- I notice the change in tack with regards to the thread. This is a distinct shift toward material and financial accumulation with the pre-supposition that when one attains your financial goals, we would be a position to indulge our sensuous self.
- As for investment decisions, it good to see the in-built premise:
- There are several allusions to the concept of “opportunity cost” in this thread. That is, if only I don’t spend so much money on cheong, I would have a tidy pile by now. I would be in a better position to springboard more material gain and really get the super desirable babes now… I’ll be a millionaire instead of thousandaire, I’ll be a billionaire instead of a millionaire yadda yadda yadda..
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I share the same view as Bro WB: a wife, a girl friend, a One Night Stand, A Fuck Buddy, a ST, an Overnighter WL, a mistress offers different dimensions. The power interplay, the interaction dynamics and the sex act itself varies. And variety, as they say, is the spice of life!
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Luck (fate, destiny etc … or by whatever else term you may call it) is perhaps the single most important factor…………
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Destination death?
- Disagree with Women
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Most men assume that they have to please women to win them. This comes across as supplicating to women.
- Flirting with other women
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Most men assume they have to demonstrate total dedication to the woman they are attracted to. This is why they don’t even look at other women.
- Get Sexual Early On
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Most men assume that they will make a woman feel uncomfortable by getting sexual early on.
Some posts r delayed n I missed seeing the following posts.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Actually many rich people are like that….for example I have a fren who stayed in a GCB and drives a nissan sunny and would walk 3 blocks just to save $2 parking fees……..that’s why rich people stay rich…..on the flip side I also have frens who will pinch on food but drives a maserati….oh well….I suppose everyone has different priorities in life and it is important to know what is important or not….remember that these prc girls are transcient and they will come and go…even our legendary LDH says that out of his many harem of women…only one stayed with him thoughout the ups and downs…………….
Value is always relative….some people see value in ST some people see value in BY………………………
You’re right again. I know a multi-billionaire who has used a $280 Nokia phone for the past 2 1/2 yrs. And all these PRC WLs use IPhone4?!!
But to each his own. I’m not limiting myself to BY. If the gal is my type n is available for ST, it can be great value. Even if there r 100 gals like Sugar or better out there, I still want to keep at least a couple of full-time gals for a different kind of experience.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
justime
Part ONE:
I spoke to bro WB last week and promised to contribute my two cents when I next log in to sammyboy. So here goes:
These are some of my own personal observations:
Without going into an argumentative mode, let me just highlight to you of the fallacy in such an assumption……
Let be tell it point blank, even if you have the wealth of Croesus (modern analogy is Bill Gates I suppose), the mind set of purposeful accumulation of wealth will undoubtedly get in the way of completely immersing and indulging the pleasure of the flesh. You will find it difficult to see “value” in such hedonistic pleasures.
The illustration of Getty and Buffett’s parsimonious ways (highlighted in this thread) should give a hint of the particular mind-set……
In my personal life story, my so call mentors do not defer gratification during their wealth accumulation stage. As they are on route to “making it”, they effectively budget and stretch their dollar. Please note that the budget is not a cursory 10% (as if like a tithe) but rather a hefty (at least 30%). It’s a commitment to a hedonistic lifestyle even as they accumulate wealth. As you wealth is building up on an upward trajectory, the 30% remains, but the sheer dollarise amount can be staggering!
Hi bro justime,
Long time no see.
Ths for ur insightful post.
I’ll remember to spend at least 30% of my income on these SYTs, hehe.
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justime
Part Two:
a) I am responsible for my own wealth (and any failures) should my financial goals be not met.
b) I Know as much as my Private Banker & Relationshjp Managers (if not more). Ultimately, no one has more invested interest to see me succeed than me myself.
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Even if all technical indicators and fundamentals are favourable, it’s the emotional capacity to act that matters. A lot of people I know want more and more confirmatory instances of a good deal that by the time they get in the game, the rate of return slows (or even reverses)………………………
Firstly, this is unproductive thinking. Let me tell you point blank that what’s past is past. You did not sow and now you lament about the prospective harvest.
Let me also put to you that even if you have sown and exerted the mental and physical stamina to concentrate on building wealth, you still might not make it.
Its called deferred gratification unfulfilled. And this phenomenon is more common than you realize.
Break free the conventional thinking that reward is commensurate with effort and self denial. Not so. There are other tools that can short-cut the wealth trajectory. (Again not in the scope to this thread).
Lastly before I hurriedly pen off: remember that it is the journey itself (and not the destination) that makes for a quality life … getting wealthy should be a nice journey in itself. And in undertaking this journey, romance can be make the road all that much sweeter!
Hi bro justime,
I truly enjoy ur excellent post!
IMHO, luck plays a role in everything…
And yes, life is a journey not a destination. Destination? It’s death!
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning to all samsters!! What a wonderful day to be alive n well!!
