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Married women
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Relatives
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Current lovers/GFs of relatives n frens
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Model someone who’s already producing your results.
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Take action - You must do it, even if you don’t know, act like
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Originally Posted by
ichi ro
These gals are here to earn a living.. as we all know.
$$ can do wonders…
Ths for ur post.
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Originally Posted by
besafe
On the question of death… hope you dun mind I relate a true story.
One of my distant uncle went and had a good time in China quite some years back. He was found dead in the hotel room with massive heart attack. According to the police investigation, he suffered a stroke whilst bonking his girl…..
Of course I am sure Bro WB has his health conditions under control.
Hi bro besafe,
I hv a special personal interest in this field. Ang MO doctors call it sudden death, mostly cardiac n/or vascular in origin. There r many causes n contributory factors.
It’s 马上风 aka “交欢中猝死” aka “腹上死” aka “大泄身” in Chinese, hehehe.
It can happen to both men n women of ALL ages, but most commonly in middle age n older men who r overweight who smoke, hv high BP n/or diabetes…u get the picture.
I’m a lao chi ko pek n certainly not immune to sudden death. No one is. But my BP is optimal, my weight is the same as when I was 21. I dun take any prescription medications except for judicious use of the big C.
Seriously, it’s a painless n joyous way to pass on. I dun mind at all if it happens to me when I’m 85 n the gal is a very pretty 18 yo.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
smartke
yes bro! shd b for excellence, NOT perfection. I DID the opp way!
well, i always like to say… life is short, work smart, play hard!
tis is my BY learning ground. when the days come, 我所学到的这些知识就可以派上用场！
Hi bro smartke,
Nothing in this world is perfect.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
You must be a handsome old man like Bro WB…no wonder you guys keep getting the girls!!!
Yes, speaking of which, a colleague of mine just died suddenly from an heart attack, he was 45, and in the pink of health, suddenly collapse…so treasure our lives!
Hi bro ME,
Bro besafe must be a handsome man, I’m most happy to be a lao chi ko pek.
I hv seen many much younger men n a few younger women who died suddenly…
In Jan 2003, I invested in TASR, the maker of wireless stun gun, n researched many cases of sudden death in young men who were TASERED. There were many lawsuits which had a negative impact on the stock price. These deaths had nothing to do w/ the stun gun. Many who died were on elicit or prescription drugs. Extreme physical exertion, emotional stress n electrolyte imbalance were often present as well.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
besafe
I thot U are on sabbathical?
Still cheonging KTV?
Handsome
old
man indeed !!! Hahaha.
I am already 199 years old - 採阴朴阳
I’m a young 108, hehe.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
You must be Lestat the vampire…and sucked many necks and nipples….
I am back…searching for the right girl….trying to KC a ZheJiang Girl but she appears to be quite decent and not easy to upz…she tells me that she is stupid but I think that she’s quite intelligent….I ask her what she thinks of the idea of 放养 and she laughed…she works at TAM at night
Bro ME，
By 放养 do mean u hv a RS w/ her but allow her to work freely. Could she hv sex w/ other men?
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Hey Romeo, just wondering if you tabled the $um right out … I assume she’d know this is not exploratory and respond with more than a laugh, based on Bro WB’s art of Bao … on the other hand, the prudish types seem logically “safer” healthwise … my current mainland baoee took a bit of chasing before she did her full monty … but now it’s full Jap-AV type action with no health concerns. Did take some patience to get to this stage, but hey it’s like long term investing I guess …
Ths for sharing ur experience.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Yeah….value investing(buffet) vs follow the trend(soros)….
well she’s not bad and quite clean…the only thing is that she got abit of bad breath…
We should follow Buffett most of the time, but indulge in trend trading sometimes.
I would not BY a gal who has bad breath.
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Originally Posted by
hangflower
wow wow weet weet… more cronies here… all hidden clones and crouching cronies… knn… all the farkers suporting each other for the same farking agenda… careful ah… my bro Wuji got farking 100K to BY your gals, mistresses and what farks you have there in your beds… careful hor… rich rich so what…
Are u all right?
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Sure….pls give up an update…tomorrow I need to fug…today over stayed and hang some shit flowers on a singer…but she is willing to be my gf if i support her 6k a month…not a value proposition as I find singers cannot be trusted…keep telling me no one support her but still got one guy hang her but I doubled his flowers and left…
All gals who work at the nite scene can’t be trusted. They r guilty until proven otherwise.
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Well well, a fellow cheongster, heavy on KTVs in the ol mainland, complains frequently that it’s the smoking plus poor oral hygiene ……
How a gal takes care of her health n hygiene speak volume abt her…
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Bro ME, singers are all very expensive to chase. My current mainland FZ “baoee” was an ex singer……..
Yes, singers r expensive to BY n they still hv to work. I’m interested in BY-ing singers but need to take them off work completely which could be expensive. I hv not met one who is worth that kind of money.
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Originally Posted by
Alf1977
Seriously these 3 tactics won’t work!
Disagree with Women
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Flirting with other women
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Get Sexual Early On
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But since this topic is about KTV gals, the above may work since they are pretty easy going and open towards male-beings.. But i can say the above do not work for non KTV gals, or gals who sell their bodies for a living.
Hi bro,
I know these tactics r counter-intuitive n may appear illogical. But gals respond to emotions not logic.
In the past, I thought if only I was very nice to pretty SYTs, I could taste their pussies. Wrong, dead wrong. These tactics actually work for both non-WLs n WLs alike. You need to modify somewhat for non-WLs though. Be more subtle n indirect.
You disagree only when u believe u r right or when u dun want to do things she has requested. You also disagree when u believe she is wrong. Some men r so afraid of losing a beautiful woman that they agree w/ everything she says or give her everything she wants. It means they r insecure n feel that they dun deserve such a beautiful woman. This behaviour is most unattractive to the gal…
Flirting w/ other women n getting sexual early on merely show that a man is confident, masculine n has many options. These qualities r highly attractive to the most desirable women. Of course these must be done in good taste n in moderation…be smooth n cultured, not vulgar.
Please read bro fallen.angel’s excellent post.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Actually, the tactics work. KTV gals or otherwise. Here’s why:
Women are very very smart creatures………..
Why not try doing things differently? Stand out…………….
Disagree with her………………..
Flirting with other women…………………
Get sexual early on……………… As above – differentiate yourself from the competition. That is the key, the gist of it.
Hi bro fallen.angel,
Ths for ur excellent post!!
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Was at Paragon this morning around 9.30 am.
Saw a very beautiful girl queueing to buy soya drink.
So I also go queue behind her lah…
Strike up conversation and found out that she is PRC ( I already knew by her looks).
heheheh………
Good for U!
