ur DOB. Whatever her conscious response, including outright rejection which is very unlikely, remain unfazed, unmoved n unflappable, hehehe. It’s a great oppty to show her ur manliness n ur awesome self mastery/emotional control. It will set u apart from the pretenders who r nothing but boys w/ aging bodies. Her subconscious response (which she herself may not even be aware of ) will shock u.
You will get her pussy. She can’t help herself…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Bro WB…I am finding it increasingly difficult to be excited by sex…and find it harder and harder to cum as I am just so bored by most women….women who excites me are forbidden fruits whom I can’t touch….any ideas? hehe
Hi bro ME,
A young n virile man like u? It must be psychological. If u can last an hr, it would be a great blessing. I wish I could.
Or perhaps u r fxking the wrong women.
Forbidden fruits? I hope they r not married women or ur relatives. Everyone else is fair game to me, hehehe.
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
sexonair
To Fun N Pleasure,
Different girls have different tastes. Some girls prefer mature guys. Some crazy girls also prefer married guys because they don’t want commitment………
Not necessary every girl you come across, must try to ride on her. A real player will act cool but not acting desperate. Some girls seeing you so desperate will try to play hard to get to make you high and dry.
………I just feel that as we get older, we have to behave like a sniper, look carefully for a target, aim properly and then squeeze one round and then mission completed.
Hi bro sexonair,
Ths for ur excellent post.
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Originally Posted by
fun_n_pleasure
To bro MoralEpitome,
Nobody is implying that uni gals are young and foolish or they’re not horny. …….It is obvious that many of you senior bros here are still banging young chicks, so the question really is how (beside showing lots of cash)?
Bro sexonair, thanks for making some really good points…..
You know, as I typed this… my mind start to clear and it seems like I found the answer to my own question………….
So the answer actually digs deep into who I REALLY AM… goes back to the question of self-mastery. It’s not about Age, but about how one behave and carry himself that projects confidence and value that makes one attractive. And if I still get myself worry over the opinion of a girl (or a few girls), it only means I have much to improve upon myself. Cause if I’m not there yet.. it simply means I’m not there… and I’ll still not get the girls I want even if I’m 10yrs younger.
In other words, its not the age but who you really are that matters. Make sense?
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Originally Posted by
fun_n_pleasure
Let me add on with an example… ………
Being Alpha, we shouldn’t place too much importance on any particular woman. Being Alpha also means we should not compromise our own integrity for the sake of some young pussy. Yes, we may sometimes lose a few chicks who have a certain age preference, but lying about our age is like considering ourselves not good enough for her. And I refuse to believe that.
Hi bro fun_n_pleasure,
Excellent posts. You hv answered ur own questions.
I like to reiterate that nothing else matters if a man has formidable Dominant Self Mastery n Emotional Control.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
……I think u answered yourself on the topic above. We cannot really b sure abt anyone’s loyalty, period - esp if she continues to work. The gal IMHO is constantly on the lookout for certainty - she’s battling the both the economic clock (to earn as fast as she can) and her looks (they age much faster than us batang). “Trust, but verify”…………Tapping the mummy intelligence network works too.
As for happiness despite any possible betrayal, I think “self mastery” remains the valid technique to use…………….
After honging around with PRC MM for some time and going through a number of MM one learns pretty soon that better prospects are always around and coming from the mainland……………I am assuming of course that we’re in this for the sexcapades and not for a life long partner.
I think the same kind of devil may care attitude gives the baoee a lot to worry - and that is a power tool over her too. She needs the $$$, the pressure of work is less, keeping her worried that easy money is gonna dry up real fast is a major deterrent against betrayal……..
Hi bro Dragonkeep,
Well said.
I’m keenly aware that there r many, many SYTs of my type in PRC, whereas there r very few here in SG.
The value of a SYT drops by at least 70% once she is back in China. So many STYs want to spend 3-4 nights w/ me in HK n China! The list includes my 1st BAO-ee XW, hehe. She is already 23 n is of little value to me at this time.