Ths to all of u for ur interesting n insightful posts!!
I hv been very busy n I wonder if bro Justime would accept my invitation to become a co-TS to contribute regularly to this thread. I like to pick his brain in BY-ing n investing, hehehe.
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MoralEpitome
I think bro justime for his different take on money and pussies…we should develop subconscious competency in investing, whether in assets, pussies and our personal life!
The key to success in any endeavor is subconscious competence, hehe.
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Originally Posted by
justime
perhaps death is but critical a cross-road in a soul’s ultimate journey (for convenience lets use the terminology ’nirvana’).
We must meet soon Bro WB … enjoyed your company!
Hi bro justime,
We do think alike, hehehe. BTW, I dun limit myself to PRC pussies.
I can’t wait to see u. Call me pls.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
You must be referring to yourself eh? Shameless! Hahahaha. Just joking!
Er… last I checked, I’m still very flaccid. Hahaha
I am spending already. Just not as much as luminaries like yourself.
I have Pmed you the name and house no. and also contact no. Please call the OKT (I’ve provided his mobile no.) to avoid disappointment and wasted trip. Be warned – one man’s meat is another man’s poison. She’s young (23 yo) and can unleash a lot of GFE but may not be your cup of tea……
Hi bro fallen.angel,
This particular person IS a multi-billionaire in USD. If I were that person, I wont just BY 2-3 SYTs, I would keep at least 30!
I hv heard of the gal n I know the OKT. Not sure if she is my type. Unfortunately, I may not hv time to see her.
Ths anyway.
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Originally Posted by
justime
Sorry Bro WB for ‘usurping’ your thread so much today, its been a while since I visited or contributed herein the forum.
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If they are absolutely candid, you will find that a lot them mostly based their selection decision on personal rapport or personality compatability. And on this criterion alone! This is the absolute wrong approach.
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In investment, it can askew the calculation of Present Value as it questions the very presuppositions and assumptions. (Btw The use of Present Value as a variable in computation of investment decision is hogwash, especially in the climate whereby people are talking about default risk. And some financial advisors still use them to pitch their products
)
In economics, it challenges the concept of “opportunity costs”.
In gambling, its whether to “cash out now” or “let it roll”.
In cheonging or in courtship, it may be modified to mean whether I should take her now (as in have sex) or to wait later when she is more in tune with me emotionally.
For example, you may defer gratification now in the hope with better emotional connectedness the intimacy factor goes up later (hence more fulfilling sex). Instead she hooks up with your best friend/brother/father, leaving you, to put it mildly, “unfulfilled”…..
NP. I actually want u to be the co-TS for this thread.
Unlike many people, I’m a very logical n calculating person when it comes to choosing an investment or a mistress. For a stock, it must be undervalued n for a gal, she must be my type in youthfulness, looks n figure. After passing my most important criteria, then n only then will I consider other factors such as personality, etc.
I normally can’t wait to do ST or BY (if she steadfastly refuses ST) a gal of my type. But for a very exceptional one, I may take a little time to court her…
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Originally Posted by
ansonsohna
Dear bro hangflower,
I wonder what prompted you to post this quip? ………..
Bro Justime’s postings are always well thought through. He has lived through a lot and he has got substance I can tell you that for sure. Most of all, he is willing to share.
I have met Bro Justime at the lowest point in my life two plus years ago……
Through Bro Justime’s thread, Mistress and my contact with him, I arranged to meet up. My one single afternoon meeting with him and one month of follow up sessions (via emails) literally turned my life around.
Bro Justime have the strategies to transform one’s life. If you are sincere and diligent and really apply his methodologies, it will benefit you…….
What I saying is that, please have some decorum and humility to learn from people with substance. Bro Warbird is another one whom you should learn from. ……..
From a former never do well with all sincerity …
Hi bro ansonsohna,
Bro justime is really a gentleman n a good Samaritan. But it was ur own efforts n determination which has transformed ur life. Kodus n keep it up!!
I’m just a lao chi ko pek trying hard to learn from all the bros here n to share what little BY-ing experience I hv.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Very well said bro ansonsohna, impressed. …………….Kudos, upz u
Did u know anson de sauna closed liao, so sad, no quickie next to my office anymore
Mr. Chairman, he is quite an inspiration…
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Originally Posted by
newbieboy
when i first came across the BS model….
over the years, as the ideas of momentum trading, risk-on risk-off took the spotlight, i felt my very early bias towards sentiment-based trading was validated……..
i’m very bullish on commodities right now, because the fundamentals are strong……..
i wonder if there are other bros who also assess investments in this manner?
………………good karma will follow, i’m sure of it….
Hi bro newbieboy,
Ths so much for sharing ur insights on trading.
I’m basically a long-term investor. I dun trade commodities or futures.