Pls keep us posted on this interesting pickup. I hope u got her name n HP, ya.
A full FR pls.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Originally Posted by warbird View Post
Can work and earn money from other men but no sex with them of course…if not why not just ST rite?
Yup cancelled her as a consideration
Yes, the hanging flower scene is full of dirty tricks as the other esteem bros can attested to, forget it just you got time and money
Yes, but the tactics must always be used sparingly and tweak to the situation
Hi bro ME,
Ths for ur replies n comments.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
prcsytlover
说话积点口德。。
it may be ur wife/gf his screwing next..
Hi bro prcsytlover,
There r only 3 types of women I would never touch:
Everyone else is fair game.
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Good morning to all samsters!
More musings on picking up gals n BY-ing.
I was at LV w/ 2 young bros the other day. One of them is a professional gambler. I said to them, lets go to the big hall n see all the gals. They said quite paiseh lah. So I took them to look at all the gals, hehe.
Never be paiseh when interacting w/ chio gals bcos it’s most unattractive to them.
In life, when u gain something, u also lose something n when u lose something, u also gain something. It’s Nature way of keeping balance. Gain always equals to loss, eventually…hahaha.
So if u lose a gal who is very special, perhaps the one n only in this world to u, dun despair, u will soon find another one who is even better, hahaha. Of course u need to learn from ur mistakes n rectify them. Keep learning, improving n practicing. Most importantly, u must greatly improve ur emotional control/self mastery. You will soon get a much better gal. I guarantee it!
In the past, I had been perturbed when I lost certain gals whom I liked very much. I had a revelation which was life changing a few months ago. And I’m enjoying better ones now, hehe. Yes, prettier n more responsive pussies. If I didn’t lose the old I wont hv gained the new, ya.
“塞翁失马，焉知非福”。
Cheers!
Bro WB
So many thought-provoking posts!
The 3-way exchange among bros prcsytlover, ME n besafe is lively n most interesting…
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Originally Posted by
prcsytlover
Hi Warbird,
I’m not directing my words at u. It’s at ME.
I find his words looking for trouble, what screwing other’s wife.. it’s a in-moral statement to me…………………………….
Hi prcsytlover,
I knew that. BTW, I also love PRC SYTs n I will never ever KNOWINGLY fxk a married woman.
However, I’m very open-minded n I’ll not disparage those who hv affairs w/ married women. It’s none of my business.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
fetishboy
I always remind myself that every single KTV girl, whether PRC or anywhere, is here for one thing and one thing only: our money. Make no mistake about it. As long as you can keep the dough flowing of cos they will let you enjoy their pretty faces and young bodies. Once the money stops, then game over bye bye baby. End of the day, it’s still a transaction. Sex for money. Plain n simple
You’re absolutely right. However, this applies to most non-WLs as well.
I hv further to say on this subject.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Bros bros, lets chill about this ok
Yes, MoralE may have craked an insensitive joke & bro PRClover may have been offended by it, peace peace, XMAS season, make more love, bao more PRC pussies and give our spermies to them as their XMAS presents, nothing else matters
Hello Mr. Chairman,
I couldn’t agree w/ u more.
We should make frens, not enemies; make love, not war. And of course I need to search for n BY more SYT pussies, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Bro.. you know me.
I am not a prolific writer and man of few words.
Let’s see what can/will happen.
Ok, bro. A brief FR would suffice.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Aiyo why scrabble over such things….pussies are meant to be screwed…whether it is local or foreign…humans are by nature horny, it’s a Darwinian natural instinct…as long as we know to wipe out backsides and go home, good enough
Yes, bro. Pussies want to be screwed.
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Dear Bros, friends, fellow cheongsters (and potential enemies-alike);
Its X’mas season, why is suddenly the forum is full of flamers and angry words exchanges?
Guys fight for glory and battle for honour, certianly not for the above yar? Some activities which I personally saw recently here are really OTT. Chill it brudders and have a fun time cheonging.
Hi bro LDH,
Thank u fo r ur post!
Yes, lets hv peace n fun in this joyous season.
No point getting angry n losing self control, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Good afternoon!!
Bro fetishboy brings up the subject of young KTV gals n money. Of course if u run out of money they will abandon u. But sadly, they r not the only ones who will leave u if u hv no money. The only people who may NEVER abandon u r ur parents n ur children. We all should become better citizens n hv more children.
I like to pose the following questions.
Supposing a very beautiful newly-wed woman of 21 is in love w/ her young husband, say aged 26, who has a high paying job from a family-owned business. Lets further suppose that, a few months later, the business has filed for bankruptcy n her husband is now penniless. He n his family r in debts n hv been sued by creditors n banks. His financial situation is hopeless. By law, she is also liable for his debts. How long do you think she will stay married to him?
We men r the same.
Supposing u r engaged to a very beautiful 20 yo SYT virgin from a respectable family. Sadly, she has an serious accident which left her face disfigured beyond recognition n her body paraplegic. Lets further suppose that u r a healthy 25 yo heterosexual man from a well to do family. Would u still marry her n stay faithful to her for the rest of ur life? Pls answer the question truthfully.
Now let’s talk abt something more fun.
Life is constantly changing…my taste for boob size has changed as well. I used to accept A/B ones if they r pretty n shapely. Since I had KK who was blessed w/ natural D boobs earlier this yr, I hv BY-ed a no of gals w/ C boobs n now my preference is for those w/ at least a solid B. C would be better if also shapely n proportionate. Most PRC gals w/ natural Ds r stout n/or hv thick arms n legs which r repulsive to me. A gal w/ D must be at least 170, otherwise it wont be proportionate. I hv not met a gal w/ D boobs n still has slender arms, except for KK. But a gal w/ long slender arms must not hv slender body, flat ass n very slim legs as I like much more meat in those places. Now I guess my frens n bros can understand why I hv to search high n low for my type of gal.
I hv found such a gal. She is 22 (although I can’t bring her to the casino as she was born in 1990 according to her passport), very fair, 169, abt 51-52 kg, natural C boobs w/ pink nips, small waist n round perky ass. Yes, slender arms, but more meat in her thighs n long, straight, relatively slim legs. And most importantly, she has as pretty pussy as KK, but tighter, wetter n more responsive. Her pussy tastes better too.
I met her just over 4 wks ago. I made an offer shortly after that. No ST, never done ST, ok, how abt BY? She was hesitant initially. She told me how much she earned a month w/o going out. I offered her that plus a little incentive n master bedroom rental. She said OK. Took me a few days to find a secure place. The other problem was that she insisted on monthly payment upfront. I said no, she said forget it. But her body was too sexy n too attempting n so I took a chance. It was like buying a speculative biotech start up, hehe. What if I didnt like her pussy? Managed to get her to agree to a majority payment upfront n the rest in mid month. She has been w/ me for 3 wks now n I intend keep her until she leaves SG. She doesn’t work.