My new year resolution: Move to PRC within 12 months n spend at least half my time there every yr.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Actually, I agree that for some reason, the gal needs to get the ol dickie in there to feel complete. All my baoees/ FBs etc have commented on that whenever our pillow talk moves to sex. Was talking to my Singapore gal FB last year and she said that the quality of her cums in her pussy depended on whether it was a cock or a finger stimulating her to orgasam.
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Now that the clock has moved me into the next decade, I somehow developed some dickhead immunity so can go pretty long without shooting………………..dicked her without coming for an hr. We headed out for dinner a movie and was back tearing her clothes off for a 2 h session before shooting and sleeping.
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The China baoee is a real long term investment - checked out clean and so we do it w/o CD and in every style possible………..
………………….There was some discussion some threads back about whether sex with MILF/ SYT was better - the drawback with SYTs (at least those that I had) has been their frigidity and lower inclination to experiment. Trouble is I think a lot of sex is mental: so if the gal is acting real sexy, lasting is not gonna be an issue. If only finding sex kitten SYTs weren’t so hard for me in SG …
Hi bro Dragonkeep,
Ths for sharing ur experiences n insights.
Dicked her for over an hr? You’re very fit! It would be too tiring for me unless the gal is on top. Even a young healthy 19 yo gal like KK would be completely exhausted after being on top for abt 30 min.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
grouchycabi
Have been quited interested by the reference to perceived male dominant scale etc here by Sifu Warbird and decided to google for more info. Came across two ebooks by a Mike Pilinski called “Without Embarrassment” and “She is yours for the taking”.
Anybody has any comments on the usefulness of the books? Thanks.
Hi bro grouchycabi,
I’m a lifelong student, not a sifu.
Yes, I read the old edition of “Without Embarrassment” which is good for men who r naturally timid n shy when interacting w/ pretty women. I hv the new edition n the new ebook “She is yours for the taking” but hv not read them yet.
Mike Pilinski is certainly above average among the many, many Ang Moh gurus. I also hv his audio program “Kickass Confidence in 18 Days” but I hv been too busy to listen n practice.
You could purchase them online.
IMHO, all seduction n sex programs will work if u hv confidence n self mastery. Nothing will work if u dun.
Hv a great day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
TigerB
Bro,
Well said!
However a word of caution.
They are on home ground.
Never let your guard down.
Bonk Bonk !!
Hi bro,
Ths for ur word of caution.
Personal safety is my main concern in PRC.
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Originally Posted by
fun_n_pleasure
Dear
bro Warbird
, thank you for your input. They’re always hitting the nail on the head. I wish I now have that level of self-mastery you talked about, so far, I only have a slight gleams of what it’s like. Nevertheless its a good goal to work myself towards.
Dear bro fun_n_pleasure,
I’m a serious student of self mastery.
My obsession n passion is to achieve absolute self mastery, hehehe. it’s power is truly beyond imagination…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Another auspicious day!
I hv read many ebooks on seduction, RS n sexual techniques written mostly by Ang Moh gurus. I only hv had little practical experience but I can confirm that their principles r mostly correct.
What I write below is controversial n may be offensive to some bros. It’s just my 2 cents…
A former mistress KX has been in SG for over a month n I hv refused to BY her. I was obsessed w/ her when I 1st met her, didn’t sleep well bcos I wanted to bonk her very badly…managed to keep her for a month before I left for Gotham City.
Fast forward to the presence. She is no longer my type as she has lost abt 3kg. The other negative is that it’s difficult to make her come. Only bonked her once n booked her once to KTV in the past month. Ironically she is now obsessed w/ me. She said she missed our happy time together, even cried a few times. She asked if I hv a new GF, etc. The other day she told me I could pay what I used to give her by 30% less n she would stop working completely, just want to be w/ me. Even for 1 wk is OK.
