- When She’s Talking Nonstop
- When You Are Opening The Car Door For Her
- When There’s Even The Briefest Of Pauses After You Lock Eyes At
- When Plans Change Or Certain Interruptions Take Place
- Whenever She Expresses Slight Embarrassment Or Good-Natured
- Whenever You Instinctively Sense That She’s Expecting It
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I am not afraid of not getting pussies if I post FRs……….
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Yes, I’m a Mr Nice Guy. I treat my baoee very nice…………..
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Yes, I know mine doesn’t fit your definition of a Baoee………Nevertheless, I’ve continued to use this term out of convenience.
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I started posting here becos the thread began mentioning MILFs so I contributed my experience. In no way am I saying the SYTs aren’t better than the MILFs…….
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I never believe in exclusive pussies………………
- I appreciate you and Bro DYBJ kindness in reminding what wussies many Singaporeans (myself included) are……
- I think my post about how I can’t do much at LV must have generated the most and strongest comments. Like I said, I like what I’m getting at the moment and is not about to upset that balance. I have absolutely no time and energy to hunt for a second arrangement and so for variety, I go to GL….
Good morning!!
A RS guru has written extensively on the subject of what is a real MAN n how to be a cool guy. He discussed a frequent challenge:
You want to be a cool guy, and you know cool guys
attract women. So what happens when someone does something to you that isn’t so cool? How should you respond?
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HOW COOL GUYS RESPOND TO UNCOOL PEOPLE
Mr. Guru,
How does a cool person deal with “being hurt” by other people? I mean he loves people, he invests in them by making them feel better (not for the sake of seeking approval), then one of those people says or does something that really makes him mad.
It happened to me a couple of times and I feel like I need to flat out say something nasty back to them, otherwise I will feel hurt on the inside for a while.
For my own well-being it seems right to do so. But is this the
right thing to do?
Thanks,
Bro XX (Gotham City)
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Hello Bro XX:
Thanks for writing. What a great, great question.
The short answer is: Just let it go. Don’t put yourself on anyone’s level who you consider uncool…ever. To do so would be to sacrifice self-respect.
Usually the other person is behaving in that manner toward you either because they’re embarrassed, jealous of your success in some way, or flat-out insecure.
Just like we talk about in our audio on the subject
, the truly cool guy indeed thrives on helping others around him look and feel cooler.
Only guys who have A LOT to work on in this department ever feel need to put others down to make themselves look good.
Think about it. Have you ever observed someone who is actively trying to make someone else look bad and thought to yourself what a cool guy he is? Of course not.
One differentiation I do want to make is between saying something to someone that is DIRECT versus something that is truly MEAN.
If you have a solid measure of self-respect you won’t allow
manipulators to walk all over you. So when you sense someone is attempting to take advantage of you, calling them out on it is absolutely the right thing to do.
A similar principle holds true if you’re a man with high ethical
standards and someone is doing something in your presence that you view as very wrong–especially if he or she is encouraging you to partake.
Note that when you’re being DIRECT you’re calling out an ACTION or BEHAVIOR, not the PERSON him or herself. What is said is honest, even if not exactly “pretty”, but it’s never an INSULT.
Generally speaking, although I personally say a lot of DIRECT
things when appropriate, I make it a point never to insult people with mean, ad hominem personal comments.
It’s not uncommon to get mean comments IN RETURN having said something direct, however. In fact, deep down the fear of getting insulted is probably what keeps most of us from being direct when the situation calls for it, right?
Universally, however, receiving insults in response to directness is a sign that it’s not a good idea to continue dealing with the person. Don’t allow yourself to be drawn into that sort of melee. He or she is the problem, not you.
But man…I hear you. Sometimes it’s REALLY tempting to put them in their place, especially if you’ve got the PERFECT comeback. I promise you, though…sleep on it and you’ll be glad you kept your cool.
You know, I think there’s even more to this subject of being a cool guy vis-à-vis interacting with others who aren’t yet so advanced at keeping their own cool.
I actually once knew a guy who to this day I think of as one of the coolest guys I’ve ever met.
Amazingly, whenever someone around him said something bad about someone else, spoke in a coarse manner, started complaining about something and/or said anything else blatantly negative he’d do something incredibly powerful.
He’d look at the person briefly, pause about a full second, and
then casually change the subject.
It was abundantly clear that he would not partake in that which he didn’t condone, but handled the situation as a natural leader would…all without disrespecting anyone.
The subtle message–that quiet exhortation to everyone around to “raise the bar” in the coolness department–was always received loud and clear, if silently.
That was an amazing example he set that I never forgot.
The only caveat I’d offer here is that if your manhood or personal integrity is being called out by another guy you’re going to have to man up and stand up for yourself.
The best way to do this, of course, is by making a reasonable
verbal appeal to the guy that what he’s saying is inappropriate and that it needs to stop.