The other day, she accompanied me to a KTV n I also booked another gal to sit w/ me. This other gal showed me her expensive gold watch, a gift from her ex BF in Shanghai. My mistress said she would love to hv such a watch, but no need gold one leh. It’s still not cheap w/o gold. She later asked me what should she buy me for X’mas? Would a LV belt be OK? I told her I dun wear expensive belts, hehe. No, I’m not KC-ed by her. I merely like her pussy n her whimsical n playful nature. I may buy her the watch if I can find it.
Cheers!
Bro WB
I’m thrilled to see so many posts, so many different view points n so much depth n wisdom here, hehehe. Keep them coming!
“百花齐放，百家争鸣”
I hv learned so much from esteemed bros here…i thank u all from the bottom of my heart.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
ok ok better stop, else Guru WB F me for screwing around in his thread, tata
Merry XMAS
Mr. Chairman,
Me no guru, hehe.
Your willingness to share ur expertise n wisdom on BY-ing is much appreciated.
Merry X’mas to u n ur family!
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Originally Posted by
prcsytlover
Again, what u will do does not means me or others will do..
Warbird have mention that if he knows that gal is marry, he will not touch her. Me sharing his view on that. Infact all 3 points he mention is what I agree on.
Hi bro prcsytlover,
My 3 rules is my personal code of conduct. However, I dun hv the rights to pass judgment on alternative behaviours nor do I care.
I hv been criticized by some frens n mummies for aggressively offering BY to gals of my type n for keeping them only for wks. This is only half-truth. But so what? Bcos I’m a lao chi ko pek who has a family n whose sons r older than these gals? BTW, I’m living strictly in accordance to my interpretations of the Old Testament.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Ｓｈｅ ｉｓ ｆｒｉｇｉｄ ａｓ ｉｃｅ ａｎｄ ｈｏｔ ｔｅｍｐｅｒｅｄ．
Ｆｏｒ ｉｎｆｏｒｍａｔｉｏｎ ｏｎ ＣＯＳ， ｐｌｅａｓｅ ｔａｋｅ ａ ｎｕｍｂｅｒ ａｎｄ ｃ ｏｎｓｕｌｔ ｏｕｒ Ｍａｓｔｅｒ ＷＢ ｏｒ Ｇｒａｎｄｍａｓｔｅｒ ＤＹＢＪ．
Haha…I’m a beginner n a student of COS. It was Mr. Chairman who 1st mentioned the possibility of giving women hr-long orgasms. He called me in Sep 2009 n spoke w/ me for 50 min!
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
xcus me hor, bart wart is COS har?
Ijit CUM ON SHIRT
Ijit CUM ON SHIT
Ijit COCK OVER SKIN
Ijit CUM ON SHIN
Ijit CUM ON SKIN
Wat wat seemee seemee
You fuckers got me all cuntfused liao
Hahaha…
Actually COS is also the acronym for CONTINUAL OXYTOCIN SURGING which occurs when a gal is in a most blissful state…
BTW, oxytocin is the bonding hormone.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
Life is constantly changing n nothing stays the same…n nothing lasts forever in this Universe.
A gal who is my “ideal” type at any particular moment in time may not remain so for long. If she loses or gains 2-3 kg she may look totally different to me. Moreover, many gals who work at the nite scene live a most unhealthy lifestyle n could look much older, haggard n sickly in a few months.
What to do? I’m very exacting n fastidious re a gal’s body/limb proportions n youthful n healthy looks. I can’t help it.
I like to share some encouraging words n a parable “the donkey that fell in to an old empty well,” written by an Asian guru:
Hey Bro WB,
Lets talk about inner game today; the mindset shift you must
have INGRAINED at the back of your brain as you embark on
your journey to becoming great with women, dating & LIFE
in general.
To begin with, I want to share with you a little story about
the donkey that fell down the hole…
“Once there was a donkey that fell in to an old empty well.
The farmer, who owns the donkey, looked at the beast and
tried to figure how to get it out of there. Having thought
of nothing to get the donkey out of the well, he decided to
simply bury his donkey alive!
So the farmer called his neighbors to shovel dirt into the
well. At first the donkey got frightened and panicked. After
some time the beast realized that if he shakes the dirt off
his back, the ground under him gets higher. He continued to
shake the dirt off and step up until the well was full. I
will leave to your imagination what the donkey did to the
farmer and his neighbours when he got out of the well.
Many times we feel life is throwing dirt at us. Problems
seem to hit us at all directions. Even when you feel
everything is OK, suddenly dirt smacks you in the face.
Sometimes you can even feel the bitterness of the dirt!
There are others who not only feel that dirt is being thrown
at them, but feel that they are being buried alive. Their
problems seem to pile to up from one to the next, until their
problems are bigger than they are. They feel like all the
world’s trash is being poured out on to them.”
But we can use this dirt. We can use life’s problems and
troubles to produce strength, wisdom, perseverance, patience
and other virtues in us that will help us succeed in life.
The dirt thrown at you can be used to increase your stature,
your being.
We should imitate the donkey. Instead of giving up and
letting himself be buried, he shook the dirt off him. We
too should learn to shake our problems and STEP ON IT. And
like the donkey, we will get out of the hole we are in.
The quality of our “successes” with women is the quality of
our COMMUNICATION with:
1 - Self
2 - Others
Experiences (good or bad) is about personal communication.
It determines how you feel, act, behave on a daily basis.
To change your social life, your dating life, your success
with women, you don’t need many ideas, complicated ideas,
concepts, all it takes is an idea that you’re willing to take
and USE.
No matter what happens as you’re out there in the field, it’s
not what happens to you but what you DO with what happens.
For things to get better, I would have to get better. For things
to change, I would have to change. You can change everything
around you; the people you hang out with, your work environment,
etc, nothing will be permanent unless you change… YOU.
Difference between the different results people have in their
lives (those who are getting more women than you) is not talent,
luck, skill, etc, its the difference in the ACTIONS they took.
What sets them apart is the ability to take action, the ability
to USE what they knew.
Nothing really happens until you take action.
“Try UNTIL”
Get yourself to take action UNTIL you succeed.
Question:
How long does a baby get to learn how to walk until you ask
him/her to stop trying?
What’s the time frame?
You get a baby to keep trying UNTIL he/she walks. That’s how
everybody walks. That’s WHY everybody walks.