Her behaviour is very common n predictable. All females including WLs want something they can’t get. They all need validation to soothe their fragile ego, hehehe.
Earlier KX couldn’t get the visa to return to SG n had to go to Golden Sands in Jakarta. Then when she got a singer pass (non-singing type) to come here, I refused to foot the bill. She was very angry n called me names. 你答应的事情，没有做到，真是缺德啊. 你要知道你只是在新加坡养我，回国了，你生活费都不给我，你也没有把我当是你老婆，是只身体需 要的一个人. She left her luggage here in a rented rm n asked me to keep it for her which I initially refused. 你是不是人啊，说好帮我去拿行李又不是. 我告诉你，我之前和你说过，要你帮我去拿行李的，多出来的钱，我不会理你的，没见过你那么说话不算数的人， 又不是不还你钱，难怪没有女人和你一起.(I told her abt my former mistress KK falling in love w/ a fellow student.)
My reaction? I was unfazed, unmoved n unflappable, hehehe. Now she wont leave me alone!
When a gal gets upset n angry w/ u for whatever reason, what do most men do, if she is someone they like?
The nice guys will try to apologize, suck up to her n pacify her. The jerks or bad boys will get angry n may become verbally n even physically abusive. Others will get upset n fight back or at least try to explain…
They r all immature little boys w/ a mature, even aging bodies.
A real MAN must remain unmoved, unfazed n unflappable. Listen actively n reflectively n say I see or I hear u, I understand u…if u r clearly wrong, admit it once n move on as if nothing has happened. If she is clearly wrong, just tell her calmly n leave.
Your reaction will make u stand out among all the “little boys.” It’s very, very attractive to her n she can’t help it. Every gal is always looking for a reliable n trustworthy provider n protector, at her subconscious mind. If a man is emotionally unstable n can’t even master himself, he can NEVER be a reliable provider. What protector? He is just a “little boy” who needs protection himself!!
My favourite mistress TC was very upset w/me the other day bcos…I was wrong, hehehe…U know my reaction…now she knows I’m radically different from ALL the men she has ever met.
Not long ago I asked TC why she wanted an ah pek like me to take care of her. Right timing she said. When She first came, quite a few men wanted to BY her. There was a man in his 30s who made a generous offer. But at that time she cherished her freedom n besides she could make the same money working w/o going out. She started losing some hair a few months ago n attributed it to late nights n liquor consumption. She was looking for a way to quit n I showed up at the RIGHT TIME. The other reason she accepted my offer was that I appeared trustworthy…
She NEVER thought she would ever become my mistress at first. I met her on the 2nd day I arrived here on a Fri. I tipped her only $150 for HH n she thought I was a miser. The following Mon I met a grp of agents at PC who were trying to get a student visa for my other mistress. They invited me to go to DC HH. I didn’t find any gals of my type there n called TC at 7PM when she just arrived at LV. She said she wont come, it was too far, etc. No, No. I offered to pay her $200 n ordered her to get her butt to DC n she came, haha.
Good day!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
TigerB
Hi Bro,
If you are going to China, may I suggest you hire a trustworthy driver cum bodyguard……………….
Good advice, bro. I’m going to HK/SZ soon n will be accompanied by a Hongkie fren n his driver.
If I settle in Xiamen, my ancestral hometown, not sure if getting a chauffeur cum bodyguard is a good idea as I may draw unwanted attention. The best is to try to blend in n become invisible…difficult to do if I keep 2-3 SYTs under one roof.
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Then cities like Shanghai and Beijing will be better for you. Guangzhou, Shenzhen, etc can be very “messy”.
Ths for ur info.
SZ at this time of the yr is dangerous even for my Hongkie fren who is well connected. He told me there r 4 million plus migrant workers in the city n many will do almost anything just to get some money to go home for the CNY.