Abt 7-8 yrs ago, I realized the great potential of investing in China/resource/energy/commodities n precious metals. I bought stocks in these sectors n hv done quite OK…
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Well, you bros are doing well in your own respective fields and yet still giving others the honour of learning. This is life, always learning and always contributing.
I am happy and priviledged to have known bros Warbird, DYBJ, Justime, ME, Ichigo et al. We even went for drinks and chill out regularly. We exchange tips, business networks and TCSS with friendship all the way……………
Hi bro LDH,
It’s my honor n privilege to hv known u. You’re a true gentleman n a real MAN
n I’m proud to be ur fren.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
ansonsohna
Its a dam pity that the “mistress’ thread is no longer active, I learnt so many things there. Thank goodness for This Thread & kudos to Bro Warbird for it………………………….
Hi bro ansonsohna,
Ths so much for ur flattering words. The success of this thread is due largely to all the esteemed contributors like urself.
BTW, I hv invited bro justime to be a co-TS n hope that he could contribute on a regular basis.
Cheers
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Just got off the red eye flight from SHG n a stretch of shagging yesterday morning …
… looking forward to the next honeymoon at the end of the month ……………………………
Hi bro Dragonkeep,
Ths for sharing ur ST n BY experiences.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Actually I have a burning question as I am fairly vested in equities now….many financial analysts is bullish on asian and emerging market equities now….but what is the likelihood of a unexpected crash coming and what strategies should be adopt if this happens…..
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Bro…
You forgot to include one risk.
The risk of a significant terrorist attack.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Bro I think the markets are abit more immune to terrorist attacks…even a korean war may not be that bad ……………….
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Originally Posted by
smartke
how abt natural disaster?
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Originally Posted by
smartke
sou desu ka…
politics & govt new rules & regulations probably can b one of the risks?
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
I think we should wait for some of the more experienced bros here to answer as they been though more economic cycles…….unless you are talking about mbt controlling the local property market
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Originally Posted by
newbieboy
equities in US or local markets? things holding paper value scares me, and the more you go into company accounts, the more shit you dig up, and the scarier equities become for my weak heart
on your worries, this is my young and ignorant view…………………
Hi bros ME, besafe, smartke n newbieboy,
Ths all of u for ur expertise in investing n trading.
IMHO, it’s an exercise in futility to try to forecast the market. Buffett has never met a man who could do it consistently.
In long-term investing in equities, the only way to make money consistently is to buy undervalued stocks of high quality companies, n hold on until they become very overvalued. It may take 10 yrs. But one must know the co n its value very well.
Market crash? It’s great news! I’m waiting to buy on deep discounts n I’ll back up the truck (or shall I say lorry?). Wouldn’t I take a big hit on my current holdings? Sure, but they r already undervalued n they will come roaring back, in time.
If the same IPhone4 is selling at 50% discount, would a lot of people buy? Would I buy? You bet. It’s inexplicable n most baffling to me that when the same good co that was selling for $10 a share a month ago n now is down to $5, instead of buying, most “investors” would flee n avoid it as if the stock was a leper! Panic selling. Conversely, if the same Iphone4 is now double in price, would u buy? I wont! Equally puzzling is that a lot of “fools” would then clamor to buy it. It’s called panic buying, hahaha. I do the exact opposite…
Investing in high tech n biotech start ups is a different ballgame. Here I make sure my reward: risk ratio is heavily in my favor n I enjoy much better odds than a dealer in a casino, hehehe.
Just my 2 cents.
Cheers,
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
I think Bro WB sums it up when he said that we can never predict the market but we must be prepared for whatever happens….so my question may be irrelevent in the first place…..this applys to pussies too….you may never expect what you will get! some STs at $300 can be a dead fish while some at $200 can be surprisingly good in bed, just like some BY at $5000 a month can be better than those at $8000 a month…..
Now I noticed that most of the power Bao-er seem to be self-employed rather than employed….so is being self-employed a more probable way to riches rather than being employed??
Hi bro ME,
The stock market is efficient most of the time, but not all the time. A crisis of any kind usually results in periods of great inefficiency in the market. You must seize the rare oppty to make ur fortune. The key here is to hv the self control to buy when everyone else is panicky n selling…
in 2008, several profitable Chinese companies were selling very close to it’s net cash (cash in the bank + short-term investments minus all debts ) per share! How could u lose? It was like buying the companies FOC! They hv gone up 500-600% since…
Yes, generally speaking, one must be self-employed to do well financially.
Back to pretty pussies. This is always a very inefficient market due to many personal factors n variables.
Stay Alpha,
Bro WB
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Good Afternoon!
More musings on the mundane subject of pretty pussies.
I’m hving better luck these days. I hv found a bevy of gals of my type in China n several here in SG. They all want me to buy them a IPhone4 n to BY them! Several gals in China r non-WLs. Two hv agreed to come over.