In order to be great with women, 2 things:
1 - Energy (what you give out to the world, is what you get back)
2 - Skill (specifically know what you want, ability to know
exactly what SHE wants, you do this by playfully & teasingly
probing, you adapt to their styles - every woman has a different
“style”, you then feed on their want; give it to them, you’ll
eventually get what YOU want, it’s just the way it is, don’t
oppose it, EMBRACE it)
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ON WHY MOST GUYS STILL AREN’T GETTING WHAT THEY WANT FROM
THE WOMEN THEY WANT
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Fear of “failure” (rejection in any shape or form) - prevents
guys from taking action.
There are no failures, only results, only outcomes, only
FEEDBACK.
You don’t feel great about failing, but how do you feel about
learning?
There are no failures, you can only learn from every experience,
you learn from HUMAN experience. Whats the advantage you have
today over yesterday? Its the new experience you’ve taken on.
Thats how we as humans grow. Whether you got what you want from it,
it makes very little difference, as long as you learn from it,
and change your approach to eventually produce the results that
you want.
Reality check:
YOU are responsible for your world, YOU take charge of your life.
No matter what happens to you in your life, YOU created it on some
level, YOU are responsible for it. If it isn’t there because of
your physical actions, it’s there because it’s a result of your
mental actions, that thoughts are things, that as your think, so
you become, so you attract, so you manifest.
No one is to blame, except you YOURSELF.
Want to know what’s the one ‘key’ for becoming great with women?
STRETCH.
Always be stretching.
If you can’t, you MUST.
Actively develop a consistent habit to stretch yourself. Willingness
to stretch yourself on a consistent basis. Do this, you’ll grow
TREMENDOUSLY.
When you put yourself on the line, more often than not, you’ll be
surprised by what you’re able to truly achieve. Do it. Now.
and above your present ability. Get out of your comfort
zone. Stay out, push, and keep pushing, don’t look back.
you know and DO it. (Even if you don’t feel like it, force it).
Everyone has different expectations, like it or not, it’s the
reality of life. Deal with it it, adapt to it, manage it, to get
what you want.
You cannot expect people to comply, to be on the same “page” or to
view things the way you do without you first communicating it and
getting a confirmation, a RESPONSE for it.
Your “world” is what things MEAN to you and only you. Your make up
a tiny part of the equation. What’s outside is MUCH bigger, far
bigger than you can imagine.
The “severity” of your “problems” are what you make of them. If
you think their big, their big, if you think their small, their
small.
……………………………………..
Talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
Mr. Asian Guru
Quote:
Originally Posted by
teebs_darklord
Words of wisdom from the GURU indeed…
Yes, we can learn a lot from Ang Moh n Asian gurus.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
I’ve got this comment (and zapped points) on my last post:
“Pengyou, you and warbird et al are wrong lah. Do not stereotype girls and think they will conform to your stupid tactics. KTV girls yes, because they need money. Normal girls don’t need hoot from you jokers.”
We are not stereotyping girls. We know every one of us, guys and/or girls, are different. We are all individuals with different likes and dislikes. Certain characters/personality traits will attract certain people but at the same time, can repulse others……………….
So, wooing different girls require different tactics and strategies. Sometimes, even wooing the same girl but in different situations/circumstances may require different approaches!………..but you must understand that there are some universal truths in things warbird and others contribute in this thread.
Girls (and the XY gender of the Homo sapiens species included) generally are attracted to people who are: humorous (fun), confident and sincere. Seriously, it all boils down to that. We all like to be with people who can make us happy……………….
So when warbird said to disagree with women – to me, it’s a direct result of being confident and being comfortable with yourself………………..
Flirting and being sexual = fun and humorous. At least that’s my definition, my interpretation of warbird’s article. I could be wrong or you may disagree with me. But I’m talking about harmless, fun kind of flirting……………….
Observe your group of friends and peers. Who are the ones who are always the most popular and welcomed by the girls (and guys alike)? Who are the ones who the girls enjoy to be with? And I’m not talking about KTV girls. You go and observe yourselves.
I read warbird’s articles but I may not agree with all the tactics. But look deeper and analyse and try to understand the rationale, the underlying principles that form the basis of those tactics.
Hi bro fallen.angel,
Ths so much for ur excellent rebuttal to a bro’s negative response to “3 Things That Make Women Chase You.” And for which u got zapped for agreeing w/ n adding ur own thoughtful comments to the article.
Even though a lao chi ko pek, I wasn’t aware of these 3 things until not too long ago. In fact, I mistakenly believed n did the exact opposite. How I wish I knew these 3 simple rules when I was 20!
BTW, it was NOT my article, I was merely quoting an Ang Moh guru’s in the hope that bros here will not waste their youthful yrs in PCC. I’m not that clever nor experienced to be able to come up w/ those ideas by myself.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
What Bro WB share is theory, it may or may not work for every girl, what we need is to hone our skills in the real world…still what he shares has merits…it does not necessarily apply to every girl, ktv or normal girl…of cos the part about BYing usually applies to ktv girl and not normal girl…normal girl you have to BY in a different way
Hi bro ME,
Ths for ur thoughtful post. It’s NOT my theory. However, I hv practiced it n it is working like a charm, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
More on BY-ing n the 3 simple rules.
In addition to my type of looks, body proportions, asthetics of the pussy, there is another decisive factor in the RS for me. How easily orgasmic she is.
Nowadays, I will not continue a RS for more than 2wks or at the most a month, unless she can achieve COS (Continual Oxytocin Surging) on a regular basis.
My current gal, lets call her TC, is one of the best I hv had. She would moan softly when I merely caressed her big breasts n suck on her nips for 30 secs. At first I was skeptical. Great acting? I then put my ear on her chest n her heart was pounding over 110 per min n also already wet wet below, I knew she was NOT faking it. She wont stop moaning n her COS was violent. I hv scratch marks n abrasions all over. She has achieved COS over 80% of the time. Amazing!
Yesterday AM I emailed TC some links for X-rated video clips at her request. She called me in the PM n said she had lost her passport! She was quite perturbed. I scolded her for being so careless n told her to relax. I later found it between the central console n passenger seat of my car. In the evening, I went to her place n spent a blissful nite w/ her. The video clips made her even more horny! Losing n then recovering the passport also helped, hehe.
The other day I did a ST w/ my ex (also a PRC) from Indonesia, but she is not easily orgasmic n I hv lost interest. The table is turned. I still remember the nite I first met her sometime this yr, I couldn’t sleep, kept fantasizing how great it would be to make love to her. She has the looks n body type n long slender arms…now she keeps SMS-ing me n calling me, but I can’t get away fast enuff. I may still book her occasionally as we r still frens. She does look quite stunning when all dressed up…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Max77
I also prefer women who enjoy wad i’m doing to her more than I do
Hi bro Max77,
We do hv a lot in common, hehe.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
No worries, fellow cronies…
Bro WB, I’ve yet to learn the COS from you. I may be going down to LV this Thursday HH, so if you’re there, maybe I can pop by to say Hi. Nothing’s firm yet.