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Originally Posted by
toobig2handle
In singapore you can pick those gals at any disco n not to be worry. but if you are in overseas, better think twice as the gals would be dangerous especially in china….
Ths for ur advice.
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Originally Posted by
fun_n_pleasure
Dear bro Warbird,
Thank you for taking the effort to share with us your real life examples. Many times we know the principles what we should do intellectually, but emotionally we don’t know what to do and how to do…..
It is my privilege to have this chance to learn from you. Thank you sincerely.
An update to the development with the uni girl…
I’m really quite fond of this girl and was very hesitate initially, but I told her my age and she was a little surprised………..
…….. She gave me a hug and kissed me back on the cheek….
Dear bro fun_n_pleasure,
I dun deserve ur effusive praise. I’m merely quoting a few paragraphs from some Ang Moh gurus n narrating some of my very limited BY-ing experiences.
Knowing n doing r totally different…
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Bro F&P………………….
Again, it’s all based on my 2 cents worth and if at anytime anything seems offensive to you, i apologise and want to clarify that there was no intention to be offensive at any point.
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Yes, fondness is the very beginning for the WANT to pursuit but have you quantified how fond she is of you in the 1st place?
The very basis of this thread is to ascertain that their wants for you is greater than your want for her.
Very good indicator.
Preference of matured men can only be broken down to the several factors below:………………………
Every item above tells a story!………………………..
The younger generation of today is in hot pursuit of brands.
Many will not hesitate to have a sugar daddy to help them achieve their WANTS!
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女人都是一样的， 只是张得不一样!
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My dear Mr. Chairman,
I’m in awe of ur keen insights n analytical prowess in man-woman RS…
You’re a Dr. House of pussies just like the famed doctor in the popular TV serials in Gotham country, hehehe.
Thank you!
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Originally Posted by
fun_n_pleasure
Dear bro DO_YOU_BJ,
No offense taken at all.. I don’t see why it should be taken that way. I appreciate that you’re saying I should be careful not to be KC by this girl, if I read you correctly………………………………….. ………..
I’m clear in my head that I’m not looking for any long-term relationship in this. What I would like to achieve is a certain level of self-mastery, in this game and more so in life. Spending lots of money on the girl to get sex is not what I had in mind. If she walks away, so be it………………….
I hope bros here will bear with me. I always appreciate your feedback as long as it’s well-intended, and not necessary what I want to hear. I’m serious about learning, not here to get validation.
Hence no offend at all, keep them coming.
The key here is self mastery.
Knowing what type of gal she is would be helpful. Pls take no offense as I know many pretty local students r FLs n/or hv sugar daddies. I know of a law student who is a FL…
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Originally Posted by
fun_n_pleasure
Bro DO_YOU_BJ,
You’re too kind with your words already. And thank you once again for your generous sharing.
I’m not too sure which of the 3 type of women this girl belongs to yet. But I’m almost certain she’s not those “innocent” type. She is intelligent and beautiful…………………….
But whether or not she’s a player, my aim is still to enjoy each other company and have fun together… while trying not to be KC by her…..I just don’t like to a hurt another person’s feeling unnecessarily (sad for a few days is fine). So just fuck and forget is not really my style and I preferred to leave fond memories behind………………
You hv the right mindset, bro.
Ironically, the fact that u hv no intention to KC her may actually make her fall for u. She cant help herself, hehehe.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Just remember, if you dun wanna hurt someone, though noble, have you ever tot the same went thru the other person’s mind at all????
You’re in good hands here, I’ll leave you to the guidance of our very own Guru, Master WarBird.
Do keep updating and no censorship please hahaha
Mr. Chairman,
Bro fun_n_pleasure is quite an experienced cheongster.
I’ll be happy to share my musings w/ him, but calling it guidance would be quite far-fetched.
We wish him the best n would like to learn of his progress.
I’ll also appreciate ur further comments n opinions on this or any other case studies.
Cheers!
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Good day!