At this time, it’s inconvenient for me to live in PRC n so hv to disappoint many of them.
I hv 2 tall Fujian gals, aged 21 n 22 respectively, in SG. There is a 3rd gal HD, a non-Fujian gal whom I also like very much. She is very short, only 158 n 42 kg, but she is very cute n pretty, fair n innocent. Perhaps one of the prettiest China gals I hv seen. A student here, only 20 yo, she is a true SYT. I’m going very, very slowly w/ her. One of my gals is leaving in mid Jan n it would be perfect timing if I start BY-ing HD then. I just hope that her pussy is as cute n as small as her mouth/lips!
There is another tall n fair 21 yo SYT but she is quite expensive (overvalued IMHO), so I’ll wait n see. If her butt were a tad bigger, I would say she is fairly valued, hehehe.
BTW, I know many bros prefer shaved pussies. I dun as it looks artificial. One Fujian gal had cleanly shaved one n so I asked her to stop shaving less than 2 wks ago n now there r abt 3-4 mm long bristles, like tiny needles, very irritating when I eat her pussy. She loves my tongue n wants me to eat her for at least 25-30 min! She would hold my head n thrust her pussy wildly into my tongue n mouth! Her COS is very violent n very vocal.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
newbieboy
i have insufficient experience with BY-ing, but i like how esteemed bros here talk about pussies like shares… lots of parallels………..like Icahn does.
of course while a company is supposed to act in the shareholder’s best interests, this is often not the case. even less so for BY pussies……………..
Hi bro newbieboy,
The stock market n the pussy market r both inefficient n unpredictable n self mastery is the key to success in both markets, hehe.
Carl Icahn is another great investor! Buy what he buys n u will seldom be disappointed.
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Hmmm, guess pussies are like commodities. Can be bought, can be found OTC, can be used/eaten, can be sold in public, can be traded, price fluctuates with supply & demand and there is an expiry date!
Hahahaha, just learn this last night from a buddy friend. I am no expert in commodities but sounds like very similar……………
Hi bro LDH,
Yes, commodities n pussies r very similar. Just dun fall in love w/ them, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
besafe
For those who are self employed.. there is a chinese saying: 福不过三代。
Hi bro besafe,
Very true. Can’t expect 二世祖 to study hard n work hard.
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Originally Posted by
MillerV
Bro MoralEpitome,
There is saying in Chinese, 行行出壮元, doesnt mean one have to be self-employed for a better chance also….
……….so with power over one’s own time, one does require quite a bit of self discipline to manage one’s work and one’s time efficiently. The many sifu here are naturally master of self-mastery and time management would have to be a must too….
Yes, self mastery is the key…
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Great to see this thread double-up as a quasi-investment guru resource too. Kudos to ya Mr WB for nurturing it.
IMHO the old adage, “buy low, sell high” generally makes sense. However, just like the Art of Bao, easier said than done.
The other wise saying to invest “when there’s blood in the streets” is also a great piece of advice…
So, keep some piggy bank money around when you hear the markets getting spooked……
BTW to all the experts out there, do share any good locales for discreet (i.e. fairly safe from “cover-being-blown” places) but fun outings for PRC baoees …….
Hi bro Dragonkeep,
Ths again for ur sharing.
Stock prices by themselves dun tell me anything. I’m most interested in the intrinsic value of a stock. I like to buy when the stock price is well below its intrinsic value n sell when it becomes very overvalued.
The Art of Bao is even more complicated, hehehe.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Brought a girl to Kallang Leisure Park before…got bowling alley, a cinema, arcade,coffee places as well as Thai SharkFin as well as K Box there…even the jewelery shop is cheap there in case your bao-ee suddenly wanna buy some diamonds…..usually don’t see anyone I know….hehehe….
Thanks for the info.
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Go JB… I guess no one will see you.
Unless you are like Phua Chu Kang - famous in Singapore , JB and even Batam.
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
hahaha….that’s a good one…but I tell you if you sway you sway….even if your oc’s frens see you they can sms her to let her know where you are…and when she sms you and you lie…that’s it….
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Actually , I was caught with a SYT in Holland village by a business acquaintance………..
Another time , I was caught at West Coast Mcdonalds with another PRC Uni girl………………….
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Thanks bro for the tips (been to some and agree they offer some degree of camouflage) … same concerns as you dah. Hence the need for some info-sharing……………friggin island sometimes too small.
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Hah hah. PCK indeed. Anyhow, I better rehearse some lines just in case! Need to think up one for a chance encounter with an actual extended family relative though!!
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Thanks bro ME. Will add to the notebook.
Have taken my baoee to Iluma for movies on a Sat night - mostly youngster, Chinese speaking crowd so uncle-era westernised folks like me practically zilch………………….
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Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Yup if you are old, go to young places, if you are young go to old places………………….