Talking about X-rated video clips and AVs… I was surfing SBF and also watching some Jap AVs last Friday afternoon and it got me damn horny. So I called my gal and ask her to take a shower and clean herself up and that I’ll reach her place in 15 minutes’ time.
I was at her place and she suggested she blow me again right after I cummed………The secret was to put his manhood into her mouth immediately after he cummed.
And so my gal tried it on me and I screamed and went crazy! That’s the reward I get for making her cum a few times. Hehehe.
Hi bro fallen.angel,
It’s likely that I’ll be there tmr.
It appears that you’re already a master of COS, hehe.
There r many, many ebooks on the subject of COS. I hv read most of them…what I need is more drill n more experience. Every gal is different though.
Cheers!
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Good morning to all samsters!
More musings on COS n life/love.
Here is my take on giving COS to these PRC gals. It’s just a bonus for them bcos their primary purpose coming to SG is to make as much money as possible. Everything else is secondary. It will take time for them to get really addicted to a patron. That said, they r very human n r subject to the same emotions n hv the same addictive potential.
According to many gurus, a gal falls in love w/ a man not for who he is, but for how he makes her feel (especially abt herself). This applies to ALL females.
There r 3 foundations for love: friendship, respect n passion.
How to arouse passion?
Hope + Doubt = Passion
If there is no hope for her, game over. She will just give up on u. Conversely, If there is no doubt abt ur love for her, she will take u for granted, game over for u. It’s most likely ur love will remain unrequited.
A RS expert wrote:
“You’re on the right track, you just don’t know how to take it that last hundred yards! Friendship is definitely the foundation of true love, but passion is a necessary ingredient that ignites it into a roaring blaze of romance. The equation for PASSION is this: HOPE + DOUBT = PASSION Since hope and doubt are antithetical of each other, it requires some real skill to cultivate both. But it can be done! As a wise man once said, “I may not always walk the straight and narrow, but I cross it as often as I can!” Constantly assess where you are in the relationship and then supply what is missing. For example, if the person is too confident and taking you for granted, then you need to back off, drop out of the scene for awhile, be more evasive in your conversations, and do whatever is necessary to appear to have cooled your interest in them somewhat. But, if they’ve given up on you because they think that they can’t have you, you need to reintroduce the element of hope that they still might win you. But it only takes a spark to get the flame reignited. Don’t keep pouring on the attentions once you’ve aroused their hope again. By maintaining a balance of keeping them hoping, but with some doubting at the same time, you will succeed beyond your wildest dreams in having them flip head over heels in love with you.”
The same principles apply to men as well. A man is most attracted to a gal when there is hope that she could become or remain his GF/OC, but there is doubt, which is good…yes, doubt n uncertainty, hahaha. Yes, that is when a man gets his fun n emotional upheavals, isn’t it. It’s a mistake to avoid such emotions, instead, accept them, embrace them…n enjoy every min of it! That is the mark of a man w/ self mastery.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
smartke
wow! sifu… 1st thing caught my eyes… ur new avatar! she is sooo sweet!!……………………………………
even thou busty seems to catch everyone eyes, but most of the time, it’s the ‘wonder’ bra tat makes the boobs really
wonderful
… lolx…
anyway, i do come to realise tat… seems like all those
natural firm big boobs
, ie C+ cupper & above, does hv quite visible vein……………
yes, totally agree. when there’s doubt & uncertainty, emotional kicks-in… tis is where a man learn how to control his own emotional feelings, which is 1 of the factor in the success/failure of a r/s, be it BY or wat not………
Hi bro smartke,
Hahaha…I may be quite advanced in chronological age but I’m no sifu. In fact, I’m just like a primary 2 student in the study of BY-ing.
The media in Gotham City hv jokingly referred to Henry Winkler as the world’s 2nd oldest teenager for his role in “Happy Days,” n Dick Clark as the world’s oldest living and oldest LOOKING teenager. Well, I must be one of the world’s oldest living n oldest looking primary 2 students, hehehe.
Yeah, the gal BB in my avatar is so sweet n so cute. She is another Fujian gal, one of my long-term RS.
Many gals do use push-up bras to enhance their sex appeal. Very misleading!
IMHO, many older gals show overt n large veins in the skin covering their boobs which r ugly to me. Only faint veins r visible in younger gals (those <22). Another factor is the condition n texture of a gals’ skin. For example, TC has natural C boobs but I can’t detect any trace of veins in her skin, not just over the boobs but in her entire body. Same w/ BB n KK.
Lastly, Hope + Doubt = Passion
It’s an immutable law of Nature.
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Originally Posted by
grouchycabi
The above sounds a lot like Anthony Robbins speak to me.
Hi bro grouchycabi,
Yes, very similar.
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Posted this in HFJ thread, but since it is also on picking up gals, here goes:
My FR for 21 December 2010:
Our very own SBF HFJ tour guide brought me and bro DYBJ to this little joint just outside the city centre.
Very cosy feel and liquor pretty cheap. About 13 singers, got some SYT, some average and some pretty disastrous ones………………………………………. ………………………..
I heard from some of the singers that they have never seen such fire-power in a normal day. Even the singer manager commented to bro DYBJ’s gal that the crown the latter has from bro DYBJ was her FIRST in 2 months. Whoa!!!
The rest of the night is … well ’er’ … song song gow julong. Hahaha.
My FR for 22 December 2010:
This night I have every intention to stay at home, but my newly found GF SMS’ed me that she missed me. KNN, all the more I feel like staying at home. Nonetheless, our resident flower-king bro K9696 activated us to go. Looks like he has recovered from his tua-liappies hangover.
Fast forward to gathering time, we also have our HFJs tour guide and bro DYBJ with us. OMG, bro DYBJ actually dressed to the 9s and all out to impress. Darn, should have at least pre-warned us lah…………………….
Now, bro DYBJ was quietly going about his business and suddenly he announced that his singer is now his GF!!! Very Quick - very quick indeed. Soon we were all having fun, playing the game “Copy Me”………I will leave it to bro DYBJ and K9696 to FR their story.
Hi bro LDH,
Ths so much for ur detailed FRs.
You n Mr. Chairman, the two Titans of HFJs aka 花王 descending from Heaven to a small joint! Must be a God send to the singers there, hehehe.
Pls update us on the sexploits. I dun want to be the only one detailing my experiences.
Give my regards to Mr. Chairman.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
IMHO, there is one male trait which is more important than all the money in the world, status, power, occupation, reputation, fame, looks, height, age, health, apparel, etc. in attracting females at their subconscious level. They can’t help it.
It’s Dominant Self Mastery or DSM.
Laozi: He who knows much about others may be learned, but he who understands himself is more intelligent. He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.