Among friends or business associates I would presume that to be enough.
Indeed, even when you’re interacting with a stranger you’ll be
surprised how often being reasonably direct quenches the potential altercation.
If you’re dealing with an unreasonable individual, though, you
won’t be able to reason with him. That follows common logic.
At that point you’ve got to decide whether to walk away or risk the conversation degenerating into fisticuffs.
Note that I’m not going to publicly advocate getting into fights.You, however, can base your personal decision regarding how to proceed in such situations on how idiotic the other guy is already causing himself to look and/or what the legal ramifications of the altercation would be.
By the way, if a woman ever insults you publicly no real man is going to second guess your decision not to glorify her remarks in any way, shape or form. You have nothing to prove to her or to others around you in that situation. Remove yourself.
Every man–including you and I–encounters questions like the one we covered today. It’s true.
And when they come up, we’ll either face them boldly…or stick our heads in the sand.
Obviously, the latter isn’t very attractive to anyone–be they
employers, teammates or ESPECIALLY women.
Knowing where you stand and how to defend your position when need be is important.
And it’s JUST as important to know how to make others around you look cool, thereby coming off as a cooler guy yourself.
Being a man of integrity, knowing how to make decisions and having the ability to communicate effectively are also integral to being a REAL MAN.
You also have to be PASSIONATE about what’s important to you, to the degree that you’re motivated to make a difference with your life and have the ambition to do so.
It can all start to sound rather overwhelming, can’t it?
Well it doesn’t have to be.
You were actually BORN to be that guy. In fact, EVERY MAN is born with that innate design.
Yet, somewhere along the way “modern culture” has caused us to lose sight of what it means to be a man at times, hasn’t it?
Well, you can forget any message that encourages you to
“marginalize” your manhood. Instead, get your hands on the
ultimate roadmap to recharging your identity as a real man……………………………………….. …………………………….
I’ll be back again soon with another letter from a reader. We’ll
cover the all-important question of what to do when you feel
OVERWHELMED on your journey from where you are today to where you want to be with women.
Don’t touch that dial.
Be Good,
Your Guru
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jamezwit
Bro Warbird, I guess each has their preference
I need to learn to be more hard hearted, especially when the r/s becomes sticky. So still in a learning mode to be soft/hard/soft (pun intended), hahaha………………………
I also learn from your earlier posts here that to be unannounced when turn up at the BY place, and I’ll just say “我有空就来“， even though earlier I’ve already said I cannot make it. Like you shared and I paraphrase here and sorry if I got it wrong, a mind that controls both purse, mind and pussy will be powerful.
Hi bro jamezwit,
Missed ur post earlier.
I may be a predator while hunting pretty SYTs, but often turn “soft-hearted” if the pussies r too tasty. That is my serious flaw.
I dun think I said that. I did say, in BY-ing, if a man can’t control his heart n ego, he is in big trouble.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
AAdam
Thanks for the information…
Apparently, it seems like all these baoing belongs to those people who have the financial power to have a go. It will be a tall order for normal working folks to participate in this game.
out of curiousity, how much does it cost to be in this game in Singapore & China?
The prerequisite for BY-ing is moolah.
The cost varies widely in Sin n China. I should leave this for more experienced bros to answer as my personal experiences may not be typical.
Personally, in SIN, I hv been paying SGD 8-12k a month plus rent, etc. for full-time BY-ing n 4-6K if they continue to run KTVs. For exceptional cases, I hv paid much more…
In China, the same type of gals will require RMB15-25K in SZ, 10-15K in Wuhan n 5-10K in a small town for full-time BY-ing.
A pretty 17 yo in 秦皇岛 （some place in Hebei）demands RMB10k a month only. She wont come to SIN ( when she turns 18 in 2 months) for 5X more plus expenses.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jamezwit
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One of my BY gave me a fright before, when she randomly pick a rental place that is next block to mine. Postive thing is convenience, when need to release stress, it’s right next block, but think of the embarassment if she runs into me downstairs and call out to me or worse sticky sticky hold hand. Die on the spot if seen by neighbour or family. I quickly told her to reject that flat saying random reason that I know the area and it’s not safe etc.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
If you have a BY, why u let her pick where to stay?
Shouldnt you just get her a place and say like…..NAH….U STAY HERE!
Guess you must be a ladies man…..u not in control dude!!!!!!!
Bad….BAD!
Our chairman is always right.
We men must hv control n power in the RS.
Piss them off n they will beg for more. Suck up to them n we lose everything.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MillerV
Great Post!!
Be Cool! Be a MAN, Do the RIGHT thing!!!
=) I like this post
Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man who is always cool n in control.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jamezwit
This one a bit different, I only need to pay partial of her rent because she works as an executive in a listed company. And trying to arrange and get master room is a lot of work and I no time and not really alot of money (at that time, got another BY that I support).