Hi bros,
Ths for all the info n suggestions. Although I hv lived in Gotham city for decades, I still bump into some frens n relatives from time to time.
But I dun really care if they see me w/ a much younger gal. Nothing will change. Is my family going to disown me? Nope.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
Hooters666
Dear Bros
The mountain tortise me have finally made it to LV last week. Thanks to my mates who got convinced by me to migrate from Royce and test new battlegrounds……………………
But I got to admit that my chick went hot as we proceeded throughout the night……………………Then she suggested I pay her rental for her. I act blur and ask what I get in return. hehe anyway cut long story she tempted me all the way to her apartment hoping i will up her n she get extra. I just stood at the door give her a goodnight kiss n fuck off. Then she show her true colors and was fuckin pissed and then said I short changed in giving tips. I ignored and walked away.
She definitely merciless but i just go along with the flow and see what happen. Honestly if she is dropped dead perfect I probably would not resist……
Ths for sharing ur experience.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
No, it is me who would love to meet you. Judging from the way you write, things you write, all the praises sang of you, and respect you command from all the samsters here, I would be so lucky to have gotten your interest. Now I shall not sing too much praises and risk being labeled a sakah king or hypocrite, for to be honest, I’ve not read any of your previous posts nor the much talked about Mistress thread…………………………………….. …
I think we should carry on this topic when we meet (over a KTV session) because it’s a little off topic. Someone actually deducted my points and call me an investment guru, hahaha. My apologizes Bro Warbird!
Funny you should mention father. Cos I know there are father and son team who cheong KTVs and even GL together. A KTV gal told me how there was a father and son who both liked her and went after her. And it happens in GL legal houses too! Hahaha.
Hi bro fallen.angel,
No apologies necessary, haha. I hv not seen bro justime for over 6 months. Let’s get together, shall we?
Father n son team? Not for me. I hv 2 sons who r older than my gals. They r both tall n they dig Ang Mo only.
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Good morning!
IMHO, the key to success in long-term investing is estimating the value of a company correctly. Of course one needs the self control/self mastery to execute whenever a stock is either very undervalued or overvalued.
Unfortunately, it’s much harder to value a pussy. There r too many variables. One man’s meat is…
But there r certain guidelines. Moreover, the return from BY-ing a pretty gal of ur type is hard to quantify. If u feel very good keeping the gal, enjoy the sex, companionship n GFE…the benefits to ur physical n mental well being could be priceless.
The downside? If u can’t master ur heart n fall in love w/ ur mistress, u could get hurt badly, both financially n emotionally.
BTW, I’ll always be true to the spirit of this thread. It’s all abt picking up…
Less than 3 wks ago, I was at DC n saw a chio SYT YX walking briskly in the hallway, I stopped her n got her name n HP. She was already booked. She is a pretty 19 yo student w/ very shapely figure n legs, abt 165 n 50kg. We share the same family name! A few days later, while I was in an Indonesian island, she sent me a text to say hello. I never met her again as I was very busy w/ my new gals. A wk later she texted me saying she was leaving for PRC n would be back after CNY. A few days ago, she texted me again from PRC to say hello. I jokingly said she should be my 干女儿。She replied, 好啊！n would meet me online. She is the one taking all the initiative n I know she wants to be fxked. I never booked her n dun really know her at all! Predestined infinity?
When YX returns, I may not hv the time nor the energy to BY her. She is actually better than all the gals I BY-ed during my last visit here. She is very young n very hot!!
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning to all samsters!
Women crave emotional experiences. They r not attracted to boring n wussy nice guys who always agree w/ them or worse, suck up to them. Tease them, confront them, disagree w/ them…but dun be abusive n mean. Use push-pull n connect-disconnect tactics.
I had a serious argument w/ one of my mistresses MY the other day. She was pissed off n when I left, she would not even hug me.
But the next day, she called me many times in the PM, asked me what I was doing, etc. She had called several of my agents to try to extend her stay…n she wanted to see me, hehehe.
I just received an email from another Ang mo guru:
3 Things That Make Women Chase You
Today I am going to share information with you that will change the way you interact with women.
Using this new set of information you will be able to generate MASSIVE attraction in women you meet.
This piece of information is the ACCESS code to make a woman chase you.
For the longest time I could not understand why most women ended up saying you are a very nice guy and I am glad we are friends.
I very often hear women say to me “I never saw you like that let’s just be friends”.
There were times when I would ask a woman to join me for an activity or study session. The first thing I would hear from her was that she had plans with her boyfriend or that she needs to ask him if she could.
I was having hard time understanding why these women were mentioning their boyfriend when I’d ask them to do something with me.
Why did they never mention their boyfriend until that moment?
What was it that I needed to do to make these women want me so bad that they will IGNORE their relationship status and go out with me?
It wasn’t until I was hanging out with a woman friend of mine who was single at the time that I had an AHA moment to clear this for me.