Of course, If a man has money, power, status, fame n good looks, etc, he usually has DSM, but not necessary so n there r many, many exceptions. The converse is also true.
Certain “manly” behaviours such as aggression, combativeness, quick temper, using profanity, addictions of every kind, verbal n/or physical abusing of females, etc., r NOT manly at all…a man w/ such behaviours may be a muscular hunk, but he is really just a pathetic, frustrated n insecure little boy inside. Very sad indeed.
What r the most visible manifestations of DSM? A man’s body language.
We should all work hard to achieve true DSM, hehehe.
Just my 2 cents.
Hv a great day!!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Merry Christmas my esteemed bros! Very tiring day out with my precious gal.
Fack-me-upside down, she totally changed her image to become a very stunning lady, very glam and sexy……..I placed the phone on speaker so that my gal can hear and speak to bro DYBJ as well. No worries, I trusted this gal and my trust was never misplaced. After the conversation, I told her 姑姑， 过儿好坏是吗？ 不是什么好东西， 你还喜欢我？ Ok, the word 姑姑 was my term of endearment to her while 过儿 was hers to me……………..
Fast forward, I brought her to my sailing club to see my yacht and have our high-tea in the lounge………………..
Went home to pom-pom and met up with several of my pals in DC to have an extended crazy night. Canons everywhere and half of the singers have at least a S$1K 皇冠, Xiao Han and Diva both have S$10K 龙袍 while Didi has S$5K and 4 more singers have S$2K………………………………………
Hi bro LDH,
Ths again for ur FR. You’re indeed living a charmed life!
Your SYT gal is 姑姑 n you r 过儿, as in 神雕侠侣? Hahaha…it shows how intimate n endearing ur RS is.
I must remember to assign a nick to my new gal, hehehe. It deepens rapport n serves as an anchor for pleasurable/emotional moments such as during COS.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Talk about coincidence, I remember I had clocked my first 100 post in this thread. Now its 500 liaoz. Thanks bro WB for the thread.
Pleasure is all mine.
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Originally Posted by
erkianpeng
I have learnt things in this thread that I could never have learnt anywhere else.
The masters here are indeed rich go-getters who are particular about the type of girls they want, esp Master Warbird who is so fastidious that the age, height, weight, proportion of arms and legs to body etc must match his specifications or else he won’t BY the girl or even F her.
One question has been going through my mind. Since the masters are so particular about their girls, I am sure their wives all must be very beautiful…………………………
Hi bro erkianpeng,
Ths for ur flattering words.
I know some bros r young n rich, but I’m just a lao ah pek who has
had a lucky streak…
Yes, I’m fastidious if a gal is for BY. I relax the qualities somewhat for ST. My taste is also changing n evolving. For example, I’m going after a gal who is only 158, whereas the average height of my BAO-ee is 168.
Bro, what one looks for in a wife is very different from a BAO-ee! Of course a man should never marry a gal who is NOT physically attractive to him, IMHO.
Pls read Mr. Chairman’s post below as he has addressed this issue very well.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Posts like yours tells me that you’re still not married!
You marry a woman to be your life long partner.
You BY a woman to be your companion aka SEX SLAVE and nothing more.
The difference is she’s your personal exclusive sex slave aka Private Toilet whereas if you go call a hooker, you’re with wat we call a public toilet.
So, when you marry, you go thru courtship, screening for integrity and virtues that you feel is required for a wife.
For BY, you dun use the above.
You apply, fun, boobs, suck, swallow, arms, legs and the list goes on & on…purely like buying pork from the market!
So based on this notion, you should read this thread more carefully & try to learn to differentiate the difference between what is called a WIFE and what is called BOT MEAT!
Well said, Mr. Chairman. Some bros r so KC-ed by WLs that the distinction becomes obscure…
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Your eminence, pls pls, you flatter me.
I am just a humble nobody, a titan maybe only by bodily size and a grain of sand in all other aspects.
Small joints are really interesting, you still find gems there actually….I’ve seen a few SYTs that would sure make you drool hint hint.
Sexploits, well, damn, all i can say is, very sore overused dick hahaha lolzzzzz
Other than that, I’ll leave the prince to do his very interesting write ups and FRs.
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Hi Mr. Chairman,
On contrary, you r quite modest in bodily size n a titan in many other aspects, hehehe.
Yes, there r gems at small joints. Meeting them is a chance event or randomness.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
I’m clueless abt HF n BY-ing singers is a complex operation.
At this time, I like to invite Mr. Chairman n Bro LDH as Consultant Contributors to a sub-thread called “Picking Up Singers n BY-ing Them.” I hope they would share their experiences n strategies w/ all bros here. They may post whenever they find time…
So pls welcome them!
Some esteemed bros hv told me that hanging flowers can be an addictive game. IMHO, It’s perfectly fine if one can easily afford it n the “addiction” is well under control.
More of my random musings n reflections on picking up n BY-ing…
I hv actually picked up more KTV gals inside than outside KTVs. I always roam the hallways n attempt to look at every gal. I even peep inside the rms to search for my type of SYTs…I leave no stone unturned.
Frankly, BY-ing SYTs is such a fun game that I’m a bit addicted, fortunately not to any particular gal, but to the game itself, hehehe. A large part of the enjoyment is in finding n pursuing the gals, making an offer n getting accepted…the fun is in the journey n not the destination. In fact, sometimes the destination may turn out to be quite disappointing, to put it mildly.
There r a good no of gals who hv accepted my offer n yet I couldn’t possibly consummate the deal w/ all of them largely bcos I hv been constrained by time. Some of them subsequently agreed to ST, hehe.
Today I just discovered my 2 favorite Fujian gals r QQ 好友! They live abt 40-50km apart back in China, but I believe they hv never met. Amazing!
My ex-mistress KW has been SMS-ing me several times every day. She now works mostly at LP n LV. She should be making at least what I gave her when I BY-ed her w/o doing ST. She claims that she hates sitting w/ other men n that she was n still is “你的女人.” She said she is very sad that the good times w/ me were gone. She has cried a few times. I guess working at KTVs must be hard work…it’s much easier to spread her legs 10 times a month, hehehe. Since she came back (flew in from Jakarta) over 10 days ago, I hv done ST w/ her only once. I hv lost interest as I hv been unable to give her COS. I’ll book her for a session next wk just for old time’s sake. She is very excited n wants time to prepare herself, to doll up just for me. I replied that I’ll don my Armani suit in an attempt to match her elegant n no doubt stunning looks. I jokingly said that I might even lose my self control when I see her…hehe.
Her case study illustrates the effectiveness of caring less in a RS to gain power. But I also give her some HOPE mixed w/ a good dose of DOUBT n uncertainty. I’m playing w/ her. It just dawned on me that this should be my new attitude in treating every gal, no matter how pretty she is or how much I like her.