A gal of my type may not remain so for long. A few wks or few months could make a big difference. If she loses her youthful looks or loses or gains weight…or her skin is darker, etc.
Therefore, one man’s meat today is often his poison tomorrow.
I wonder if there r many bros who share the same problem as I.
I hope TC will not be my poison when I see her again.
I’m completing my 2nd month w/ TC. I’m still very fond of her. She is certainly one of the best fxks I ever had. I hv overpaid her a bit n I hv bought expensive gifts, something I hv never done before. She is also my lucky charm…
She has given me many constructive criticisms. You’re over cautious, she says. Yes, for one thing I hv been too cautious n conservative in my investments n, as a result, hv made a lot less profit.
She just recovered from a bout of flu w/ bad coughing. I hv continued to spend lots of time w/ her n I hv not been infected thus far.
Brought her to DC HH yesterday n met a dear fren, an old towkay J. Mr. J was surrounded by 2 young gals as usual. Luckily, TC is not his type as he prefers short n petite gals. Despite that he commented that I had good taste n that TC was “classy.” I told him that I was still “chasing” her, hehe.
Mr. J is much older than I. He is quite successful n well-heeled bcos of his self mastery. He is unflappable n always smiling. I praised him for his “round n smooth/slick” personality, for his diplomatic approach to life, haha. He has worked hard to bring a project to fruition n I thanked him for his effort. I wish I could be more “round n smooth/slick” like him. Seriously, he is my role model!
Cheers!
Bro WB
QUOTE=DO_YOU_BJ;5588061]My dear Guru WB, you flatter me….me shy shy
Just came in to do my part.
You’ve been busy hehehehehe
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My Dear Mr. Chairman,
Please continue to share ur vast battle-proven experiences n wisdom w/ all of us.
Yes, I hv been very busy, but nowhere as busy as you, hehehe.
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Originally Posted by
TigerB
Dear master WB,
The girl girl in your avatar must be TC ?
Nice and chio woh.
Bonk Bonk
Bro TigerB,
No, the gal in my avatar is BB.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Thx bro - but getting down to earth n to dispel any myth - the bonkathons with my mainland baoee………..
Anyway, following Sifu WB’s comments in this thread, the supply of SYT targets is quite tight here I gather………….
Hi bro Dragonkeep,
I like bonkathons but I find it difficult to dick a gal for more than 30 min. It’s very tiring…n my didi may become insensitive n refuse to cum.
Supply of chio SYTs is down, in large part due to our Gahmen’s new stricter visa policies. Many r still eager to come here.
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Good afternoon to all samsters!
After 2 months of fxking TC, I still find her highly attractive n sexy w/o makeup, in her bedroom…Rashomon effect? Gong Tao? Luckily she is leaving soon.
I like to share a recent article by another Ang Moh guru:
Before and After Photos of Victoria’s Secret Models
You see a beautiful woman, and you instantly freeze up. You feel like you *should* be doing something, but instead you just stand there with your dick in your hand.
One thing to keep in mind, is that a pretty face is usually a PAINTED face.
The face you see on the pretty girl is typically not the ACTUAL face you get in the morning.
And the girl you perceive as being a “9” or a “10” is simply a good trickster and actually more like a “7” in actuality.
Miranda Kerr
As an example, I present teen sensation and Victoria Secret’s model Miranda Kerr.
Here’s a glamour photo of Miranda with professional makeup and lighting.
In my opinion, her face at least is a solid 9 or 10. Pretty enough to sell women a dream, that they too can be sexually desirable.
Here’s a picture of Miranda with professional makeup, but under more normal lighting. Still very hot. If you saw her walking down the street, you’d think to yourself, “Wow, wicked cute!”
Now let’s take Miranda under normal lighting and WITHOUT makeup. As you can see, she’s still cute, if only because of her sheer youth. BUT she pretty much looks like any other college chick you’d find on any college campus.