I was hanging out with this friend of mine when some guy she knew from before ran into us by accident.
He ended up joining us for coffee.
What happened over the next few minutes completely blew my mind.
I saw this guy make moves in every possible way but kept getting shot down. This woman used almost every excuse from the book. She finally had to lie that she had a boyfriend.
It was obvious that whatever this guy was doing was clearly not working but he DIDN’T GET IT!
When he was gone I asked her why she lied about having a boyfriend.
She replied she had to because he was not giving up. She mentioned that she did not feel attraction for him.
She mentioned that initially she was attracted to this guy and that is why she liked hanging out with him and talk to him but as she got to know him better the attraction died.
I realized this is exactly what happens to me. I start talking to women. They show interest in me and soon it turns into let’s just be friends.
So I ended up asking her what was it that he did that turned her off. She explained me the whole interaction with him and that changed my dating life forever.
I will avoid writing the details of my conversation here. What I will share with you is the list of 6 secrets that will help you stand out from other men.
If injected right these 3 factors will make a woman feel STRONG EMOTIONS for you.
This is what you need to do when you talk to a woman next time:
When you disagree with women you demonstrate your willingness to walk away from them. Women find this quality very attractive in men.
Women cannot handle rejection and this makes them want to chase you and win your approval.
Next time you are talking to a woman you are attracted to disagree with her on some topic. She will love you for doing that.
This behavior shows neediness. Women do not like that you are willing to give up everything when you barely know them.
Do the opposite!
Flirt with other women around her. This demonstrates that you are man who loves women and that you are capable of seducing other women.
Every woman wants a man who is loved by other women.
Next time you go to a coffee shop flirt a little with the barista. Give her a genuine compliment or ask couple personal questions. But don’t do it too much.
Once she notices you flirting with other women she will do everything to hold on to you because she wants to win over other women.
You cannot be more wrong than this.
Most women have multiple guy friends in their life. When they go out with you they are hoping for something romantic to develop.
Let them know your intentions by touching, holding their hands, playing with their hair and establishing a sexual dialogue.
This will turn most women on and they will start to see you as a possible sexual partner opposed to another guy friend.
Women are emotional creatures. They respond to emotions not logic. There is a certain conversation pattern and interaction style that appeals to women on the emotional level.
When you inject these attraction generating patterns into your interaction with women the result is MASSIVE UNCONTROLLABLE ATTRACTION in women for you……………………………………….. ……………………………….
Until next time,
Mr. Guru
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bloody_vlahov
my, oh my … interesting
looks like warbird has been busy lately huh ?
like wine, we all get better with age, fermented by experience. women are able to sense this, the way certain men handle matters, not necessarily with/to them. warbird mentioned this in one of his earlier posts - calls it gravitas. there’s another - swagger. swagger is not just confidence, but the style created by this confidence, the ease and comfort with which you portray this confidence, bordering on arrogance … that’s what make most women swoon, legs feeling weak, getting all moist and mushy eh ?
im still using my old number, but lost my SIM card, and will get it up and going in no time … cya soon
Hi bro BV,
Welcome back!
I’m still learning…who says u can’t teach an old dog new tricks?
Gravitas, confidence, substance, authority, dominance, status, swagger, inner game, etc. Most important is self mastery, hehe.
Pls sms or call me.
Cheers!
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I meant to write predestined affinity, not infinity, in my previous post.
BTW, I just looked at some pics of MY. She has nice butt w/ 2 distinct Dimples of Venus! I guess I hv to work “much harder” as she has not squirted for me yet, hahaha.
Hv a great day!
Bro WB
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vellamoose
Dear Mr WB, you are my idol, love to read all your posts
Hi bro vellomoose,
Oh please…I merely enjoy sharing my BY-ing experiences ( mostly failures really ) w/ bros here. I actually learn a lot more from all the esteemed bros at SBF.
The cumulative wisdom here is mind-boggling!
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
Went to River Valley area again last nite. I failed to make the gal squirt. I need to do better.
I invite esteemed bros here to relate their personal experiences on squirting.
In my entire life, only 2 gals ever squirted for me.
Received a call earlier this AM from a former mistress KW, who flew in from Jakarta late last nite. I hv told her previously I could not BY her. She came on a Work Permit (Performing Artiste). Booking her out n doing ST is ok, hehe.
Last but not least, I like to share the following email from another Ang Mo guru:
Here Are 3 Essential Alpha Man Traits - Do You Have Them?
What’s it take to be a man these days?
I find myself asking that question a lot. If you watch young boys and how a lot of them are being brought up these days, you’ll find yourself shaking your head as you ask it.
What are the important parts of being a MAN?
Just because you have the equipment doesn’t mean that women perceive you as being “MANLY.” In fact, “manliness” has gotten a bad rap.