You may recall that I’m also very interested in a very cute/pretty 20 yo student HD who is only 158! She is playing hard to get n she works only twice a wk at the most…hmmm…likely she already has a patron or possibly in love w/ a fellow student. She is an unusual challenge. I’m unfazed n hv used intrigue to gain her interest. She just SMS-ed to ask me for clarification, but I’ll not answer her for 24-48 hrs, hehe. When I see her, I’ll make a surprise offer…If she says no, so what? I hv lost absolutely nothing!
Yes, regardless of how beautiful or special a gal may be to u, be prepared to walk away. Demonstrate ur awesome dominant self mastery. Ironically, more often than not, she will start chasing YOU! This Immutable law of Nature applies to ALL females, non-WLs n WLs alike. I guarantee it personally.
Lastly, a patron could use QQ video calling to make sure his mistress is where she says she is. Of course a strange man may still be hiding under the bed, hehehe. There is never certainty in life.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
warbird
…………bro happy new year 2 you and family..wow bro u peep inside the rooms to find your type of SYTs..wad if u find the SYT u wan but they sitting with clients..jia lat lor..
Hi bro NewMartin,
Simple. I’ll point the SYT to my mummy who will call her to come to say hello to me. I’ll then ask her name n HP no. If she turns out to be my type on closer inspection, I’ll book her asap. Doesn’t work if my mummy can’t ID the gal. In that case, I may saunter in the hallway outside her rm n wait for her to come out.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Dear Bro WB,
The endearment terms came about because she sang the song from 神雕侠侣’s 天下无双.
It really helps when we feel like calling out to each other in public but unable to do so in certain circumstances……………….
Hi bro LDH,
Now I understand the context. So many gals r falling for u, hehehe.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Re: Hanging Flowers Joints
This new MILF Cai Singer of mine that I believe most of the bros whom knows me would have met already is very riddling!………………………..
Today, i played damn kuai lan tactic to catch her but still on back and call WTF
Prolly met my match bolls, never kenna anyone so 听话 somemore worst part veteran in the circuit liao!
When she off work yest, called me immediately after she reach home.
I purposely talked infront of many gals as i was another joint.
Yes, she was definitely upset and hell of jealous, good for me.
So i bastard, say busy now, so many chio SYT surrounding me call her later.
Could tell she was upset but she said ok anyway…………………………………
Asked her, u wan me to swing over now to pass back to you?
She said it’s ok, you go sleep and return to me after you wake up & is free.
Wakao!!!!!!
This specimen, I am speechless!
Good catch, Mr. chairman. Good example of using jealousy to create more attraction.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Oh no no…this is where phase 2 begins…THE MOULDING PROCESS to what you want her to be!
A total pleasuriser totally customised to your needs & wants both behavioral wise and sexual wise!
Then you have the ultimate BY…that’s what BY is all about…them customising to your needs instead of you adjusting to hers!
He who pays the piper calls the tune…
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Yes Sir! Thanks to you now I treat women as bot meat! and cannot be KCed by them anymore….now must learn stage 2 from you….hahahaahaha…
Hi bro ME,
I hv taken a slight departure from the routine practice of treating all WLs as bot meat. I now treat them as humans, w/ respect, BUT I assert my Dominant Self Mastery n she must comply w/ all my terms n requests, otherwise I’ll just walk away. Next!
What KC? I’m planing to move to China n there r thousands of younger n prettier SYTs waiting…at cheaper prices.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good afternoon!
I found out yesterday that my 2 Fujian gals, BB n TC, hv met each other in SG. What a small world! TC of course will be leaving by mid Jan. She is applying for a visa to return. Even though I like her pussy very much, I’ll not give her anything while she is in China as I’m uncertain when she will be back.
I’ll be going to LV HH today. I hv booked 2 gals, one very tall n one very short. The short one has been playing hard to get, until now. I know they both want to be BY-ed at this time. Hahaha…
BTW, I hv a great piece on “THE SECRET TO OVERCOMING REJECTION, " written by a RS guru. It’s brilliant n I like to share w/ bros here. Apart from the specific strategies, the secret here is Dominant Self Mastery.
Although the guru is writing specifically for someone trying to get a gal to fall in love w/ him n to marry him, the SECRET should apply to all females including WLs n BY-ing, hehehe.
Here is the secret: When you appear unfazed, unmoved, and
unflappable in the very face of rejection it does something in the mind
of the one rejecting you. It shocks them. It twists their mind. And it
sets them on an immediate course to begin seeing you through a
different set of lenses.
This doesn’t mean that you resist showing acceptance of their poor
attempt to shake you loose from them. It means that you show that if
they want to dump you, it’s just OK with you, that it’s no big deal, that
you can handle it. It means you show no bitterness, or
disappointment, or trauma. You sort of act like, “Hmmm… you don’t
want me? Well, OK, if that’s the way you feel…”
Whenever someone is inclined to reject you it is because, deep down
inside, they believe in their heart of hearts that you are not good
enough for them, that you would be shattered by their rejection. And,
along with that belief is the perception that you are dependent upon
them for your happiness.
Those who reject suitors do so to free themselves of the threads of
dependency that they believe you have woven around them. It is a desperate move on their part to liberate themselves from being
responsible for your life. They sincerely think that they are going to
crush you in the process of freeing themselves. When you show none
of that as a reaction, it blows their mind and challenges the erroneous
perception they’ve had of you up to this point.
Looking at this from the viewpoint of the person doing the rejecting,
there is no greater challenge than to face the moment of truth where
they believe they are about to crush another person’s world. Nobody
wants to be the bad guy. No well-adjusted sane person truly wants to
hurt someone else. Those who reject always do so with some degree
of mixed feelings, feelings of guilt and remorse at the same time as
relief of liberation.
So here’s what to do, when the moment of truth comes, if you want to
finally turn the tables on the One You Want and begin to take the
upper hand at last:
First, don’t panic. Remember that this is not the end. It is actually an
opportunity for a new beginning an opportunity for you to lay the
foundation to be truly respected, admired, and adored.
Second, take a deep breath and smile as they’re working into their
rehearsed pitch. (This works best in person where they can see your
face, but it still carries some effectiveness over the telephone because
somehow a smile carries in your voice.)
Third, listen very carefully to every word that the rejecting person is
saying to you. Don’t interrupt or try to dissuade them in any way. Give
them good eye contact, give facial sympathy, but do so in a smiling,
accepting sort of way. This will arouse great feelings of intrigue and
curiosity on their part, even as they continue to speak. Try to feel inside a sense of empathy towards them for the mixed feelings you
can be sure they’re experiencing.