Hi bro jamezwit,
OK, understood.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Ah, i see
That’s why there are agents to do the legwork
So based on this, mean you loaded now liao la…eh bro, can pass some over to a poor poor man to spend?????
Hi Mr. Chairman,
Haha…no no no, he should pass some to me first as I need it more urgently!!!
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jamezwit
My experience is different, which I put it down to the type of girl. Mine are all students (not those using student pass to work at KTV or WL) or real working professional (one of the PRC girl here as childcare teacher, as I checked her out at her workplace) and one as an executive in a factory (I picked her up at het workplace a few times). They are lonely, most times are betrayed by BF back home or just want a BF that can show a bit (or a lot, up to you lah) of understanding and treat them nice. So mine range from 800 (only to offset rent) to 2k (my limit).
Hi bro jamezwit,
You r truly a master for getting the gals u want at low expenses. You must be very romantic, charming n hv excellent self control.
I did hv a brief RS w/ a Presidential Scholar at NUS, a 19 yo PRC gal (see my posts in late Dec 2009) who only wanted 4K a month (I think she would hv accepted 3K a month). She had to study hard n I could meet her only twice a wk. My main concern was that her pussy might not be exclusive to me.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
There is a 26 PRC virgin (?) in SIN who is a non-WL OL who is looking for a BF to take care of her. She is a very decent n nice gal. What she wants is relatively modest. She is interested in having the right feelings n rapport n money is of secondary importance. She is a good fren n former roommate of my GF GG. Any interested bros may PM me.
A good fren, a very experienced playboy, once told me abt kissing when I was still wet behind my ears. “If a Chinese gal willingly allows you to french her, her pussy is yours ( at least 99% true ), but not so w/ Ang Mo gals…”
Decades later, I can confirm that he is spot on n his axiom holds true for KTV gals n non-WLs alike.
Sometimes there is a long lag time between kissing a gal n tasting her pussy. The longest is w/ the SH songbird SS aka CD. It took 5 months.
Another sex guru sent me some interesting advice on KISSING. I like share it w/ bros here.
SIX GOLDEN MOMENTS WHEN YOU’D BETTER KISS HER
You’ve probably been conditioned your entire life to aim for that
all-important first kiss with a woman when you’ve walked her to her
doorstep at the end of an evening together.
Forget that. Why save it for the very last?
Besides missing out on all the potential excitement that could have
happened earlier in the night, you end up looking like every other
unimaginative dork she’s dated since middle school.
That said, I fully get that making the first kiss happen at exactly
the right time seems as if it’s easier said than done.
But no worries. I’ve got your back, as always.
Here are a half-dozen moments that are tailor made first kiss
opportunities just about every time:
This goes double if she’s mildly perturbed over something. Perhaps
she has started to go on about her bad day at work, her mean
professor and/or an evil co-worker.
But even if she’s just turning a bit too much into a “Chatty Cathy”
in general, here’s a universal truth that every man should know.
You already know that the best way to shut up a group of noisy guys
is to put food in front of them. But if you want to shut a woman
up, kiss her.
And don’t be surprised afterward if she forgets what she was
talking about.
The caveat here, of course, is that we’re assuming her excessive
chatter hasn’t negatively affected her attractiveness to you…which
I understand could be a distinct possibility.
A lot of people want to pronounce chivalry dead at the scene.
But as I’ve said in The Man’s Approach program, if you don’t bother
to open the car door for a woman you’re missing out on one MASSIVE
opportunity to get the first kiss out of the way.
I mean, where else can you literally corner a woman and actually
have her feel safer, warmer and fuzzier as a direct result?
This is money, I tell you.
Close Range
The tragic part about this particular phenomenon is that EVERYONE
recognizes when it’s happening.
But the problem is that far too many of us come down with a sudden
outbreak of “Too Good To Be True Fever” when it happens FOR US.
Learn from the movies, gentlemen.
Admit it. Every time you’ve ever seen a guy bonk at this point in
a movie, you knew he was blowing it. And the guy who gets the girl
in that same movie NEVER misses the cue, does he?
So when you’re talking to a woman–or are even just generically
present with her, frankly–and you find yourself a foot away from
her staring into her eyes wordlessly as if the world were standing
still…it is.
And the world is standing there screaming, “KISS HER NOW!”
Okay, this one’s a bit trickier.
What we’re referring to here is NOT when a major crisis hits or
when you’ve got to act fast to correct something that’s a pressing
concern.
We’re also NOT referring to when her babysitter calls telling her
to “come home immediately” or when she flakes out on you. Of
course not.
What we ARE talking about is when you’re given the GOLDEN
opportunity to take a slight glitch in your perfect plan and boldly
show that your overall demeanor and personal control over the whole
situation are NOT affected by it.