And that has led a great many of us (including ME for many years) to believe that we should be ashamed of being men.
Well, first and most importantly, you have to learn how to be comfortable with just BEING a man.
With all the stupid messages you get from the media on things to “enhance” your masculinity, you’d think that there was something basically wrong with us right from the start, wouldn’t you?
You’re not long enough, hard enough, rich enough, or good looking enough to get the woman you want - that’s what They tell you.
But the reality is that women are attracted to a man from emotions - NOT appearance.
(Yes, we know that a hot guy will get more initial interest, but he can’t KEEP it if he isn’t showing her the right Alpha traits.)
So here are my top 3 traits for you to work on your masculinity and demonstrating your Alpha Manhood.
>> WARNING: I’m not pulling any punches here. If you have a weak stomach, I suggest you close this email and go back about your day.
Still with me?
GOOD! I knew you had the stones.
Here we go…
*** ALPHA MAN TRAIT 1) Initiative - Leadership drive
Women LOVE leaders.
They love it when a guy takes the lead and just makes the decision and goes with it.
Even if he’s wrong.
I make it a point when I’m out to ask women what they find most un-attractive about men, and one thing comes up more than anything else…
Indecisiveness and wishy-washy behavior.
Guys are trying to be “easy going” and cool, but they’re actually being perceived as weak-kneed little girls.
The great thing about taking initiative is that by doing this, you actually demonstrate two other POWERFUL traits that draw women in like moths to a flame: Ambition and Power.
Just by demonstrating the initiative with a woman, you are sub-communicating all the right things about your masculinity and drive.
In order to take this initiative, most men need to feel…
*** ALPHA MAN TRAIT 2) Assertiveness/Confidence
It’s probably no secret to you that I don’t cater to “political correctness.”
This story should help you understand how I feel:
There was a priest addressing his congregation, and he said to them during his sermon: “There are millions of people out there starving in the world today… and the problem is YOU DON’T GIVE A DAMN about it!”
Then he said, “And the BIGGER problem is that MORE of you are shocked by me saying ‘damn’ in church than you are about the fact that there are millions of people starving out there!”
WOW.
And the thing about confidence is that it really translates into another word that allows us to understand it better.
Confidence
is
CERTAINTY.
Just the fact that you are sure about something is what gives you confidence.
… Are you sure you can throw a baseball?
… Are you certain about yourself?
… Are you sure about what you want?
… Are you certain about your ability to approach women?
Wherever you have certainty in life, you feel confidence.
And assertiveness is what comes from your confidence. You can be more firm and assertive when you know what it is you want, and you’re not willing to settle for less.
In order to exercise that confidence, we have to achieve…
***ALPHA MAN TRAIT 3) Emotional Control/Emotional Strength
Look, women are NOT attracted to men that cry on their shoulder. They’re NOT attracted to men who are always talking about their “feelings.”
Women want a man that is in control of his own emotional world.
You may hear women complain about the guy who’s “not in touch with his emotions,” but the reality is that most of the guys who seem to think they are in touch with their emotions are just PUPPETS of their emotions.
There are really relatively few cases of guys who are strong and emotionally controlled who just wake up one day and freak out because their emotions had been bottled up inside them and went thermo-nuclear.
I think a lot of ‘sensitive’ guys are afraid of this.
Forget about it!
You don’t have to be an emotional man to be “aware” of your emotions.
Don’t DENY your emotions, but don’t LIVE in them, either.
First and foremost is emotional CONTROL. That’s your big responsibility as an Alpha Man.
*** BONUS ALPHA MAN EXERCISE: Do something BALLSY.
I mean do something that takes a pair of good-sized gonads.
I’m not talking about walking into Victoria’s Secret with your female friend while she buys a new bra, either.
Here are some “fake ballsy” and “REAL ballsy” activities so you know what I mean:
FAKE ballsy: Writing a nasty comment on someone’s Youtube video…
REAL ballsy: Sitting down with your friend and setting him straight on how he’s wussing out in his life…
I go on Youtube to look up good martial arts training videos, and I’m ASTONISHED at the 3rd grade comments and flame wars that people get into. The Internet has devolved into a cesspool of egos battling it out for who’s “right” about something.
Real balls means that you’re using your character to do something difficult that most other people wouldn’t risk, because they don’t want to ‘hurt someone’s feelings.’
Or they don’t want to ‘confront’ someone…
Look, we know that men are here to DO the things other people fear.
FAKE ballsy: Wearing the t-shirt of your favorite heavy metal band.
REAL ballsy: Wearing a t-shirt with “Got Dick?” on it…
True story: I had a friend named Dan in high school who came in with a t-shirt that read, “If it ain’t stiff, it ain’t worth a f*ck.”
He got suspended for a day or two for that. But I also remember him doing that and secretly wishing I had the nads to be that brave.