Quite often, it’s almost purely the MAKEUP, her painted face, that is what makes a woman “pop” and look “hot”.
This isn’t come kind of new phenomenon. Take a look here at before makeup and after makeup of Marilyn Monroe. Professional makeup literally makes her look twenty years younger.
Don’t Be Fooled!!
Women can easily fool the male brain into thinking she has more reproductive value than she actually does – making her look much younger and healthier than she really is.
The reality is, most women eat poor diets that makes their skin unhealthy and look bad, and they lead sedentary lives that leaves them lanky with bad postures or get fat.
Women use the fast magic bullets of their clothes and makeup that mask that and fool naïve men.
That’s why really pretty girls are often VERY FRIENDLY to your advances. The WOMAN knows how she REALLY looks back to home without all the dress-up, and she’s actually very INSECURE about her looks.
You can exploit this “glitch in the Matrix” to your advantage…
And that’s why when some guy comes up and opens her directly with a compliment in a relaxed style with a smile, she’s typically quite attracted. The beautiful woman is typically looking for approval of herself from men, and they’re easily attracted to direct men who go for what they want.
So don’t let that pretty face fool you. Treat women the same, and you’ll break through the painted exterior to the real woman underneath.
Mr. Guru
Good morning!
In investing n BY-ing, luck n randomness appear to play a major role…n sometimes certain events r predestined.
In late April 2010, I was a bit disheartened to find out that, while I was in Gotham City, my beloved mistress KK had fallen in love w/ a young fellow PRC student. However, 2 days later, I was pleasantly surprised to see my investment in a high tech start up A taking off like a rocket, hahaha.
A few months later my investment in another start up B, which I had high hopes for making a killing, got decimated. It nearly wiped out half my net profit in company A. In life, whether it’s BY-ing or investing, no one can win every time, hahaha.
I returned to SG abt 2 months ago, met a fair SYT at TAM complex HH the next day. I found her to be very attractive n sexy, but aloof n cold. I was drooling over her youthful n sexy body. Called her 3 days later to invite her to DC HH but she didn’t even know who I was! I told her X 大哥, she said, oh sorry, DC too far, not coming, n asked me to book someone else!?@#$!! Nevertheless she came reluctantly after I had promised to give her higher fee n drive her back to TAM complex for SH.
Last wk I asked her why she was so cold initially, didn’t even remember me when I first called. She said, 你那时那么小气 ，早场才给150元，我根本不想坐你的台，所以没留你手机号码.
Despite her very poor first impression of me,
due to a strange twist of fate which I shall not disclose
，she agreed to be my full time mistress only 4 days after our 1st meeting, hehehe. The most difficult part was to find a nice n convenient place for us to stay, which took several days. The day I consummated my BY of her was a most fortuitous day. She was such a wonderful fxk, in addition to being very close to my perfect type of gal.
More importantly n to my great delight, my fortune took a turn for the better the very next day as several of my key investments started surging, hahaha. BTW, the gal is TC. She must be my good luck charm n my muse (of course I’ll never tell her that). In return I hv been very generous w/ her, buying her several gifts…
She is going back to PRC very soon. She wants to return in late April when I’ll be here again. I wonder if my lucky streak will continue in the interim.
At this time I like to share another email sent by my favourite Ang Moh guru:
HOW TO GIVE HER COMPLIMENTS WITHOUT LOOKING NEEDY OR DESPERATE
OK, let’s say that you’ve either just met a woman or are meeting
with her 1-on-1 for the first time (aka “going on a date with her”).
Either way, for the purpose at hand let’s assume that she has
already impressed your socks off.
In fact, you’re thinking to yourself that if you ever have the good
fortune to see this woman naked you will have pretty much hit the
jackpot…literally and figuratively.
So NOW WHAT?
More specifically, how do you conduct yourself? What should you
say to her?
You know that if you talk about weather and politics you’ll come
off as “neuter” and thereby FAIL at creating attraction.