The Notebook is not on most guys’ list of favorite movies, but
there’s a certain scene in it where the guy and the gal are in a
rowboat together surrounded by swans.
The “storybook” moment is rudely interrupted by a sudden torrential
rainstorm.
As the woman starts fretting about the situation, the guy does the
right thing. He grabs her and kisses her brains out, turning the
whole melee into the hottest five minutes either of them has ever
experienced.
Nice going, there.
Your version might not be as dramatic.
Nevertheless, that locked door to a restaurant you thought was
still open or even changing a flat tire in a tux probably should
lead to a first kiss…provided you’re a Big Four man with a woman
along who is attracted to you.
Regret At Having Said Something Silly
Ah yes…I love this one.
If a woman is concerned over having embarrassed herself a tiny bit
in your presence or thinks she just said something silly, that’s a
universal sign that she’s digging you.
What better way to reassure her when she’s experiencing such worry
than to remove all doubt that she hasn’t messed up nearly as badly
as she thinks?
Kiss her, already. Make it all better.
This one is along the lines of the third point above, but more
generally applicable.
ANY time you get the unmistakable vibe that she WANTS to be kissed,
you not only SHOULD kiss her you’d BETTER kiss her.
I mean, how many hints does a chick have to drop, dude? Start
getting them. Otherwise, she’s going to think you’re either gay or
a total wimp.
The bottom line here is that most women LOVE to be kissed and they
WANT to be kissed by a man they like.
When you are on a first date with a woman and she appears to be
enjoying herself, you could probably kiss her without much drama
and with great success.
If you’re on a second date with her, you can consider that a
foregone conclusion. She wouldn’t BE THERE if she wasn’t feeling
attraction.
Knowing that, remember the six golden moments I’ve described for
you today and you’ll never be at a loss for gauging the RIGHT TIME
for that first kiss to happen ever again.
Be Good,
Mr. XYZ
Quote:
Originally Posted by
chenzong
Wow, this thread is still going strong, and so is Bro WB!
Hi bro chenzhong,
Long time no see. Will u come back in Dec?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Yes….great source of inspiration….
Hi bro ME,
I hv read ur posts in many other threads.
You r a master of leverage! You’re getting great returns n all the fun w/ very modest investments.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hock19
I have been reading through this thread and there are two areas that I would like to make some comments, coming from my experience.
It appears that to bao a SYT, it seems that a vast amount of money is involved. Say 8k plus as per what one of the bros mentioned. And on top of that you need to be at the top of the “manhood” chain to claim that woman. I believe this is due to you wanting a pretty and nice SYT which other guys are after. I have been also been involved with gals from china, but I prefer older than SYT. Maybe early 30s. Some of those, I have had a very good relationship for the past year………………….
So maybe, giving them good sex is something to get them to like or remember you to the extent that they would enjoy your company, and not have cash coming in the way. Off course, I am fair to them as well, and will give them an equivalent or more than what I wouldmgive them, say on a per bonk basis.
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So in conclusion, maybe how much money you give the girls depends on your relationship with them, and giving them good sex also helps!
And btw, this MILF which I mention that I don’t give too much money is really a looker, and not your average street walker………….
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Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
Great sharing and personally helpfully self-validating. I think your notes gel with something I have been wondering about too - that the $$$ support factor seems very much tied to the age factor for the gal. There’s clearly IMHO a sort of market at work out there.
I have a very sweet MILF (Goat year) working at TAM on my reserve bonk list -……………………………I sometimes have to crack the whip with SYTs to get them down to earth - although I must admit when they flash those sexy youthful looks to get their way … sheesh, sometimes the iron will cracks
I am sure your MILF is a great looker (from the BMW story you have) - and if your experience gels on this point too, a number of the very young (say under 24) tend to be kinda stiff and less adventurous in bed. In other words, I have found the sex quality to be much much better with the older ones…..
Hi broshock19 n Dragonkeep,
Ths so much to both of u for sharing ur sexploits n insights. Both of u appear to enjoy RS w/ MILFs…
Unfortunately, I prefer SYTs n those chio gals <25. They must hv a certain looks that I find attractive. In addition, they also must hv my preferred body proportions. I can’t help it.
However, one of my best fxks is w/ a 27 yo MILF from Hubei, which I detailed recently. She serviced me very well n had COS herself n even squirted. Sadly she is still in China…
Yes, giving regular COS to a gal is vital, but by itself is often not enuff to get a gal addicted to or fall in love w/ a man. Other psychological triggers n conditioning r necessary. Ironically, a financial arrangement may be an impediment.
You see, a gal falls in love w/ a man NOT for who he is, but for how he makes her feel (especially abt herself). In a BY-ing RS, no self-respecting gal will feel good, especially if the RS is relatively short-term. So it will take more time n effort in BY-ing for a BAO-ee to fall for a BAO-er. That is a fun game, isn’t?