Fourth, when you’re sure they’ve finished their speech, let a brief
moment of pregnant silence pass by (just for effect to build the
anticipation!). Then clear your throat, and say: “So, what I hear you
saying is that it’s just not working out. It’s not that you don’t think
highly of me. It’s just that (insert here their explanation, whatever it
may be). If you could make it different you would, but you can’t. Do I
understand you correctly?”
At this point they will either say (with a sad face for effect, of course),
Yes, that’s about the size of it, or they will launch into some additional
justification. If they add more to their previous explanation, go back to
step one and empathetically follow through with them just as before.
Eventually, they will reach an end, though in some rare instances they
will actually talk themselves out of the rejection before they’re done.
No matter how illogical or fallacious their thinking may be, it is totally
ineffective to try to argue with them or point that out to them at this
point.
Further, it would backfire and reinforce their determination to
escape you. The most effective way to change their mindset at this
point is simply to offer understanding, no persuasion whatsoever.
Fifth, and finally (and here’s where the mind of the rejecter starts to
really get blown), then just say with a little enthusiasm something like,
“Great! Now that wasn’t so bad was it?!” I’ve never wanted you to feel
under any kind of obligation towards me, so I’m really glad to get this
out in the open! “So, what would you like to do at this point, then?
How would you feel most comfortable handling this? Shall we not see
each other again?” Then, just accept totally (or at least appear to) whatever they suggest.
If they say they think it would be best to make a clean break and not
have any contact again, say fine, whatever you want. (Don’t panic
here, this is just a technique in psychology that will result in your
getting a much better reception down the road.) If they say, no, they’d
like to at least stay friends, say fine, as you wish. Whatever they say,
just be totally agreeable to it.
Trust me when I say they will not believe their ears. Trust me, also,
when I say that this is not the end, after all, if you handle it this way.
It is actually a new beginning. You most likely will not see the outward
results this very night, but the change inside them will have already
begun. Time and discreet follow-up on your part will find an
unbelievably more receptive party than the last time you spoke.
It will,in fact, be a fresh new beginning with one major difference the one
you want will now see you as an emotionally strong and independent
individual who clearly can live without them. This will be a new
beginning towards their really falling in love with you.
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Originally Posted by
warbird
well said…truely words of wisdom…
i have been a silent reader of this thread & thanks to all bros here with their contribution…………………
Hi bro,
The author is THE RS guru.
But pls dun quote the whole post.
God Bless!
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Careful careful, lately we got WL police policing these forums as robinhood for these fucking WHORES!
Fucking cheebye loser zap me 3 pts and left this remark, wonder if he can get half or qtr as many pussy i can get in a week! wahahahahahaha
Picking up KTV gals… 28-12-2010 01:22 PM You, like Warbird, are fucking assholes to bully these poor defenceless women like this, using them and dumping them. There is retribution in this world. Just wait, you blowjob cheebye!
Software Engineer???????
Mr. Chairman,
We hv here a Public Defender of WLs. A very angry n self righteous person. The zapper could be a she though.
Calling U n me fxxking axxholes n WLs defenseless women?
Retribution? Oh yes there is Karma all right. On balance these PRC gals still owe me as I hv been more than fair n upfront w/ everyone of them.
Why is she not penalized by our BIG BOSS for using extreme profanity?
Cheers!
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Another auspicious day!
Last nite I went to a KTV n booked 2 gals. I made an offer to the cute 20 yo HD. She tacitly agreed but the fine print has not been settled yet. She is very short n doesn’t really hv my preferred body type. Hmmmm…it may be worthwhile if her pussy is very pretty n very tight n she can achieve COS quite easily. it’s a speculative operation, hehe.
The mummy also brought a young n sexy gal when I already had 2 gals w/ me. Will book her next time.
Let me digress a bit. When it comes to investing, it’s better to be dumb n lucky than smart n unlucky, hehehe. An investment just fell on my lap, w/o me lifting a finger, n in the last few months has given me profit which is more than all my BY-ing in the last 20 months. I call it dumb luck.
At this time I like to post another piece by THE RS guru:
USING REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY TO WIN THE ONE YOU WANT
One young woman who I knew many years ago was casually dating a
young man who became very serious towards her and one night
started talking marriage. This shocked her because she had not had a
serious romantic thought towards him – ever! She told him there was
no hope and that, in fact, that she was really crazy about another guy
entirely!
The hero of our story, though, the young man who was being rejected,
handled himself beautifully, however. He just listened to her very patiently (although disappointed, it must be admitted) and then
pointedly said to her, “Well, what would you like to do then?” And then
he supportively added, “Would you like to stop dating altogether?”
The question was so empathetically offered that she felt no threat
whatsoever to her position. She then responded, “Well, no I guess
there’s no reason we can’t still go out” As long as you understand, of
course, that there’s no chance of this relationship ever getting serious
or going anywhere! He then sincerely told her that that would be fine.
But when she went home to her roommate (whom I also knew and
who related additional parts of this story to me), she was in a daze.
She actually seemed somewhat mesmerized by it all and, after
recounting the whole episode to her hearer, she suddenly heard
herself saying, “I can’t believe it “he was so understanding” I wonder if
I’m making a big mistake here “I wonder if maybe I really should
marry him after all?”
As I say, that was only the beginning. The seeds had been planted
where none had been before. And shortly thereafter the happy couple
became engaged and, the last I was aware, had been happily married
for many years.
EXCUSES, EXCUSES, EXCUSES
As you begin to make real progress towards winning the One You
Want, learn to accept that there will come out of nowhere some
attempt to end the relationship and get rid of you. It’s common in the
development of a serious relationship.
The common attempts at justification for rejection commonly include
such excuses as “no chemistry”, “not physically attracted”, “too
different of lifestyles”, “incompatible families”, I’m not ready for a
family, and so forth. Sometimes the rejecting party will even resort to
self deprecation such as I’m mentally ill, I have serious psychological
hang-ups from my childhood, or whatever. But no matter how good
these sound, they are never the real reason. They are just excuses,
and all easily overcome if you understand the real root of the problem
and not what they say.
The real reason is simply because; up to this point in time you have
failed to establish the three psychological pillars of a romantic
relationship with them, which are: FRIENDSHIP, RESPECT, and
PASSION. In short, the person isn’t head over heels in love with you,
and if they’re going to stay with you forever and marry you, they want
to be!
That’s only fair. They should be entitled to be crazy out of their head
for you if they’re going to dedicate their life to you and, frankly, that’s
your job to inspire those feelings, not theirs!
But if you will deal with their uneasiness in the manner we’ve
described in these pages, applying the tactics throughout
your relationship, you will find that no excuse in the world can
overcome your endeavors to win their heart and love. You will win the
One You Want!