So you’ve GOT to show her in some way that you’re interested in
being MORE than “just a friend”.
The problem is that you may have been told somewhere along the line
any (or all) of the following:
vice-versa.
And, of course, perhaps the most infamous strategy (or is that
“stragedy”?) of all…
Now listen. I fully understand the thought process behind each of
those three tactics.
Sadly, most guys who are “newbies” when it comes to interacting
with women tend to come off like desperate, starving puppies when
confronted with a real, live opportunity to attract a hottie.
Such guys might start gushing about how beautiful the woman is to
them, sort of like Enos always did to “Miss Daisy” in The Dukes Of
Hazzard.
Or what’s arguably worse, they start bragging about anything and
everything possible in a feeble attempt to “impress” her.
So sure…each of the three strategies above are intended to put an
end to these basic destructive tendencies.
But at best, they’re “stop gap” measures.
Since there’s a lot of “grey area” in how best to create
attraction, there are potentially troublesome issues with each.
If and when any or all of them become habit, you’ll soon find that
the proverbial pendulum has swung the opposite way…and that’s not
good.
Regarding #1 for example, what if she ISN’T exactly so “full of
herself” and in fact doesn’t have the world’s most rock-solid
self-esteem?
She could take what you say seriously, no matter how playful you
are about saying it…and that would be counter-productive.
And yikers…MOST women aren’t exactly paragons of self-esteem, no
matter how beautiful or generally sharp they are.
As for the second one, remember a woman is a human being just like
you. (Really…I promise.)
Knowing that, how do YOU usually read someone who acts utterly
disinterested in you? Thought so.
And the third one? Ask yourself if that’s what you REALLY want out
of the interaction.
Are you the kind of man who honesty prefers to NEVER say something
positive to a woman that might actually LIFT her less-than-perfect
(read: normal and human) self-esteem?
Again, as a human being how excited would YOU be to hang out with a
woman who NEVER, EVER acknowledged you looked good, were talented,
or basically ever did anything right?
You and I both know that we as guys tend to show TONS of disdain
for women who are like that.
And it’s equally safe to say that no woman is ever going to confuse
a guy who offers ZERO approval of her for anyone who has her best
interests at heart. You really can’t instill a sense of safety
and security in her that way, can you?
So simply put, as you get better with women–as I trust you
will–you’re going to want more effective ways to proceed.
Slapping a Band-Aid on the problem won’t cut it.
Now, as you’ve observed guys who appear to be doing well with
women, I’m sure you’ve noticed something that might strike you as
somewhat odd.
They actually give women compliments. There’s no denying it.
But here’s the amazing part. Contrary to what all the “newbie”
guides you’ve read suggest, they actually GET SOMEWHERE with women
by doing so.
In fact, some guys can give women all sorts of complimentary
indicators of “approval” and still charm her to no end.
But wait, isn’t that sort of “nice” stuff supposed to fail
miserably?
Not so fast.
“Mr. Nice Guy’s” problem is that he’s on his best behavior because
he’s either TRYING to “impress” her or he’s worried about offending
her and LOSING her.
Meanwhile, those guys you’ve seen out there who know what they’re
doing are speaking to a woman what they TRULY think about her for
COMPLETELY different reasons.
Usually, one such reason is that they are CONFIDENT that any woman
in her right mind should find them inherently attractive.
Therefore, there’s no need to “impress” a woman. Compliments and
other clear demonstrations of interest are honest and sort of
matter-of-fact, actually.
But there’s another reason why giving women compliments works FOR
these guys instead of AGAINST them.
Usually, guys who are effective with women give approval to them
when they’ve expressly EARNED it.
In other words, there’s no “halo effect” when they interact with
ANY woman. There’s no “pre-approval” of her as some sort of
goddess or something.
Guys who are good at this stuff wait until they hear about how she
donates her time to the homeless before telling her they’re “proud
of her”.