Indeed, we men pay a lot more for exclusivity n for the oppty to KC these gals. Whether it’s cost effective depends on each individual. For me, it’s worth every penny n then some. Why? I’m hving all the fun while learning a lot abt life, abt oneself n abt others, etc…in the interim, I hv discovered the meaning n importance of self mastery n unconditional happiness. I’m greatly indebted to all my current n former mistresses for making my transformation possible, hehehe.
Oops, I should also mention all my frens/bros who hv also played a vital role in my formative months (not years yet).
Just my 2 cents, experienced n esteemed bros r invited to comment on n/or refute my hypothesises.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MillerV
Mr XYZ is GOOD!
Glad i read the whole posting!!
Thanks WB
Yes, Mr. XYZ is quite a guru.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Get a SYT, be ready to service
Get a MILF, be ready to be SERVICED!!!
Same tot bro
Mr. Chairman,
Yes, ur statement is very true. But most SYTs in a BY-ing RS r more than willing to learn or else they hit the road…hahaha.
Ths for ur call the other day. It’s always a pleasure to receive a call form the Chairman himself.
As I mentioned, I’ll be meeting a PRC gal in an Indonesian island. No KC. I just crave her youthful yet voluptuous body…
Her student visa was rejected n she is coming to SIN on a singer permit. I’ll support her only if it’s the non-working type.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by
jamezwit
I’m average in everyway, in fact “slightly” overweight haha. I just learning from failures and successes (first few BYs). Human being, unfortunately and fortunately, are not like plants where a bit of attention and nourishments will do great, but it’s the outcome of randomness that we enjoy the varieties? ;-)
Now, I practice a bit of self confidence when we actually want to know the BY whereabouts and activities…………………………..
If only can see twice a week, I see your concern. If it’s up to you to determine any two nights without prior arrangements, still a bit troublesome.
And good sharing on the kissing thing. It works for me in a cinema 20mins into the show on second date, after that can’t keep our mouths away from each other too long and hands also go everywhere during the show.
Hi bro jamezwit,
Ths for ur feed back n sharing.
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Originally Posted by
ObamaRocks
Yes, last time i onz SYT, so lack of svc
Then i onz milf, just lay back n be a king
The things they are willing to do with you and allow you to do, sometimes even better than prostitutes man
SEXTISFACTION guaranteed!
Hi Bro ObamaRocks,
May I address u as Vice Chairman?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Dragonkeep
..WB is quite right. Thi$ i$ a $omewhat co$tly game unfortunately.
My current local budget is 10k for full BY for a 1.68m slim SYT with a nice gua-shaped face n sharp features that I like so much - managed to nego rent within. Learning from Bro hock19: mebbe one day I will self impose fiscal restraint n austerity and slow down with a current trio of low expectation gers from 25+ in rotation … breaking in SYTs require patience and lately have been a little short on that …
The long term RS deposit baoyee in China is getting by with RMB 15-20k in FZ plus the odd contrib to her dad’s medical, gifts etc, but she’s in a pad I paid for there…..
Hi bro Dragonkeep,
Ths for sharing.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
hock19
The problem with me is that even though I bao someone, I tend to also look around to bonk others. Too much bonking the same gal is boring.(no punt intended). So then you pay $x amount of money to bao someone, and then you spend extra to bonk others. So in the long term, not good returns to pay alot to bao a single girl unless you have unlimited supply of dollars.
Because i might be emotionally attached to the girl which i bao, this also complicates issues with the girl which I would like to have none off.
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Hi bro hock19,
You r right.
For me, one full-time n one part-time SYT r be more than I can handle.
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Originally Posted by
chenzong
Quite unlikely, Bro WB. I have just changed jobs and will not want to take leave so quickly. Perhaps next year’s Christmas holidays, I’d be there. We can go for a drink then!
Hi bro chenzong,
Will c u next yr.
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Good Afternoon!
Will go to the Indonesian island B close to SIN to meet someone soon. This PRC gal, who is currently in Jakarta, mistakenly booked ticket for Bali! Luckily I discovered her mistake n made her change her flight.
Separately, I met two SYTs, one tall n one short, at LV last Fri. I’ll talk abt the tall Fujian one later. The short one is a 22 yo Dongbei gal who is 160 n 43kg w/ small everything. She looks younger. She is the cute n jovial type. Looking at her innocent face, I had no heart to ask her to be a mistress or er nai, so I told her to become my GF. I further said that I was currently unemployed. She said she would consider. She did not reply to my sms over the wkend. In the meantime, I’m progressing nicely w/ the tall gal.
Then she called me yesterday n said she very much want to be my GF n she only wanted 3k a month, but she would need to work. She has not n will never go out n I may confirm that w/ the mummies. Why so inexpensive?
She actually called me as I’m writing this post. I’ll meet w/ her later.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning!