(Oh, and the girls were talking about him for WEEKS after that.)
I got my chance a few years back when I went to a sushi place in San Francisco and bought their t-shirt that said: “Your fish smells like pussy.”
I wore that out one day and got a lot of comments from women that I could tell were secretly loving it - even as they were telling me “that’s not a nice t-shirt…”
Yeah. “Not-nice.”
That thing that women say they don’t want, but somehow always pursue.
Got me on that one, ma’am.
You see, every so often you have to break those shackles of “political correctness” and “niceness” that has defined you.
Stop being the boring “nice guy” that makes women yawn and roll their eyes.
Stop seeking approval. If I had chosen to go that route, I’d never have had the opportunity to help guys like you to get the confidence and women they want in life.
I’d have crumpled like a wet taco when the first person wrote me an email saying he disagreed with my teachings.
(Funny, I don’t get those emails anymore.)
SHOCK someone… Be different.
Ask yourself: How alive are you willing to be?
Dare to live your life on your own terms, and you’ll feel a sense of liberation and Alpha Masculinity that will open up a new world to you.
It’s the world where you get what you want - and what you deserve……………………………………. ………………………………………….
Wishing you confidence and success with women - With HONOR and integrity.
Mr. XYZ
Notice how he keeps mentioning emotional control…
Do you get upset, even angry, easily? Sometimes anxious n fearful? Often worried n unhappy? Occasionally lonely n frustrated?
Bro, you hv zero self mastery. Even if u suddenly receive USD 10 billion tax free today, u will still be unhappy. Sorry for being so blunt. The good news is that you hv incredible room for improvement. There is no where to go but UP, hahaha, just like me a very short time ago.
IMHO, in life, a man’s happiness n success r directly proportionate to the degree of his emotional control/self mastery. If he is a very rare man w/ absolute self mastery, he is unconditionally happy. He doesn’t need money or pussies or anything else, but they still flock to him…hahaha.
Just my 2 cents. Comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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myhobby
Bro wb,
Aft reading your post, all i can say is your technics are awesome. The hit rate is high. You the guru!
Hi bro myhobby,
Not really, I’m just like an armchair general, long on theory but short in practice. My hit rate is high bcos I’m not afraid to up the ante…for the right gal.
I’m doing everything possible n working day n nite to achieve absolute self mastery.
I want to be completely fearless of hardship/pain/losses of every kind n death. I’m learning to live in the eternal present moment…the only reality. The direct path to Unconditional Happiness.
Everything else in life is of very little importance to me at this time.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
smartke
bro WB,
i just love reading your post & ! i hv only one word… AWESOME!
all those real life experience has given me an open eyes!
wow.. i hv so much to learn!
Hi bro smartke,
Ths for ur flattering n encouraging words.
I’m just getting started. I hv so much to learn too. We can always do better. We should strive for excellence, not perfection.
Life is short, but art is long.
We should all work very hard to improve ourselves, including our health, every hour, every day, hehehe.
Happy learning!
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Originally Posted by
besafe
Well , all I can say is that when I go out with them, I dun look like their Father or Uncle.
Hi bro besafe,
I didn’t know that you’re so young. I’m older than all my gals’ parents.
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Originally Posted by
MillerV
I really like Bro WB’s post on 3 Things That Make Women Chase You
Man gotta put it into practice
Hi bro MillerV,
These 3 things r essential. We hv to live it n breathe it…
Learn to say NO to gals u like very much. And flirt w/ every gal n get sexual early…
Wks ago, I went to pick up my gal n her 3 frens came along. One of her frens kept calling me 帅哥 n 奔驰大哥。No PRC gal ever called me that before. My gal said to her in her native dialect that, 什么帅哥？他比我阿爸还老！I understood her dialect well. I cracked a joke n then flirted w/ all the gals n even offer to BY all 4 of them! My gal wasn’t too amused though, hehehe.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
Life is so unpredictable.
A wk ago, I took a gal n her fren DD to a sushi place at Great World. Her fren is 22 n very pretty, prettier than my gal, but not my type as she is only 159 n has medium bony frame. She arrived only days ago n asked me to intro a fren to take care of her. If she had the right proportions I would offer to BY both of them.
I told my gal yesterday that I would intro a fren to DD. My gal said DD had already left for china 2 days ago bcos her dad passed away suddenly! He was only 49. I said, that is bad! I’m older than her dad, does that mean my days r numbered? My gal laughed, not to worry, u r so healthy! 你比年青人还利害！U neither smoke nor drink, u will live to a 100 yo, haha.
Joking aside, no one in this world can be 100% certain that he or she will be alive 24 hrs from now. Accidents could happen or it could be the end of the world as we know it…
All I can do is to live in the eternal present moment…n be unconditionally happy. The key is absolute self mastery.
Just my 2 cents.
Be unconditionally happy,
Bro WB