Similarly, they wait until she has done her hair up in a special
way just to go out on a date with him…and THEN they tell her how
beautiful her hair looks.
Can you detect the very clear difference between what’s going on
there and the “Staving Chihuahua Syndrome”?
To spell it out, the difference between NEEDY, DESPERATE
compliments (or any needy, desperate attention, really) and the
kind of attention women LIKE is very clear-cut.
Needy, desperate guys give women approval based on FEAR OF LOSS.
What they are actually seeking is HER APPROVAL of them. They are
GIVING in order to GET.
This comes off as extraordinarily weak…not exactly becoming of a
masculine man who is both a provider and a protector.
Meanwhile, where there is NO fear of loss, compliments come off as
more heartfelt and genuine.
Because a man who is NOT desperate or needy is a chooser instead of
a chaser, the woman tends to actually feel PRIVILEGED to hear a
compliment from him. It means something to her.
Once again, let’s talk in “human” terms rather than “man vs.
woman”.
What kind of approval means more to you? The kind that’s thrown at
you out of desperation (which may even come off as manipulation, if
you think about it), or the kind that is genuinely EARNED from
someone who means it?
Thought so.
If a woman is beautiful and talented, she wants to hear it from
you…but only after she knows you have a truly informed frame of
reference.
And by the way, since women follow your lead, it’s especially
crucial not to turn the “newbie” strategy of “never giving a woman
compliments” into a lifetime habit.
Can you see why? That would be one miserable life together indeed.
Be Good,
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Originally Posted by
Ichigo_Kurosaki
Foreword: With due respect to this thread, Bro warbird and all Esteem Bros. Just 1 post here.
Hey Taxi Man,
You are in moderation cos you zapped Bros with your zapped remarks below………………
You are really “Without embarrassment” and go read up ebooks on manners, driving ethics and be kind to pets.
Bro IK, I really feel sorry for those who use profanity.
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Originally Posted by
TigerB
Bro 黒崎 一護,
Yah Lo. those who zap me also need too.
Bonk Bonk
Hi bro TigerB,
I dun understand why u got zapped so badly. I hv seen some of ur pics n read some of ur posts re CP. You must hv offended a lot of bros…
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Tx Bro WB for the sharing about the length of bonking - I too had that problem. Bloody didi gets too desensitised after banging too long. Shared above a solution: to find your own special resistance cracking position. Seems to hv worked - last blasted my SG baoee w/ that technique on command, at a wonderful boutique hotel on Fri after holding fire for quite a bit.
“Supplyside” SYT economics: the MMSs have been giving me the year end CNY goin home scenario as their explanation for the low supply. Managed to find 4 Rabbits and nothing else these last 2 weeks………….Yet, still no real young SYTs!!
Hi bro Dragonkeep,
Ths so much for ur tip. I hv to find my personal “resistance cracking position.”
There r really very few 18-19 yo SYTs who r my type in SG.
Happy bonking!
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Originally Posted by
incestboy
learn alot from this thread. keep going.
Hi bro,
Ths for ur encouragement. Pls share ur sexploits w/ us here.
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Good morning!
Everything in this Universe is changing constantly n human life is unpredictable n ephemeral. What to do if something negative happens to me? I’ll remain unfazed, unmoved n unflappable. I’ll accept it, live in the present moment and be happy, no matter what…hahaha.
My beloved mistress TC flew back to Fujian 4 days ago. I already miss her exquisite pussy, hehe. But something strange n inexplicable happened the day she left Changi. My most important investment took a significant plunge that very afternoon! The first time since I BY-ed her 2 months ago. This was one of my several key holdings which started rising the day after I consummated my BY. This key holding was continually making higher highs n lower lows until the day of her departure.
It continued to decline significantly yesterday. It’s down a little yet again this morning…If it continues its steep descent, should I move to Fujian to be w/ TC?
Cheers!
Bro WB