I like to express my sincere gratitude to ALL bros who hv posted on this thread. I hv learned a great deal from ALL of u. The cumulative experience n wisdom of all the esteemed bros r incredibly useful to me.
I hv been very busy n will not be able to comment on all the posts.
It appears that most esteemed bros here prefer MILFs. I’m the exception here. SYTs can give very good service over time, w/ a little coaching n prodding. They r usually very wet n could be surprisingly responsive.
That said, I’ll look at younger MILFs favorably as I hv detailed my wonderful experience w/ one of them.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MoralEpitome
Good move Bro WB….never show your cards upfront….tell her you are unemployed so she quote you lower…maybe her idea of gf is less commitment and bonking so can accept lower price….
Bro ME,
Yes, never let them know our cards…
She assures me that she will never 出街。 But I may not want her afterall bcos she is less cute w/o makeup n has some acne. I’m very picky.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MillerV
Good move le … unemployed .. well done!!!
3k not bad le … like paying a PA like that
but can do more things!
Always tell them u r unemployed. If she sees u w/ lots of cash n an upscale car, tell her u r the top advisor of an international crime syndicate, hahaha.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ObamaRocks
Please do not as i am no where near the league of your famed chairman austin. You can call me Obama in short
Good morning, Mr. Obama!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Not sure if you can consider mine a baoee but I met her in one of those KTVs in Havelock 3 years ago…………
Since then, we would always go to her place for great sex. She was in her late 20s and I can tell you, women in their late 20s early 30s are tigresses in bed. She calls me her bf/husband but she still carried on working at TAM, LV, LP. By then I had invested a fair bit to get to that stage.
I didn’t stop her from working. And I couldn’t. I’m married and can’t give her enough time (and I didn’t want to spend too much money on her) and I have to keep it very discreet. I knew she went out with other guys and over the years, she has gone overseas with customers……………………..
Always admired WB and all the alpha males in this thread and would really love to meet these luminaries in person the next time I go LV, which would be next Thursday HH. I don’t post a lot because I can tell you – even the PRC WLs in GL surf Sammyboy. Once I wrote a FR and when I RTF the particular Ang Pai WL, she knew it was me…………….
Bro fallen.angel,
Whether she is a BAO-ee or not is unimportant (she doesn’t meet my definition as she makes it clear that her pussy is not exclusive). If u enjoy the arrangement then it’s perfect for u.
If a gal’s pussy is not exclusive to me, I’ll just pay for each session or ST.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
This is the biggest mistake you made.
You dun post cos they read this forum?????
You are telling us that you are hesitant because you afraid WHORES will know and has interrogated you before???????
Sorry if i sound offensive, but its meant to be.
Are you a man?
You feed them or they feed you?
You pay them or they pay you?
Very bluntly, you are the typical Mr NiceGuy that they just love to wrap around their fingers!!!!!
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The amount of pussies you get does not equate to how much or how little they post. ITS THE PERSON!
To all bros, sorry but everytime i see this kinda wuss postings, it always reminds me of a PRC telling me about 10yrs ago, 你们这边的男人太怕女人了，呵呵，在大陆， 可能那个女的被打了！
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That’s the prob wif our society, all so book smart, but street idiots!
Hi Chairman Austin,
Ths for ur post.
SIN men should wake up n take up arms! Most of us here r wussies when dealing w/ PRC gals. I know some of their China BFs beat them up n steal their hard-earned money. A Hunan gal once told me her ex-BF got her bank password n stole all of her money!
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fallen.angel
Dear bro DYB, yes, everything you said, well most of it, is right and I can’t disagree or fault you with. Therefore, no offense taken cos I know you must have gone through some bad experiences being a Mr Nice Guy, thus your strong opinion……………..
I always remind her I am the 消费者. Nasty, yes. Push-over? You draw your own conclusion.
Bro fallen.angel,
Ths for sharing ur experience.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Like i said many many times before, when you enter the elevator to a KTV, remember you’re entering a dream.
When you leave the KTV and exit from the elevator, remember to wake up.
Treating a person nice is fine , but never apply morals to these WLs, cos they will never reciprocate………
Remember, they’re nothing but cars.
You pump petrol, they’ll move, how much you pump will determine how far they’ll go.
Morals are not applicable to these people!
Cos if they had any, you wont see them at the ktv’s in the 1st place.
Thank you, Chairman Austin.
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Thanks Bro DYB for your tireless reminders to fellow samsters, but I believe they will only learn after they get hurt. Some may even need to get hurt/burnt a few times before they can be properly immunized. Hahaha.
Nowadays, my kakis don’t go to KTVs anymore. We all know its all an illusion. We are buying an illusion. Waste time, waste money. What’s more, I can’t do much at LV becos my baoee works there and she is fiercely territorial………………………………… …
I dun get it. Why r u afraid to see ur gal in LV? If she can work n expose herself to all the men there n no doubt get fxked by many of them, n u can’t even show up to look for other gals??!!
Wat kind of an unfair arrangement is that? It’s akin to unilateral disarmament during the Cold War!
Going to LV HH this coming Thurs? PM me n I’ll come w/ a couple of bros. There r a no of gals there (6-8?) who r either my ex or BAO-ees-to-be or hv agreed to be BAO-ed in the past, hahaha.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Bro, so rightly said……..
Basically going into a KTV/HFJ is buying a dream. A dream so rarely found in real life. …………………..
Everything is a choice, but cheongsters, you need to reach that decerning choice of yours for a right purpose. ………Many of these so called singers are actually waitresses, bargirls, sales assistants or worse, WLs back home. Many of these earn less than RMB2000 a month.
They are farking WLs - they are here to earn money…………………….
I am a person who will thorough use anything I bought, anything exchange with monetary can be used and abused. That’s my philosophy.
WLs, Singers are here to make you happy with a PURPOSE - a purpose that can be bought with money. Make them prove they are worth it…………..
I got singers telling me that they come to Singapore for:
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Make them prove that they deserve to be treated nicely, make them prove that they deserve your dime.
WLs are commodities………………………………… ………
A trivia: how much does it costs to go to a village in China to purchase a PRC Virgin?
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Originally Posted by
Loving_Dickhead
Bro, I cannot offer you more kind advices as many esteemed bros have done so before me.
Your last para on LV showed your fears because of a WL…………………
Your gal or so-called BAOee continues to do ST with other guys. Not so bad for the definition of the word BAOee. She is drawn to you because you are nice nice or because you are so nice to allow her to further her ST income?
Simply put as battle-hardened cheongster, wear your pants and go to LV. Get your BY to sit with you with another 2 more WLs side by side. If your BY not happy, tell her to get the fark out. This is my challenge to you……………
Hi bro LDH,
Wonderful advice for all cheongsters who engage in the operation of BY-ing.
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Originally Posted by
ObamaRocks
fallen.angel, i will not call you bro cos you just not a man. You say she your baoyee but more like she bao your lanjiao and your lumpa ji! You got use her kotex or tampon bo? 你根本就不是个男人!
Hi Vice Chairman,
Very strong words but quite appropriate.
“The nice guy syndrome” is a severe n intractable sickness n requires strong medicine, hehehe.
Many SG men are wussies n they r intimidated by women they find attractive. They become submissive n put them on the pedestal…sort of role reversal; consequently, they become as attractive as eunuchs to the women they desire, regardless of their physical size/muscle mass, sexual skills, social-economic status, wealth, etc.
A real man must be dominant n has excellent self mastery. Everything else is secondary.
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Originally Posted by
Hooters666
Fallen Angel
The comments here might be over harsh at a personal level but they are all meant to enhance you as a ruthless merciless cheongster. At the end of the day you will reap the fruits of all the knowledge imparted here……………
Very harsh but necessary…could fallen angel be resuscitated?
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Originally Posted by
ObamaRocks
Why you bother to tell him so much Hooters666, his nick already tells you everything. He is a FALLEN ANGEL, 什么都完了, you know XD
I’m more optimistic. Everything is changing constantly n nothing is impossible in this world.
There is hope even for fallen angel, hehehe. He must be willing to change n be prepared to take very strong medicine.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Wow, thanks for all the feedback from my posts………….
Dear Warbird,
I hate to say this but…………………..
So unless I have that kind of money and time, I would prefer my current arrangement…..I will have to move my fat and lazy behind out of my comfort zone and into the hunting ground once more.
For the record, I admit I’m a Mr Nice Guy and I’m not ashamed or afraid or feel inferior to admit it here in the alpha-male and testosterone-charged thread which I’ve bookmarked…….
I’m past the age where I need reassurance and approval from my peers for what I do to feel good or comfortable. I quote Warren Buffett: “You’re neither right nor wrong because other people agree with you. You’re right because your facts are right and your reasoning is right—and that’s the only thing that makes you right. And if your facts and reasoning are right, you don’t have to worry about anybody else.” But when it comes to BYs, there’s no right or wrong – just how much you put in and how much you get out of it……
I once told her the only difference between her (and all her KTV jiemeis) and those working in GL is this – you get to choose your customers while they don’t.
Hi bro fallen.angel,
Ths for ur posts.
I like the quote by Warren Buffett. I know his method well. Have u read “The Making of an American Capitalist”? Good book. If u hv followed his method, u should be independently wealthy.
As for cheonging n BY-ing, to each his own.
If u r perfectly contented w/ ur current arrangement, then u should continue…after all, “There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” - Shakespeare.
There is something I dun understand. No time to hunt for ST? But getting ST from a pretty KTV is so easy as there many who r in this line. Just go to a high-end KTV n ask a mummy to bring only gals who say “I do,” hehehe.
I crave exclusivity bcos I wont french nor paint a gal who does ST. Most prettier n younger SYTs in high end KTVs play hard to get n want to be BY-ed only, which is fine.
I also prefer younger, fairer n taller SYT (18 would be the best but must be less than 25) of a certain looks n certain quantifiable body/limb proportions, which r highly attractive to ME. Last but not least, her pussy must be pretty n cute, preferably pink, tight, wet n responsive. I hv been ridiculed for my preferences by frens n bros alike, mainly bcos I’m old n not tall. But I can’t help it.
I mentioned 6 days ago that I went to meet a cute 22 yo who requested to be my GF for a mere 3K a month. She would continue to work, although she has never n will never do ST. I declined bcos she wasn’t as cute w/o makeup n had some facial acne.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by
fallen.angel
Just to add: no KTV MM/WL in their right state of mind will ever admit they do ST, mine included…………………
Like I said, there’s a price for every pussy. Some are just more expensive than others. And it is up to your skills to try get it……..
Dear Loving Dickhead,
Yes, they are commodities. Crude but true. You pay and get your needs satisfied. I like your car analogy….. I try to derive value for my money. Price is what you pay, value is what you get.
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Dear ObamaRocks,
Yup, 我根本就不是个男人! To each his own. I picked the nick fallen angel to remind me of those high-flying stocks back during the Internet boom which I held on to until they became zilch………………………..
Dear Hooters666,
Thanks for your nice words. I have this thread bookmarked. I don’t have time or the privacy to post during weekends and too busy with work during the work week to reply……..
And to WB, I’ll not change cos I’m comfortable with who I am. Why fix something that aint broken?…………………………
Hi bro fallen.angel,
“Price is what you pay, value is what you get.” Absolutely. I can see that u r a value investor. But why did u buy internet stocks? I was sold short several dozens internet companies in 2000 but made only a little net profit bcos the cos would announce good news, mostly bogus, to boost their stock prices so that insiders could unload. When the prices surged, I was forced to cover. Within a yr, most of these worthless cos ceased to exist. I could hv made many millions instead of peanuts.
You hv earned my respect for ur courage to admit that 我根本就不是个男人! Ironically, that admission makes u a MAN! Misguided n different perhaps, but a MAN in my book, hehehe.
A famous eunuch, Zheng He, was quite a “MAN” despite his lowly position n lack of testosterone, IMHO. He was very smart, confident, hardworking n had excellent SELF MASTERY. To me, he was more MANLY than a wussbag w/ 25 cm dick.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
I got a surprise call from a long lost bro K yesterday, while I was going to consummate BY-ing w/ my new mistress in the newly-rented master bdrm. BTW, bro K is young, handsome, well educated n loaded, but had some problems getting gals, at least in the past.
He invited me to go LV SH, but I told him I couldn’t. I then gave him the HP of a good mummy.
Several hrs later, as I was finishing the BY-ing process, he texted me n said that he went w/ a fren who drove a Ferrari there. They got 4 hotties who were all eager to do ST w/ them! Why? His fren is very handsome n a big spender. He wished that I was there. I said another time perhaps n added that I must meet his very handsome fren, hehehe. Wonder if they had an orgy? Will call him later to find out.
I’m most sextisfied w/ my new gal. She is a 22 yo fair, pretty Fujian gal, non-smoker, 168 w/o shoes, 50kg, natural B/C boobs, right body/limb proportions of my type. Most importantly, she has small mouth n pretty lips n matching small cute, pink pussy. She is very easily orgasmic n very tight/wet. She had COS n also did everything I wanted her to do…
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by
Oceanlee
Just to share from my view, to go into the BY scene….. its not just the $$$$ that you parted as a patron’s and get to have that inclusive piece of meat. In a real BY scene, be it KTV/Singer/Waitress or Model SYTs, One will expect a certain demand of timeoff apart from having quickies and hardcore sex.
(Apart from buying Baggies/Clothes/Nice Meal)…………..
Then again you need to brace for yourself the emotional roller-coaster
(Its either you clear them flat or you will become their ride) Hence, any BY the 1st to 4th week is usual the honeymoon period.
Any longer, you will need to shown your Mastery Mind and tackle it at the back on their mind. Which can range from any small issue to smoothing with a wet kiss and always getting a better sex in return, if you carefully understand and study the body-behaviour……
Hi bro OL,
Ths so much for sharing ur thoughts n reflections on BY-ing. You’re a seasoned BAO-er.
I like to add that hving a place u can call home for u n ur mistress is a big plus n can enhance the fun n excitement in this game.
Yes, MIND MASTERY is the key which will decide the outcome of a BY-ing RS.
It’s true that the person who cares the least in a relationship, controls the relationship. And we men must retain the power n be in firm control.
Just my 2 cents.
Cheers!
Bro WB